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Orwellisnow/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 02:50 PM
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Orwellisnow/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 02:33 PM
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GeneralOrwellisnow/r/MensRights17/05/23 03:38 PM
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If this is real and not a fake I’d guess she filed a temporary restraining order against you and the cops are trying to serve you.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 06:40 PM
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A: You didn’t fuck up. You asked for and received permission. If what you say is true, you took all the right steps. It’s not your fault you were lied to because that person was more comfortable with a lie than with the truth. B: Lawyer the hell up ASAP.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 12:50 PM
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No, judge cannot force you to keep a house. One of three options are available if you cannot mutually agree to a deal. You buy out her percentage of the asset and keep it, she buy out your percentage of the asset and keeps it or it is sold to split the asset in the percentage the judge assigns in the divorce trial.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 02:53 PM
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If male dominance was really a thing, this sub wouldn’t exist.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 04:47 PM
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Firstly, I don’t “need” a partner. That doesn’t mean the idea of a good person by my side the rest of my life doesn’t sound ideal. I said in my post that I could be by myself all my life and be content. Secondly, of course no woman is perfect. Who said anything about needing perfection? You seem to have this predetermined idea in your head about these things. If that’s what works for you, I’m happy for you man.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 04:44 PM
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Just grandma.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 04:35 PM
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Some of the best!
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:36 PM
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Nah, my mom left my dad when I was a baby and didn’t tell him where she was going…just vanished. Pretty much raised by my grandma after she vanished on me and I’ve been on my own since I was 16 after her passing, made sure I graduated high school and joined the military for college money. Not a bad childhood all things being equal, but not the standard one I suppose.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:22 PM
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That’s the thing, I want to be exclusive with a good partner. I don’t want to date, I genuinely want someone to be by my side all of my life. At that point, whether it’s marriage or common law it doesn’t really matter. I don’t want to date multiple women. Not only am I not the type to play with someone’s heart like that, but that sounds exhausting as f*ck, lol.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 03:12 PM
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The next thing will be false DV charge to remove you from the house, mark my words.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 01:15 PM
1

That’s a bold strategy Cotton! Jokes aside, you asked me to keep my opinion to myself so I’ll simply wish you the best of luck in your efforts.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 09:34 PM
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Moved from a 4/2.5 2350 sqft house to a 2/1 1000 sq apartment.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 07:14 PM
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The Anti-white racism is strong with this one.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 09:45 PM
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Be careful, I’m sure a lot of us have had what we believed to be “laughable” allegations thrown our way only to find a commissioner/judge type definitely not laughing.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:23 PM
25

Went thru a divorce and had my eyes opened for the first time.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 05:25 PM
1

Yeah, my ex started with “financial abuse” because I told her she could spend more than what was brought in and escalated to physical abuse accusations over the course of about six months until the judge caught her in a few lies and it was over for her at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 06:06 PM
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My ex wife sent me an apology text like 10 years after the divorce. It was so weird I looked for the angle she was playing for a solid month.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 01:32 PM
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“Equity” was what the judge said was the reason. It would be harder for her to get to the same level as I could on her own without and uneven division of assets. She requested a 70/30 split and the judge knocked that down saying that was too much…
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 03:46 PM
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No, I owned my own place and she had her own place.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 03:41 PM
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I bought a bigger house when we got married because my current house at the time wasn’t big enough for her and her two kids and me and my son. The 90-100k is the 60/40 split of that and the attorney fees I paid (roughly 30k) for the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 03:36 PM
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Washington state. I bought a bigger house when we got married because my current house at the time wasn’t big enough for her and her two kids and me and my son. The 90-100k is the 60/40 split of that and the attorney fees I paid (roughly 30k) for the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 03:34 PM
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Any ruling will be at least somewhat favorable because it will be over and done with either way lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 08:42 PM
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Divorce has been going on for 18 months, trial date is next Wednesday.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 08:30 PM
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I’m right there with you man. I was blind to the level of just how much of a not nice person she was. I was very disappointed in myself for being so gullible and believing what I was told simply because she was saying it. One month into the marriage and things went south pretty quickly.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 08:58 PM
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You see people all over in life who get married after just a few months. It’s stupid but nothing that you need a year or more to heal from. There are plenty of situations where people get married way before they should have and if they split the break isn’t exactly as devastating as someone married with kids for a long time. Stuff like that. Like I said, great advice for most.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/23 09:47 PM
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Situational shit is situational. Great advice for most, but I can see cases where this won’t be the case.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/23 03:57 AM
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Cool story bro.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 08:32 AM
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This was exactly what happened to me as well.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 06:12 PM
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Probably not in my lifetime. I see men continuing to be dross and canon fodder in modern society for the next 50 years.
/r/MensRights03/12/22 08:03 PM
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Automatic 50/50 is the assumed standard for all cases, no child support unless you can prove one parent is unfit or voluntarily gives up his parental responsibilities.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:55 PM
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The ideal relationship will look different for each couple based on their individual strengths and weaknesses, but one where both put in 100% effort.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:52 PM
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It’s a Chris Rock joke. Added the quotes, I thought most everyone new that one lol.
/r/MensRights19/11/22 05:51 AM
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“Statistically speaking men tell the most lies(i.e. you are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen), but women tell the biggest lies(i.e. it’s your baby).” -Chris Rock
/r/MensRights18/11/22 03:57 PM
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I don’t believe feminism, as it is practiced, seeks out egalitarianism whatsoever. I cannot name a single thing feminism has done to advance egalitarian views, can you? From what I have seen, feminism seeks to further the advancement of what feminist claim are women’s issues regardless of how detrimental or unfair the consequences are to their male counterparts. I am by no means anti-female, however from what I can tell feminism as it is practiced today in the U.S is anti-male.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:19 PM
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Most people I know don’t really approach this topic in a rights vs. privileges perspective but an egalitarianism approach. True equal, if you want X I should get X as well. Fair is fair.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:55 PM
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Family law in the U.S. isn’t based on law, i.e. if X action happens than Y is the consequence. It is solely based on a court officials personal discretion as he/she felt at that time. In a world where women are portrayed as a victim in all things, regardless of the situational facts in each individual case, this greatly influences a persons personal judgment at any given time.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 02:53 PM
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For my tastes: 1 - JP. Hands down does more to benefit human flourishing than either of the other two. You can tell he genuinely wants people to better themselves and by extension, the world around them. He tells you the hard truths you need to hear to get out of your own way in life. 2 - Shapiro. Very facts and logic based. Grounded in reality and argues for reality based end results. 3 - Walsh. I find his style pretty funny actually. Smart regular Joe kind of guy.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 03:08 AM
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I went thru the family court system and had my eyes opened.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:40 AM
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It sucks you are going thru this brother. My advice for what it’s worth as someone who’s been where you have, keep your head up and on straight. Men tend to voluntarily kill themselves in providing for women who don’t want them in these situations, don’t give everything you have to someone who is making her own choice to move on without you and have nothing left for yourself. It’s a cold and unforgiving world for men in the divorce process…if you don’t look out for you, no one will. We’re here t…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 03:51 PM
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My personal opinion, she is toying with your heart and soul because she knows she is done and will never give you what you want (that emotional connection) but is more than willing for you to give her what she wants (the security and stability she wants to continue with the life she is wants for herself). Your heart and how you feel isn’t even a part of her current calculations.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 03:33 PM
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This sounds pretty familiar in some ways. The part that I don’t understand, and likely never will, is the betrayal. To go from “till death do us part” to actively going out of your way to hurt someone you claimed to have loved. Even if I hated someone’s guts now, but loved a person once, I could never go out of my way to screw that person over.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/22 01:54 AM
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The only real thing you can do of actual significance is to stop voting for those who think leaving mentally ill and/or drug addicted people on the street is somehow more compassionate then putting them thru the help they need to not want to be on the street.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 07:28 PM
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That’s not an uncommon feeling brother. It will pass and you will be all the stronger for it. It sounds like you already know what you need to do. Now comes the part where you find the strength and courage to be the example for your son on what he should if he were in this position, because most likely he will be in this position at some point in his life and he needs to see you doing what needs to be done right now. We’re here for you to support you through this rough time.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 02:55 PM
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It sounds like you are leading one unhealthy life to avoid another unhealthy life. I was doing the same thing. Worked a lot more than I had to to avoid a abusive spouse. Most of the time I would simply watch Netflix in my office and not really work much just to avoid going home. Eventually a spark with ignite that powder keg. All you can do is either control when and how that explosion takes place and minimize damage to the extent possible, or let yourself be taken unaware and unprepared and spe…
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 12:03 PM
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Very similar situation as you but in reverse. Only I am on the mortgage but both on the title even though she doesn’t pay for shit. She still gets half the house even though it’s only a 6 month marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 04:09 AM
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I about lost it when I got to the comment that said, “That poor cat!”. Yeah, cause fuck the guy…no shits to give about him?
/r/MensRights23/09/22 09:46 PM
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Women, as a subgroup, are not our allies. Men as a subgroup are not allies. Judge individual people on their individual actions and stop putting entire populations into groups. On top of that, if “support” to you doesn’t include validating the pain some women have inflicted on some men and helping to direct that pain into healthy healing…I respectfully suggest you are doing support wrong.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 06:22 PM
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I can appreciate the entrepreneurial spirit, but this does seem in poor taste a bit. Please understand that you are coming to people paying tens, sometimes hundreds of thousands of dollars to go thru the (for men) dehumanizing process that is divorce/family court where the most hateful lies are told about you and your children are kept from you because of these lies simply to get a few extra thousand dollars from you. You are coming to these people and telling them that if they pay you money, yo…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 10:03 PM
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I can appreciate the entrepreneurial spirit, but this does seem in poor taste a bit. Please understand that you are coming to people paying tens, sometimes hundreds of thousands of dollars to go thru the (for men) dehumanizing process that is divorce/family court where the most hateful lies are told about you and your children are kept from you because of these lies simply to get a few extra thousand dollars from you. You are coming to these people and telling them that if they pay you money, yo…
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 10:03 PM
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From what I’ve seen, there isn’t any real anti woman men in here. Plenty of anti bullsht men though, it just so happens that there are a lot of women who also carry a lot of bullsht.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 06:15 PM
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You might be, but if we don’t stand for what we feel is right then the only thing we have left is wrong.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 04:18 PM
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So let me get this straight… Her: I’ve come to like you in more than a platonic way. You: I fell that I’ve grown to like you the same way that you’ve grown to like me, plus I think your pretty hot. Her: You think I’m hot? How dare you! I don’t like you any more! Sounds like you’re better of brother…🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/MensRights17/09/22 04:15 PM
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Of course it is and welcome. Most times all we as men need is someone to stand up and have the courage to acknowledge and tell the other side that the things men go thru is real, not something to belittle and just as impactful to them as the thing women go thru is to them.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 03:58 PM
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Sounds like Stockholm syndrome to me.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 09:02 PM
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It’s been over for a while, sorry brother. Better to take the bill by the horns and just file. Dragging this out will only tear your heart into more prices than it needs to be.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/22 12:11 AM
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Voting these days is almost never about who you are voting for. In my experience it’s mostly about who you are voting against. If political party A will make life worse for my children immediately when they take office and political party B will make it worse as well but it will take them 10 years to do so…people generally vote that way.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 01:01 PM
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Don’t let the stbx know, she can use that to limit time with your kids and make you go thru years of court ordered therapy and psych evaluations before you can get to hold your children again.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 11:40 PM
3

As a 6’ 205lb male when my then wife broke my foot in a drunken rage, I wholeheartedly was not believed by the entirety of the legal system.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:36 PM
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Love is a subjective term these days. To a lot of people of both sexes I’m sure the other doesn’t know how to “love” the way they define it. It’s too bad their definition is materialistic garbage and a “I’m in it only until I find something better?” mentality.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 05:28 PM
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I know I’ll get down voted into oblivion, but w/e. 1: Depending on how far along she is might be same as #3 or might be a tough shit situation, you fathered a child. It’s not the child’s fault that you nutted in a woman without thinking of the consequences of your actions. 2: Depends on how far along she is I’d say. Past the point where the kid can feel pain, the kid gets to live. It’s not the child’s fault you let some dude nut in you without thinking of the consequences of your actions. 3: Dep…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 03:23 PM
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I’d venture to say this is an issue in the way you interpret things. Some sort of comment about women doing some bullshit is not equivalent to saying every single woman ever born is evil and will 100% do some evil to any and every man. To be fair, generalized comments do no one any good. Men don’t like comments like that either, but if that’s something that will make you unsub over…ok. On top of that, if your fighting for mens rights ends at reading a Reddit sub…I hate to break it to you, but yo…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:36 PM
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I broke up with a woman a few months back after an argument when I was simply giving my opinion on something she did and her only response was, “That’s not healthy…that’s not healthy.” I kept asking what specifically is she saying is unhealthy and she said my opinion being different than hers but she couldn’t verbalize it more than that and left. I was done after that lol.
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:05 AM
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You don’t have to try to be the best person in the world, simply try to be better than the person you were yesterday. -Jordan Peterson Strength and honor brother.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/22 01:55 AM
1

My general rule, “Don’t do anything that will make you unable to see yourself in the mirror and like what you see.”
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 01:46 AM
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Get a temporary parenting plan in place ASAP that says she can’t just vanish with your kid.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 11:53 PM
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Some men: Yeah, I’m just gonna do my own thing. This women: vIoLeNt MiSoGiNy!!1!
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:17 AM
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No one is dismissing anyones perspective. When you respond to a poll asking your personal perspective, you are giving the perspective of your personal experience…not the experience of someone in another place in the world. Giving your perspective is not dismissing the perspective of someone you don’t know.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:05 PM
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There are nearly 8 billion people in the world, which means that there are nearly 8 billion different perceptions of the “world”. To the college kid who served prison time for what later came out as false rape allegations based off no evidence except the false testimony of a woman…in his world women have it way better than men. To the loving father who is fighting a family court system trying to ruin his good name with no evidence but a woman trying to get a few more percentage points of assets …
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:43 PM
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That’s not what you said though. You said that you think this sub was out of hand because men responded to a poll and indicated their opinion that women have it better than men in their experience and you have particular beef with this because their experiences leave out other women of the world who might not have it as good others elsewhere. News flash, people in China live in a completely different world than someone in Brazil…people in Australia live in a completely different world than those…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:16 PM
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So men get asked a question, give the response based their experiences and you are mad that their experiences aren’t the same as people in third world countries? What a surprise, first world populace’s will have different experiences than third world populace’s. /shocked
/r/MensRights31/07/22 05:57 PM
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Statistically speaking, men are more likely to be the primary provider in there households. To a lot of people, masks are associated with government demanding they loose their business, their job or in some other way make it much more difficult to fulfill that provider role. Is it any wonder why men are more likely to tell these governments to shove their masks up their…?
/r/MensRights23/07/22 03:21 PM
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I was at the grocery store yesterday and an elderly woman stops me and tells me that I should smile more because I have a pretty face. It took me a second to smile and politely say thank you because getting any sort of compliment is so utterly alien to a guy.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 05:08 PM
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Why, so they can complain that something is too heavy and demand I lift it for them?
/r/MensRights02/07/22 09:50 PM
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So the Biden administration is talking about federal travel vouchers to go get an abortion…but they also say man can get pregnant. What do you say boys, want to go to Hawaii to get an abortion vacation for a week?
/r/MensRights28/06/22 08:43 PM
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Depends on the situation. I went nearly a decade staying out of the dating scene after divorcing my sons mom. After my next relationship ended it was a few months before I felt ready.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/22 10:12 PM
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There is no legal recourse, as much as it hurts to hear it. The state of our society is that when a partner, particularly a female partner, fucks you over you are expected to sit there and thank her for it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/22 12:12 PM
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You forgot the most important part of that saying, “A good woman…”
/r/MensRights16/06/22 02:55 AM
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All women start out saying they want to do things amicably, but the second anything they want is in the table, (money, house, power over you, time with kids) they will stab you in the neck and laugh while they dance on your grave.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/22 12:59 PM
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If by forgiving you mean accepting that keeping abusive people in my life just because we share DNA does no one any good…then yes.
/r/MensRights24/05/22 05:24 AM
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Wa, state here as well. From what my attorney told me, there is no hard and fast rule for support but the general rule is 1 year of support for every 5 years of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/22 05:18 AM
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It’s been my experience that most women believe in true equality until they are in a position of, “If inequality benefits me even a little bit, then f*ck the other side.”
/r/MensRights18/05/22 11:56 PM
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I’m told in WA state the general rule is for every 5 years of marriage they get one year of spousal support.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 05:10 PM
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She said I was every kind of abusive under the sun pretty much. To her, to my kid, literally I was the scum of the earth and shouldn’t be around any kid let alone my own. Had CPS involved for 6 months to investigate and the whole nine yards. It wasn’t easy to do and I wouldn’t wish that experience on my worst enemy. The only thing that saved me really was the amount of pure BS she was throwing out eventually collapsed in on her and her story fell apart.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 04:40 AM
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I’m in WA and it took me 2 years and maybe 25k to get full custody. My ex wife made up a ton of stuff and I fought every single one and after years of court the judge caught her in one lie and then another and her whole story fell apart. It happens, but it’s rare and expensive.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/21 04:21 AM
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As someone going thru the worst of this process now, I have to humbly disagree. I understand your comment. “Get a lawyer” doesn’t make anyone feel good or ever better about the f*cked situation they are in and they desperately want and need to feel better. However, what will make them better in the long run is lawyering up and what that should do for them when everything is said and done. We don’t know the laws in their state nor can any of us offer actual advice that will help their personal si…
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 01:01 PM
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