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Just went through the same thing but wasted two years instead of six months, despite reading FDS 🤡 if he likes you, he will make plans. The most hermit man will step up when he wants it bad enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:36 AM
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Oh man. I dressed really cute for an anniversary date and walked across a huge city in heels just so I can look adorable and he walked ahead of me the entire fucking time. My feelings were so hurt 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:31 AM
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For sure. Their parents have gotten them into every self esteem boosting activity as a child, got to enjoy holidays yearly, can stay at home until they are God damn 30 or older and they act like everyone is out to get them at their lil cul de sac neighborhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:59 PM
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Oh yeah. I know so many boomers who let their husbands boss them around, put them down and these women just fucking take it and continue to be the backbone of the family with no appreciation. Boomer women are broken. They put up with so much fucking garbage and justify it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:06 PM
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Same. When I was in high school my bf tried to redpill me and recommended it to our mutual friend. He is upper middle class and became a doctor. When I went through a phase of hooking up before FDS, I noticed subtle negging from guys who were nice at first and shit testing. It's scary to watch this. I think a lot of young men were raised to feel ashamed. A lot of them are failing in life and are listless in adulthood so they turn to redpill stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 11:01 PM
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Older women tell me to judge a potential partner on how his father treats his mother - and most likely this is how they will treat you. Anybody have insight on what they think about this advice? I know some men realize their fathers flaws and don't want to be a certain way, but a lot of the time men do internalize their fathers behavior. How is your bf toward you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:39 PM
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Yes! Especially the LVM who aren't doing shit with their life. The MIL is trying to set their boy up with the new mommy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 07:50 PM
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I agree with the wide net theory. A lot of LVM have a gaggle of women they text, and that's why they swipe like crazy on OLD. Once they have the attention of one woman who gives them the time of day, they'll stick with it. The sad part is, they'll never truly love that woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:50 PM
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I dated a loser I wasn't attracted to when I was 19 because my first two boyfriends were abusive/redpiller so I felt safer just dating someone ugly who didn't have a dominant personality. I thought if my next boyfriend was quiet/go along with anything I would be safe from abuse. Boy was I wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 02:01 PM
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Coming home to my apartment to see him playing games on his phone. Gave him the key because of COVID and he over extended his stay. Looked at this man and realized this is his life, all day, every day. Go to work and zone out into a show or a game. Only doing anything else if he's coddled into it. The realization hit me like a ton of bricks and I stopped getting turned on by him since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:20 PM
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I think I might have said similar things when I was younger, but now I've matured. I realized I didn't finish college because of what I was like, not because of what college was like. Same! I did so bad in high school and blamed it on the system. Had to buckle up for college because I wanted to get into the medical field and take science and math. Failed my first test of the semester so I grew up, buckled down and fucking studied my ass off and passed college with A's and B's. Now I plan on doin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:09 PM
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Yup. I know LVM upper middle class white men who were given it all - able to live with mom and dad through their mid twenties rent free, went to great high schools and they fuck it up because they can't handle the heat of studying. These are the ones who can't stand things like affirmative action and immigration. It's amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:00 PM
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"scatterbrained and absent minded" yet she's in grad school AND works full time. He's jealous and intimidated by her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:18 AM
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Entrepeneurs_in_cars Don't do it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:06 PM
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Ugh I found the entire Instagram. One video insists that only women are hypergamous, and they leave for someone better. Then he makes a video on how to convince your girlfriend to have a threesum. He calls women sluts then makes a post about why women don't stay fit and wear bikinis for men anymore. Pick a side and stick with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:32 AM
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Right?? I had an ex who constantly told me to be a victim, because I wanted to hang out with my friends and not him - and he was butthurt. I explained to him that I had controlling bfs in the past who alienated me from my friends and I wanted to actually spend time with my friends and keep those plans instead of cancelling them for him.. and he told me to stop being such a victim. Like no?? Im not making the same mistake?? Women get fucking bashed on for not taking bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:03 AM
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I'm 25 but I would have carelessly traveled more when I lived at home, got more involved in college clubs and social groups, not give into fashion trends so much. I say travel at 20 because it gets harder when you're on your own and need to save for things like a house, rent, ect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 06:14 PM
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This is what the manosphere wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:34 AM
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This is a really good example of an extreme case. I also want to add, even in better situations a LVM will distract us and take time away towards our goals. Maybe he's clingy and it takes time away from a project or a practice that you use to better yourself. Maybe he's interrupting your sleep most nights. It's the little things too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:17 PM
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I agree. The nuclear family is a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:29 PM
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I think about that a lot. All this work I spent learning the ways of men so I stop dating assholes, and now in my mid twenties and Im realizing I have better things to do with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:26 PM
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You know, the more I read about this kind of thing every day and witness it in real life, the more I realize marriage and kids is a scam for women. This kind of situation is not worth having a man over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:12 PM
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If she births the babies, I'm doing the nightly feedings! If she goes through nine months of pregnancy, I'm rubbing her feet every day and buying her snacks!! If she needs maternity leave, I'm providing for my family!!! Crickets what... No? I thought it was a partnership lollll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 09:18 PM
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Funny, I'm 24, and since lockdown started I hiked weekly, biked almost 900 miles since March, I home cooked everything I ate and even when I actually had COVID, I exercised every day while I was quarantined at home and recovering. And the best part is, my financial and career ducks are all in a row. My life has just begun, and will be over the day I hit the grave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:00 PM
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Look in the comments, people are making fun of her for looking like a boy even though her body and face is perfectly feminine and cute. God forbid a woman goes against the grain and has a short haircut, it cancels out the rest of her woman-ness in the eyes of society
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:25 AM
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I love the "school is designed for girls" argument. School is designed for well behaved kids who will pay attention in class, like a majority of kids outside the USA. Like the majority of men throughout human history who studied art, science, medicine, physics, literature. The only reason boys are failing in school is because the current culture is to do everything that makes kids happy rather than discipline them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:12 AM
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Homeless people also have complex mental health issues and social issues. Working with this population you constantly have to be on your feet. Its not just giving them a bowl of soup and praying for them. But masculine culture doesn't value anything that helps people so of course they will degrade it down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:16 PM
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Same!! Liberal feminism gaslit me so hard into believing LVM were good enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:53 AM
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Yeah it's not even healthy to make anyone the forefront unless its your young children lol. Not even when you're married should it be like that unless a spouse is sick or going through some shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:53 AM
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Yeah, just because men are socialized to be big babies doesn't mean thats what they want deep down inside. Like any other mentally healthy adult, they want to accomplish something. Not playing their part in a serious relationship is going to make them feel inferior in some sort of way. Its like being babied around like a child. Theres nothing sexy about a pickme mommywife. Everyone loses going the pickme route.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:49 AM
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He misses me more and the good morning texts are much sweeter. My biggest issue with him was that I was putting in all the work as far as dates go. As soon as he "got me" he never actually took me on a proper date unless I nagged him to. Even though hes really great otherwise, it makes me feel like he doesnt wanna romance me and its a standard I want to uphold. So now that I'm not at his feet and constantly doing sleepovers with him, hes been actually asking me to hang out with a place to go. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:04 AM
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Nah we put ourselves at risk getting raped, murdered and pay into attaining the high beauty standards required to be considered human. Men should pay for our labor in return for getting to date us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:17 PM
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Does anyone ever notice how fast men remarry after their spouse dies? Sometimes within the year. My ex boyfriends grandfather married a new woman like one year after his wife of 50 something years passed of cancer. People excuse it and say "this is h0w he grieeeeves" Meanwhile most women admit if their husbands die they won't bother remarrying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 05:37 PM
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The same polo in five different colors, khaki shorts for spring/summer/fall and wears the same hoodie on dates but only "values" women if they look like porn stars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:32 PM
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They really are. You have to hold their hand and spell out simple concepts about having empathy for others. Like wtf do you mean you want 3 kids one day asshole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:29 PM
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I feel the same way! I am in my current relationship when I discovered this sup a couple months ago. Low effort/no dates, I acted like a total pickme. I'm stepping away from the relationship and letting him chase me for once. Taking it upon myself to stop sleeping over, texting him all day, ect. because I asked him to plan more dates a long time ago and he hasn't delivered aside from the once in a blue moon forced dates because I "nagged" him. Whenever he wants to hang I ask "sure, what do you w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:28 PM
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Ditto. I'm also childfree. In my 23 years of existing I have met only 2 men who are worthy of having children with. TWO LOL. I already suffer self esteem issues normally, I can't imagine being pregnant and dealing with the bodily changes then stumbling upon my husband's chaturbate account. Men don't appreciate the labor and hardship that goes into having a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:25 PM
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Is he going out and buying her all the snacks she's craving? Is he rubbing her swollen feet? Holding her hair as she vomits from morning sickness? Probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:20 PM
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Yeah, I never said she isn't beautiful, nor was I tearing her down. I'm pointing out that chances are, its edited. Exposure to this kind of heavy, sexualized editing increases incidence of depression for the rest of us. I wish someone told me most of the images I saw were fake when I was 12 and starving myself. Maybe someone on here needed to be reminded today that what they're looking at isn't real. All of us at one point or another needed to be reminded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:14 PM
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Yes, this is true. Looks arent everything. However, women get duped by models on IG like this so its nice to remind women. Instagram is toxic and most of the bodies on there are literally unattainable because they are edited. Most stomachs aren't that flat, no matter how skinny you are. I wanna say it here because a lot of women struggle with this kind of thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:03 PM
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Daily reminder: women dont look like that irl and theres even apps to edit not only pics but videos to create a more flattering figure. Just in case anyone needed to be reminded today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:52 AM
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The only strong muscles that are acceptable are the photoshopped instagram gym girls with huge butts from squatting. If her ass is not absurdly huge, its manly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:45 PM
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Yeah, same. And since it's all about them, they will never compromise when it comes to serious issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:01 PM
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No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:19 PM
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It seems like he interrupted her too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:16 PM
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It seems like gaming and porn addiction go hand in hand a lot of the time too. These men are glutenous westerners and gaming is just the thing to do when you are lazy and/or too privileged to feel the need to go out and live an actual life. Not all gamers are lazy and hedonistic but all lazy and hedonistic men tend to gravitate towards things like gaming where they sit on their ass all day and consume. My last bf was a gamer, mid twenties, still living at home rent-free as well. Completely conte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:13 PM
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Its just being an edgy scrote 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:20 PM
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What a fucking asshole. Pseudo intellectual men are grating to my soul
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 10:11 PM
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Yes this is true. And now I'm at the age where people are getting into those serious enough relationships to marry soon, getting houses and apartments with their SOs. Since I'm so burnt out from dating throughout my teenage years, I'm going to dodge all that shit and hold out for someone at peak HVM. Thank you for your input, I really appreciate hearing that. Gratitude is an easy thing to practice and goes a long way :) I'm proud of the next generation of women who seem to be learning from our m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:42 PM
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I wasted my entire teenage years on shitty relationships with men. I wish I just enjoyed my youth, focused on school and joined clubs and whatnot. I honestly probably would have won scholarships and built healthier self esteem & more talent. Focusing on pleasing men before I was ready for a relationship skewed my entire direction of my life. I'm just making up for my lost youth in my early twenties now and its even sweeter because I have a great career, my own apartment, I moved to another state…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:20 PM
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Thank you. I needed to hear this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:22 PM
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Yup. My bf planned a trip abroad with his buddies, did all the research because he's such a planner apparently... But when it comes to me, he plans absolutely nothing. How men spend so much time with us without valuing us, baffles me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:22 PM
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Yeah, its amazing how women get trapped into the "well at least he isn't an abusive piece of shit who isn't actively hurting me. That means hes amazing" mindset. An abusive boyfriend is a quintessential female experience at this point. It's hard to look through the smoke and see we are doing a disservice to ourselves by accepting subpar behavior just because they aren't abusive. He is lazy with himself btw, so he will definitely be lazy in the future. I'm going through the same steps you went th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:20 PM
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Omg this is amazing. I'm going to steal this idea, but modify it for the pandemic. Next time he invites me over, I'm going to have planned a more fun date with myself instead lol. Face masks, beer and movie night this week
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:17 PM
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I know. The first year of a relationship is usually the best it will ever get. If he's complacent while I'm an attractive twenty-something who still needs to prove himself, I'm going to be severely disappointed when I'm 40
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:16 PM
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Yup, learning FDS too late and realizing I'm not important enough for extra effort. I could imagine you raised the bar high at some point between your shitty ex bfs and your current boyfriend who plans dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:04 PM
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All you said was that he and he actually planned and initiated dates on his own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:58 PM
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Honestly they will say anything they can think of to feel above women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:42 PM
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These same men want kids someday and a wife who will cook and clean for everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:40 PM
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I know, right??? "Men brag about how women cook yet all the famous chefs are menz. Women mAkE tErRiBlE leaders. Women comedians arent as funnaaaayyyy. Women sportz r boring to watch. Men r better friendz gurlz so catty!!11!!" all things out of the mouths of men and women throughout my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 05:29 PM
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He probably cheated on her and did this one, nice romantic thing to win her back. Then he's never going to go out of his way for her again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:10 PM
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Time and time again, I read these stories about how abusive men are to their postpartum wives. I will say it over and over: most men DO NOT deserve my fertility. As long as the bar remains low for how women are treated, I am not having a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:14 AM
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The LVM commenting probably are too selfish to have ever loved a woman enough to want to make her happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:35 AM
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Wow you are so beautiful! I love your eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:57 PM
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At least he's doing what most men tell women to do when they dont want a baby. "if you dont want a baby, dont have sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:58 AM
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It makes me sad to see people wanting to unsub but I get it. The excess hate might point us in the direction of sounding like TRP. The overexposure of shitty men just makes for a negative mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:57 PM
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For reallll. Im a recovering pickmeisha and the women who had their shit together and could have gave me a heads up that my boyfriends in the past were hiding it from me. I felt like an idiot. I was in a place where I needed help and compassion the most, suffering from the accumulation of self esteem issues caused by the ol' patriarchy. A lot of us here are recovering from such a place, and we have to remember where we came from as HVM. Even if we overcome all the shit in the world that led is t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:56 PM
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Ok so I see beautiful women of all ages. They clearly take care of their hair and skin, they are all at a healthy weight. I dont see the issue here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:41 PM
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I still don't know what the plot is to any of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:06 PM
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Agree. When I was a hardcore pickmeisha I was flattered enough to date whoever was into me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:48 AM
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The bare minimum beauty routine: brush hair, brush teeth, wash face, jeans and a t-shirt is above and beyond for men. As a woman, I get shamed for it to no end. I never got into cosmetics, hair products and was too inept to know fashion. So my undone, straight combed hair and comfy t shirts made people think I didnt take cate of myself, like I was some sort of un-woman. It pisses me off when men can get away with being fat, disgusting and balding but God forbid I dont want to put shine and mouss…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:45 AM
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When I dated scrotes, I always ended up going to Marvel movies with them when I'm not even into them, never was. Looking back, I have no idea how I ended up agreeing to movies with boyfriends I dont even like. The social conditioning to just go with whatever men are into is too real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:36 AM
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He sounds like a redpiller. My ex used TRP and would say stuff like "I am the alpha" and I also had the same word for word argument that I am not his employee. Elon definitely at least browses TRP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:32 AM
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Or maybe we can stop being angry at women for getting upset over the fact they had to endure pregnancies, bodily changes and the burden of motherhood without any support of the baby daddy who dumped her, and statistically most likely cheated on her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:28 AM
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This is why I'm not doing it. I refuse to have a baby. Men don't give a shit about what women have to to through. They dont respect women enough to realize how difficult pregnancy is. I am not going to put my life on the line to be treated like absolute garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 01:33 AM
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I'm a newbie and every day I am more and more impressed by this sub for the way it protects and supports women. I don't think I have seen a safer space for women in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:44 PM
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If you don't mind getting into it, what made him seem high value vs being not high value? I'm just asking because I'm in the same situation. I feel like I've been duped by effortless LVM tricks to trick me into thinking he was HVM. Btw congrats on the new guy :) hope to get in your position in a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 09:56 PM
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