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If it’s the highlighted blue part “specifically for male participation” , it’s an indefinite loading screen... maybe you typed it in wrong. Unless his name is “male TRP founder”
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 02:27 AM
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Sure. Do you have a user name?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 02:18 AM
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other people are giving their personal preferences and opinions...
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 01:36 AM
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You really think he would stay with you or try to get back with you if he didn’t love you. Stop looking at it with a victim Lens and start seeking areas to improve for your next relationship. Because this relationship is just trauma inducing for the both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:56 PM
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I understand your justification, and that’s usually why I try to tell women before it’s too late that it won’t fix anything it. But you did it, realized it didn’t work, now you have to heal without a crutch. Don’t do it again and learn from it so you do not cause issues in a future relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:47 PM
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Karen, you are very one sided in your thinking. You are saying he can’t do something and you can. You see how toxic this situation is? It’s an emotional rollercoaster that’s just going to sink you into a very depressed state. On a sidenote I feel you with that. My first girlfriend had a bunch of men before and during our relationship. I was a Christian guy trying to do as the Bible says, forgive and forget. Sometimes things shouldn’t be forgotten. Don’t judge them for it but just don’t keep them…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:45 PM
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I also saw your past post a year ago where you were talking about being bothered about men and the number of sexual partners. And now you are surprised that he is mad at you for having sex with another person? Think about it. You would hate it just the same if he had sex with other women during your break. There is nothing you can do to reverse what happened. Move on and do not make the same mistakes.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:37 PM
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Yeah he’s having issues, using you as a crutch/emotional punching bag because of the things you have done when you were not together. I know you want to get back together with him but he will always be resentful because you guys do not have the same concept of love. I am sorry if I’m being harsh on you but I just don’t want to see you go through a toxic relationship again. I also want you to learn a life lesson of not dating exes and not sleeping with other people if you are “in love“ with someb…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:33 PM
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You leave and do not get back together with him. Then in the future do not try to get back together with someone you broke up with and if you still love somebody do not sleep with somebody else 🤷🏼‍♂️.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:21 PM
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Yes I understand, but in his mind if you really loved him and still loved him you wouldn’t have been fucking other people. There is a disconnect of moral value 🤷🏼‍♂️. I am not saying you’re wrong, but I’m saying it won’t work.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:19 PM
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From my personal experience, dressing nice and lady-like when you are out shopping (grocery stores, hardware stores, sometimes the mall etc). I will only ask out girls that stand out and look like they didn’t roll out of bed. For reference, I am a traditional guy who try’s to look nice. Jeans, dress pants, polos and button downs only. Smile back, make eye contact, walk closer to him if he’s farther away. Those are all signs I pick up on. And if all else fails, bring up something that you are “ex…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 07:39 AM
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I think the problem is incompatibility. He is a very traditional man who did not believe in you doing things with other people. You did said things because you were liberal and he doesn’t like it. I would say break up and if you want another traditional man don’t do it again. If you want to do what you did again then find someone who is OK with it, someone who is not traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 01:17 AM
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I think the guy you would want to date will wait. If they do not want to wait, they do not share the same morals and values as you to begin with.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 10:10 AM
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Honestly, grocery stores are nice. If you are a well dressed girl at a store, smile and are open, guys will say hi. We all notice the girl who is dressed nice at a store. Personally and what my friends do, Monday or Tuesday nights (since we do not like the crowds on the weekends) are the days we shop. Early morning on Saturday and Sunday too, you can throw in hardware stores. Finally check out churches in your area. If you want someone to go to church on Sundays with. I’m personally a God-fearin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/21 06:27 AM
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Take it one step at a time. It’s ok, let him do his thing. If he has experience he will know to take it slow in the beginning. The oral thing, most likely you will grow into it. You need to try it, most say they realize they just overhyped it and actually enjoy it later down the line. Experiment and have fun! Just breathe and relax, this is an extremely special occasion. Let it be amazing, feel the love and connection together! And communicate!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 12:19 AM
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Trust me, if your a nice girl, a guy with any moral value will wait. Men (not boys) usually only have a problem if you decide to be celibate after you have been sexually active.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/21 02:38 AM
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I would consider it pretty cool for a friend but I do have higher standards when it comes to somebody I would date. When it’s a friend I need a common hobby. When I am dating I find it more attractive to the way you are where you were interested in what I am into for my hobbies. We need to be able to get along and share the enjoyment of each others interests! So in that way, I think it’s a higher standard because a lot of people only want to hear themselves talk or not want to take part in what …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:45 AM
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He is 100% in the wrong for what he did. When my ex first was sleeping around with other people my friends made me a bunch of different tinder accounts. She would get in a fight with me and not talk to me for a weekend and then go have sex with some people(I didn’t know till after). Finally, I got a hold of one of the accounts and just kept it to see how many likes I would get. He is totally wrong for what he did. Just like I was wrong for keeping it. What I’m trying to tell you is that once you…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 06:38 AM
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No, it’s good that you were truthful. Because that would’ve caused way more problems when he would’ve found out. Also, it would’ve been way worse living with the guilt of lying to somebody you “love.” You have to learn that you made your choices and you have to deal with the consequences. This is good for you in the future because you know you can’t do things without ramifications for your actions.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 06:26 AM
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Well you are certainly above 90% of girls hahaha. You are dealing with boys. If you are happy to learn and listen about his hobby, You tag along when he asks you to come, then That’s better than you having your own hobbies. edit: to answer your question though, I thought when a girl knew about astronomy, Oceanography/ marine biology, and really good at travel planning was super cool
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 06:22 AM
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I had a similar thing happen to me OP. I am a guy(23 now), was engaged. 2 and a half years together. She slept around with a lot of guys before she met me, told me I was different blah blah blah. It later came out when I found out she was having sex with my friends, lied and said I beat her (I have never hit a women). Long story short the last thing she said to me was that she never loved me and she lied because “you had the potential of making a lot of money.” Since I was very ambitious, worked…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/21 06:01 AM
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100% when a girl puts effort into herself it makes it so much easier to get things going. I know guys and girls who will keep the romance going 24/7, starts in the morning with their spouse. They never have to “ask.” Keeping the tension going really allows things to be spiced up!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 08:33 PM
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That’s really awesome to hear! It’s cool that you do that for yourself! I do the same thing, even if I go nowhere I dress nice.  And you took it a step further! I’m not a big fan of wearing workout clothes if you’re not actually working out. That’s awesome, you sound like a doll. I also hope you healed well from your motorcycle accident. I tapped on your profile and saw your KTM, beautiful bike! I ride motorcycles too, grew up on dirt bikes. I used to ride a Suzuki RM 250. Now I ride my Enduro …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:50 AM
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Maybe we live in different areas? Usually when I go out I see everyone in sweatpants men and women and they look like they haven’t showered for three days. Like I said there are exceptions and those are usually the ones I date. And that’s totally fine that you don’t wear make up and I’m happy you put effort in! that’s really good for you. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:39 PM
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I couldn’t agree more! When you’re living paycheck to paycheck things are different. And that’s exactly why, if you don’t enjoy it then it’s not worth the money. Thank you for adding the source that was really cool to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 03:35 PM
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You sound vain yourself...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:41 AM
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Hey man I totally understand where you’re coming from. I hope you find a lady like that will make you happy! Thank you for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:42 AM
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Heck yeah! I love to hear this! My family did the same thing and I agree it’s very important. You want to keep the spark alive! I think it’s important to try to impress each other too :) Thank you for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:41 AM
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Almost everything we do that we enjoy is a money drain. For example our phones, we could just have a flip phone but we all choose to have smart phones. I totally understand where you’re coming from though and it’s great that we all have different opinions! Hopefully we can find people that want to fulfill what we enjoy :) Thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:39 AM
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I totally understand that, to each their own. We only have one life to live so why not be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:11 AM
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I wouldn’t say that. Everybody’s different and some people love when a guy or girl is extremely passionate and works very hard. But to each their own it depends on your goals in life. We need both types of people to have a functioning society! It’s funny that you bring up farming hahaha. I used to work on a farm for a lot of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:02 AM
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Hey man that’s great that your wife was willing to do that to make you happy. That’s what relationships are about! Love to see it. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:58 AM
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I agree with you, I always bring up the beard thing too lol thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:40 AM
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Hey and that’s ok! We all have our preferences. Feel free to put a quirky thing you like in the comments. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:38 AM
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I hear you, everyone is different! Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:04 AM
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I hear that! It’s my me time when I’m getting ready in the morning. I enjoy it before I start the day. I usually take an extra 10 or 15 minutes in the morning when the shower steams up the bathroom. It’s like a free sauna haha. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:03 AM
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To each their own man :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:40 AM
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Correct me if I’m wrong Orange Paisley, I don’t think she meant it like that. A lot of guys say they don’t like make up and it makes a lot of girls happy to do their makeup themselves. It’s kind of like an art form or something used to enhance your natural features. I personally appreciate the time and effort a person puts into it. You don’t have to like it yourself, different forms of art aren’t for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:38 AM
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Hahaha that’s exactly what I say! When I see the price of men’s athletic clothes and women’s athletics clothes I choke at the price!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:33 AM
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Hahaha we do exist! We usually keep quiet to avoid men and women bashing us or are not on the Internet often lol. I am happy you have that standard too, it’s nice when men and women are put together. I hear that! I spent a couple years in the dental chairs to get my smile fixed, best decision ever in hindsight. Thanks for sharing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 12:30 AM
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I just wanted to give a different perspective about make up. Personally growing up my family was very strict on you cannot be laying around lazy all day. When we woke up we had to take a shower,put on nice clothes, do our hair and shave. Girls took time with makeup. In the additional time it took the girl to blow dry her hair and do her make up we had to do simple chores around the house or start yardwork. My biggest irritation with no make up is there is usually a very lazy/leisure look. No eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:39 PM
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It honestly depends on where you live. For the median household, that’s both parents usually working, is $68,000 in the USA. So actually $34,000 is considered average if both people are making the same. I am using the median because there are single parent households or extremely wealthy people, but the median shows a more realistic average excluding the outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:00 AM
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No that is fine. You just have to remember there is a big maturity gap normally. So you have to be a bit more mature to stand out! Along with everything else
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 11:44 PM
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Hey there, I don’t know how much longer you have in school but I posted this awhile ago that could help. Just remember you have to invest in them if you want someone around your age. These careers I will list are great starting points but not always great living wages for a comfy middle class life. He will be more on his way by the time he is 30-35 to have kids if you do not want to struggle Great places to meet good guys with ambition or great careers. Business building: specifically accountant…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/21 02:23 AM
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It honestly depends on the guy. Personally the lower the better. I look at it like golf hahaha. A 0 is the best. Ever man is different. Some care more than others. Some do not care at all. Just do not get mad if someone says no if you have too many or too little. It’s all personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:24 AM
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Hahaha yes! They are training to be politicians and Lawyers. That is their job. Girls and guys are free practice!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 05:49 AM
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Hahaha yes very true haha
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/21 12:10 AM
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Do not do tinder. Most guys at that age at a college are not trying to be serious. Dress nice, pretend like you will be meeting the love of your life tomorrow. How would you want to look. Guys will come and ask you out, usually through studying. But some are more bold than others. Be willing to go on many dates. DO NOT feel forced to do anything. You will know what is comfortable to you. Great places to meet good guys with ambition or great careers. Business building: specifically accountants fi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/21 11:59 PM
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I think that’s not really a match then and they shouldn’t be together. If one is miserable and one is happy. I don’t think that’s a good partnership. There should be a partner you can compromise and communicate with where both of you can be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:30 AM
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That is where compromise comes in I think. For example, guy wants to go to car show, girl doesn’t want to. So as a compromise, guy will do something the girl wants. Or for a financial decision. Lets say she wants a 200k home in the country and he wants one in the suburbs. Well for a compromise they will go somewhere in the middle. If that’s still a no, maybe she gets to pick her house that she wants and he gets to pick a car he wants that she may not want or prefer. I know very hypothetical, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:25 AM
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This post intrigued me to take the quiz. I got ENTJ-A/ENTJ-T. I don’t really understand the -A or -T. Sent it to a few friends and apparently it’s spot on. Who knew. 22m
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 04:48 PM
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I would say the best things (all depending on the guy of course) are to try your best to look pretty, take a more Feminine role and date a lot. There are a lot of traditional men and a lot of non traditntal men. You need to date to find the male red pills. Every women and man is different but I would say try to talk to them and not give “it” away until you know they are infact a red pill man you would see as attractive. Just understand some red pill men do get mad if you gave it away to other gu…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 08:30 AM
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Hey there are a lot of degrees that will provide a great living for you. Such as Accountancy, 40-60k to start. People tend to forget that the average husband and wife make a combined income of around 61-66k a year. That’s with both of them working full time! I think you should finish your degree if you have put this much time in to it. Just do not get something that will not provide you with a job. There are also a lot of jobs that pay well outside of college, better than most degrees in college…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 10:42 PM
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I am going to to play two sides and try to keep myself out of this. Positives for waiting. Some guys value a woman that does not have sex, and/or hasn’t done anything sexual. This is a dealbreaker for some men. You are ensuring you will not get pregnant. You are ensuring you are comfortable and you’ll have a better time with your boyfriend when you are. Negatives for waiting. Depending on the guy he might get mad. I you might not find a virgin to lose it too. the problem shouldn’t be how long di…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:02 AM
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Hey Samantha, I just want to help you real quick because a moderator got me on this a few weeks ago. I would try to split this up into paragraphs. I still understand what you are saying, just want to save you the discerning message :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:41 PM
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There are many men that wait just like you. Be patient and you will find them! Guys ask the exact same question you are asking. Be open minded, go on lots of dates, find the guy with the same morals as you!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 06:46 AM
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