Originalasshat1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How to deal with my " 5 year anniversary today" 5 years is better than 10-15 or 20 years. It sucks, it’s going to suck. In some ways it’s going to get a lot worse before it gets better. If you feel like a failure. Write down all the things that were good about the marriage, then all the bad, reflect on what you need to own and learn from. I bet somewhere in there you’ll find your answers and ways to better yourself. From your other posts sounds like you were violently discarded. IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN, you couldn’t have stopped it. Please, pu…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/26 05:27 AM
2	My kids basically begged me to stop the big weekends… so I said forget it and bought a $30 soccer goal This is my life. Mom has to be do something and that means the kids have to be something too. We’re on a 7-7 and some weekends we literally don’t leave the house or couch. I ask them often what they want to do and they really want to be zombies. Now we do toss a football or go for a walk at the park to get some air.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/26 04:48 PM
2	anyone divorced due to lack of intimacy I hear ya. Since I left my original comment I’ve learned that my avoidant is more likely a covert narcissist. Horrible experience-10/10 do not recommend	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/26 02:57 AM
3	anyone divorced due to lack of intimacy Are they an avoidant?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/26 11:05 PM
2	Would you take her back? I’m a few weeks past filing from my avoidant. Didn’t know what an avoidant was until recently. I wouldn’t take her back, I’m almost certain the trauma bond is going to take awhile to sever.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/26 09:29 PM
1	My wife is divorcing me. I’m at 15 years and my avoidant called it. The worst people	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 06:58 PM
2	To tell or not to tell (the other BS) It’s ok to burn bridges.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 06:53 PM
3	Wife Said We Are Incompatible I second this. Lawyer up, lock down the finances. DO NOT leave the house unless you speak to the lawyer about it. Personally. I had to cut all communication unless it involved our kids. I would bet that she has the emotional capacity of a toddler and discarded you because she’s needs control. Distance will be your best friend. See her as she is, not what you have in your head.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 06:38 PM