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I have developed this problem and I am not sure how should I overcome it OP help me out , it's become such a natural thing for me that I am literally having anxiety stepping outside the house even though I can talk socialize with people but I can feel so much filter on my actions and that's tiring me out so much .
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:24 PM
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I am putting a ton of pressure on myself. It's a bit of a blessing and a curse. On one hand, I feel like I'm desensitizing myself to my fear of rejection with people and get comfortable being completely vulnerable with them, but on the other hand it's made me addicted to this validation loop where if it doesn't go well with them or I mess it up somehow, it feels like I'm not good enough. Hence feel like I'm not connecting with them and trying to "win" them which is just unhealthy. Im trying to b…
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:27 AM
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No not actually, but right now I don't earn and boxing gym's here cost a hell lot more than what I can spend right now . And there is no part time culture here
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:22 AM
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And this only happens when I go outside , like I keep thinking are they looking at me or something. For no damn reason , and I do get a lot of stares , idk if it's because of curly hair and the fact that I kinda looks mexican here . What change I wanna bring is just acting without the need to think about these things , just being.
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:16 AM
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Like , how do I say it whenever I get with people it just puts up a filter on me like how I can be with my one good friend , maybe it's because of how people think of me i think that . I am able to overcome it but constantly those thoughts coming up is what makes me hate it so much .
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:15 AM
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I don't think that's possible right now for me , because of college .
/r/seduction19/09/25 06:30 AM
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Brooooo 😭😂😂 true shi actually,
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:15 PM
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wth man lmao , same I don't got any friends like that everyone is so scared to death of rejection what should I say .
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:12 PM
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Not much tbh just starting out , wanting to learn more w a wing
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:32 PM
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From delhi dam
/r/seduction30/08/25 04:48 PM
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Baby read models mark manson it's the most basic stuff on being vulnerable i know right now you need to be able to open up to someone if you wanna talk hook me up , but you need to start talking to people and open up , start fixing your life slowly
/r/seduction03/08/25 09:22 AM
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Take care this might be a strong turning point in life
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:53 PM
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I was in the same situation took me like a 5-6 weeks ,I can tell he'll be fine but he will have to find better things to pursue in life other than a relationship
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:52 PM
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I think the best way is to tell how you feel and cut ties with her , and the thing is i would recommend you reading models by Mark manson if you're going to rebuild your mental state from here cuz oh boy you bout to be fucked up if you don't handle yourself well
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:50 PM
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Will I ever be able to heal completely, and go back to how I once was ? It's the most painful thing I have ever experienced it's more than the physical pain , like it wants to make me puke sometimes. Because if there is hope I am willing to 100 percent give my everything for it
/r/seduction30/07/25 06:06 PM
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Makes sense , yes the cloud is actually a nice word for it , it literally comes out of no where according to its own accord . Well I tried something today i just didn't pay attention to the thoughts even once it was very painful but it was better than yesterday at least .
/r/seduction30/07/25 03:07 PM
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No no , the thing is i usually like to live alone when i shifter to a hostel in college i used to live with a very unhygienic person me being one with ocd it used to drive me insane and I wanted to say things but at the same time , I was like i don't wanna say the same thing again and again , and i suppressed myself a lot back then coupled with back then I didn't wanna be that friendly with these guys , and they used to kinda joke about things that I didn't like at that time I used to think this…
/r/seduction30/07/25 08:28 AM
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Yes i understand but sometimes, when I get the feeling that I don't wanna talk to the target my brain just goes bitch you're just afraid to take action and it just forces me to act and I have to literally force myself to not do it and that conflict creates such a divide and hatred and such negative energy that I end up fumbling anyway what do you recommend I do in that situation
/r/seduction30/07/25 05:09 AM
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Oh yes , kinda makes sense I also have this habit of exaggerating reactions whether good or bad like damn this always got me fucked , I'll try this , what suprised me more is the fact that I am totally fine with public speaking and not scared with interacting with strangers but it just sometimes clicks bruh and comes out of no where and literally feel like my brain is going to blast and come out , for 2 yrs I've been trying to do things but to no avail literally. I wasn't like this before , like…
/r/seduction30/07/25 02:19 AM
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Oh yeah and one more thing , it's not in general about approaches but how do I absolutely emboy not giving a fuck about things , like sometimes I wanna do things in public that are certainly not always deemed cool by other people ,but in general it doesn't disturb them either way , like sometimes I just wanna dance in my classroom lmao in a free break w my friends but I js get scared how I do I build for that ? Cuz I feel like it's a huge step
/r/seduction29/07/25 08:03 PM
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I see makes sense I'll start doing it and update you on it , thanks man
/r/seduction29/07/25 07:59 PM
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Ok that makes sense but how , do I go about changing the belief? Like just simple action isn't convincing enough I can tell myself daily that it works take action and the next thing I know is that I am back at it again , judging myself for no reason
/r/seduction29/07/25 05:58 PM
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Yes , yes I get it but what to do about things that are just thoughts and don't need to do anything about like the part where without any proof that I am an unhygienic person , I am cursing myself and thinking just cuz I am sweating myself right now scratching my head , somebody is probably looking at me and thinking he is a unhygienic person , bro like it doesn't make sense and this doesn't go away and drives me insane , I think I have OCD. So that makes it worse to obsses over thing, for some …
/r/seduction29/07/25 05:05 PM
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OP and guys help me if possible, I am able to take action, but for some reason I have become absolutely afraid to put myself out there , like i be thinking in my college class they aren't looking right ? I must not do this like bish I was sweating a bit as it was hot as fuck and I itched a bit and thought they didn't look right ? Because they'll think me as a dirty person like wtf , and then all the energy which I could have spent talking goes into fighting myself , man I'm not even sure what to…
/r/seduction29/07/25 04:00 PM
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OP and guys help me if possible, I am able to take action, but for some reason I have become absolutely afraid to put myself out there , like i be thinking in my college class they aren't looking right ? I must not do this like bish I was sweating a bit as it was hot as fuck and I itched a bit and thought they didn't look right ? Because they'll think me as a dirty person like wtf , and then all the energy which I could have spent talking goes into fighting myself , man I'm not even sure what to…
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:58 PM
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OP and guys help me if possible, I am able to take action, but for some reason I have become absolutely afraid to put myself out there , like i be thinking in my college class they aren't looking right ? I must not do this like bish I was sweating a bit as it was hot as fuck and I itched a bit and thought they didn't look right ? Because they'll think me as a dirty person like wtf , and then all the energy which I could have spent talking goes into fighting myself , man I'm not even sure what to…
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:57 PM
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Do you also sometimes feel like that the thing that you're doing to avoid the bas stuff , is exactly the thing leading into the overthinking and exhaustion but you can't exactly figure out where to break it ? , man even I need help with this
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:46 PM
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I wanna watch rsd what would be a good start for the 2010 to 2013 video I have no idea please tell me , i used to watch a bit in between then I got lost
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:16 AM
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How old are you , and what about her
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:52 PM
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Aaj this happened to my friend too , I think he used a mild version of viagra or something there is no problem it's just that you're not feeling enough stimulation through her vagina or anything emotionally although before using it consult a free doctor aight?
/r/seduction16/06/25 04:35 PM
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You're not even from India 💀
/r/seduction13/06/25 09:53 AM
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I used to think that these things are something that I could work on , one of the things I have noticed is this i expect a lot from myself when I am in outside somewhere I am like hey I should act a Lil bit matured but then I am like why should I I am not performing a show for them . How do I overcome this like I know this logically but what should I do ?
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:52 PM
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That's the thing that amazes me I can literally talk to any stranger any time without any fear but sometimes it's just idk I just want consistency from myself that is that's why I wanted the problem figured out so I wouldn't have to plunge less in that hole
/r/seduction08/06/25 01:07 PM
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That's true , and sometimes I feel weirded out by myself when I keep looking the other person in the eye while they're talking so then I try to be like maybe i should do something else maybe not and that causes a problem , what do you suggest I do while listening face to face
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:08 AM
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Ok that's true one more thing I have come across as my problem is , like when I am listening to someone I tend to just keep looking in there eyes because yk looking away might seem weird and at the same time I feel looking them in the eyes till they speak feels even wya more weird wht do I do
/r/seduction08/06/25 07:06 AM
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😭lmao
/r/seduction03/06/25 10:24 AM
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Oh yes sir , i usually am able to overcome almost 90 percent of this shit but the last 10 percent damn that is what keeps me locked bad
/r/seduction10/05/25 08:48 AM
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Hey you seem to know a good bit about pua , I need help w a few things could you help me out in the pm's
/r/seduction09/05/25 11:43 AM
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Ok yes that actually makes sense so rather than thinking about the feeling I should just let it be there what I was not able to understand was that feelings can just come up and that has nothing to do with your beliefs it's something In the biology , (am I right about this cuz I think this is what holds me back ) because I am making a meaning out of the feeling like of me having wrong values or not being capable enough about doing something just because I had some uncomfortable feeling! Is it no…
/r/seduction08/05/25 01:37 PM
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Ok so how do you suggest I rebuild this , like this in my mind I can force it but that would have no point should I take steps without thinking and build proof with myself at the same time without getting emotional?
/r/seduction08/05/25 08:12 AM
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Ok op I don't have a problem approaching but I have a different problem in general , but like related to this idk how this keeps happening lol it burns all my mental captial
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:25 PM
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Ok for me the trauma happened like last year , and I'm confused i can push over the fear but I just don't want that resistance I want it to completely vanish.
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:24 PM
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That's such a cool insight , I have been also having a problem like this I'm good all day in state and chill and not fearful but sometimes something very small comes up and I'm like thinking this is something not worth fussing about but it's something I want to say because it's not what I like and I'm confused whether to do it or not and it stays inside me and it keep taking all the mental captial and draining me out and then after that I am not even able to look the other person in the eye for …
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:16 PM
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I wasn't able to find it I tried 1337x can you tell me the site
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:03 PM
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/r/seduction06/05/25 11:41 AM
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