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they worry about being raped & murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:40 PM
1

Ive had older friends (born in the 30’s and 40’s who’d disagree and say it was normal to have friends of the other gender). You can find interviews with Judy Garland, for instance, where she talks about male friendships constantly. She was friends with a lot of people, including men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:51 PM
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Isnt that their fault for letting themselves get used?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:53 AM
6

Admirable that you’re not overly defensive about autism, as someone with it, and you can be realistic and to the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:46 PM
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I hope you think it is morally wrong and not ambiguous?
/r/MensRights10/01/25 03:12 PM
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You think a 24 year old is legally right to have sex with a 15 year old because the law allows it?
/r/MensRights10/01/25 02:56 PM
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15 is still morally unacceptable though. Don’t they deserve to commit suicide if they were sexually talking to a 15 year old?
/r/MensRights10/01/25 08:45 AM
1

Being treated with suspicion, having the worst assumed about you. Even being in an abusive relationship and then other people siding with the woman. Being caught off guard. Psychological abuse mostly because I think women are more elaborate thinkers than men, at least when it comes to relationships, so they can trap you and subjugate you with confusion quite easily. Other people’s schadenfreude at your misfortune. Being always assumed to be radicalised and in need of perpetual, routine re-educat…
/r/MensRights20/12/24 09:45 AM
1

I think they cherry pick how desirable female personality traits and appearances are in society and discount issues of personal safety. People think more highly of women and are more sympathetic to them. A lot of men want to feel desirable and that is most of what they think about when they say women have it easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:24 PM
9

Terrible
/r/MensRights12/12/24 04:38 PM
1

I am 23 if that is what you mean. I am short - 5’ 5” - but most girls I meet and all the ones that have liked me are around 5’ 2”. I will have to google “the halo effect” and “masculinists”. 😇 I had never heard that those were regarded as the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:35 AM
4

It might have been a phase but it is probably because she can vet the guys she slept with but she is sort of admitting to not trusting the other person’s judgement.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 03:15 PM
1

Well look apparently I have a ~150 IQ (there’s no way it’s higher than that) and I get called handsome quite a lot. Also a lot of women are creepy with the way they flirt and they’re all a lot dumber than me. I’ve never met one on my level. I don’t have friends because I don’t enjoy it. I don’t enjoy relationships at all and hate socialising. So a guy who is clever enough to be attractive to women is also a guy who is alienated and lonely and doesn’t enjoy any kind of human interaction 99% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:12 PM
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Agree 100% I’ve had long term relationships before and never asked anyone out and never been on a date. It’s always been women initiating with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 11:13 AM
1

So is that males choosing not to vote? No vote is a form of voting, really, isn’t it?
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:15 PM
1

How would you go about convincing a feminist that patriarchy doesn’t exist?
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:13 PM
1

Yeah
/r/MensRights06/12/24 10:57 PM
2

It’s not too vague. Shared interests is everything to me, and politeness will endear me to someone. I can’t help it, I think people with my interests are superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:50 PM
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Okay, but how do you know it has no power?
/r/MensRights06/12/24 09:34 PM
2

“Wholesome” being used in the 60’s 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 08:40 PM
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I think the patriarchy is called such just because those elites are mostly male. As far as I am aware, that is the definition of a patriarchy. I don’t know if I believe in net male privilege when all areas of life are included, but considering that most elites are males, do you really not understand why that is significant to most feminists? For me, it isn’t to do with mostly men benefitting. I’m inclined to believe what Joe Rogan says - that most men live lives of quiet desperation. I’m familia…
/r/MensRights06/12/24 08:38 PM
3

Can you elaborate on number 6?
/r/MensRights06/12/24 08:14 PM
3

Thanks. I will check that out.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 08:14 PM
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Thanks for your non-combative reply. You think the patriarchy is a theory? I am 99% sure that even Jordan Peterson acknowledges that most power is distributed by a minority of male elites.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 08:10 PM
1

As someone new to men’s rights, can you tell me what you’d like to see the left do? Like policies? I’m not being snarky, I just don’t feel confident that I know for sure what disenfranchised men want. All I have learned so far is: - Maybe make classrooms more boy friendly to their hands on, maybe less verbal learning style that is perhaps easily overwhelmed by sentimentality. - Divorce rape (I sympathise) - false accusations etc 🤔
/r/MensRights06/12/24 06:31 PM
0

What is the light blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:37 AM
1

I have heard that most of the people who buy hybristophilic novels that romanticise toxic men are middle aged women. I think I heard they’re from the midwest, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:09 PM
1

Are u being homophobic?
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:09 PM
1

Can I ask how he was a piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:03 PM
2

Not to mention I feel lonely partly because I crave an older male figure. Women don’t help much.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 07:32 AM
4

That looks like a trans woman who claimed they wanted to be groped. It is probably an unhealthy aberration of the trans fantasy. It doesn’t appear to be limited to the person’s fantasy life.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 01:15 PM
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No and I wouldn’t engage in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:38 AM
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Yeah and if that guy leaves a heart broken widow and people behind, that is a terrible outcome. Most notions of chivalry are pathetic. I cannot believe people think men should put non-related women and even children or anyone above themselves, sometimes. Penalty for existing, second class citizens, much…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:08 PM
2

Under any circumstances whatsoever I don’t think it is appropriate. I am also never extrinsically motivated, so it is an insult to me to speak to me and tell me what to do, as if I would even respond to that. It is a command and I do not appreciate being given commands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:23 AM
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It probably is and I appreciate the lack of hostility, but I’m just trying to illustrate a point. I didn’t want to write loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:45 PM
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As a straight guy with no real male friends, I’d personally hate to be with most men, if I were a straight woman. But most women I meet are not that compelling and there seem to be plenty of men who’d make commensurately viable partners, if not for the female obsessions with height and money. I’ve had some intelligent female friends date down intelligence wise and still fall hard for manly men that have a sense of humour. Their intelligence was mainly relevant when it came to their studies and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:12 AM
0

What would you say, if you could?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:45 PM
2

Just curious, but what kind of things about him do you usually say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:43 PM
1

They’re all horror stories. I refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:24 AM
1

I will never understand why the matter of sewing gets raised when it comes to modern wife skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:56 AM
1

This is why I don’t want kids, other than not feeling a personal connection with children or the idea of being a parent. I don’t want to ruin my relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:57 PM
2

I definitely don’t want women to lower their standards! I feel like a lot of incompatibility isn’t an issue of standards requiring lowering - it’s just the two people can’t fulfil the other’s desires. Something that actually turns me OFF is how low a woman dated in the past. It’s just a gut reaction. I know people change, but, for instance, I probably wouldn’t date a woman who had dated Andrew Tate, for instance. I just can’t imagine someone like that being right for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:47 AM
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Sometimes I think of James Franco talking about his sex addiction when he means the times he coerced and harassed people. I also think of rock stars like David Bowie sleeping with kids and then people getting offended when he gets referred to as a pedo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:42 PM
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Yes, especially when the real life people you meet are ON the apps, anyway. Meeting someone in real life doesn’t change the fact that they have the influence of dating apps in their life, even if you don’t have it in yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:51 AM
1

Talulah Riley is very bright. She is an actress who has written her own novel, etc. She was still a virgin at the time and I think that and being 22, as well as Elon being a shy, mild mannered, billionaire genius had something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:39 PM
5

Childless people still have far more money for themselves and no obligations to children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:24 PM
0

I think this all the time as a guy with shit tonnes of autistic traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:38 AM
1

All I said was this male behaviour doesn’t get enough credit. If you dated a guy, wouldn’t you want him to have the ability to deal with you if you slipped up and weren’t your best? Do you really not see that what I am saying can benefit a woman? You hear a lot that “love is a temporary madness” and “love is a choice - it is what happens when you get over the initial honeymoon phase.” You hear stuff like this all the time, so imo, speaking as a guy, having had guy friends, it comes from a good p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:14 PM
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You’re indulging a cheater by reinforcing their behaviour in giving them what they want, so, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 05:41 PM
1

You don’t think sex is more special if you save yourself? If you’re the only person they’ve given that experience away to, then it is meaningful, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:11 PM
1

I didn’t say they were a shit partner? I think a lot of men feel like they will be attacked if they stay, attacked if they leave. A lot of avoidant men will say they don’t know if they’ve ever been in love. A lot of men don’t complain, I don’t think. They just endure it silently. They don’t want fuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:14 PM
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good partners in the sense that they are willing to endure a lot of shit in the relationship and stay loyal. They don’t let the slightest bit of discomfort repel them because things aren’t what they wished for in their fantasy land. I feel like most people will dislike certain things about the person they’re with - whoever it is. I feel like the ability to tolerate that is a marker of health - mental flexibility, realism and true acceptance. I never said men are protectors, so you can’t have a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:55 PM
1

He isn’t making that his wife’s burden, though, is he? This is kind of a pointless question. I am not that guy, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:49 PM
1

No I never said it was okay. It does come from a good place, though. Your last paragraph was a confusing generalisation. I think you can have a healthy relationship with yourself and still have a relationship you’re enduring out of loyalty and acceptance that odds are, it will never be that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:46 PM
1

I will say also I remember my mother telling me her middle aged female friends have been left my men who’ve claimed to be unhappy for a long time. I know I hide it and a lot of men commit suicide out of nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:10 AM
1

🤝🏻I am sorry it makes you sad, but don’t let it affect you. Most men and women are very average and don’t know what to do with their troubles. You are probably more intelligent. Most men have a total emotional illiteracy and mental blankness when it comes to their relationships. I’m 23M and still figuring this stuff out. My worldview is informed by the fact that I did not grow up with romantic parents. They loved each other but were not in love, but that is probably normal. They were far too unr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:24 AM
2

It isn’t black and white and therefore isn’t always horrible. It’s the essence of “settling”. It’s because it’s better than nothing. Boredom and isolation are what drive people insane. A significant amount of men probably think they’re doing the right thing by staying because of loyalty and realism. I didn’t say women were that bad in my original post, but 99.99% of them really don’t seem that inspiring. I think men endure less satisfaction and fulfilment better than women, partly because if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:53 AM
-1

It is a plus because you can’t eradicate everyone else in the world and even if the world were female only, you’d be safer with a male partner than single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:11 AM
2

I don’t date women I don’t like, but I think I know what goes on in the minds of most men and that it is up to them. You can still be a healthy partner and dislike the woman you’re with on some level, can’t you? I was saying men are often good partners, at least in that one sense, despite the lack of reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:41 AM
3

I think you should apologise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:24 PM
2

Bro she might be a nice woman don’t rub it in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:17 PM
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Vile
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:15 PM
7

I know what you wrote could easily read as an unbiased comment, but thank you for the acknowledgement. I feel like people are too cold towards men being able to tolerate a lot of misery in a relationship, due to loyalty and anaemic aspirations. Men are simply more materials first, vision second, when it comes to relationships, which is a delicate way of saying that most women aren’t inspiring enough to give men hope of a proper romance. Women lead with the vision and then get depressed when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:10 PM
0

does bread pill mean gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:31 AM
1

I’d assume she was joking to cope with her exasperation and if she is being serious, it is wholly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:31 AM
1

Maybe RP guys ideally want both people to pay for themselves. The ones that I’ve seen that advocate for paying for the woman seem to be the ones who either want to sleep with other women or have her take care of the kids, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:05 PM
2

Yeah - I read a reddit post where a guy was in shock after his wife and twins died in childbirth and he said he felt nothing. That is toxic femininity imo - my ex did that - determining what reactions I am allowed to have. It isn’t love or genuine respect or care for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:01 AM
1

I would say Orion Taraban is a good example of a well meaning red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:42 AM
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