cul·ti·vat·ed ˈkəltəˌvādəd/Valider adjective refined and well educated. "he was a remarkably cultivated and educated man" synonyms : cultured, educated, well read, civilized, enlightened, discerning, discriminating, refined, polished
Except that the term masseuse is almost always used in a sexual context. Massage therapist is the term used for professionals with actual massage licenses.