Orthanon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	He'll hath no fury like a woman scorned		Orthanon	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 01:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	She’s trying to move the kids away.. feeling helpless I just hope the judge sees it that way. She can be a teacher at 45K a year, which is median for the area.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 06:08 AM
3	She’s trying to move the kids away.. feeling helpless My stbxw just keeps saying "I can't afford to live in X town". Evidently "get a better job" isn't an acceptable answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 06:53 PM
4	She’s trying to move the kids away.. feeling helpless Contact your lawyer. Most every state has rules about how far away you can move.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 06:52 PM
5	I’m a sole financial provider for my stay at home wife, and 2 kids.. I’m at a point in my marriage where I feel like i’m only as good as what I can provide (my income, and occasional sex). There’s awkward silences, and I feel like maybe we’ve both grown out of love. Anyone else been here? Can't be sad on a dirt bike.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 06:48 PM
2	Well I got served the papers Get a credit card. Especially with kids involved. You don't want her to change her mind in 2 years and move across the country and you have no legal way to prevent it because you didn't have 2K right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/24 04:20 PM
1	Next step after papers served? Yes you need to respond within a set amount of days. 20 to 30 usually. I wouldn't be dragging it out but my stbxw is filing every motion under the sun and being unreasonable. Eventually her initial deposit will run out and she will want to settle.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/24 04:16 PM
1	Need some advice Donr pay her a dime. You gotta realize she is not a person in your life anymore. She is a random stranger on the street. If you wouldn't give me 2k a month why would you give it to her?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/24 08:59 PM
1	Is giving up custody my only option? I mean, kill her?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/24 08:57 PM
1	Cash for custody Yep my wife's lawyer has her filing motions and arguing over everything. Like she filed a motion for me to get my own phone plane. Could have just reminded me but I guess she wanted to spend $500.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/02/24 08:48 PM
2	I'm allowed to use refried beans again I can finally watch my dumb cartoons like American Dad again!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 08:48 PM
3	The light switch affect.. Right?!? When she left she said her life was a prison. I didn't realize sleeping until 9, hanging out with your kid all day, barely working, and not doing any housework was prison. Sheeeit sign me up!	/r/Divorce_Men	19/02/24 02:15 AM
5	The light switch affect.. Not who you asked but eventually they'll say something where you realize they're just fucking insane and you'll stop caring.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 09:23 PM
4	The light switch affect.. Lol I got called controlling because I "always needed to know where she was". I didn't realize "you going to the gym this afternoon" and "what errands are you running" made me a monster. Guess I have to reevaluate how conversation works.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/02/24 09:21 PM
3	Need advice on dating post divorce I'd also be warned that "travel" is just the basic way to appear interesting. I guarantee 90% of the time will be spent browsing tiktok.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 10:29 PM
6	He'll hath no fury like a woman scorned When in doubt; claim abuse!	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 02:01 PM
1	What are some movies and songs that helped you self-reflect, better yourself, and move on with your life after divorce? Watch the shit she never let you. My stbxw hated crappy mid 2000s comedies. I love them and have greatly enjoyed watching them these last months.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 11:15 AM
9	Has anyone’s Ex-wife ever apologized for putting them through hell? They truly do not. My wife got to stay at home with our toddler, barely work, do whatever she wanted, and live a nice upper middle class life. Now through the divorce process she is screaming about not being able to survive and won't acknowledge any post divorce life that isn't staying at home with our toddler, barely working, and me still paying for everything. Like bitch you already had a super good privileged life. Welcome to the real world.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/24 03:05 PM
4	After divorce, did you take the time to go through your entire photo album and social media accounts to delete pictures of your ex? I haven't and probably wont. I'm flabbergasted every time she returns a pile of photos or an album. I get we ate supposed to hate eachother. But it was still 7 years of our life and adventures and memories.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/24 02:05 PM
2	She's not stupid. She's not powerless. She's evil. Whoa someone with nuance and moderation. That's not what they want here.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/24 01:24 PM
3	Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL? Yeah turns out when your MIL is a sour old bitch that still complains a out her ex husband 15 years after their divorce, it doesn't bode well for your wife's idea of a relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/24 12:19 AM
3	Separated yet not divorced Well when she takes your kid and tells everyone you're abusive it kid of kills any feelings you has for them.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/24 12:16 AM
8	Wife shifts the Blame for Consequences of her Decision to File for Divorce My wife is slowly learning that divorce means she is going to have to get a real job, do housework, and will have to share our child. She thought divorced means she would still get to sit at home all day with the kid and I'd pay for it. But that's the "prison" she hated and wanted out of.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/02/24 12:14 AM
12	Dying on the inside looking at my wifes credit card history... Yuup. She gets to walk away with 44k of her debts paid off and another 30k from the house/retirement. I with I could get a free 15k a year just by occasionally having sex.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 11:18 AM
2	For Those that did ALL the housework My wife did all those excuses. Then when we had our son and she switched to online teaching it was the same excuses. Idk how you can be tired when you sleep in until 9 and wear pajamas all day.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 11:10 AM
6	For Those that did ALL the housework Yup. Only having to cook a few times a week because I'm willing to eat leftovers. Less dishes and clothes generated daily. Also being able to actually save money. It is sooo much easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 11:06 AM
2	Five love languages It's the same as every dating profile saying "I love travel". Well no shit who doesn't love a vacation? You can support, say nice things, do the housework, pleasure her, let her buy whatever she wants, and in an instant she can decide to divorce you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/24 06:09 PM
3	Five love languages The love languages are bullshit. They were made up by a hyper Christian therapist to blame the problems people have in their relationship as "you're not loving me the right way".	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/24 06:04 PM
1	Very curious on thoughts on this, my ex took off with my daughter at end of October My wife did the same but in August. Idkyour state, but from what I've gathered most judges don't look kindly on stealing kids. Get a lawyer. File temporary custody ASAP (it'll be months before you see a judge, so be ready to wait) and then get your life ready to be a single parent.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 12:42 AM
2	Dating during divorce? I downloaded the apps 2 months ago but guess what, 95% of women in my area I don't want to date. So no point in the risk and app induced depression.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/01/24 12:31 AM
3	How did you deal with false accusations When I told my stbxw all I wanted was 50/50 she said "hell no and no judge will ever do that". Like, it's the law dude. But we will find out in january	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 03:33 AM
4	She is going to have to work for the first time in her life hahaha Dude mine didn't even have to do that. I did 90% of the housework and worked outside the home. Turns out when I'm solo parenting with my kid it's pretty easy to take care of everything.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 11:36 AM