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Yes, I have spoken to a lawyer here to understand the divorce laws and process in the country where I live. The law here is actually relatively simple compared to other jurisdictions, although the process could take a year or more. There appears to be less room for getting financially divorce raped here than where I’m originally from. But for me the issue is the kids whom I want in my life. Although it just occurred to me that there might also be some sunk cost fallacy going on under the surface…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/19 04:04 AM
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Yes, I have parked any decisions about what to do with her until I am over the anger phase and in a mentally better place. Resolving the anger will likely be the centerpiece of my 2nd OYS, which I hope will show considerably more maturity than my 1st. Thanks for the link. I am quite a bit less proud of ‘standing up’ to her now. Perhaps the game of fighting with her is similar to the game of pleasing her, the only way to win is not to play.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/19 12:37 PM
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Thanks for sharing. Yes I will keep up the OYS. I am so glad I finally put myself out there and posted. It’s strangely exhilarating to be slapped across the face with the truth about oneself, no matter how ugly it is. I had somehow convinced myself that I had reached the final stage of grief: acceptance. But no, I am still burning inside and my post made that painfully obvious. It’s a funny thing how it takes internet strangers who don’t, and shouldn’t, give a damn about me to start setting me s…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 01:16 AM
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Yes, good question about what I am actually accomplishing by punching back. I think what may be happening is that when, instead of wimpy DEERing for so long, I finally show a little backbone by fighting back, there seems to be a little uptick in her level of respect / affection. Maybe her need for hugs at the end each time has given me the misperception I am somehow doing the right thing, when really it’s not the right thing, and unproductive too. I need to go back and internalize WISNIFG better…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 07:10 PM
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I suppose the idea here was some sort of open relationship. But imagine that's not even remotely feasible as long as I am still in full on anger mode. You are right, it is no way to live.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 06:57 PM
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Yes. It’s about her and my anger. I didn’t see it (maybe just didn’t want to see it) but now that almost all replies here are pointing this out, I cannot unsee it. It’s amazing how big one’s blind spots can be at times. Must find a way out of the anger phase.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 06:33 PM
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I just read your story post twice through. Act 1 is my life the past few years. And, further down, this resonated in particular: “So many guys are trying to use TRP to outwit, outplay, outlast (thanks survivor) their wife.” That is exactly what I am trying to do. I am still so deep in the anger phase that its all about revenge. So I am rightfully getting called out on it here. I didn’t see it, but now I do, plain as day. So the cringing is already beginning. It’s humbling, in a good way. The mat…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 06:16 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to point this out. You are right, I am still hurt and angry. This is going to be a long journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 04:36 PM
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I think you have pointed out a blind spot of mine, which is why I am here. So thank you. There should be no pride here. I let pride seep in because, compared to the pathetic DEERing I used to do, actually fighting back on occasion is a massive improvement. But, no, that’s nothing to be proud of. So what are you saying? When she starts letting me have it, must it always be STFU? Should I never fight back in a calm and directed manner? When she recites (again) the litany of all my past sins, I can…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 04:07 PM
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...continued from above Sex: Until end of last year, sex life was actually pretty good. Lots of BDSM, whips, spanking, vibrators, the works. She was naughty, dominated and loving it. Then along came Chad. Nowadays, it’s just starfish once or twice a month. For better or worse, I stopped initiating sex. The physical reason is that she has gained weight again after having lost a lot last year, so I am just less attracted. The more important tactical reason is that I want her hamster to see that I …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 02:17 PM
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OYS #1. Virgin post here. I chose this reddit username because I learned this year that Desdemona, paragon of womanly virtue and fidelity, simply does not exist. My darling wife administered that lesson to me this year with all the delicacy of a sledgehammer. What she doesn’t know is that, at the center of the shit sandwich she served up, I discovered a shiny red pill. It was bitter little fucker to swallow, but down it went. And so here I am. The OYS journey begins. Me 46, her 41. She is my 2nd…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 02:06 PM
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