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Apps can be annoying, but you have to treat it like marketing. Spend money and time with a professional photographer and tell them you want to look good for online dating with "natural" pics. Spend time updating your wardrobe, not with expensive name brands, but more like different fits and styles for example I have 2 interview ready business casual fits. You want to have different fits ie no shorts and wifebeater, so you have options on how you want to convey yourself. Text/online work by leavi…
/r/seduction24/05/25 03:57 PM
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This is not a one size fits all solution You didn't set anything firm with 1. Aka ask for the sale. In what you posted, you did not give date or time for a meet. Different strategy with 2, you guys vibed, so you kinda want to "check in/refresh" every now and then while you are away. It's not about oh I'm not there so whatever, but it shows that you have more going on than only wanting to get in her pants, even if that is your only goal. Think of conversation with someone like her as something yo…
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:18 AM
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Think girl 1 was reaching out because she's in your area? Did you set something up to meet in person? I agree, you say too much over text and you want to be like let's connect over at the museum or record store, then ask her questions in person like what is so different about city life Edit: girl 2, timing happens. She was in the moment with you in the initial conversation. Do solid plans instead of loose "We will hangout sometime". You did message when you were in the area, silence after a day …
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:16 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it. Next time talk to them separately, build rapport one on one, then transition into mff talk
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:32 AM
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That is a way to do it and the site is for alternative stuff You should expect flakes and ghosting
/r/seduction31/03/25 04:02 AM
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Have you met either one in person for feeld activities? Suggest next time to get something going with one, then together talk with the other They might be talking just to be more comfortable with each other
/r/seduction31/03/25 03:54 AM
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I added an edit to my initial statement Yes you are young and don't sleep but some of you sleep 12 hours. You have to "respect" her time and not force off peak, 2am-5am conversation unless you two are both confirmed night owls What does matter, regardless of age, is to not smother/overtext Right now it's the weekend and let's assume she's sleeps 12 hours. You might hear from her between now and Monday. If you don't, then you don't.
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:23 PM
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Days If you don't hear from her in a week, she's gone Edit: you should find something else to do. It does not look or sound good to wait 2 hours to hear back. You also are over invested and should mentally take a step back, that is why you dropped an awkward statement. Take this as a lesson to respect yourself and others. You pushed her to talk 2am-5am and spent 30 minutes per reply, that is a very slow, early or late conversation. I wouldn't reach out. Let her reply back
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:08 PM
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This is a way to enhance communication while getting an idea of things she is and isn't into. The other benefit is that you two are strengthening your "bond", so she feels comfortable with trying something different with you in the future Bing yes, no, maybe list and pick one. Scheduling makes it a contained and structured conversation so you have a clear goal of maybe 10-30 minutes to talk about some of the list, and move on to normal hang or whatever you do
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:38 AM
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Are you willing to try MMF? There are different levels to a threesome. She might not want to touch the other woman. The best way to go forward would be to print and fill out a sex yes, no, maybe list and talk about maybe 4 or 5 results once a week on a date and time you both agree on. You want to show that this is a team effort. Don't ask about threesome for a while.
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:19 AM
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Part of going out is trying different times to meet different people You also don't have to stay out long on weekdays and you can maximize effort by moving to different places for vibe check
/r/seduction06/03/25 12:15 PM
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Don't over do it. Keep communication at the level you had before the function I feel like fwb naturally happens if you stay good at sex and spend time at hangouts You two take turns initiating hangs?
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:53 PM
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White castle reservation with table-side service
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:01 PM
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No clue on what you are looking for with this Now this is where you say whatever that isn't desperate or giving her more attention. She laughed so ok I guess. I would assume she's being truthful and you are right, logically speaking. With her, if the date was going bad, she gave you an out. If the date was ok, then say whatever comes across as a slow clap You weren't rejected, you didn't mesh and ghosting happens. If you wanted to keep it going you would match energy ish Edit: changed answer to …
/r/seduction30/01/25 02:29 AM
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If she cared about money, she would be with someone who makes more She's with you for more than money, plus you have a kid together, so now you are a loving family A card is enough if it contains well thought out words from you, fill the entire card. Is she into chocolate? Spend money together on fine chocolate and wine tasting. You know yourself. Don't ruin the trip by being out of character, aka a drunk or drug ass or angry. Be lovingly annoying with capturing the moment by having a camera rea…
/r/seduction28/01/25 05:59 PM
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For real. You can go hibachi chef or cooking class. I would go cooking class because op isn't really giving us anything to go Edit: make her cook with you, tell her address you with yes chef no chef. Enjoy your meal. Rate her suis chefness. So her open ended questions away from cooking but avoid serious violations aka politics, religion, breakups. Get work info, listen but don't talk shit to can't handle getting out at work. Watch The Bear, sit next to her, chill Don't tell anyone at work anythi…
/r/seduction27/01/25 01:48 AM
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That kinda makes it worse because now it seems like you have never given a compliment Practice it today. Call or text 1 compliment.
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:24 PM
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Gg on keeping the convo going and getting contact details I'm not being rude but instead of asking if she wants to go on a date someday sometime future plans fantasy land, have a concise idea of what you want to do for a date and ask her to meet at a day and time that works for you If the day and time doesn't work for her and she is interested, have a communication exchange where you nail down a time and date that works for you both Also have a flake plan
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:30 PM
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Good questions. As I mentioned I am meeting these women via OLD. Because of this I prefer to keep the initial meet potentially brief in the event I (or she) isn’t feeling it or isn’t looking like their pics. I wouldn't call these dates. These are meetings and interviews based on your choice of topics discussed. In either situation I intentionally select seating that is next to each other (like at the bar) so there is no physical object between us making it much more natural to initiate casual to…
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:39 PM
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Do you hangout with other people around? Give everyone else attention and affection, have her come to you You are giving her what no one else does which is why she comes back. She likes the attention and feels like she's losing you when you don't talk. In fact hit her with this. Next time you ask her out in a couple of days or for the weekend or whatever, be specific with it then be like oh wait, never mind I forgot I had plans
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:20 AM
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So the way to work this is to stay consistent while emotionally detaching now from the end result Reread your post. She drives to your place to talk, which is a good thing. Keep up the communication, asking her out less than you do, act disinterested and she comes back. This is someone you can't be direct with. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Talk to her and other people but stay consistent with what you are doing minus frustration because she has weird pacing
/r/seduction18/01/25 12:06 AM
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Gas money up front so you can enjoy the rest of your time doing whatever I mean hello hug kiss hi first, then here (give money for gas with a smile), then date or chill because she drove an hour to see you. Or if you are hungup over $20, drive to her
/r/seduction16/01/25 05:18 PM
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Might be too late but where are you going on the date? You could go somewhere fun like Chuck E. Cheese, Dave and busters, or the mall
/r/seduction11/01/25 09:52 PM
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You realize women have eyes and want eye candy? Fitted clothing shows you off because it accentuates your body. If you want online proof compare The Buckle jeans to basic Old Navy. The Buckle makes jeans that make your ass pop. You might not like the feel of having your ass pop but women will take notice of your juicy delicious ass and that is always a positive
/r/seduction11/01/25 05:57 PM
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I think that you are overthinking this a little. She's a stranger Creep territory is grabbing tit, not giving her space, following her around the dance floor when she isn't interested How long did you talk? What did you talk about? When they say they have partner, you do have the option to keep the conversation going because the partner could be imaginary
/r/seduction07/01/25 11:44 AM
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Borrow their talking points and fake it till you make it. To us non-casino people you all look and act alike I personally would make friends with cocktail waitresses because they are nice to look at and might have fun stories you can borrow too
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:33 PM
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I thought I had it bad when I worked sales at a tire shop. I can't imagine having a camera on you 24/7. You can talk, flirt, and ask open-ended questions directly Are you allowed to meet "guests" at casino restaurant or bar? Are you allowed to openly suggest other area activities like museum or coffee shops? You want to research indications of interest and body language. Get good with people watching. Get good with nonchalantly asking people where they are from and what's next because you want t…
/r/seduction06/01/25 02:39 PM
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Suggestive eye contact and smile that appears when you see them Are you allowed to take or give business cards? That might be an ok way to give or receive details while staying ready to deal cards Edit: flirt with the entire group, flirt with them each time they come to your table, don't do too much to cross into creep territory. You are happy to take their money for work and happy to meet after
/r/seduction06/01/25 12:44 AM
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You can talk yourself out of a hang, so text less because you are "busy" Chill, slow communication, make a hang date, be comfortable, make sure she's comfortable, ask her to sit next to you while vibing etc After, text some, don't blow her off because it could lead to more non-serious fun hang with you, her, a friend Edit: Good job at getting to this point. Good job at making plans and talking to her. I agree that initially you had to talk more, at this point it's ok to delay your replies becaus…
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:16 PM
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Treat it like a ring on ring finger It could be decorative or for commitment
/r/seduction03/01/25 05:34 PM
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Skiing is a good date idea Frequent the lodge and people watch. If you are at a touristy place ask random women about their technique and how long they ski, snowboard, ice skate Work is hit or miss with networking. I use that as an example because I met a contractor who cleaned windows and dated his daughters. Everytime you go outside, use that opportunity to learn something new about a stranger
/r/seduction31/12/24 10:05 PM
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My advice on first one is that you can't always trust your friends. She might not be hot to him and he might have poor taste Having verbal spats, not agreeing isn't end all be all, and I think you let that cloud your judgment. She was interested the moment she mentioned getting a room aka leaving this area for together alone time. Third. Think back. Did you control the direction of every conversation? Did you learn anything about her? Did you flirt or she flirt with you? Best advice I can give i…
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:50 PM
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Getting fit isn't about muscles, it's about being physically fit for sex among other benefits My advice stands. You want to meet people who aren't mid, do things that aren't mid Edit: the jogging club thing or it could be any coed activity, is a way to meet people while doing physical activity. It benefits social and physical fitness. I'm not saying to get fit aka be ripped, but I am saying find hobbies or non-club activities that will put you around different women in different situations. Best…
/r/seduction31/12/24 09:11 PM
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I would work on expanding/developing a social circle Look for things to do on eventbrite Ask your colleagues their plans for the week/weekend because you are new and want to learn about the area. Do not hit on them Start your journey with fitness. Can be you walking in a local walk or jog group, find those. Go to a wine and paint thing on Groupon and take it seriously because that would be funny Why or what happened with not losing virginity? Knowing that will lead to better advice
/r/seduction31/12/24 08:28 PM
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Bar- I like the idea of you walking, not running, up to him and giving a longer than what you give your girlfriends kind of hug. New Years is a marathon not a race so share a couple appetizers, buy him a drink, let him buy you one "Bust balls" or "banter" couple of times when the conversation is going well because throwing jokes/curveballs keeps it interesting and you won't be too drunk at this point to go too far. Before party, in transit, you could say something like meet me at blank after we …
/r/seduction31/12/24 02:55 AM
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Be patient and leave anxiety at home. Part of seduction is being present in the moment. Sounds weird, but if you really like him, you should wait on showing 100% interest. Bring it down to 55-60%. You probably should do 2 drink max or don't if you can't handle drinks What qualities do you like about him? Maybe compliment one of those with eye contact* once or twice an hour in. Spread escalation out of if you are hanging out for a long night with friends? If it's just you two at his or your place…
/r/seduction31/12/24 02:36 AM
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Specific day. It makes you come across purposeful with your date intentions vs hey I'm free whenever you are Edit: specific date then discuss other option if she says that exact day doesn't work. Her being interested sounds like that day doesn't work but this day or time does
/r/seduction29/12/24 07:19 PM
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You can learn from these people and their experience in the service industry Seduction in their profession is used to make money
/r/seduction28/12/24 05:54 PM
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Practice by reading emotions A master seducer reads that through body language and experience You want practice? Start with people you see, randos on a daily basis and pick them up emotionally. You see someone having a bad day, you figure out what it is and make their day better within reason and in the moment, nonsexually.
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:52 AM
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Stay in touch though because it is the holidays and she could be busy with family or friends
/r/seduction23/12/24 04:36 AM
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I would also get a room at an ok place just in case she wants to hangout more after hours. She could invite you over but you don't want to assume. I also wouldn't volunteer that info until it is closer to end of night decision making. Google, Bing, and TripAdvisor and reddit the area so you know places to avoid
/r/seduction22/12/24 04:15 PM
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Need to make the post long enough to avoid mod bot deletion You crispy
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:40 AM
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Like house elves can be freed, why not owls?
/r/seduction16/12/24 11:38 PM
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Cool. I say friends assuming you have platonic women friends. If you don't have any, convert one. Online dating is frustrating because it is basically sports betting with less fucking. I think you have to put more effort due to you being rural, but let that be your strength. You hike, no fish or hunting pics, have outdoor hobbies, life of the party, down to earth all should be conveyed through your profile pics from the best angles
/r/seduction15/12/24 04:07 PM
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Only issue I have is with the blatant business model. Online dating takes time because 50% of profiles on certain apps are fake, old unused not deleted, or data miners. On tinder or similar, you can leave it up and adjust/curate around certain times like afternoon or Thursday into Friday. On the ones you pay for like match, you have to have a plan on how long you want to pay for a chance to meet someone. 1 month is frustrating and keep it up. At this level you are marketing yourself. Ask friends…
/r/seduction15/12/24 03:56 PM
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Now, let's explore the opposite question. What has he done for you lately?
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:09 PM
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Any
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:04 PM
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What have you done for him lately?
/r/seduction13/12/24 01:03 PM
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Op, you kinda messed-up when you didn't give her a straight answer for your birthday and tried to match her energy. Her doing naked jumping jacks was a sign of submission to you. You got too comfortable, happens, and stopped being mysterious and dominant. Want her gone? be clingy, text her too much, make her break up with you Or Want her to stay? Only this time, you "match" her energy by arguing with her, yelling, get in her face about the roommate or something she did or did not do. Do not say …
/r/seduction11/12/24 06:08 AM
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Be funny, smile some, and be a smart-ass to the ones you like Ask the same open-ended question to everyone you meet and get a different answer. You can straight up flirt when dude/dudette brings in someone hot, be like you lucky, how'd you two meet. Watch my favorite comedian Big Jay Oakerson and channel his crowd work energy You can practice pickup and text game If it's Buc-ee's you won't have time Don't give girls free shit
/r/seduction11/12/24 01:45 AM
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I second this... most soaps, lotions, and even stuff at bath and body works labeled men's fragrance smells like shit to be honest For showering, I use whatever smells good which isn't whiskey or leather. No one complains. I switch deodorant from degree to secret, depending on what's at Costco Cologne is different. My fragrances are Guess Seductive Homme and Burberry Brit I don't understand why OP is being this way when there are plenty of people who put no effort in themselves or the way they sm…
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:50 PM
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My experience was that I met with an apartment leasing agent, while I was in that field at the time. We hungout at one of her apartments and then went to a bar with her and a friend. She mentioned the dude couple times, whatever. So I went to her place, hungout with her and the kid because nothing wrong with single moms. Next morning, guess who is chilling in the room, the weirdly on again off again ex. Nothing happened because he invited himself in for something then left, but that's the bs you…
/r/seduction08/12/24 08:39 PM
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I would take this as at least she is warning you. Dude might be crazy and stalking her, always asking her inappropriate questions about who she is with when they aren't together. She's interested but I would not show too much interest until you learn more about her situation. She's not weird, she's interested in you if you guys are talking more Depends on how you ask and when, I would want to know if they are for sure done or playing games like going back and forth on being together or not Bet t…
/r/seduction08/12/24 03:50 PM
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Good looking out Just downloaded eventbrite and found a couple things to do
/r/seduction07/12/24 04:01 PM
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Good job on everything from the beginning and middle Don't ask if she has a girlfriend or boyfriend or relationship status. She will volunteer that. You want to transition into "fake time constraint" like hey I have class, let's chat on xyz or insta or app or number Even if it's you going to another room or different library area to talk to a new person, you don't want to linger because you "know your way around social situations" The "" is where you practice or fake it till you make it Edit: my…
/r/seduction06/12/24 03:25 PM
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Phone, tablet, apps you pay for
/r/seduction30/11/24 03:36 AM
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You are already doing a social activity. Start talking to your salsa ladies more. Think about it this way, you need a base of operations to practice salsa, you took up salsa. Convert salsa into conversation at the beginning, during breaks, and at the end. Bring open-ended questions that you can ask and address the few that are around at the moment. You could even start with a you have to show me how to do that sometime, near the end of the session, what are we doing after? You can be vague about…
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:36 PM
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You have to consciously tell yourself to not compare yourself to your friends because you don't really know the quality of interactions they have What are you looking for? Do you have a vague or specific idea of what you want to attract? Define weird. Are you bad at showing disinterest that you go weird or do you think it is weird when you open up Edit: my opinion only, congratulations on the job. You make money which is great. You wear the best fashion which is great ish. I think you need to ta…
/r/seduction23/11/24 05:30 PM
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That part I'm not good at, but the overall goal is to meet in person Holidays are a decent excuse to go shopping or holiday stuff I wouldn't worry too much about the initial message, but I wouldn't ask anything about how life is going. Do you have an inside joke or something?
/r/seduction19/11/24 03:12 PM
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What were you planning on doing? Are you going to say I like you and that's it? Because you don't keep in touch outside of holidays and stalk the social media, treat her the way you would a stranger You don't "know" her so work on turning the parasocial relationship to a social one. If you live in the same area start making plans like me and friends or me and maybe mutual friend are going to do this or that and you should come with Edit: avoid coming on strong and oversharing everything which ca…
/r/seduction19/11/24 02:19 PM
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There are wrong ways, and there are many different good ways to do it, not only one right way. I think you should do things to stick out like "holding court" ie come across interesting if you eat with coworkers. If you are in line, chat them up about what they do, come across as interested but not over eager in small talk. Come across not sexist regarding their work or position in the field. You can always leave to go back to work which gives you a nice time constraint so you can say things like…
/r/seduction19/11/24 12:00 PM
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Read the room aka peep the Facebook/insta and assess her life situation. Is she happily married with kids? Is she only into dating women? Does she have an abusive bf that is looking for a reason to kill her and you? Tldr need more info and don't even know how often you keep in touch
/r/seduction19/11/24 11:48 AM
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I think you should be fine going in with a positive outlook. You could have fun with her. I think you should bring a friend so you know someone and have someone to talk to if things are quiet between you, someone you trust that is generally fun or like a group since this is a group date. I think you are overthinking jealousy. Have an exit plan you can follow in case she is boring or her friends are not great because friends are a reflection of yourself. Do come prepared with open questions for t…
/r/seduction17/11/24 01:04 PM
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Change what you said to improve your way of thinking You lost today the opportunity to seek a relationship with Person 1 Just because you lost today doesn't mean you stop everything. This doesn't mean you give up on finances and go broke. This does not mean you swear off self-improvement. This does not mean all of them are trash. This only means that with Person 1, you lose the opportunity to seek a relationship
/r/seduction09/11/24 12:42 PM
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What did you do for day game? What did you do for cold approaching?
/r/seduction05/07/24 11:40 PM
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That and need to know if op is building rapport/displaying value or after 3 comments is like hey stranger let's go somewhere
/r/seduction05/07/24 04:12 AM
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Only thing I would do is follow-up in a way before they flake Like when you meet in person or share pics, ask them what they do and don't like about your profile or pics Not everytime but pepper it in because you should ABC, always be curating
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:27 AM
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Not really bad for 2 months You should give the breakdown in numbers like how many dates, flakes, initial message replies, how many messaged you first etc
/r/seduction04/07/24 11:53 PM
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On the right person, with space for them to talk, could work Edit: I know you are being funny but the beginning was great.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:50 PM
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Wear a conversation starter like a necklace or scarf that doesn't match but is bright color whatever. Have a story prepared when asked. You won it at a fall festival or person that matters gave it to you. You found it while backpacking across Europe and it reminds you of simpler times. Edit: practice wearing the peacock piece, don't physically draw attention or bring it up, and when it is brought up in conversation, only give it maybe 1-2 responses then move on to something else
/r/seduction18/04/24 06:27 PM
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For most it could be an hour and a half away, but because of the level of flake experienced in dating today, I wouldn't unless they are willing to come to you or meet halfway.
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:35 PM
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What part is incel? Edit: I saw incel and immediately thought this was pointed at me. You are talking about op now that i read past the first paragraph.
/r/seduction08/02/24 11:35 PM
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Looks play a part in seduction unless they can't see you, then it's more about how you are perceived. Changing your style, clothes, or physique is one aspect of seduction. Study your target. You can change or phase shift as much as you want. My example is brunette church girls. I can not get enough. I have a problem. I talk medium shit and curse like a 3rd grader around friends while wearing shorts or t shirt, looking and feeling average. When I feel like going to church to be the new guy or mee…
/r/seduction08/02/24 05:00 PM
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For real They nerfed our guy for matching too well
/r/seduction15/11/23 07:06 PM
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