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| 1 | Why isn’t there a divorce hotline for men?Just a view. Not sure a hotline would work. Chat real time and postings perhaps divided in to specific threads with some experienced folks as well as the afflicted, maybe. Most don’t feel bad for a bear that missed getting an elk. Meaning for a long time in some ways men had and have more favor for pay, career, etc…. Feelings were not a valued trait, calm port in a storm laying the ground work for a recovery was the norm, in my stretch of woods. Things may be different to some extent but the han… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | After divorce, I lost more than my marriage—I lost my sense of self. I’ve spent years helping others through transformation, but rebuilding myself was something else entirely.Hello. People don’t do heavy, just too much to bear. Moving with a divorce now after 25 years and more time shared. For me a lot of the “help” was a word that held little meaning too many of them. Went to a therapist, she tried but in some ways needed more help than me and it was more waiting for me to talk than a conversation dance. My situation is a bit more complicated? Just meaning have had other crushing moments. Moments that I may have needed some more time on. I’m accountable for my actio… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Taking accountability for my actionsNot a professional. Seemed a fair start. The following is the path I tread. Marriage was not a young one, 25 years for a minute. Always running more than a single pass on what hurt for me and her. Little grace and time as to see things through her eyes anger can’t drape that. It’s there and has its place as it is. May find at times not exactly sure why the love failed, why you were not the best you could be, so I ask a question, why? When I get an answer I’m brutal with it and squint a bit. Hone… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 09:32 PM |
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