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| 3 | 24yr Marriage was bad, I had an affair, decided to separate, told her last week, and now she is fighting to save the marriage.Sounds like you married a closet narcissistic woman. She may not even know the damage shes done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/26 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Single dad of two, divorced, and I feel guilty and miss them - but I don’t miss her.I am Divorcing a bipolar woman after 15 years. The kids are the victims. Its unfortunate but out of your control. The state makes bad decisions for you. Love them while you can. Rebuild your life. After 18 years old they will make their own decisions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/26 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Seek AdviceDocument the ongoing affair thoroughly and clean her out financially. She would do it to you in a heartbeat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/26 11:05 PM |
| 8 | The urge to comfort herYes most women believe they are going to get fees paid and the lawyers do a good job fanning the flames so it escalates for more fees. Its a self filling economy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/26 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Update since moving and started datingAre you sending messages on Tinder or just swiping? Ive looked at that app and wondered if that's where the cost really is. Sounds worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Update since moving and started datingDid you use an app to line these up or in the wild? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 04:44 PM |
| 10 | For the stay at home dads that bring in zero income, how did you make it when you got divorced?Get a better attorney that secures alimony, child support, spousal support. Women get it from men who are providers all the time. When tables are turned it should be fair. However realize they will attach a potential salary number to you expecting you to go back to the workforce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 01:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with it?If it was that easy for her to go out and cheat then that other guy has been around for some time or shes been lying to you. Pushing you to your limit so you get upset is not healthy relationship tact, women should care more about men's emotions and their impact otherwise its just selfish to think we absorb everything without reaction. Of course men have to own what they say in those moments but either way you arent alone I don't know many men that can simply absorb every bit of chaos and not ev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/26 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Ex wife has twisted dubbel standardsLeaving a marriage without rules for the children is a mistake that might be hard to recover from. Typically parenting plans prevent this kind of story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Bankruptcy with divorceLet go of the physical and focus on starting over. Sell the house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 06:13 PM |
| 1 | My (24f) wife asked me (25m) for a divorce.If the paperwork isn't filed yet, then theres room for someone to put their ego down and hear the other person completely without excuses. Its often not going to be the woman.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I can't take this anymoreShe will manipulate you until you get into a position you cannot recover from. Get out of the situation quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | In a sexless marriageHow did you end up married to someone you were not attracted to? If you werent attracted to her.. why are you complaining about the situation you put yourself in? If you are the bread winner in this situation you need to seriously think about getting out early. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | You find out who she really is when you're getting divorcedThe modern social contract is broken if your a male providing for the family, the woman can mistreat you to any degree and still take winnings home in divorce. You should not be surprised at any behavior you see. I am shocked with more of these stories circulating that any male who is a provider wants to risk his life on a government marriage contract. No one fcks like the government. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 02:40 PM |
| 2 | The women I want do not want me, even though I am the man they seek"AM married" and "was married" are different. Maybe you need to be more clear about the stage you are in? And really in today's society few 20s women are really ready for stability. Social media has ruined a majority. So be open and realistic about the current day and age for yourself and for your audience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Struggling during separationGet a good lawyer and your share of alimony and assets. Cheating doesnt help her case. Any woman can get a TPO on a man these days by crying and exaggerating. But stop violating it, she doesnt love you and has moved on. Dont give her more ammunition. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Processing the anger of mixed signals, post-separation intimacy, and other menJust keep in mind she put your health at risk and your feelings in the backseat with other men, that tells you all you need to know about her. Move on quickly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/26 02:13 PM |
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