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Yes! I had a man very upset and told me I was closed off because I didn't want to see him all the time (met him online, had three dates in a one month time span which I considered pretty good). I tried to explain to him that it was because I worked two jobs, and had to spend time with my terminally ill (now late) father so I didn't have tons of free time. He told me that it was an excuse and I really was just me pushing people away and I needed to figure out if I wanted to spend time with my dad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 11:26 PM
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Yes, I met my dude on tinder when I was thirty! His photos though were of him dressed nicely, at family weddings, or with his (now also my) amazing cat. No stupid pictures with the boys or with his car. Never once did he turn the conversation sexual, and as I'm a teacher, I found almost every single other dude tried some stupid hot for teacher line on me that grossed me out (oddly enough, I don't find the idea of teenage boys who are under my care to be attracted to me appealing? Who would've th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:17 PM
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Yes, I'm an English teacher! Things I've experience in the dating world: A man on a first date insisting that I must not really want to teach English, but be a writer, like him! He attempted to convince me to 'chase my dream' and write my novel and quit my job instead of being a lowly teacher. I have no desire to be a writer? An ex who used to get angry when I'd use words in conversation that he didn't understand. He'd tell me I was intentionally using ridiculous words to make myself feel superi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:41 PM
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She's a very fancy hairdresser now in a chic local boutique so YES hahaha. She's my "sister in law" (boyfriend's sister) and they're a really sweet couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:22 PM
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I make twice my boyfriend's salary and he still refuses to let me pay for dinner nearly three years later. Why? When I asked him why he always insisted on paying (the was pre me finding fds) he told me it makes him happy and proud that he can give me things that I enjoy, since he knows I can take care of the necessities on my own. I know our haters think we're all gold digging sugar babies but the truth is I'm dating someone in a significantly lower income bracket than me and he still manages to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:31 PM
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I know one couple that broke up and got back together. However, they broke up in high school and got back together in their mid twenties and are now early thirties and married with a baby (he's a super kind, hard working man, they just broke up because she wanted to go travel and and do college age stuff while he wanted to stay in their hometown and pursue the trades. They're now both happily in their hometown with steady careers). Don't go back to an ex if you're still in the same life stage yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:23 PM
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Lol someone reported me for suicide watch for this post Because wanting boys to clean up after themselves in my own classroom means I'm defective I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:56 PM
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Other teachers are getting shut up money?? Man that would be welcome over being told to shut up with zero money haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 09:45 PM
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I am a high school teacher in an area with VERY coddled boys, and they think I'm so mean when I give them detentions for throwing their food on the ground in my class or when they refuse to put their school laptops back in the charging slot because they expect me to do it for them. I've even had mothers complain and tell me I'm being a "bully" when I inform them their sons are being punished via detention for repeatedly leaving trash behind. None of my female students have these issues. It's obs…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:36 PM
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Yes! I dated dudes who I should've broken up with way earlier because I was fed the "relationships take hard work" bullshit my entire life. My current partner? I've gone through incredibly tough times with him the past two years - had my father pass away, moved twice, bought a house, struggled with being a public school teacher during the pandemic, had several close friends and members of my support system move far away. And you know what? He was the one stress free part of my incredibly stressf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:50 AM
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Oh I see you've met my ex boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:33 PM
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Ruth bader ginsburg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 02:48 AM
45

YES! This! I remember I once had final projects for my very last course of my entire master's program. I was in the middle of moving house, and I had been doing EVERYTHING. So this weekend I decided "I'm going to go to my aunt's remote cabin for a week, work on my final projects so I don't get constantly bothered to cook/clean/pack everything on my own. He can handle it for a week!" on my drive UP to the cabin- I was already in the car- my (now ex) boyfriend called me FURIOUS that I would dare a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:44 PM
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Dated for three years, dumped him eventually. He was very upset. decided to pick up a smoking habit near the end of the relationship out of the blue AFTER my dad was diagnosed with (non smoking related) lung cancer and told me I was being controlling when I freaked out about it I worked full time and did my third degree full time and did all the cooking and cleaning. He would get angry when I'd interrupt his gaming to tell him dinner was ready. Would also get huffy if I asked him to clean after …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:20 PM
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Yes to your edit! Current boyfriend is stoked to have a partner who can edit his cover letters to sound super professional and proofread his trades school projects, I'm stoked to have someone who can fix/install anything in my house now that I own instead of rent and no longer rely on landlords to take care of house stuff. It's a very win/win situation, having someone with a different set of skills is awesome, no reason to get jealous over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:44 PM
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We dated the same trades guy it looks like! He told me I intentionally used big words to feel superior to him and I was putting on an act. I have three degrees in English related fields and I teach high school English so... Not really sure why he dated someone who teaches English lit if he hated big words so much 🤷 Current boyfriend just asks me what a word means if I use one he doesn't know and then says oh cool, neat word, and moves on with the conversation instead of steaming about his gf hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:20 PM
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I had two lvm teacher ex situationships- both used the knowledge that women think teachers are more mature, like kids etc. to date multiple women at once, string me along unaware, and look like hvm in sheep's clothing. I'll never date another teacher and I am one myself :p However, that being said, I also dated two electricians who were garbage humans but my current hvm boyfriend is also one so... (in my opinion though, overall, guys in the trades are generally lvm. A lot of them are really bad …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:48 PM
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Saaame, except in Vancouver, Canada. My boyfriend was living in an apartment owned by his father, paying nominal rent by Vancouver standards. His father ended up also renting to me which took my rent from $1850/month for a one bedroom to $400 a month (granted I moved from city to burbs, but it was still in the greater Vancouver area). so I benefited from dating a dude who lived off the parental gravy train:D I ended up buying my own house later on partially due to the money I saved from renting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 04:16 AM
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Same! My now late father once phoned me, when I was in my twenties and living on my own in my own apartment, , to bitch that I needed to come over and make him dinner because my mum was away on a weekend girls trip. That was a huge no from me. I told him to order a goddamn pizza if he wanted someone to make dinner for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:13 PM
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Even Trudy got sick of Pete's shit by the end and she was in the sixties with way fewer resources to leave as a woman. Not sure why my ex thought that a woman who made twice his salary and had options and wasn't even married/legally tied to him would put up with the same sexist garbage when said garbage made a fictional sixties housewife with kids leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:22 PM
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Yeah, I had already seen it fully through at that point and my ex was watching it for the first time. It was... eye opening to see who he thought were the guys to idolize in that show. ​ I'm there, my heart breaking for Trudy Campbell, when he's thinking that she's some unfun nag and Pete is just a cool guy doing his best? No thank you to someone who thinks Pete returning wedding gifts to buy himself a rifle without even asking his wife what she'd like to do with the money is the correct way to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:41 PM
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I had been trying- very one sidedly- to work it out with this guy who was absolutely useless. I came home one day to him watching Mad Men. It was the scene where Trudy, Pete's wife, starts arguing with him for doing something shady at night. He starts after her for only picking fights at night before he's about to sleep, despite the fact that it's the only time she gets to see him because he's out womanizing and working overtime kissing ass during the day. My ex was like "See? It's a thing! That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:59 PM
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Ok so I know it's a big no-no on here, but my dude is a "gamer". Used to make big $$ playing video games (before I met him). But he quit the professional circuit because he said to remain at the top of the top you need to forgo everything else in life (school, relationships) because it's such a time suck. Why do I date this hardcore gamer? Because before he sits down to play a game he makes sure- without any reminders or interference from me- that dinner is either prepped by him (he chops all th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:52 PM
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I don't get this whole "they need to communicate their boundaries" nonsense, like not sleeping with other people and injuring you is simply just one woman's personal boundary she failed to discuss calmly. I shouldn't have to sit a grown man down like I'm their goddamn kindergarten teacher and explain how people don't like it when you sleep with other women because it hurts their feelings, in the same vein of telling a six year old biting their friends to get their favourite crayon is bad. That s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 10:11 PM
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I had lots of pictures of me with my interests! Lots of cosplay which could be detrimental (but my pics were less revealing than some cosplay - think Hermione, bad Janet from the good place, Cher from clueless, etc. Not like... First suicide squad Harley Quinn or skimpy anime schoolgirl for the creeper weeaboo dudes). I also posted pictures of me at like beer/wine tastings, or doing fun stuff with friends. Things that made it easy to start a conversation about my life to see if they put effort i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:09 AM
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I loved this movie, and my boyfriend thought what she was doing was totally legit and enjoyed seeing skeezy men get their comeuppance almost as much as I did :) so I agree that good men enjoy this movie from my anecdotal experience as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:00 AM
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Comment may or may not be inspired by the fact I'm currently on vacation to a different country with my sister and hours ago watched her completely ignore really terrible warning signs from a touchy drunk dude (who the fuck is touchy during covid era especially??) and give out way too much personal info because "he's just a happy drunk on vacation!" (don't worry, I yelled NO at him and ran him off) Men can still be dangerous when you're on vacation, ya dolt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:41 AM
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I've learned to trust a feeling of overwhelming relief more than lust/excitement (although boyfriend is super cute, too) because excitement can also be your subconscious telling you it's potentially dangerous. Excitement is going to a new country where things can be overwhelming after a while and you might not recognize signs of danger and anxiety in your excited/unfamiliar state of being. Relief is coming home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 04:19 AM
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My current boyfriend! I had over a dozen dates between my ex and him in like an eight month time span, and disliked almost all. But immediately upon seeing him at the restaurant (it was via tinder) I felt so... Relieved. All my other dates all I felt was at best "this guy is ok I guess, maybe I could give him a second shot". Or more commonly "this is awful get me out of here". Like I felt "oh, ok this is him, the one I'm meant to be with. I feel safe." part way through the date I even went to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:06 AM
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Me being a teacher while OLD was such a trip, even though I'm high school not elementary. I can't count the number of times they'd ask me what I do for a living, I'd tell them I taught public school, and THEN they'd reveal they had kids they never mentioned on their profile or in any previous conversation prior to the date because they just couldn't contain their excitement at the thought of getting a nanny bangmaid (lol joke's on them, I don't like little kids anyways, which is why I teach seni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:52 AM
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Yeah I do dislike the fact that this is saying we should one hundred percent judge people based on their parents, too. Some people are wonderful even with crappy parents. I'm a high school teacher who's seen absolutely awful parents raise the sweetest kids despite their best efforts. Should men not date me because my late father was kind of sexist and overbearing and that would give me "daddy issues"? Or should they get to know me and realize I'm pretty sane, well educated, and feminist as hell,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:43 PM
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Yeah, whenever my boyfriend sees fds memes about lvm he usually just laughs and says "that sounds just like (lvm acquaintance he always gives grief to for not being a better father/boyfriend)" I've mentioned the rules on here before (I found fds after I started dating him, and despite me being a total pickme before, that didn't stop him from being wonderful anyways) and he always says it just sounds like common sense because most people are garbage anyways so you need to be able to weed that stu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:25 PM
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If he was Canadian... Y'all... Maybe we dated the same dude (no surprise if it was the same dude, he had commitment issues)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:54 AM
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The biggest "male feminist" I ever knew (was interviewed for creating a consent campaign at his university, went to women's marches, etc) also treated me the crappiest. His feminism went out the door when it came to women he wanted to have sex with. My current partner didn't even really know what feminism meant fully (although when I explained it to him he completely agreed with everything it stands for) but treats me fabulously. Been with him two years and never had a moment where I've felt dev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:30 PM
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This reminds me of my ex lol - only reason I did his laundry "unasked" was because he'd leave it so long in the basket you could literally smell it as you walked past and it would spill out of the basket. I don't know about you all but I don't enjoy having a smelly, overgrown pile of sweaty construction worker clothes all over my bedroom, so I did it. Unasked. But was it really unasked when it was impacting my quality of life? It's like they get so gross that we feel compelled to clean so we don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:15 AM
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Exactly! I've met TWO different teachers (one taught grade six, the other high school- I'm a teacher myself so met them at work) and had weird situationships that left me feeling totally used and dehumanized. They both LOVED the attention being a male teacher gave them and were always looking for women to keep on rotation, and used their knowledge of social justice issues to play at being a faux-woke fuckboy, pretending like they cared about feminism in public but in private treating women terri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 09:45 PM
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Same except I'm in my early thirties and he's late twenties. I'm just in a female dominated field so wasn't meeting people at work, and none of my friends know single dudes. He's in a male dominated field and has a friend group where all the women and men were getting into situationships and having kids at like 21 years old, unmarried, and he wanted nothing to do with that life (he's big into marriage before kids, with both partners having established careers) so the single friends he was meetin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:19 PM
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I like using precise language! Why say multiple smaller words to describe something that you can use one word for? Say, for example, I'd call someone, such as himself, belligerent. He'd be irritated with me for not saying "really aggressive and cranky" instead of belligerent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:15 PM
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Yes, my hvm current boyfriend always just asks me what a word means if I use one he's unfamiliar with. Then goes "oh cool, thanks, neat word, didn't know that!" and moves on with his day. Like a normal person. He's actually in the same profession as my ex but loves having a smarter gf who shares cool info with him so he gets to know new facts, instead of tearing me down for knowing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 04:14 PM
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I once had a now ex who barely graduated high school claim I was intentionally using big words he didn't know to insult his intelligence and make myself feel superior. I'm a high school English teacher with three English (and psych) related degrees. Raised by an English lit major mother. I am pretty sure my vocabulary isn't an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 02:04 PM
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Yeah a little rich saying I'm picking fights when she's insulting a major which is 80% female at the undergrad level on a forum that's entirely women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 07:08 PM
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Speaking about your experience doesn't protect you from the right to be criticized for your opinions. Free speech isn't freedom from criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:16 PM
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Jesus, I'm a psych major with three degrees who's in a quite happy relationship and fairly normal with no massive skeletons in my closet. I chose it because people fascinate me and also because the brain influences how everything in the body functions. This is incredibly demeaning to women who choose to study the subject, you know, you're not just insulting men here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:52 PM
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Hanging out with my mum and sister at the family cabin with poolside cocktails in this heatwave, living stress free life now that work is over for the summer (we're all teachers). Can't complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 08:16 PM
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oh man I had an ex who had a naturally insanely deep voice but he put on a vocal fry + would mumble a lot and it was IMPOSSIBLE to hear him sometimes, it just came out as a low rumble, like a subwoofer against a shared wall. And he'd get mad at me for asking him to repeat what he said constantly, get really huffy and say I wasn't listening/had hearing problems EVEN THOUGH everyone else around us also asked him to repeat what he was saying because his mumbling and fry was so bad! I had several fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:41 AM
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Oh my God yes, I got this so often when I was OLD. as soon as I'd reveal I was a teacher, men would then reveal they actually had kids not mentioned on their profile and be _shocked _ when I would say I was no longer interested. They thought I'd love to take care of their kids for free because I'm a teacher and like kids! Oh hell no, I get paid for looking after other people's kids, I ain't doing what I'm good at for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:52 PM
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My hvm bought me an oodie (successor to the snuggie, it's an absolutely massive knee length fur lined hoodie) because he noticed I drape myself in blankets a lot. So that. Or sweatpants and one of his oversized tees. My boyfriend literally doesn't give a shit what I wear because he actually likes spending time with me for reasons beyond his boner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:30 AM
5

I have had pretty bad ibs since childhood. I have had ex boyfriends accuse me of making it up to get out of plans, then when I would go to parties, get irritated I wasn't ordering food or drinking with people or "joining the fun" . Or get irritated for "avoiding their friends" if I did decide to have some drinks and junk food but it resulted in a night of feeling sick in the bathroom. Either I don't go and my stomach is fine, or I go out to eat and drink and feel like trash YOU CAN'T HAVE IT BOT…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:20 AM
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Haha I know, it mentioned that I did two jobs while he had one and yet I still did all the cooking and cleaning and "adulting" and he was real pissed about that because he said I didn't genuinely have two jobs (one was being a substitute teacher full time, the other was tutoring part time which he said wasn't a real job because it was just a few hours after work a couple times a week which... Sounds like a job to me) Apparently mentioning I had two jobs while he had one was manipulating people i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:58 AM
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I remember an ex found a post where I asked for advice about his chronic inability to adult and was FURIOUS at how I portrayed him, and called me a manipulative liar who chronically needed internet validation so I painted him as a total asshole. I felt so bad, I confessed to my sister about the fight we were having and mentioned the post. Her response? "oh yeah, I saw that post and knew it was you asking. You were way too nice to him in it and left out a lot of other garbage. It painted him in w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:59 PM
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I'm a high school teacher. A course I teach that's required for graduation, I have 25 students in it. 12 are failing currently. Am I hard marker? No! It's literally not due to bad grades, it's because these twelve kids, nearly all boys, are either not attending or refusing to hand in work. I'm trying so hard to reach their parents but all I get is the same "Teehee, boys will be boys, I'm sure they'll be just fine! Can you connect with my kid maybe instead of me?" garbage from their parents (I ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:15 AM
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Hero. I also lost my number six action figure to that dillhole, he had one too and "thought it was his". like mother fucker do you not remember packing two of the same action figure? I never got it back, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:24 PM
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I'm furious on your behalf. Favorite nerd mugs are hard to come by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:16 PM
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Omg same except he also took a framed poster. A poster of his that I bought the frame for because I wasn't about to let him stick pushpins in the wall with a paper poster like I was running some undergrad dorm room. I'm still salty about losing that frame. I could've put something cool in there instead of that lame star wars poster (I'm a battlestar galactica girl anyways).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:36 PM
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Yes! When my dad died in January my HVM waited in his car in the hospital parking lot for hours (he wasn't allowed inside due to covid). He'd text my mother and I what food we wanted (it was late at night while we were waiting for him to pass, hospital cafeteria was shut down), bring it to us, and when my mum was overwhelmed he took her for a walk in the hospital parking lot and chatted with her because he didn't want her walking alone at night (hospital was in a slightly sketchy area). He took …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:47 PM
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I'm 30+ and I found engagement rings in his search history when using his phone to order food, I'm all good. Worry about yourself <3 We've been in a pandemic for half our relationship, look at the timeline before freaking out! edited to add: My father also died a few months ago- springing a proposal on a grieving girl is a shit move. Not everyone's life matches with a perfect proposal timeline!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:22 PM
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My ex from online dating also hated me using words he didn't understand!! Bitch why are you dating a high school English teacher if an extensive vocabulary triggers you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:25 PM
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Can't win them all! My dude had pretty bad experiences on tinder too - girls with secret boyfriends looking for dinners, girls who drank too much and got blitzed on first dates, etc, and we were ecstatic to find each other because we genuinely both hated the online dating process. Two years later and zero red flags so I am hopefully ok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:23 PM
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I met my boyfriend on tinder! But everything about his profile was different - he stated "looking for something serious" right on his profile, his pictures were of him with family members at family weddings so he was all dressed up and looking his best alongside pictures of him with his cat. He immediately jumped out from the rest who have drunk party pics or pics with exes and who are cagey with what they're looking for from online dating. I've been with him two years and he remains open, hones…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 05:51 PM
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Honestly they also think they deserve a mad men style life when they aren't even half as hard working as those already lvm retro schmucks. Back then men at least went to the barber regularly, styled their hair, wore suits and hats and wouldn't be caught dead in cargo shorts and sweat stained Rick and Morty t shirt, sitting in front of their television set endlessly instead of doing home repair on the weekends. Yes the women worked hard raising kids and upkeep of the house, but the men actually p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:59 PM
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Yes! About ten years ago, I think I was 21, I was on the subway and some drunk dude started yelling racist remarks at an Asian man sitting next to him, minding his own business. Telling him to speak English, go back to China, Etc. I didn't want the innocent man to think Canadians were complicit in racism, so I told the drunk to knock it off, leave him alone, Canada is a free country. The drunk whirled around, and started threatening me physically with the empty glass bottle in his hand. The drun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:30 PM
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Oh god I'm a senior high school English teacher, and male students CONSTANTLY use that word to describe characters in their creative writing stories. I make them rewrite their stories and give them a history lesson on why it's offensive. I'm so sick of that word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:44 PM
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I mean I'm a twin so I wasn't born alone, but I see your point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 12:33 AM
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Ugh they have the same playbook I swear! My dad was so grateful he got to see me break up with Mr useless and he got to know my current partner well before he passed (I was with him for 1.5 years as of my dad's passing) because he said it was good knowing I'd have a true partner after he wasn't around to be there for me anymore. I bought myself a house (or a down payment for one rather because I'm working in Vancouver prices here lol) with my inheritance. Current partner benefits from being a HV…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:12 PM
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I think you were working with my ex- when my dad first got diagnosed with terminal cancer about three years ago and I'd cry over slight stresses in my day because everything was overwhelming me, he'd say I was 'crazy' and my tears were 'manipulative'. Even though as I was crying I'd be logically explaining that I'm not actually that upset about whatever issue, it's just my go-to response at that moment was crying because of the big looming stress of my dad at the same time. He also had the gall …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:10 PM
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Thank you! I genuinely appreciate that. It's been a hard year, teaching during a pandemic when my provincial government refuses to mandate masks for students. My dad also died in January due to a lung related illness he got in the workplace (asbestos, not covid) so going into work every day while still grieving, scared to catch covid (I've had almost forty exposure notices since October and the UK variant was found in my school, they're still not shutting it down) and having students talk down t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:50 AM
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I'm a high school teacher! I have been for six years. I've had new male teachers tell me they don't know what I'm doing wrong because such and such a male student never acts out for them (we have a high immigrant and refugee population, many kids have never seen women in positions of authority and treat us like garbage, and the male teachers refuse to believe the female teachers that the reason their angelic students are awful to us is due to sexism- it must be our teaching technique!) I often w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:22 PM
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Exactly. I dated a LVM briefly who taught grade six, he ended up being evasive and immature and noncommittal. They can come from literally any career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:50 PM
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