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| 1 | Have yall ever recovered from an LYes plenty… everything from the “I have a bf” rejections all the way to the “It’s not you it’s me” convos. It’s going to happen at some point but it’s part of the process, only way to get better. Kinda glad for all the Ls tbh | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Going with a Photo Camera to the club for the girlsNot dating related but if you actually know how to take good pics you can ask the owner of places you go to if you can take promo pics for them. Could make some money (possibly) and get to know the owner… that alone could set you up with other opportunities with women or just in general. To answer your question don’t do it for the women. It’ll be a cheesy opener at best imo | /r/seduction | 26/06/25 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Social game basically. Make friends (strike up convo, hype people up, etc ) with everyone including women and dance. Other women will gravitate and it’s on you to guide the convo from there | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Are people here actually having sex?I used to struggle and it came down to 2 things, knowledge and actually applying the knowledge. Like most people here I struggled because I had the wrong approach with women. Once I learned what to do I struggled with confidence to actually do it, then finally I got over it. I think most people can get laid once they have the knowledge and can apply it. Some people need baby steps to build confidence others just need to revamp their approach | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?All men go through the following stages; sucks with women, gets good with women and enjoys the fun of hooking up, gets tired of hookup/wants to settle down but can’t seem to find “the one”, Aha moment understanding that good relationships are possible but requires different game vs just picking up. You’ll find someone for you. That anxiousness is tied to fear of loss/ fear of leaving behind the hookup life. If you go into it knowing what you want and the mindset of “hey I want this but if it doe… | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 07:40 PM |
| 3 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)My dating life now is golden compared to me in the past so here’s what helped me (in no particular order - this is more geared towards long term and FWB) NEVER give off boyfriend energy. Go on dates with the mindset of let’s see how this goes, don’t be on the phone with a woman 24/7. Reading articles on “80/20” rule (moving slightly slower than she does). Only hit her up to hang out and hook up. Giving off the BF vibe too early is mainly why I used to get ghosted or flaked on Understanding commo… | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it?You can go through my old posts on here and see how bad I struggled haha but I’ve come to learn that the process is the same as getting the 8s & others. For 9/10s the main difference would be how you approach because they usually know a guy is hitting on them regardless of how the convo starts so I tend to stray away from indirect approach. From there I’d do more teasing and “qualifying” type questions so she knows I’m interested but not solely for looks. I also rely heavily on social circle gam… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Can you be “perfect” and still get cheated on?Short answer is yes. You can have a relationship where a woman is faithful to you but you have to know where her emotions are towards you and what to do if her interest in you changes. Being rich and handsome alone will not be the reason she stays, you have to know how to continue to keep her emotionally invested (doesn’t just mean being lovey dovey ish either). PS her orgasms are also tied to emotion (to an extend) as well so it’s a double whammy so to speak. Short answer is no matter who you a… | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details belowMake a joke about it and continue as nothing happened. Shows her you’re not controlling and odds are it happens a lot but she’s on a date with you so focus on that - coming from someone who has overreacted before | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaThis is going to get downvoted but it’s just women psychology. Women are attracted to someone who will be happy with or without them, they like to chase. You can look back at the stupid shit I’ve asked on here and compare them to my success stories; the less you chase to more she likes you. PS this isn’t a bad thing just part of the process | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever?Here’s what clicked for me… Once I got in shape I didn’t have problems with getting matches or getting stares, my thing was that I didn’t know how to talk to them which can be fixed. I noticed that the majority of the women that flaked, ghosted, etc was because of the way I was leading the situation. One day I thought if 90% of the women I talk to flake for XYZ reason what would happen if I changed the way I interact with them. I still have hiccups but when I do I can pinpoint the reason why and… | /r/seduction | 25/04/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How to text a girl whose number you got at a clubWhat I learned is take make her take your number still probably won’t lead but less of your time wasted | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Girls always flake on me from online dating and just in general I’m a good looking guy who’s tall and have gotten flaked on 10 times in a row now what’s going on?This is true I used to say “who’s your fav artist” or “what’s your favorite food” but now I say “if you could only eat one food for a week what would it be” basically the same thing but one adds more excitement | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Girls always flake on me from online dating and just in general I’m a good looking guy who’s tall and have gotten flaked on 10 times in a row now what’s going on?I have the same problem but I think with me is that I’m still learning so there is trial and error. My best advice is to flirt with them without complementing then (sounds weird but I can drop a video I watched if needed) and I build sexual chemistry without bringing up sex (same video for explanation). Lastly I try to get them comfortable… I still have flakes too so hopefully this helps out a little | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | should i keep telling someone that i miss them even though they rejected me?Hell no!!! | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Should I fly her into my city this weekend?She’s going to take free flight probably use you and ditch for someone else. Even if she’s let’s you smash you lost if you fly her out | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Any guys who get zero matches but have success in real life?I rarely get likes and if I do it’s with someone I don’t find attractive. In person women typically approach or show signs of interest which is weird af | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:46 PM |
| 2 | what would you say are the most common mistakes men make when interacting with women they like??Showing too much interest is bad so some guys do the extreme and make it seem like they aren’t interested at all which can come off as dry | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 93 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?People treat me completely different. People who used to talk about my weight in the past now respect me and I do get A LOT more looks from women. Key thing to remember is looking good/being attractive gets “your foot in the door with women” so just being in shape isn’t going to automatically make you a pussy magnet… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Dance Floor/Club GameI’m here for the comments because I have the EXACT same questions. Typically I have success with women dancing with me so my biggest advice is to just dance, they love to have a good time and most likely the other guys there aren’t dancing | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Success with women in nightlifeIf by “blow the set” you mean what am I doing to mess things up that’s the part I don’t know… I’m doing everything I can but if they lose interest I can’t just make then get it back | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | You HAVE to strike while the iron is hot. A woman's attraction will plummet if you don't.I should’ve read this before I made my post lmao | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | When all else fails, what’s your Hail Mary ?This is amazing… I was just about to make a Reddit post on why women are initially interested in me and then always end up leaving. This pretty much answers that question for me haha | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 12:11 PM |
| 5 | What are some choosing signals that women give men?I’m not scared of the risk I’m just trying to better my social IQ | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.What did you mean by “reputation matters” | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good way to start an interesting conversation to a woman who is giving me choosing signalsBasics are the way she gives eye contact or certain subtle things women do to show men they are interested without actually saying it. Pretty much a sign that she wants you to approach or she finds you attractive | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 11 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?It’s not that guys aren’t bold enough… it’s a combination of two things I think. 1. Some women consider 3 second eye contact a signal for a guy to approach them so maybe your signals aren’t as obvious as you think 2. Maybe he did notice your signal but he doesn’t want to be the one to initiate (we get tired of having to be the ones to start everything) or he does want to come off as creepy | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?and last | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?Another | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?Heres one | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?Won’t let me upload | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?I deleted most but I have recent and some tinder convos | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | I always get ghosted… what am I doing wrong?It’s a combination of both if I’m being honest. When I mentioned “I vibed with them” I mean we had great convos | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Absolutely blew my chance of getting laid in a nightclubThis happened to me twice, been trying to figure what the hell I’m doing wrong too | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Y’all making this too complicated… he’s funny and famous | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.As a person who went from being ugly to more attractive I agree (kinda). Being good looking is a key step in getting your foot in the door with dating or whatever you’re looking for… afterwards it’s being able to keep her emotionally interested which is where “game” comes into play (something I still struggle with). When people say looks don’t matter they are lying however, looks aren’t the only factor after the initial interaction. But don’t go hurt yourself. There will be someone out there who… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubI keep having to say this…. When there is a girl that I’m attracted to AND she gives the signals that she wants to escalate things I would like to take her home. With that being said I’m not trying to take every woman I see home nor every woman that dances with me because it’s just a harmless dance. I’m specifically talking about the cases when the opportunity is there The main goal is to go just to go for the vibes but in the chances that I do have the opportunity to take someone home that is g… | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubI said in some cases I’d like to take them home so I’m doing trying to take home every broad. Solid advice tho you’re definitely right | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubThe way I worded things was bad. I go out for the purpose of fun and occasionally women approach me for a dance (some are just for the vibes others I can tell they want something more) in the cases where i can escalate things they end moving on (ex. The sexual tension is high but it seems like they just go away). Ik some of it is just nature of nightlife but if it’s consistent everytime I’m the common denominator | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubLike it’s ni big deal because it happens but at the same time there were times where I would’ve actually like to see where things went | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 5 | How to escalate things when dancing at night clubI’m there to have a good time for sure haha. They usually approach me when I’m vibing, it just sucks that everytime they do I’m probably doing something wrong that strays them away | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep interest?The 3% man seems like it would work for short term relationships but I’m going to try it out and see where it gets me | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep interest?Awesome | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep interest?Definitely will give it a read. I’ve seen a lot of stuff with contradicting info, has the advice in his blog worked for you | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Agreed. If you want advice on how to get the woman ask a man similar to you. If you want advice on how to please a woman in the bed, ask a woman | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Go to a club and dance. I’m an introvert, I hate dancing, and I don’t have much experience. However, when I go out alone and dance women come up to me and start the conversation. It might sound crazy but since I started going out back in October I was never the first to initiate which is surprising | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Getting off with girls but not having sex with them..I have this EXACT SAME problem. It has literally happen almost every time, I’m interested to see what others have experienced | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 10:17 PM |
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