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Am a woman in my thirties. So how to get to make out in the nightscene? Find a girl you think is attractive If she is waiting for her drink or at dancing or talking with her friends, try to keep looking her into eyes (don't look her ass or tits when she is looking at you, be a gentleman, eyes are up there) . Look her in to her eyes for few seconds while smiling (don't forget to smile and also don't smile too hard), turn your head away, and after a while look again. Do this about 3 to 5 times, ma…
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:26 AM
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Am a woman and can tell you this; most girls won't want to have sex with you after clubbing together, no matter how attractive they think you are. And those who do will be more straightforward about it. Most women look for a steady relationship, that's why. They want to go on dates first, while sober, to get to know you first. It's actually really common sense for us women because men actually kill women like this every day...
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:07 AM
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Nowadays when guys and girls can definitely be just friends (in the past women and men were far more separated), women truly are quite bad sometimes telling if something is a date or not. That’s why it might be good in the future to start asking for a date with a more obvious line like "hey, I think you're really pretty, would you like to go X with me on Sunday" etc. It's better to say "pretty/cute/beautiful" rather than "cool/nice" etc, because cool and nice don't send us any romantic or sexual…
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:01 AM
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You're fucking pissed for not getting laid, could you truly be any more entitled or a man baby? You sound like a rapist and a wife beater and maybe she started sensing that, now let that sink in. Women. Don't. Own. You. Shit. Remember that.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:40 AM
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You absolutely can be super direct, but then you have to accept that most women will turn you down because you are not very special to them without any effort. Most people are not very special for each other without any effort. Even if you were gay, not all other gay men would be down with it with you. Also the courtship is what makes it fun in the longer run for both parties. Also having sex with a total stranger is high risk for us women - men kill women like this every day you see...
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:27 AM
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In Finland we can have a higher education, save that amount, and live away from our parents if we want to. It takes a lot of work but it's still doable. So I guess "I'm sorry Germany sucks more with this"? But kinda not sorry, that's what you get for burning Lapland /s. However, roommates are ok. It's not seen as disrespectful to have sex while roommates are home, as long as they don't have to hear you. Roommates are a thing that are ok until you turn 30... After that people really wish you woul…
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:21 AM
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"You sound like a real catch" tell me one good reason why anyone should want to take care of someone else's sick mom unless real love? You yourself sound like you miss half a brain when you use word "smash" for sex, what are you, 15?
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:12 AM
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Exactly. A man should know how to laugh at himself. My example is very bad, but no matter what happens, no matter how embarrassing, a man should act like Johnny Depp acted at court. He laughed. He didn't tremble. He didn't shout. There were embarrassing pictures of him, Heard tried to do him real dirty, but he laughed about mega pints and dog poop vs human poop on the bed etc. But Depp kept his cool. Even when she tried to make him look like a rapist.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:34 AM
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That's quite disgusting behavior and borderline sociopathic or whatever, of you. However you are not wrong. When I grief, I want to reproduct more than usual. Am a woman.
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:26 AM
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Another European, 33F here. The way you write about yourself somehow really pulled my heart strings. You seem like a sensitive guy; have you ever thought that perhaps you could have either hyper sensitivity or anxiety issues going on? I think you could really benefit from professional therapy, maybe just a few visits. Self help books, and things like pua are great too, but an actual therapist could pin point your issues and the roots to those, and help you actually overcome them. I went to thera…
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:20 AM
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33F here. You did the right thing by blocking her out of your life in every possible way; I'm really sorry you had to change your group of friends also. She didn't simply want to be with you enough, so your ultimatum was good, it gave you the answer you needed. The thing with feelings is this; you have to let the sad feeling come to you. Don't try to block it, don't try to escape it. It's part of being a healthy functional human being that men also need to cry sometimes. Time will help you heal.…
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:59 PM
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Yeah that's what feminism does to us women, it's just a sea of reproductive organs after that. Good because no-one can't stand that creepiness you've got going on.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:45 PM
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Feminist virgin, I love that as someone who is 33 years old and has swimmed in dicks and pussies... Your story didn't get any better tho.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:38 PM
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Repulsive indeed. Please tell us you are just trolling... Poor girl.
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:32 PM
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33F here. 10/10 women get nervous on dates because they are so used to the fact that people only value them for their looks. And use and abuse them because of their looks. That gets old really quickly. It's also a major reason why some 10/10 women at some point decide to gain weight and let themselves go; because they get too disappointed in society and how rotten it can be. For some who might be really sensitive and shy (yes imagine, these personality traits actually don't have anything to do w…
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:26 PM
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About no. 5, as a woman... Please don't take so much space in a public transport. You don’t need to manspread in anywhere but especially not next to us women when we are trying to sit comfortably in a bus, train etc. Thanks!
/r/seduction19/08/22 11:05 PM
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F33 here; please make sure your toilet is clean! That's usually the dirtiest place if there is a dirty place in a single guy's home, and a dirty toilet might be the deal braker for many girls. Also please have clean towels in the toilet for her to wipe her hands, and a soap, you wouldn't believe what I have encountered... Of course clean sheets. Vacuum/mop dust away from the floors. If you guys will eat or drink anything, make sure your kitchen area looks clean and hygienic. Take the trashes out…
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:56 PM
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For example, all kids in my family left home when we turned 17. And it's not that our parents pushed us away, just that we WANTED to have our own lives. Everyone else were doing the same thing, moving in their own little rental apartments. I had a boyfriend who I moved in with at that age, we wanted to host our own home parties for our friends, travel in Europe etc.
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:28 PM
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I'm 33, from Finland, Northern Europe. In here guys over, I would say 22 years old (so past their army age I would say), living with their mothers/parents are seen as something very strange. And no girl would enjoy having sex under the same roof with the guy's parents, it's really... bizarre, and disrespectful, in here. Of course teenagers might and will do it, because they don't have much options, but adults... Nope. Yikes. Usually people in Finland move under their parent's roof quite early, a…
/r/seduction19/08/22 10:20 PM
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I can't even understand anything you are trying to say, but I can definitely say that there is absolutely nothing toxic about monogamous relationship, quite the contrary. I have never met a guy who would have to crawl or cry for their girl's attention, so I don't know if that happened to you or someone you know, but that's not normal.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:48 PM
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33F, bi, here. I guess since you use a hello kitty shirt, you can't be very old... But I guess youngsters need advice just as much. If she laughs at your jokes and compliments your clothes, that's a great sign - of friendliness, I mean. Maybe she wants to be your friend. You have to be ready to face refusal on her end if you are going to play this game, because unfortunately most women are not bi/lesbian. However, as teenagers and early 20's, quite many women are surprisingly open minded to try …
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:34 PM
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What country is she from? If she is from Asia or some other "shy" culture, then you might put her in a difficult spot.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:15 PM
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Are you still a teenager? You definitely sound very immature. You are roo reactive and too obsessive. I see red flags everywhere, you really need to grow as a person.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:11 PM
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When you meet new people, never underestimate what those people can offer into your life. Even if that person isn't into you, one day you might meet their friend, sister, cousin I don't care, who you will form something meaningful with. In your case a sexual relationship I guess. New people can always equal to more new people in your life.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:07 PM
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Because us women don't want to have sex with you at your place if we have to coexist with your mom there all the time. It's cute if the man takes care of their mum, but let's face it, in 99% of the time, that's not the case. Also we don't want to take care of your sick mom for years and years unless we TRULY love you.
/r/seduction19/08/22 07:01 PM
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This is a question a man should ask from a woman. Not from another man. But anyway. I wonder if "game" includes a man's sense of humor and his wittines. Also it would be great if a guy would know as much about a woman's body (how periods work, why it's important to wash your hands and keep your fingernails short, where is the clit, where is the g spot, how long it takes for a woman to get aroused before it's ok to penetrate etc), feminism (the real kind, not the man hating kind) etc. Also added …
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:56 PM
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I'm a woman and wow, this has to be the smartest opening I've yet encountered here. Kudos, my man, you know what's up!
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:48 PM
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Women, are all unique personalities. When talking to one single woman, it's best to stop this kind of "strategic war thinking" and just meet us as another human being. Sincerely, a woman.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:45 PM
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Exactly. You should show your fun and witty side, keep the conversation going with something interesting, nothing else. The woman is testing do you have wit, sense of humor and original thoughts.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:42 PM
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Meh, I guess this was trying to show humor, but it makes you sound too cocky and like women care more about your wealth than personality. Yawn. Next.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:39 PM
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Spot on. As a woman, this type of behavior is the worst and I can tell you that all women think the same about this. We. Do. Not. Owe. You. Shit. So if you, a total stranger, want to stop our day, it's better be because you are exceptional somehow.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:37 PM
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Absolutely not the case. Am a woman and can tell you that if a woman asks you this, she wants you to show her that you’re 1) funny (being funny makes us open our legs much faster than anything else) and 2) witty (being witty makes us want to make babies with you because then we can trust you won't end up at the Darwin awards....)
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:32 PM
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And the only right answer to such a question from a woman is something funny and witty. None of this "ooh aah let's play mind games". Nah. Show you have a sense of humor and one original thought in your mind and you will have pussy lined up for you the rest of your life even if you looked like Shrek.
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:28 PM
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Am F33 and can tell you that your answer is both passive-aggressive (meaning you're a man child if you get angry/hurt over something so little and that makes a woman's clit go hide like yikes....) and shows you have zero imagination. Boring, next!
/r/seduction19/08/22 06:26 PM
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Okay, I'm bi 33F from Europe and experienced both on long term relationships, long distance relationships and also many years of being single and living that wild single 20 years old's life I guess. With men and women. Currently engaged. I don't know if any of that matters to you, but young man, I hope you listen to me well; 1) You're a virgin. I don't know your age but I guess you have to be quite much younger than myself. But you're a virgin. That's why you should NOT focus on getting laid by …
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:40 PM
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