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| 41 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex? | Other_Taro_3806 | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 12:54 PM |
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| 1 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Did you just called properly taking care of your child and prioritizing their future a “unnecessary mental load” ? Honestly, please, don’t have kids. For the sake of your unborn children, literally don’t, you’ll fail them. Idk how you describe perfect parenting and then called it unnecessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 02:11 AM |
| – | Do women actually care if a guy is under 6 feet?No, my bf is 5’8 or 5’9 idk. One of those. Anyways can’t be with someone too tall because it does not work in bed well for me. Physically, what matters more to me is if he can toss me like a salad, but with a layer of fat over it. Yea gimme that babyyyyy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicYea for some reason I don’t believe you, especially if it’s something taken out of context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicYea but you’re letting a poll and a few comments control yours to the point you’re using it as genuine evidence and a topic of a debate….like genuinely that’s why I’m saying reevaluate yourself. I’m just pointing it out as a concern. You’re not here to ask for help. You’re here for a debate and I’m treating it as such. However if you need help, it’s a different story and there’s plenty of subreddits dedicated to men’s support- that even I’m on if you need recommendations or even someone genuine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicOkay, so I’m not sure if I need to tell you this but that’s literally not how you run studies. At all. And you need a thorough methodology on top of that. Not just a poll. If anything, a poll is like a cute little thing to create some buzz for content at most. I think you need to reevaluate yourself because if anything I think your hindering yourself at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicWhere you get this nonsense from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicI always find it funny when guys lump women together. I have an inexperienced bf while being an experienced gf. The difference is that he’s transparent about it since the beginning and is the sweetest guy ever and I have the patience to teach him about relationships and sex. This isn’t the first guy either. Also inexperienced men with inexperienced women? Idk about you but that’s been the ideal situation since religion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?I love this thorough paragraph. Thanks for telling me your experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/24 01:09 PM |
| 5 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Fav comment so far | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Oh no 🤣 I need a conversation with my partner. I have been misinformed | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?I mean with parents, or any other trusted adults/couples. Those are seen as role models for those growing up. I always spoke to mine when going to puberty. “Hey mom I have a crush on a guy, what do I do” etc etc.” or like parents having a talk with you about relationships? Things like that. I’m aware not everyone has someone available so that’s why I questioned if men not having role models would lead them to red pilling if they don’t have a trusted guy to go to about how to deal with women. If … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Sacrifices?😭 my post nut clarity is because I tried some freaky deaky kinky shit in bed and I’m feeling disgusted about myself and needing God because my tiny dingaling thought that was a good idea. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?So I guess people just need better role models and advisors in their lives? They never had role models to begin with typically btw? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Yes but they take it to a whole another level to the point it repels most women so it’s just….contradicting, self destructive, toxic and weird. That’s why I was confused why would anyone put themselves through that | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?That’s what really matters :) | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 24 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?That’s honestly disgusting. I honestly hope you have better friends now. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Why instead of trying to obtain sex in a healthy way, did it turn to a toxic way? Do they really sacrifice their mental health for that sense of validation of sex? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Genuinely curious, what’s obsession with women and sex?Just to confirm 100% I would want it more often if it can be safe. Both socially and sexually. I had guys removed condoms before without my permission and it was a horrible experience for me. Once ended up in a painful surgery because of it. Ruined the little trust with men I had. But I’m better and it didn’t ruined my dating experience, but guys definitely had to work much harder to romanticized me to date me after that | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/24 03:00 PM |
| – | Are girls sweeter / nicer to rude guys?Hell no. A decent human being would make sure someone got home safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Seeing all the benign and insignificant reasons women say they have gotten "The Ick" makes it hard to believe they care about men's mental healthAgree. I never even heard about that before. More commonly I hear icks from woman when a man doesn’t improve or something. Like leaving a cup outside of the dishwasher after repeatedly communicating to not do so in a span of months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Is the male equivalent of sleeping with a guy on the first date; "he didnt ask me out because he didn't like me enough"What an odd way to ask that question…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Is the male equivalent of sleeping with a guy on the first date; "he didnt ask me out because he didn't like me enough"No. I know a man likes me when he does talk to me or if I like him I just go up to him. I’m guessing it’s different for teens and pre teens because I used to assume that but then I got older and I understand it is nerve racking so now I don’t instinctively take it personal at all if someone doesn’t come up to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 44 | Is the male equivalent of sleeping with a guy on the first date; "he didnt ask me out because he didn't like me enough"I read this 5 times and I still don’t understand what the hell your asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?I mean im not a promiscuous women but when you have an itch, it’s nice to itch it. When men got an itch often and they itch it, high fives. But when a women does it, it’s more of “omg your vagina is going to fall apart! 😱” Women can have high libidos too. As someone who has an average or below average libido, it’s mostly annoying. Like it’s either shitty or disappointing and just makes me want to have sex less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneThe fuck did I just read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?I don’t follow FDS. I have a lovely dating life. I believe partners should be equal or balanced nicely. I want to be the bread winner and he wishes to be a house husband and focus on studying. My ideology is be with whoever makes you genuinely happy. FDS was pretty toxic. They had a few good points like don’t settle for some bum but shaming the average man isn’t fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?Well I’m taken. But to get him I was very direct. I literally told him first date he peaked my interest and I wanted to get to know him more. Spent nearly every night together for 3 weeks. Then I told him I love him, he didn’t responded back. Didn’t wanted to lose him so I told him to be my bf somewhere in that week. He accepted. Later on he told me he felt the same but he didn’t know if it was infatuation. Still happy and going strong. Family loves him. Anniversary is coming up in 2 months. I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you want a man to do 50% of the housework if you are a stay at home mom?Well home chores, I will do. But if there’s children involved I would like for the guy to be involved with his children because that part takes 2. Like playing games with them or putting them to bed. Being a parent is as important as a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 06:20 AM |
| 2 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?I don’t think you know what a porn addiction is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:56 PM |
| 7 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Maybe it’s because you never had a vagina before. But there’s this thing called a cervix. It can get bruised through penetration. It’s painful, you get cramps, and it’s annoying. It’s not pleasurable at all. Some women find it hot, some don’t. Only met 2 girls in my life who like it big. They want that sort of pain. I found more gay men who like big penises more than women. Also a crazy big thing I was told men don’t realize, we have different sizes in our canals. Crazy right? So like penises, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people?Well men have more sexual partners than women do.. So I don’t think women have more casual sex when men has nearly twice as much sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?Aww thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 01:55 AM |
| 20 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I don’t know. Maybe because it’s easy to get addicted to and gamers basically end up forgetting they have a real social life. But I play video games myself so we play together. Also in breaks we go to each other and bother each other so it works out for us. In past relationships I had men being bothered by me playing video games all the time lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Do women find Fighters (UFC, Boxing, Grappling,...) attractive?Hmmmm. Both genders, yea. I like it when someone is ambitious or passionate about something. This includes professional athletes Be mindful that attraction is different for everyone ofc. Everyone will have different answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Being good at sex is 90% just having a big d*ck.Those big guys were telling you big lies. Ever heard of a bruised cervix? It’s not nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 04:29 AM |
| – | What makes it acceptable for women to ghost/flake but not men?I feel like people just create gender issues out of the blue at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Being a lesbian, is 10x worse than being a straight man in terms of dating, and it makes me angry when they talk about how bad "THEY" got it.It’s hard for me to get with girls because there’s a high chance they’re straight. Most of the time when I shoot my shot I get shut down because they aren’t into women. 🥲 that’s okay tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I understand your very confused and overthinking it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.I don’t think you know what a cuck is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Porn is the epitome of cuck culture.You mean voyeurism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | The logistics of dating as a man.Yea, but all of that is really just the bare minimum. If a girl who has bad B.O goes to talk to you, are you going to give her your number? No. Her first impression of herself is off and not attractive. If you think it’s appropriate for something to be like “can I get yo number”, they are sagging their pants and look like they never been to a barber before, then theres an issue. And anyways I expect the same to me. If I want someone’s attention, I’m going to look and act presentable. If that’s s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | The logistics of dating as a man.100% there’s some crazy out there. No doubt. But generally asking someone for their number in public shouldn’t be so hard. If your having a difficult time, you just need to double check your approach. My personal favorite is when the guy makes me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.I mean there’s other stuff that happens. Before I reject a guy because I notice his teeth have cavities, his skin has severe acne (a personal pet peeve), he looked like he never had a shape up or a hair cut, if he generally looks crazy, if he talks disrespectfully, if he calls me “shorty” or “ma”, some are the “nice guys” etc etc Yea there are little things but some guys don’t do the bare minimum. Some don’t even notice it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.Often times unfortunately women have to be on edge. Some have trauma and stuff. Shit happens, for real. Just assume if they are reacting like that, they’re not good. Some guys believe they need to give a chance anyways but they literally can’t be open up because of fear. Luckily a women yelling rape isn’t common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 09:00 PM |
| -1 | The logistics of dating as a man.If some are automatically defensive just assume that person isn’t for you. However you can’t blame them again, sometimes there’s guys out there who really really are creepy. One experience I had that almost threw me off was when I was coming from the grocery store, some grown man asked if he could help me with my bags. That was perfectly fine. However when we were reaching to my house he asked me if I wanted to be friends. He was in his 40s and I was 18-19? I wasn’t really interested in it. So I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 6 | The logistics of dating as a man.I would say just after the lecture is over, outside the classroom or if he just a sees me around in public. Like “oh hey your in my class-“ and start from there. If he’s stalking me straight to my dorm room or to my next class, it’s going to be a no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.Then your doing something wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | The logistics of dating as a man.Ofc there’s a time an place for everything. Like I would go to the gym, I would have my earphones on and be in a middle of a work out. Just focusing. If someone comes out to me randomly I’m more likely to be irritated if they want to flirt with me. If I’m just chilling at the water fountain just doing me it’s fine. There’s been a handful of times my workout was interrupted. Not cool guys. Or let’s say on the streets, at night, I will 100% reject anyone who comes up to me. I’m running if they’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | The logistics of dating as a man.I said to start a conversation. Not to date them. Obviously we’re going to be a bit more careful if a bunch of strangers came up to us to talk. Might even give out a fake name and number if anything. Sorry if women out there want to take precaution. Also we’re not obligated to talk to you if we don’t want to? Maybe we’re not in the mood to talk, or just having a hard day in general. Just move on. However if this happens too often to you, I think you need to recheck your approach and not blame a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 7 | The logistics of dating as a man.Men get really confused when we don’t like being hit on. Honestly when some of you guys hit on us, it’s really just either not presentable, rude, creepy, or disrespectful. I been hit on the train, streets, groceries, gym, library, school, kinda everywhere. Just being nice and having good hygiene is enough to start a conversation. Being rejected has nothing to do with a place, it’s just the first impression. Although the best place to meet me would be in a park. I’m out for a relaxing day and I c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction?I’ll think I’ll be alright for 2 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction?I just want to try it. Heard some benefits from a vegan friend. Now I’m curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction?Na. It depends per person anyways. I like all sizes. I mean unless they are completely unhealthy looking and look like they need to go to the hospital for a check up. I like men when they are happy. If how they look like makes them happy, I’m happy too. If it helps I’m 40 more pounds than my partner. We’re very happy. I’ll try this no meat thing for 2 months tho. Seems interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you want your ideal girl to like your superficial aspects?common sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:24 AM |
| 3 | How popular would no-consequence platonic marriages be among women?I mean everyone preference is different. You sound like you want to be with someone who is an asexual or an aromantic (depends on the specifics). Basically these kinds of relationships do exist in the modern world r/asexual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 3 | I never wanna talk to women againI think you need to go to therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t owed commitmentYikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 07:27 AM |
| 3 | just read thisHe’s an insignificant bully. Let’s be real here. I think you need to speak to a therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think women should have sex with their SO if they aren't in the mood?Hell no, and he’s okay with that too. If one of us aren’t in the mood we get each other in the mood. There’s this thing called “foreplay”. Yes men, do research on it. Sex is better when both parties want it. Otherwise I might as well have a phone in my hand while his ding dong is in me. The only time I’ll ever ever reject his advances is when it’s not the right time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialBefore I go on a first date, I always tell them, “look if I fuck you, it’s going to be the first and last time. If you want something real with me we’re getting to know each other for real”. And we go out for a couple more dates until we find deal breakers ofc. My current boyfriend knows this, we’re still together. Personally it’s weird if someone breaks up with me simply because I want to them to know them more instead of treating them like someone insignificant in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever asked a guy out or made the first move?Yes. I was actually being straightforward, “Be my boyfriend” (I was stupid confident he was going to say yes) and we’re happily together hehe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Hellllllll no. At a point I didn’t even know if they were insecure, had a mental illness or severe control issues. I just know that I wouldn’t improve for myself if I stayed with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialLate response but the comments, maybe I can explain this. When I’m out on a date with a guy, he’s cool and whatever but not “bf material” I would just hook up with him and make something out of it. If he’s someone who is sweet and genuine and absolutely bf material I would like to develop more into it, get to know his mind more. The biggest sex organ for the female is the brain. A hook up is like a mild “whatever” orgasm. Especially if they end up being bad in bed it just makes it worst. While w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 10:39 AM |
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