OriginalLight1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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78	29 year virgin ED on first try Performance anxiety. As you get more comfortable with her, it will go away on its own. I have a similar issue with new partners, I guess you could say some people like you and I aren’t built for quick hookups.	/r/seduction	12/05/25 11:06 AM
5	Feelijg jealous of friend getting instagrams Move on and try again.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 06:13 PM
27	Help me have sex on vacation Did you bring a friend or two with you? Sometimes just having fun with your buddies is all it takes to easy into another group’s social gathering.	/r/seduction	21/07/24 10:45 PM
104	I 21M get tired during sex Thrusting for hours is normal? lol	/r/seduction	13/04/24 09:51 PM
99	It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalities They all “made it”. The one thing we all desire.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 02:43 AM
1	Is this way of flirting even something? You don't. If she's talking about one of your friends like that and how she wants to be with him, I would say it's more than likely she's not interested in you. In some rare cases she could like you and be trying to make you jealous, but that's not common and it's somewhat immature.	/r/seduction	08/01/18 10:22 PM
5	What’s your opinion on “staying in your league” or “lane”? I think leagues are irrelevant. Go out in public, and you will often see less than perfect looking guys with absolutely gorgeous girlfriends. Those guys may not have the best faces, but will make up for it with good game and staying in shape. I don't think anybody should stay in their "lane", mainly because I don't think there's such thing as a lane. Don't have low standards. Approach girls that you find attractive, and you will have a fair chance with confidence, charisma, a sense of humor and …	/r/seduction	10/12/17 03:32 AM
1	Does anyone have any advice on how to remain cool and collected around girls you are trying to date? Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't put so much weight on the situation. Realize that there's millions of other girls out there, and if you mess up one situation with one girl, who cares? That's how I stop caring. The more you experience, whether failure or success, the better you will get.	/r/seduction	08/12/17 11:57 PM
1	Does anyone have any advice on how to remain cool and collected around girls you are trying to date? Stop caring, really, I mean it! Girls can sense that shit. Be relaxed and talk to her as if she were any normal person. Try not to overthink normal social interactions with her. Obviously you still want her to know your intentions, so don't take the "talk to her as if she were any normal person" too far. That's just a mental trick I've found to work, but I definitely understand how you feel considering I get the same way. I'll overthink simple things such as how to say hi to her, but then I real…	/r/seduction	08/12/17 11:25 PM
3	A lot of opportunities, but overall terrible with women I find it awkward as well, but I never let it show (or at least I try not to). I talk to the girl as if she were any other normal person, that's the mindset that I keep. I don't think of her as some goddess that's superior to me. I maintain the mindset that I'm better than her, and that she should be striving for my attention and affection -- not the other way around (as cocky and arrogant as that may sound). I think the conversations you're having may ultimately be boring. Try to talk about som…	/r/seduction	02/12/17 03:49 AM
3	I used to get girls before learning seduction I've found that it's important to never overthink, and not to put too much weight into texting. A lot of texting guides can be true in many situations, but honestly you shouldn't follow it step by step. It's only a template. You have to be natural, and you can't fake that. It sounds like initially you were natural, not overthinking anything, you were confident, and you didn't give a shit about what girls think. Now, you're reading into everything and it's impacting your ability to act naturally.…	/r/seduction	27/11/17 02:48 AM