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Yes, a girl i meet on Tinder, we initially had a lot of chemistry, texted every single day for like 2 months? +- we dated, everything went great, then weeks after that she suddenly ghosts me with no reason. 2 months later she for some reason, remembers that i had a trip to another country so she texts me apologizing for disappearing and tells me to go on a date with her. Against all my friends advices i still went to the date just for pure curiosity to hear what she had to say, i came back more …
/r/seduction18/08/22 05:15 PM
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Usually when you take 1 or 2 weeks, if the girl has some interest she will prob ask you how are u doing and why u didn’t text her, if she doesn’t not then im afraid she doesn’t really care about you. Good luck mate.
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:16 AM
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Sometimes couples need time, but if someone is interested in you and still has feelings it will eventually come back to you, this applies to both genders. If you are tired of wondering then just tell her to meet up in a bar, café or whatever. Don't rush your feelings towards her but ask her the necessary questions to really know if she still is interested in you.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:48 PM
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Just tell her to meet up for something and straight ask her if theres even a chance you can reconciliate, so you can stop wondering what if, torturing yourself over and over will always put you in a static position and you wont progress. Also, this way you will finally move on, knowing she is not interested from her own words.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:42 PM
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He said he has trouble getting dates, as i do because my name literally scares them off, (you prob use Tinder aswell). He also said hes introvert, in this situation the best he can do is just focus on his persona, let time heal him and come back again. Its not easy for men to get dates specially if you have those traits.
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:02 PM
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"FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR NOT HAVING THE FORESIGHT TO KNOW WHAT NOW SEEMS SO OBVIOUS IN HINDSIGHT" - JUDY BELMONT
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:47 PM
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I would not advice to go on a date if he still feels emotionally weak or vulnerable, he should focus on himself first and just try to improve doing whatever he likes.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:47 PM
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Don't beat yourself with that, its a common mistake all men do, including myself. In my case its because i get emotionally attached very easily, it is hard to move on sometimes, i know. I spent like 3 years coping from a breakup and i honestly i think i just left time to pass instead of completely healing. And yes, her telling that to you might help you a lot to finally move on, people like me only progress when we get slapped or fucked with facts.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:35 PM
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Of course i had, i usually went after finishing my work and gym. She once got mad when i told her i couldn’t stay for long. That’s why i went almost every day, i wanted things to go well between us. Dumb thing to do i know.
/r/seduction29/03/22 09:26 PM
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She insisted to come over her place. Not really my intention.
/r/seduction29/03/22 08:24 PM
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She for some reason didnt want to communicate her feelings at all, i asked her in other dates if she was uncomfortable with something she just had to tell me, but nope. Yes, i really needed those gums as we ate in a Indian restaurant and i could not brush my teeth, i called her immature because it was the second time she behaved like that, the first time i forgave her, but i just find it too immature for a person to ghost out of a date because i went to buy something for 5 minutes. It is true i …
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:38 PM
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thank you brother, appreciate the help
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:09 PM
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You are right, thanks for the input. I really appreciate these helpful comments. No i didnt say she dont deserve a relationship, i told her that in that moment i understood why she couldnt get a relationship. And after all that i just thanked her for the time and wished her well in the future, im not a toxic guy.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:22 PM
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I do agree with some of the points you made, but she already acted like this days ago and i didnt react passive aggressive at all and i just forgave her, how am i very egocentric? i literally posted this because i know its not onesided. I mean, how would you feel if someone dumps you because you went to get cigarettes or whatever for a short period of time? it is true i acted needy, very true. And i should change that, but lets be honest, if she didnt have these weird moments nothing like this w…
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:16 PM
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I honestly didnt know that could affect her behavior to this point, like i just went to a shop 500 meters away for 5 mins. I will eventually move on, but its hard when i get easily attached. Thanks for the comment.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:02 PM
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Yeah she told me she didnt get enough emotional attention when she was a kid, but i didnt expect that behavior since she acted really nice and comprehensive the first dates, i was really surprised how she left me just because i was out for like 5mins! we literally had a really nice meal at a restaurant before that, where i obviously paid everything, as i should do. Worst part is we were going to a forest park to have a picnic and thats why i was infuriated when she dumped me for a minor thing li…
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:42 PM
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/r/seduction29/03/22 12:25 PM
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I worked the shit out of myself back then at the gym, i really had a very good physique, 6ft, good looking face etc, but i still couldnt get any girl, why? because i dont have charisma, i literally dont speak to girls, i get very anxious with them. Even when they approached me i was so fucking clueless about how to speak to them that it made it so awkward i made them think i already had a gf, so yeah, having a good physique definitely helps. But charisma is even more important.
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:56 PM
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Do you realize that im armenian you idiot? How many functional brain cells you have?
/r/seduction23/04/21 02:13 PM
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Thats the real you, i knew you were a dumb hothep with that stupid phrase of "women across the world loves us". In your dreams maybe. Sit down, hothep.
/r/seduction23/04/21 02:08 PM
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Shut up hothep
/r/seduction23/04/21 02:00 AM
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You definitely have mental problems, you're also insecure af
/r/seduction23/04/21 01:55 AM
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No, it was me. Im not ashamed of that. And this doesnt have anything to do with the subject anyway.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:46 AM
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cough what? im not the one putting race as the problem of why i cant date girls. But im getting gang downvoted because reddit is full of politically correct weasels.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:09 AM
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I'm not even black, if only afroamericans had the same mentality than the rest of native africans the world would be a much better place, im tired of yall stupid victimist attitude, its always the same "Oh I cANt Do/gEt/HaVe ThAt Cus Im BlAck" if you only knew what REAL racism is... No wonder they look at yall different even tho they are your ancestors.
/r/seduction23/04/21 12:07 AM
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This isn't about me, and a lot happened in 1 year. You remind me of those stupid comments i always find on the internet, specially hotheps. Btw stop stalking me you creep.
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:58 PM
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When yall put race aside you'll get way more chances👍 id understand if he felt that as an inmigrant, but afroamericans are equal as any other american so i dont really get his point. Yeah, racist people exist, but its not like hes a pakistani in the UK.
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:05 PM
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"women across the world loves us" that sounded like some superiority bullshit to me.
/r/seduction22/04/21 11:00 PM
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i swear theres always that guy to make it all a racial thing.
/r/seduction22/04/21 10:53 PM
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Yes, the girl i loved rejected me after i asked her out, few days later i found out one of my best friends started to date her knowing how i felt, but thats life, not made for the weaks, move on. Its not easy i know, but really its the only thing you can do. Worse things can happen (and already happened to me).
/r/seduction12/12/19 04:48 PM
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We call them "calienta pollas" in Spain, they really make you think they want something, and then they sting from the back. Its ok if a woman rejects you, no hard feelings she got all the right to do it, but i dont tolerate women that are misleading you to think they are interested in something, they just play with your head.
/r/seduction11/11/19 01:26 PM
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Well yeah, you know its not even worth all the shit u go thru. But the first times it just hurts and u feel useless. Best thing is not torture your head thinking over and over.
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:05 PM
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I mean there is a social pression to lose it
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:07 PM
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I'm also 21, and still a virgin, not because i couldn't fuck a girl, because my stupid attitude, your probelm is you give to much importance to that, (and i did, too. Torturing my head over and over for nothing) if you really want to lose your virginity fast just go to a girl club or something, or just don't be impatient, build yourself, improve yourself and wait for the right girl. You and i still have a lot of years ahead to think about this shit forever man. Believe me, don't overthink.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:45 AM
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He did know about my feelings i already told him lots of times that what he was doing hurt me a lot. He also did crappy things to me before and some of them were really bad, but i forgived him, this time tho i'm really struggling to find out what to do, i still don't want to end our friendship yet, till i calm down and think with my head cold., then i will decide what to do. But i just feel like he doesn't give a fuck about me honestly. And my intuition got it right about them having sex so... i…
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:36 PM
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I forgot to add that this girl was very misleading, she was constantly touching me, flirting with me, dancing with me and more things only a couple would do, in Spain we call this girls "calienta pollas" (which more or less means a girl heating your dick for nothing) so that's why i ended up seduced by her. She really liked physical contact and she told me many times to grab her ass, and i was very uncomfortable because i was confused by her intentions.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:54 PM
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I agree, i should not let other people influence my happiness.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:39 PM
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It's not about owning the woman, it's about mutual respect in a friendship. He could have texted me or talked me about him hanging out with her... i mean i was destroyed emotionally... and a week later i found out they were hanging out like every week.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:39 PM
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Thanks guys, i don't have much experience with this shit so that might explain why i felt useless.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:37 PM
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I'm not toxic, it's not the first time this friend did me wrong. I have forgiven him many times about bad shit he did. But because i really valued our friendship i still wanted to be friends.
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:36 PM
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ng from depression because of this, seek professional help. You need it. Then, when you finally got back into the real world with a healthy mind, you should go out and meet women! Flirt, approach, get rejected, learn, rinse and repeat. In time you will start to see a change. You will stop obsessing over one girl, you will mature, you will be able to manage your expectations and grow as a man and person. The other change you will see is that you will suddenly experience success, and only because …
/r/seduction12/08/19 02:35 PM
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He may be cool with it, but believe me, he will feel some kind of pain automatically, this is attached to our brain to react to that, lions don't do that to each other. But at least you talked with him about it, that means you respect your friendship and you care about his feelings. He said he is cool with it so he can't really blame you, but he will feel some kind of pain anyway. If the girl is worth it then go for it, don't let that torture your head because you overthink too much. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:38 AM
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Look, if she was your friend's ex i wouldn't do anything, thats just a bad thing to do and not sensible towards your friend, i got betrayed by a ex-friend with a similar situation but with a girl i really liked, and believe me it hurts a lot. A hole is never worth a friendship.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:28 AM
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Because i suspected that he had sex with her but i really didn't know if it was true. But you are right, i was stupid by talking to him again if it was so obvious they had something.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:19 AM
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I still taked to him becaus he lied me about him having sex with her, not this time tho because he confessed me.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:14 AM
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You can't control who you fall in love with
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:12 AM
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I really feel you man, i don't get any kind of relationships with women not because my physical appearance, but because my shitty pussy attitude. I wish i could help you, but i'm in the same situation as you i'm afraid.
/r/seduction12/08/19 10:12 AM
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