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It's a plea to an ideal; Women (and men, though they're rarely included) should be able to go out without fear of being raped, assaulted, ect. The argument for consent lies in that most women could easily be overpowered by the average man, and that women have been conditioned to obey men, either through intimidation or tradition, and they may not feel safe resisting. I have a friend who has been raped multiple times. When the conversation turned towards why she didn't fight back her response was…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 06:39 AM
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Don't get me wrong, there's nuance to dating. It's not always so cut-and-dry in regards to how each person is viewing the progression of the relationship. I can only speak from my experiences and of those I know; Usually at some point you have an idea of which direction the wind is blowing. Maybe you're not 100% yet, but you've got a general plot of where things are heading given the current trajectory. To knowingly understand how your partner would react if they had that information, and then m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:42 PM
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Sure. People should just be upfront, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 09:34 AM
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If he is misleading them into thinking there was a chance that a relationship could develop then that's wrong. Doesn't seem that complicated, really. Don't be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:21 AM
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This might become true, but I'd reason that until recently what qualifies a 'low-quality woman' was very different from a 'low quality man'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 05:15 AM
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~45k, zero CC debt, zero education debt, 5'10 155 pounds. Average facial features with some aspects bringing me down. Slim build, leaning towards 'toned'. Lost my virginity at 18, have slept with 5 women. Pretty damn average outside of a few factors. No children, no marriage for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 07:26 AM
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Extremism breeds extremism. The political right and left wants entrenched, single issue voters. They might dislike the moderates but they'll hate the otherside more. It's why they designate them Deplorables, Snowflakes, ect. The hard part is the balancing act. Dems have always suffered from a fractured base, and now the growth of the 'Alt-right' is just a swing too far for the Repubs, mirroring the Dems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 06:05 AM
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A low effort comment gets a low effort response.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:51 AM
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At least you're admitting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:43 AM
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Probably. I guess I was assuming more of the violent forms are heavily skewed towards men, but of course. Hell, in my hometown women lacked access to BC, so you end up having those who are unable to take care of themselves giving birth to children they can't take care of -children raising children. That statistically are less likely to ever remove themselves from poverty. It's a vicious cycle and I believe as a society we can both recognize the personal responsibility of these outcomes while try…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:40 AM
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From this event in particular? Or just in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 08:05 AM
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Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:21 AM
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Fun fact, it was still Nancy Reagan way back then. She just aged really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:18 AM
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I think there's something to be said for the young, rural men in bad situations who have been shunned by society. I grew up in a poor rural area, it hasn't improved since the recession 'ended'. They live in area's that are homogeneous, with little access to education, advancement or any type of class mobility. In addition they exist in a culture that will not/cannot help them in regards to mental illness or social disabilities. So they sit in their rooms on the internet. On the_donald. Constantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:12 AM
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History loves angry young men because they'll bleed and die for greedy old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:03 AM
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I'm sure it has some effect. Sexuality is a powerful motivator and having a generation consuming what is essentially 'entertainment', either before or in lieu of, proper sexual experiences has gotta be doing something weird to people. I've started having issues with the porn I consume because it's becoming more obvious that the performer(s) are not enjoying themselves. Then I researched conditions in the industry and...it's not a great thing. Really takes me out of it now. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 07:39 AM
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:D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 07:31 AM
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You're basically just arguing genetics > environment. I don't think you have the science to back that up. Considering that the amount of wealth you are born into is the biggest predictor of future social mobility, not sure your on solid ground there. Understand I don't necessarily disagree with you, I think for many people a lack of self-motivation is a precursor to failure or mediocrity. I also believe motivated individuals are mostly taught, either through a parental figures or through enough …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 06:48 AM
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Have we met? Your description of me is uncanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:31 AM
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Put me in the no marriage, no kids boat. I'm sure aging is going to suck without a dedicated partner, but going off of how my father and the other older people in my life are doing...it's gonna suck regardless. People don't like to be around olds. Don't get me wrong I loved my older family and respected them but we had very little in common. They tended to repeat stories, all their friends are dead/dying...the world is this scary, unrecognizable place and your ability to adapt is literally degra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 03:24 AM
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Nah. Everyone's entitled to be attracted to what they want, there's just no guarantee it'll be easily accessible. For instance, my ideal relationship is no marriage, no children. Right off the bat that eliminates a good percentage of available women. Seeing as how we won't be having children or entwine our finances more than necessary, I expect her to have a stable career. I put some effort into maintaining my appearance and health, so I expect the same from my partner. I fully realize that my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 10:09 AM
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You could just have terrible text game, in addition to those apps generally resulting in abundance of choice for women. I ask because I've been told the same thing by female friends/hookups, but I know my text game is awful. I'd continue to use the apps and sites to improve your game while focusing on getting out and meeting women IRL. If you've had better experiences in the past and you haven't had a major physical or personality shift it must be the dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 05:23 AM
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By methods I meant how are you meeting these women that reject you if you never have the opportunity to talk to them? Do you have poor work/life balance, do you do most of your initiations using an app such as Tinder/PoF?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:53 AM
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It's probably because they don't know you well enough to make that judgment. What methods are you using to garner interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:26 AM
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I'm not the marriage type really but sure I would. People have sex, that's just a thing that happens. I guess I could extrapolate from a high N-count that either she doesn't require investment or intimacy as much from a partner, or has poor relationship skills/expectations...but If I'm at the point of considering marriage she would already have proven herself to be a respectful partner. If I could have an N-count of 60 without repercussions I would, only fair to give my partner the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:10 PM
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It can be difficult, especially so if it's untreated. For myself it hinges on that. Someone who is flawed but genuinely trying to improve by taking an active role in their treatment is fine. Someone who refuses to acknowledge it usually is non-functional off the bat and I won't invest myself anymore. Sex can be great though, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 11:32 PM
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Yes. It is almost universal that men want to have sex with more women than are available to them. Naturally we would be more selective because there would be less women that are non-starters. Some men would probably only bang '10s'. Some men will have sex with anything with legs. Some men find your '10' to be a 5, ect. We all just fall somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:35 AM
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Delete lawyer, hit the Facebook, get a gym. Go ask women out, get rejected, get laid. You'll realize there are a lot of good women and bad out there. Realize your self-worth; Why get caught up on someone who doesn't think you're good enough? Fuck 'em, you're awesome. If you don't think you're good enough you have bigger things to worry about than dating,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:27 AM
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I try to date "in my league" but mostly in the sense that we'll have similar goals and life experiences. If she's out of my league attractiveness-wise I could be a little nervous I suppose, but she found me attractive enough to accept a date, all that matters. If she's out of my league financially I'm more concerned because we may have very different goals in the long run and I want to be independent, as should she.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:18 AM
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Nothing inherently. It just seems that normally an older man would be at a different stage of his life, or maturity level, then a young woman. Often people assume the man is with her solely for the sex. In my experience these relationships tend to be unhealthy and either end up with him becoming the enabler or her becoming a victim of abuse. So society views these relationships as 'false'. That the man is taking advantage of the young woman. It can be the other way around, but we view age = wisd…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 06:01 AM
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Learn different viewpoints if I can. I started by finding TRP, looking for a counter-argument and stumbling on PPD. TRP seemed a bit too edgy and misogynistic for my taste, but echo chambers tend to be like that, so I'm hoping I can gain some clarity here. Mostly I just laugh at how ridiculous some of the statements are. I can definitely see a bit of my younger self in commentators.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 03:55 AM
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Seems to suffer from the same issues as the rest of society; Educate people. I think we're essentially going through a new technological revolution, with all the good and bad that entails. The dating landscape has changed while to some extent our biological imperatives can't keep up. As long as people have access to educating themselves, and a stable enough environment to do so, I think it'll work itself out. Eventually my generation will be older, we'll feel out of place with how the next gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 04:20 AM
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Of course not. I've been rejected. I've been the pinning friend. It hurts, but that's life. I rationalize it by thinking 'why would i want to be with someone who doesn't want me?' As for physical attraction; So what? I'm attracted to most of my female friends. Nothing will ever happen. If attraction without reciprocation is too difficult for someone to accept, they're going to have a difficult time. Seriously though, my advice is to just go get rejected. After a little while the sting lessens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 03:39 PM
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It hurts. I've been there, but usually this would work itself out early in the friendship. Once you're rejected that should be the end of it. Doesn't matter the reason, why/why not, any of it. Hidden flaws? Maybe they're just not attracted to you physically? Maybe they think you want different things in the long run? It doesn't matter. You got your answer, move on. Now if you brought up the idea of attraction/dating early in the friendship then I'd imagine the rejection hurts less. If, on the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 12:52 PM
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I may not agree with your conclusion, but I like your plan to conclude yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 10:00 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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