Otherwise-Blood-4008 Archive

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0	Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it? You’re missing my point, which is that women are giving out signals with one intention that men are reading in a different way. If the signal presents as you posting bikini pictures on instagram or walking down the street wearing shorts that only cover half your ass cheeks, I’m obviously not psychic and can’t know exactly what your intention is, but if you think men aren’t going to see that and not think “sex” you are either a moron or acting in bad faith. Unfortunately I’d have to say the curre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 08:20 AM
-1	Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it? What’s going on is that women are thinking “I look hot, look at me” while not realizing (or refusing to accept/acknowledge) that men are seeing this and thinking “I want to fuck that”. I think it’s an essential stylistic miscommunication between the genders, and though I would classify myself as at least feminist adjacent, I do think this one is on women for, to use the language of my foremothers, dressing like whores.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 12:40 AM
5	Women don't really view men as human beings in romantic contexts If your post is merely descriptive, what is there to debate? As it happens, and with severe reservations and qualifications, I mostly agree (I think??), but the same is true of how men view women. Men and women are to a large degree necessarily solipsists, the only difference is that it’s way easier to get dick than it is to get pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 10:33 PM
4	The attractive=asshole strawman that people here are starting to parrot meme needs to die Am I being stupid because I really don’t understand OP’s point? Fwiw, I am a high status man, in that some/many women find me attractive or even very attractive. I am not an asshole. Women I have dated and broken up with think I’m an asshole and are not shy about telling anyone who cares to listen that I’m an asshole (I repeat, I’m really not). Might this be at the heart of the attractive=asshole trope?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 10:07 AM
1	SwipeStats data from 2026 demonstrates that Hinge is mathematically non-viable for the average male user I’m not so hot on maths, even less so on statistics, so maybe this has already been said,but wouldn’t it be useful, or at least interesting, to establish the results of a hypothetical situation where men only swipe on 6% of profiles? As a man who briefly used hinge, I swiped “yes” on very few women and my match rate was probably somewhere between 10-15%. If I’d been swiping slightly more realistically I’m sure my match rate would’ve been higher. Also re; hinge in particular is not a “blind” matc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/26 06:06 PM
1	Glorification of step dads is harmful to society As a man I would actually really like this. I love sex and I love kids, and being a single dad is in many ways easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 05:59 PM
3	The Manosphere that claims Women will end up "alone and with cats" if they chase men out off theyre league, dont have a clue how many needy Guys there are. No Women will end alone without choosing to be alone. Wow, super lucid comment, especially re the “bare minimum” requirements. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 10:21 AM
5	Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards. I don’t think we are disagreeing entirely, except in that I believe that the “happy being alone” tier is being slightly over egged from the women’s side of the gender wars (of which, fyi, I heartily disapprove), because for many women it is more like “being alone is less shit than being with a gross loser”. It’s still shit, It’s not really much of a gotcha, and it’s also a state of being many men find themselves in, though obviously men are generally (and IMO accurately) perceived as having a lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 12:01 PM
12	Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards. I think the confusion lies in that women (and men) will calibrate how “good” or “bad” a relationship is based on things other than people’s default assumption, ie what might be termed “morality”. Which is to say, if you are hot (attractive, charming or whatever) but an asshole (or crazy), being in a relationship with you will often be thought of as good by the person involved. It’s the very common trope of the hot/crazy chick or the hot/asshole dude. People will often be in objectively “bad” rel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 11:39 AM