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| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Something about women: In a loving romantic relationship desire is complicated. We get just as horny as you assuming we are not midst having babies or tiny kids or menopause or the like. But in a long term partnership, desire is swayed by other emotions. Nothing kills desire faster than resentment. Resentment is fueled by apathy and no communication. It feels shitty when your partner only acts loving to you to initiate sex. How often do you touch each other warmly throughout the day? How often d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/25 03:32 AM |
| – | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..OK I actually LOL'ed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Older men have no incentive to improve themselves for older women who are "tired of their bullshit"..And then, when the younger woman matures into an actual adult and sees him for what he is, she leaves him and then he says "women are only after my money." Also, I don't know why anyone would *want* to be so full of BS that only people with incomplete frontal lobes would want them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | why don’t we just sex segregate?This forum is a tiny, isolated echo chamber where unsubstantiated theories and embellished anecdotal stories get thrown around as truth. The rest of the world does not think or act this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps should be banned for women under 25You are a a satire account, right? Because no adult functioning human being would have this hot take on adults dating teenagers or the whole bear vs man thing. This has to be some kind of clickbait generating bot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Lets redo this bear vs man thing. "Ravenously hungry Polar bear with a history of killing people" VS "Jacked up 6 foot 6 350lbs Prisoner serving a life sentence for raping and murdering several women"Polar bears (the only bears who consider humans a normal food) don't live in the woods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableI am not sure its an ethical decision to have kids with the expectation that they take acre of you in your old age. Also there is no guarantee that will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableIt really isn't that hard.they don't do much till they learn to walk thats the funniest thing I have read all day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever felt that by not having children you are non fulfilling your biological duty?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemOK, well good luck to you then, because you know so very, very little about women and sexuality, women's bodies and good sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:32 AM |
| 5 | How should we survive the "SIMP Epidemic?"so she lets a rando who is willing to spend excessive amounts of money in an attempt to get in her pants buy her stuff....seriously, if the roles were reversed and some chick was obsessed with you and bought you gifts even though you were only polite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:17 AM |
| – | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemReal talk again: that is 100% not true. There are so many factors for orgasm which include anatomy (no one is built exactly the same way), anxiety (fear you are taking too long can slow the process), inexperience (sometimes it takes a bit to figure out what works for us, because this particular issue is very different for women), how you were raised, etc. If you really like someone, and shes having trouble, you can probably work through it. That might include some "freebies" for you with loving … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 12:29 AM |
| – | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemSo if she can't get off in 5 minutes you are not interested. This suggests the following options: you don't really like sex, you like the orgasm your time is so valuable that intimacy that exceeds 5 minutes is an issue your comfort and happiness are more important than your partners you are willing to bypass all other factors that go into a great relationship to single out the single issue (cum fast so I don't have to work for you) which doesn' bode well for you Real advise: if what you are doin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocritical..and they know they can make money on content appealing to a certain demographic desperate for some version of an authority to tell them what they want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:07 AM |
| – | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectiveyou don't have to, you read actions or listen to what people say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:47 AM |
| 0 | What passes as 'creepy behavior' is entirely subjectiveIts totally subjective, thats accurate. However, its not hard to read people or just LISTEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 02:28 AM |
| 9 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorbecause the women they fuck don't enjoy sex with them? I mean, based on a lot I read in this sub I'm betting theres a lot of them who are terrible at pleasing a girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenAs a fat person, yes, this. Its 100% if you are not attracted to an overweight person. Whats not OK is to treat them as less than any other human. I am not attracted to certain things, but just because a person looks that way doesn't make them any less of a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessI'm curious if you are married, or have children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Women are attracted to qualities that allow her to do lessSo I make approx 2.5x as much money as my husband, even though he works a few more hours a week than I do (40 vs 36). So, therefore he should do a little more than twice the house/yardwork/pet care etc? Cuz, well, I bring in more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?I am old and have been married a long time, I cannot imagine being so insecure that my husband having a friend of the opposite sex would be an issue. There are probably lines that should not be crossed to not make someone feel uncomfortable, and that would be person specific like ex not ever meeting your spouses friend. That would be understandable. 2 out of 3 of my good work friends are guys, one happens to be gay but thats not why we are friends. All 3 are married and I know their spouses, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:12 AM |
| 0 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVthis doesn't even make sense...why am I surprised? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:21 AM |
| 0 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMV"chad chaser?" lmao. so gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 01:20 AM |
| – | Are women worse off if they follow traditional gender roles?Theres no evidence that gender roles are a biological construct aside from the "who gives birth" issue. There have been many societies that were matrilinear, where women were equal as hunters etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:54 AM |
| – | Are women worse off if they follow traditional gender roles?in addition to divorce, the man can die, become disabled or similar and the wife is left just the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | It’s in western men’s best interests to just go overseas versus trying to convince American women to change CMVI think if you want to remove yourself from the pool of applicants, no one will be sad. You sound like a nightmare, honestly. "I only want the highest grade sex from women who I can feel superior to and have nothing to offer a woman except money because my personality is shite." OK, have fun then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:53 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.This sub is the embodiment of "man makes up fictional scenario and then gets mad about it." I make more than half the men I know, and my husband was very low earning when I met him, and I didn't GAF. Even now, he still makes half of what I do. Its not a factor in our relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?If you are homeless because you refuse to live in a tract home you can afford and will only accept a mansion, then yes find a house that costs less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?Or, just hear me out here, you could find a woman who didn't care if you were short ad ugly and liked you for you? But then remember, you would have to accept her being too tall or ugly as well. Thats the caveat. I married a guy who is not threat to Tom Cruise and makes less than half of what I do and you know what? He's the best! We have a very happy home and marriage and actually really like each other for more than what we look like or what we bring home. If you are being rejected by someone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 12:47 AM |
| 4 | What's appropriate to vet your partner on?Things way more important than body count (and also height, weight, salary): - a good personality defined as someone you find interesting based on their interests - shared values and interests - a non-self centered life outlook: demonstrating empathy, genuine altruism and self control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Which man would you pick?Depending on age, no gf or wife is kind of a weird red flag, I'd wonder what his issues were that he couldn't manage any kind of relationship? I'd lean towards Sam. Who GAF how many people he's slept with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 10:52 PM |
| 7 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Wow. You sound like an absolute...peach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashNYP has long been considered yellow journalism. https://www.allsides.com/news-source/new-york-post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 08:14 PM |
| 3 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”"Ain't nobody got time for that!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Nice to know you can read a nuanced comment and turn it into a simplistic and erroneous barb which kind of proves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Oh I work FT. Actually I work FT and also have another paid job a few hours a week. SIL also works. I work in health care and see time and again that its the women who are expected to step up and care for parents, in laws etc. When I say remembering birthdays, I don't mean recalling the date, I mean acquiring cards or gifts and remembering to send them to arrive on time, as well as knowing what the person likes or doesn't like and what they got last year and stuff like that. Pet care includes tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:52 PM |
| 5 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Fatigue, resentment and hormones. Women tend to take on more of the emotional labor and general labor in relationships. I have the most devoted and partnership seeking spouse n the world, and there are still so many things he is oblivious to (remembering birthdays, keeping the house stocked with necessities, keeping track of doctors appointments, pet care beyond the daily walk/feed, vacation scheduling and planning, deep cleaning, that kind of thing). If it goes on for a long time its tiring. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not?I would not hide it, its a couple dozen maybe. I guess I don't care enough to have even kept good track. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What trait(s) automatically puts a man above average?I have always really been attracted to a man with a passion that I can relate to, something that makes him excited or joyful. I suppose if that was something I was opposed to that wouldn't work, but some of my happiest relationships were with the guy who loved hot rods and working on them, another who was into dogs and dog sports (which is what I am into) and my current husband who loves birding and also music. People who are not passionate about something are not very interesting to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 06:27 AM |
| 4 | question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men?Hmmm, nope. I work a decent paying non-tipped job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 02:16 AM |
| 28 | question for women: what is something that always halts you from dating men?Men who don't treat service workers politely or tip appropriately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Mismatched Body-Counts: Important or Not?I really DGAF. I would have a hard time being in a serious relationship with anyone who did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk about nicenessIts easy to be nice, its superficial and takes little effort. Its a gloss over, sometimes insincere and usually a way to reflect on ourselves. Its often a form of manipulation. Kindness requires empathy, requires actually giving of yourself and putting someone else first. You can be nice by being polite, by buying something for someone, using superficial manners. You are kind when you give up something you want to make someone else happy and that makes you happy. You are kind when your impulse i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?the post I was replying to said "obeast" which is not 'obese' and came off as a slur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?Right, like I said, I was more likely to settle when I was young than I am now. However, settling or not settling is not focused on looks or money . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 12:13 AM |
| 7 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?I settled when I was young but as an older person I know what I want in a partner and wouldn't accept less. So less likely to settle. I'd rather be alone than put up with someones BS. That said, what I want is not the richest or handsomest. My husband is cute, and I'm attracted to him but he's no "Chad." Also, I make way more money than he does. We agree on all the important stuff (money, family, trust, independence vs coupledom) actually like each other and have attraction enough to keep it int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather be rejected over your personality or your looks?because it makes me happy and helps me in all other aspects of my life? thankfully looks are not the only thing judged in society as I'm not a looker and have deep and meaningful friendships and have experienced several great LT relationships including my current one of 15 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:56 PM |
| 4 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?Maybe if you refer to a fellow human being as "obeast" instead of getting to know her as a person, you shouldn't be surprised that they don't want to date you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 07:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadKeep moving the goalposts, Nicey. The fact that you can not understand or appreciate the nuance kind of points out the ridiculousness of your black/white either/or argument of "life." A fertilized egg or zygote has as much "human life" as a tumor or a spleen. It doesn't matter if "life" begins at conception (aka fertilization), its not a human until its something more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThe fact you find these comparable demonstrates your complete lack of understanding of biology and economics. Have fun with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadLOLWUT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:50 AM |
| 6 | Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread"life" isn't the thing tho...technically a tumor is alive, a spleen is alive. But they don't have awareness, a brain, etc. A zygote is alive, sure. But its not a person, and the body the uterus are in is also a person. Is a fertilized chicken egg a chicken? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 07:48 AM |
| 8 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThank you for verbalizing what most pro-lifers actually think, that pregnancy should be meted as a punishment for a woman having sex. Its not and has never been about sex, its about controlling women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | The abundance of options women have has gotten so out of control that even genuine mutual attraction and chemistry aren’t enough to keep their attentionoh the entitlement! The funny thing is this shit happens to women too but they don't start social movements talking about how they are entitled to anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Men often say “agreeableness” is a top trait they desire in a partner more so than women state that. Why is that?Aldabruzzo, are you married? In a LT relationship (like more than 6 months)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?I'd be interested in seeing the source for that claim. Here's my deal, if a guy is so insecure and needs to "import" a child bride from another country to meet his desire to be alpha or whatever, he's not at all someone I'd be interested in anyways so import all the Thai brides you want. Also, my job brings me in contact with a lot of older guys who married Asian women and the jokes on them because those Asian wives are not in any way submissive lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 0 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesyep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:41 AM |
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