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| 15 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness. | Debate | Original-Opening7306 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:41 PM |
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| – | Do women believe in racial size stereotypes?Yes I believe them. The largest one I ever saw belonged to a black man. not seen any larger in girth not even in porn, it wasn't fun though. couldn't get a condom on it and couldn't get it in easily, way too fat. Later I married a mixed Asian/white man with a very respectable 8 inches way more fun . cos ya know size matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | The majority of marriage issues are caused by the fact that women look at marriage like a "coming-of-age" celebration.My folks sent me a purple satin Bollywood costume for a wedding dress a registrar and a wedding reception at a crossroads (old custom)with everyone bringing food it cost very little. No clue how it would be in advance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 04:29 PM |
| 2 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenSo you have peer reviewed data on worldwide relationships and marriages? I would love to see that. Any links? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:34 PM |
| 5 | There has never been a gender war only war on womenMost of us in the real world do. Brainwashed by Manosphere bullshittery rather than be truly equal is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:02 PM |
| – | There has never been a gender war only war on womenYep and entirely because they can't stand women gaining greater autonomy and equality. Pathetic really . Manbabyosphere more accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 01:55 PM |
| 7 | What are some things women dont understand about you?What's that got to do with anything. I'm interested in relationships dynamics in younger generation. I have beautiful daughters. I don't work. So what's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?If you say so. Not by me not for at least 40 years. I like them tall skinny good legs sexy hands long hair.thats what I married last time around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 03:53 PM |
| 7 | What are some things women dont understand about you?Eventually it is, it's a kind of conditioning, alongside the experience which comes with maturity and also the way women experience attraction which is far more nuanced than just visual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?I agree with OP after a while you realise bodies like that have a downside in personality egoistic often misogynistic. Once bitten twice shy. Women rapidly alter their view of sexy through experience. I think ripped is just ugly now where's once it was hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).I love men fortunately Ireland has lots of good decent men still. I've never seen any of what you speak of. I work for a suicide helpline as a volunteer and don't see a disparity between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).It is spelt Jabus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:21 PM |
| – | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Twat! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:02 PM |
| – | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).I just don't see the same violence and sexual assault in those circles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Any statistics on how many hetero men pressure women to have anal sex ? Often on the first date? Are pushy and coercive? Resulting in a rise in female injury. This is a direct result of male centric pornography. Any statistics on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Lipstick alley tame as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).What if FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).I'm married 30 years and very happy. I am in these spaces to try and get some understanding of gender dynamics for this and coming generations and just because I like to keep up with sociology and politics. i don't like what I see. Women's forums discuss the treatment they receive from men among other female specific subjects. Also women have boys to raise and should know the dangers for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).That's way different to encouraging painful sexual assault of women weaker than you and calling it training your trad wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).I would hope that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Only actual violence I have ever heard from women is calling for castration of paedophiles and rapists Find one I could find you a thousand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).Nope I have never seen anything even remotely like the talk shared by men on abuse assault and rape of women Sure there are man haters, but not this gleeful sharing of disgusting violent ideas that are liked and supported by 100s of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:45 PM |
| – | Dismissing women's opinions of men because they're based on online interactions is stupid (and intentionally manipulative).You are dead right. I am horrified by the misogyny displayed. Passport bros Male doms,Daddy Dom's, punishment rapes Forced oral, choking hair pulling. It's enough to send a straight woman off men entirely. Fuck that! Where are all the sweet tender men these days . Plenty in my youth all brain addled porn addicts now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Would you guys do "duty sex" if women needed it but you didn't ?Just own it, you think it's yeuck and don't want to do it, just don't be surprised when women feel the same about you.Also you are so wrong my husband fulfils me perfectly in every way. I adore him and show that love and appreciation every day. With your attitude you will never find such bliss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Would you guys do "duty sex" if women needed it but you didn't ?Orifices are not open wounds. Your penis has an orifice at the end similar to the orifice in the cervix inside the vagina. None are open wounds. Besides women are looking to get there clit licked which is very similar indeed to a penis? Any other great excuses for not giving what you get or want is probably more accurate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Would you guys do "duty sex" if women needed it but you didn't ?You have some very strange ideas about vaginas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.Spoiled entitled brat is how it often comes off I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women who got fit/in shape, how did your physical standards for a partner change?I've been fit and fat in my life I still find the same men hot whichever . What I've found interesting regarding this subject more recently is that now I am older I find older men attractive. Silver hair, baldness, veined hands, lined faces etc and that's new. I can still appreciate the eye candy but don't want a younger man at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Western men have been too empathetic towards women and female issues and we are seeing a course correctionOh men built civilization did they? And who exactly birthed and raised those men then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 12:47 PM |
| 4 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationAbsolutely agree human love should be striving to evolve. All this data driven examination of the minutae of connection disagreement and rancour is a long way from what love between two equals can bring to your life. Love elevates spirit and indeed sex to higher dimensions and pleasures far beyond just the physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/25 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Serious question: what are the downsides of marriage?1st marriage seven years no kids. I married too young grew out of him really fell out of love with him. Took nothing from that marriage except myself . 2nd marriage 28 years one child now an adult. Happiest years of my life. A great love still in bloom now kids flown the nest. Very happy life great companion constant lover. Can't imagine life without each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What are the effects of women increasingly attending college more than men and them being on the path to start earning more in the future?You could well be right . We really struggled to get our beautiful daughter through college financially partly because I became limited by disability .Now she has been 4 years in a relationship with a really lovely man . If we had not sent her they would likely never have met. He went to a very prestigious college has a degree and a masters daughter also has a degree from another prestigious college in the same city . They are doing great in their careers just now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?The biggest ever was an absolute disaster. Couldn't get a condom on properly only half way down. Couldn't get it in either. We gave up it wasn't fun. The smallest I honestly can't remember the smallest. Most guys were similar sizes but individual nuances. Married to a good 7 inch grower very happily 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.As is Often the case other studies suggest use of ai can improve learning. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41599-025-04787-y#:~:text=The%20results%20indicate%20that%20ChatGPT,thinking%20(g%20%3D%200.457). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.I don't know. Yes I used chat gpt to throw up some content I read it decide what I can stand behind. Then I edit it to more clearly reflect my thinking. I don't see the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Men being good loyal partners is bad for everyone.I'm getting on in years had kids late in life. Yeah kids took over sex life suffered. Both of us were responsible for that. Kidd are gone now. We fell madly back in love with each other and are having some of the best sex of our lives. We are neither of us are what we once were but it doesn't matter (men age too by the way)we both remember the younger versions of the other. I would not swap the intimacy of what we have and knowledge of each others pleasure for anything or anyone and neither woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 11:25 AM |
| 3 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesYeah I don't live in Afghanistan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | “ She should have been the property of her father until he picked her husband for her”- an alarming rise of reactionary rhetoric in redpill spacesSecond wave feminist here. Ain't no way women are getting back in boxes built by deluded red Pill men. They can chat among themselves all they want with their freak ideas. Ain't gonna come to nothing. Might encourage a bit more male on female violence but sure we are always knocking that fucker back down anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.I am not anti online dating at all. My daughter met her lovely partner online. I see a lot of sense in it. I'm just trying to get my head around current claims around a loneliness epidemic it seems specifically in men but not exclusively men, which all seems to be decided upon by the amount of matches people are getting on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.I met mine at an Irish music festival. We are from opposite sides of the planet and married 28 years It was love at first sight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.I am not lonely at all I'm in a LTR. I'm just interested in how technology is changing humanity and changing gender roles and dynamics. So framed an interesting to me debate on an area of that interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.Using tech to type for you is hardly the same as having algorithms choose your next sexual partner. Yous are all cracking on like it's some big gotcha! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:31 PM |
| -1 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.Why? I'm not anti tech I do think it perhaps is having a negative effect in the field of human relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.I am not single and don't use dating apps. I started this debate based on what I see in this and similar forums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Digital dating is the cause of loneliness.Why don't they have social circles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Competent women = Masculine bruh whatNPC being the operative word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 02:55 PM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADTalk of male female attraction on this sub is full of standards and points out of 10 etc. Sweeping generalisations that I don't find at all realistic. When it comes to attraction, beauty is far from one-size-fits-all. While mainstream standards often dominate media and culture, a closer look reveals that many people are drawn to what could be considered "niche" looks—unique, unconventional, or subculturally specific appearances that defy traditional norms. Whether it's a sharp jawline paired wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 11:21 AM |
| – | If women want to avoid being put in the "hookup only" zone, they should be honest up front early on.How about a few 🔵 truths then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:44 AM |
| – | If women want to avoid being put in the "hookup only" zone, they should be honest up front early on.Straight outta male fantasy porn. Yeah right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:40 AM |
| – | If women want to avoid being put in the "hookup only" zone, they should be honest up front early on.Red Pill ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ Alert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:37 AM |
| – | The "orgasm gap" is primarily due to women behaving passively and lacking initiative during sex. Women expect men to take full responsibility for both of their orgasms and usually do nothing to help themselves climax.My partner really gets off from getting me off. I know aren't I the lucky one. That doesn't mean I'm just passive my body meets the pleasure given with its own natural response. It's also called making love for a reason. He gives me so much pleasure my desire is to return that pleasure as much as I can as often as I want to and he wants me to. It's union not mutual masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 10:26 AM |
| 4 | A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference.I have also lived in Germany but not much point continuing conversation if you are just going to decide it's all in my imagination. Gees silly women making stuff up eh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 04:13 PM |
| 6 | A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference.So where in the world are you from? I've travelled many lands and never found freedom from male judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionYes but according your logic re penis size preference earlier only men with baby head size penis's would be any good to a woman once she has had a baby. Also what goes on with all the stuff about the immune response during childbirth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 9 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionAccording to your logic here which has no actual biological fact behind it. What happens when a woman gives birth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:40 PM |
| 15 | Men need to stop asking women about Penis Size preferences because it's a completely pointless discussionOh look another man with no idea about how vaginas work! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.I agree I like loads of stuff and don't confine my interests to subjects seen as exclusively feminine. But before we can really debate whether the idea of masculinity should exist we have to decide what we are actually talking about. My earlier post considering the physical spiritual and cultural definition of masculinity are an attempt to clarify what we mean by masculine. In the case of say spirituality I am a Druid and part of my practice is honouring male and female energies not just in peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:02 PM |
| 28 | A man’s desire to be promiscuous, but want a non-promiscuous woman isn’t “values.” It’s preference.The one thing that pees me right off around this subject although I may be a bit off topic of op. Men/boys from a very young age seem to presume that some women are promiscuous based solely on physical appearance. I'm not talking clothing but physical attributes. I'm a busty lady from age 15 men made presumptions about my morality and about me based purely on that. Im 30 years with the same guy now in a monogamous marriage. But I am sex positive and not at all prudish or any other phobic judgeme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Why MGTOW was doomed from the very start but decentering opposite gender is the best option moving forwardMyself and my husband shared child raising our businesses allowed us lots of at home time. We put our child through school and college. I would agree children are best raised by those that love them. Day care etc is far from ideal and not our choice. I do think we've been conned into an economy where it now takes two wages to run a household whereas once one wage was sufficient. Whos the winner? The taxman taxing 3 wages the man the woman and the child carer, but that's a subject for elsewhere .… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:39 PM |
| 0 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.A very tiny minority of women may embody these traits very few would tick all those boxes. Are you suggesting it's just a matter of choice. That a person should act against their nature ? Somehow try and morph into some kind of androgenous being? Or that masculinity does not exist because a tiny percentage of women portray masculine traits? Our varying hormones are always gonna mean we are wired totally differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Why MGTOW was doomed from the very start but decentering opposite gender is the best option moving forwardNot gonna happen 78% of Western women don't want this. So short of forced marriages or clubbing them over the head barely anyone is gonna marry into that situation. Maybe that's how red pillers come up with there skewed statistics re dating? Neither does the entire population with only 22% over all ages classes and sexes wanting a return to traditional marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.Because of biology culture and socialization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.Well yes I do believe masculinity is part of that an essential part. I do think though that your description of masculinity is somewhat narrow Let's look at masculinity across three dimensions—physical, spiritual, and cultural—acknowledging that masculinity is not a fixed identity but a dynamic concept shaped by biology, belief, and society. Physically: Masculinity is often associated with physical traits influenced by male hormones like testosterone. These may include: Muscularity and strength:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Masculinity is just an outright lie.Sex was made up for animals??? Made up by who? Sex between a loving couple can be way way more than just physical or the urge to procreate. Sexual union can be an elevated incredible and spiritual for those with enough experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 10:45 AM |
| 4 | Why MGTOW was doomed from the very start but decentering opposite gender is the best option moving forwardAbsolutely tragic that a young man of 26 would deliberately deny himself in this way. Based on what? Fine if you're happy with it I guess. IMO you have been misled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 10:24 AM |
| 7 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Who are all the women sleeping with then? Do we suddenly have a disparity in male and female numbers in society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.What planet are you on? Huge majority of women want monogamous men maybe you are just here to mess with people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.I agree whatever folk are happy with is ok with me. However I have a caveat in that I have seen more than a few open relationships, and in every case it has ended in heartache for at least one of the parties involved. Also all of them returned to monogamous relationships before they reached 50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.So what's your opinion on my reply as I am not religious and agree with OP <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:19 AM |
| -1 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.I think it is a fake reality that only exists on the internet. Not what I see in Ireland or Australia We have family and spend time in both those countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Guys, One Woman is Enough.Wholeheartedly agree f65 28 years married second marriage. We have one grown up child. My only child. I am not religious in the conventional sense (I am a Druid) I am sex positive and a second wave feminist. I have always been monogamous sometimes a serial monogamist. The greatest joy in my life is my marriage there is great love between us we have fantastic sex life even though we are getting old, a lifetime of loving will give you that. Our child is our pride and joy and the product of our lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:13 AM |
| 3 | How would you feel about your current or future partner asking to have different beds/bedrooms?It's not something I would want myself. The intimacy of sleeping together is too important. I am 65f 28 years married. During that time there have been times of no sex. Also times of illness where sleeping apart was necessary. We just missed each other. My only experience of a couple sleeping separately is my sister who likes her own room and has had this arrangement through two marriages, 10 years and 20 years, both of those marriages failed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do age gap preferences in men and women differ so much?You gotta be old enough to be a cougar before you try being a cougar is all I'm gonna say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?Autistic men can be Wonderful I married an autistic man my daughter is in a relationship with an autistic man . Both are wonderful handsome men. Few foibles yes but that's part of their charm. Definitely Rizz and tism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 12 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?And I quickly realized that the least experienced, least successful men were a poor choice for dating advice. Smartest comment in days. I actually think it looks like some weird male competition arena among the unsuccessful all trying to convince each other they are top dog . Pure weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 09:01 PM |
| 6 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?I am neither religious or living in America but I don't see the world I see on here reflected in real life either. Again lots of weddings engagements babies families . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 3 | How many people here are happily married/in longterm relationships? If so, what is your perspective on the common themes and posts in this sub?F65 28 years married. Heterosexual one child now an adult. I think the red pillers are off their rockers. If I was younger and single I would avoid them like the plague. I mean I'm a second wave feminist I've believed in female equality my entire life. There is no way women are getting back in boxes these dopes have created for us. Yet these are the guys we are supposed to believe are most dateable. Don't make me laugh 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 Red Pill Men Attributes Right Wing Politics Wants Traditional Wife … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Men need to have higher standards.Ever thought that perhaps that intelligent interesting women might avoid men with crappy attitudes to women like the plague. Add intuition to superior intelligence they are definitely giving you the swerve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:42 PM |
| 0 | One thing red pill gets wrong is “fake it til you make it” and “behaviour is attractive”. Nah, you’ve literally gotta have the goods to back it up or it failsWhat does that even mean? How can you conclude I would be mentally ill if I'd suffered rejection from how I've expressed myself? I've had my fair share of rejection I can assure you.trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | One thing red pill gets wrong is “fake it til you make it” and “behaviour is attractive”. Nah, you’ve literally gotta have the goods to back it up or it failsNot where I am making observations from. If that's the case in your locality I suggest moving or maybe join a band lots of examples of 80/20 bullcrap being untrue can be found with women who go for musicians and not just the famous successful ones. The penniless rakes pull their fair share too. I literally think guys are being totally duped by other men. What an easy way to rid yourself of competition by convincing competitors not to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 02:46 PM |
| 0 | One thing red pill gets wrong is “fake it til you make it” and “behaviour is attractive”. Nah, you’ve literally gotta have the goods to back it up or it failsDon't know where some of you guys get your ideas . Countless times you see beautiful women with less attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/25 02:02 PM |
| 10 | What does being a "high value man" mean to you?One sub Reddit that it crops up in isn't really indicative of its use being more widespread. It's definitely a manosphere term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Reddit Analysis is so split because we literally live in different environmentsFrom where I'm standing (Ireland) America looks totally nuts, and it seems like most of the pills of whatever colour originate there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Women want men who are kind , Emotionally available , considerate but they will throw away all of that for a guy thats just tall , funny and good in bedOne piece of advice my Mum gave me was find a man who is kind. To quote her "everything else fades away; sex , looks, attraction, then you need someone who is kind" I ignored that advice and had a 5 year relationship with a man who was not kind . I paid more attention to kind men after that I fell head over heels with the sweetest sexiest guy Ive always been attracted to dark haired dark eyed rock star types with long hair, and that dress with individuality. Body type tall slim/skinny and good l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: It's misogynistic to track a woman's cycle to stay out of troubleAcquaintances in the work place tracking a colleagues cycle is very different to a man tracking his partner. My partner kept an eye on my moon calendar and would avoid provoking me at tense times. That was a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 01:48 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.And your point is??? Why are we talking about male on male sex now. Thought you were trying to prove no men like fat girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:16 AM |
| 2 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.You are plain wrong there are entire websites and social media pages dedicated to big beautiful girls with 1000s of male followers. Go look for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 07:04 AM |
| 1 | The fact that some men won’t find a partner is fueling unhealthy coping mechanisms & belief systemsThe fact that some men won’t find a partner is fueling unhealthy coping mechanisms & belief systems It certainly is and imo miles from reality I am Irish raised in UK when I returned to Ireland in the early 90s there were many older batchelors due to a shortage of women usually the family had emigrated and the the oldest son was left on the farm. These lonely unloved men often lost control and desperately grabbed at women in pubs, cried in pubs became besotted with any new female in town. Sad to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 07:20 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Big change from the one child policy of less than a decade ago for China then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 04:58 PM |
| 0 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Dont agree I'm a people watcher I work at an artisan market in a beautiful area. I see couples in that age group all the time all shapes and sizes odd matches sometimes .Often they are on holiday. Could it just be city dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 04:24 PM |
| 0 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.And what is your opinion on that current political movement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.Just because you don't like heavier women doesn't mean nobody does many many men like heavier girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 03:37 PM |
| 15 | There is nothing society nor anybody else can do to make any given individual more attractive to another. The answer is in the individual themselves.What is really unattractive is sulky resentful bitter people who think the world owes them a relationship. Believing all the manosphere bullshit about incels etc is a huge turn off too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 12:53 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipGood luck with that then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:24 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipGotta kiss a lot of frogs sometimes. Guess if you decide you don't want a relationship the odds of dying alone are higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:11 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipWhy do you think that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:03 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipYou are like a blind worm in the infinite universe that is human love and sexual relationship. Some are intergalactic travelers, and higher beings reaching higher planes. Fool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 05:55 PM |
| – | Most Men Do not truly want a relationshipOP Absolutely nothing you have said is true of my 30 year marriage. We are complete equals, we have an amazing love life we are best friends. We totally look after each other as needed. We have raised a beautiful and successful child together. You haven't a clue. Stop reading shite on the internet and be genuine. There is someone for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 05:44 PM |
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