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| 1 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?the logic is flawed to begin with. in any area, thinking women will approach you on average is doomed to start. but thinking, womens lack of approaching means they dont like muscle on a man is flawed. Youll find this out talking to women or experience it yourself. See what they grab, and compliment. "nice arms, nice ass." Getting groped etc. But thinking getting in shape will get women to ask you out is peak autism. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 08:28 PM |
| 3 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?You’re thinking in extreme edge cases. When people say for an average person to put on muscle and lose fat - it’s a worthy and realistic pursuit. You’re jumping immediately to the most extreme physique athletes in the world and that has nothing to do with your average man or woman. Saying women don’t like contest lean bodybuilders is basically moot. Why even bring that up? For the .05% of physical enthusiasts that want to go down that path? You’re dealing in extremes when you need to look at ave… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Went to a rave partyDon listen to him. He seems to be gatekeeping raves - implying no one goes to meet other people lol delusional | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 08:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First Solo Club Night After 8 Years in a Relationship (31M)You’re blaming yourself way too much man. But happy for your new you. Also if it’s your thing, finding a gym girl or runner something like that would work really well | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 07:39 PM |
| 6 | How does sex between actual friends usually happen or start?It’s a tale as old as time. And everyone thinks they can break the rule | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Create a Lifestyle That Naturally Attracts Love & Sex Partners“Great reply! And you’re so right to agree. Here’s a quick breakdown…” | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 09:18 PM |
| 16 | How to deal with men using physical force and threats of violence to cockblock you:What a shit woman | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Sweet guy vs confident guy: resultsLiterally “when people show you who they are believe them” as I was reading this. Trash qualities | /r/seduction | 12/07/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Is it crazy to move gyms because there are nearly no women at my gym?I might be projecting my own experience and observations onto OP. And yes agreed organic is best. Actually just remembered long ago too one girl opened me and tried picking me up in the gym but it was super casual and nothing felt weird or forced. So yeah I’d agree if his goal was to run game don’t switch gyms go do that outside, but if he wanted to train hard but be around more diversity with potential for organic relationships both men and women then I think it’s a valid choice | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it crazy to move gyms because there are nearly no women at my gym?I’m playing devils advocate here and we need to define how people meet in the gym, but I know plenty of people that meet in the gym and date/hookup. I get the sense op is not running game/cold approach in the gym he’s doing his sets but if he happens to become friendly with regulars he will do that. If you’re a regular at a gym and you’re doing good you make friends and get to know other gym rats both men and women. To suggest someone into fitness should meet women in bars isn’t the best advice … | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked for MY Instagram - Is that a good sign?Clout and ego and obsession | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 01:02 AM |
| 4 | How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female?You'll probably meet someone in church so typically look for traditional religious people. Depends where you live | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateBased | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Going the Zyzz routeFuture “I’m fuarking Zyzz brah” | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I seduce a GILF?GILFs love those little coffee hard candies | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men ghost when everything is going well?Stress, mood, someone else comes up, or no particular reason at all or frankly sometimes we just don’t care enough to be blunt | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Tinder hookup failI can’t even…no way the simplistic advice to take a shower actually is the relevant answer in this case | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 08:39 PM |
| 5 | She invited me back to her home but we didn’t have sexI appreciate you putting your ego aside to post this L. A lot of guys have been here hahaha. Next time make a move she basically did everything and you did nothing | /r/seduction | 30/03/25 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Talking to multiple girls is the best way.Im tired for you | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 12:25 AM |
| 21 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulDating apps are absolutely cooked; its a business and gets worse year by year | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 10:21 PM |
| 11 | How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid?You’re sounding like a Scorpio right now | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub Field Report - or How I Met my FiancéeLove this story thanks for sharing. Best of luck and health to your relationship | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How to be a F*ckboy in 2024, an Official GuideWe’re all immigrants according to the out of Africa theory | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themUnsolicited advice is usually not cool | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Drinking lots ruins your gameAnother point to add, and it’s not everyone’s experience but for me, if I drink too much I get hit with the depressant effects and get sleepy as hell | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 07:02 PM |
| 0 | You need to spend money to get laid!Lead with the wallet. Agreed | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Using dating apps worth it in 2024 ?Text dries up likely from her end. Being listless means you don’t have any enthusiasm | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 5 | She liked my message when I asked her out?Probably has to do with how far out you asked | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 soon and absolutely clueless and sexually frustated after attempting cold approach yesterday for the upteenth time. As a 6'4" slightly nerdy black dude who has embraced the blackpill and lives with his parents, finding women into me is near impossible...Can I ask you about the dancing stuff? What are the demographics like in these classes in your experience? | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:06 PM |
| 19 | A girl is telling my friends that I’m gay because I didn’t want to fuck herOur definitions of hook up are different. Yours means kissing but for many, means sex | /r/MensRights | 21/04/24 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do tickets cost more for males?Np | /r/MensRights | 12/04/24 05:40 AM |
| 7 | Why do tickets cost more for males?Idk bro I never said anything about sexism. Just replying to why businesses, like clubs, “need ladies” | /r/MensRights | 12/04/24 12:20 AM |
| 20 | Why do tickets cost more for males?Men go where women are. More women=more men spending money. Otherwise everywhere will be a sausagefest | /r/MensRights | 12/04/24 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why tf are female to female compliments considered the norm, while male to male compliments are considered "gay"?Hey Peter, nice cock | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Why does every ignore the millions of posts on social media hating on short men?Ah I gotcha my bad you’re right | /r/MensRights | 25/02/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Why does every ignore the millions of posts on social media hating on short men?Uhhh did I miss that lesson on conversions? 1” =2.54cm so 180cm is 5’9” | /r/MensRights | 25/02/24 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Ouch!First you throw the crackhead on da grill | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/11/22 04:29 AM |
| 4 | On the rise of lonely single menUpvoted you positive! | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Is it wise to rub one out before deciding whether you’re actually interested in meeting up with someone?Look into controlling your breath and relaxing your muscles during sex. Meditating in general helps with this | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:04 AM |
| 5 | To the MALES: glitch for Karisma, less approach anxiety, and more confidenceThe thing about testosterone is even if these studies show a certain % increase it almost always doesn’t matter or affect anything. If your test is 400ng/dl and you raise it 10% you have 440ng…big whoop. Nothing interesting happens between low and high end normal test ranges, until you go supra-physiological range Not to mention free testosterone is where the money is not total. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 12:03 AM |
| 1 | A very controversial, possibly triggering question: Is a big percentage of women in their early 20s today lazy?28-29 had my come up | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The growing of telling women you trade stocks for a living?That’s hilarious op. And your figures are right most traders/investors fail.they shouldn’t lie. Most people even in the game don’t know their ass from their elbow about the market, and are just hoping for a rally that isn’t coming anytime soon. Worlds economy is in flames rn, the S&P is down -24%. Most institutions are down 15-30% I’m happy to be part of the 1%. Full time profitable day trader 😉 but I tell people I own a business, or I work from home. Sometimes I say day trader and it does feel … | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 01:32 AM |
| 14 | Me: "Can I see you again?" Her: "You can come to my volleyball game"I’m gonna say pass dog. She’s not interested but won’t mind your attention in the stands | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 02:35 AM |
| 64 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Dominant women eat weak men alive it’s brutal | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 11 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?All relationships/attraction dynamics have and work best with a masculine role and feminine role. Even seen in gay couples. Doesn’t matter men or women or square. Someone plays the masculine and feminine role otherwise it’s incongruent | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Don't be tempted or fooled by cheap substitutes that allow modern society to rob you of the opportunity to form real connectionsAyyy +1 for naming caffeine. Shit numbs you out to what’s important mentally beyond the terrible physical effects | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 15 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Or eating food/going to restaurants/rooftop bars | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Las Vegas is nutsPerfect! I’ll put Vegas on the list | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Las Vegas is nutsDid you meet these girls at bars/clubs? How’d you get the hook up to a party? GJ | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Options trader. It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you find success. This goes along with working on yourself all around and actually socializing and talking to women. If you’re hung up on any one thing it’s because you’re not on your purpose and you’re deviating from your masculine core | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone been able to healthy let go of women and dating?Once I found my career calling and started earning and developing passion it’s all I care about now. It makes it easier to disregard things that don’t matter much. Funnily enough that attracts others to you | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Do men care about boobsBig tits are really fun ngl but so are small ones and everything in between. Typically for me, ass is what makes or break. Own yourself and have fun | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 05:05 AM |
| 12 | What's an instant turn off for you guys from a girl?Narcissistic/big ego, just generally not being a nice person, no purpose/ambition | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 04:55 AM |
| 5 | This is how I got her to say the famous “I don’t usually do this…” at the end of our dateI’m growing my hair out too from always having a fade on the sides. Getting a ton of compliments and I’m liking it a lot. Suits my head and face better | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 2 | For the hatersSometime around the beginning of the pandemic or maybe before, a large amount of incels and a large amount of women joined and now post and comment in this sub. I’ve lurked for years and can see the difference in trends. This was very much a pua/cold approach/field report subreddit a long while ago now idk what | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Stroke alert | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I’m gonna start working out.You can do it. People here will say body isn’t that important but at 110 you will look very bad to both women and men. That’s not to shame you that’s to be realistic. Hetero feminine women want a man stronger and bigger than them and men respect other men who share those attributes. 110 at 5’9” is anorexic levels please be safe. Learn to love food track your meals. It’s not enough to eat like a bird all day then have a pizza at night. On paper it looks like a lot of food but will struggle to bre… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Does causal sex leave you feeling a bit empty?Every time, in my experience, they develop feelings and want more. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 04:08 AM |
| 8 | Pay close attention to how your eyes feel when interacting with others. Having warmth in your eyes is one of the most important factors in successful social interactionThis is legit; found this out naturally. It’s especially important because i can come off as standoffish/aloof/moody through my eyes and brows but im usually having a great day and am one of the chillest persons around. So I have to “soften” my eyes a bit consciously | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I have developed some biceps due to gym. I see a night and day difference to how my dates gothis made me think of that comedian that bombed on stage and said “look at my fuckin bicep! | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 09:26 PM |
| 0 | Your girlfriend isn’t pursuing or wanting to have sex as much, what do y’all do?Find a new one. Treat yourself better you’re the prize remember that | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 06:48 PM |
| 11 | Turns out my looks were never the real issue…In general. People harp on “oh should be mostly nonfiction” but I think fiction is great too. Reading is weight lifting for the mind. I don’t read as often as I did in my early twenties but damn I know the difference it makes in overall cognition. Actually doing it is the hard part | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Turns out my looks were never the real issue…Reading books | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.For sure, ya thanks for clarifying. Funny you mention about the ring; I too notice rings right away these days, it’s a good thing to watch for | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.Explain more please? | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl staring at me at workYou probably look like her ex or her friend back in the day. Or you can just ask her out | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Dating with a tall girl?5’10” dated a 6’1 girl for a year and fwb multi years after. Didn’t really care too much, but I can see why someone one would b insecure. I’ve found a lot of taller women to be full of confidence and very sure of themselves yet still very feminine | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Yes you explained my reasoning succinctly; I wouldn’t be upset but I like to point out when someone is doing something socially unacceptable. Like calling out a bully instead of ignoring; not arguing necessarily just standing your ground. I can be blunt at times but it’s better to be polarizing than conflict averse | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 16 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?weird situation, as far as the rude girl I would've let her known she was rude/being a bitch/whats her problem too before leaving. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Why can I pick up girls when I'm super dirty.The lure of the animal! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Why can I pick up girls when I'm super dirty.You’re like Kramer from Seinfeld. He’s dirty, dresses weird and smells bad but he lives to his own accord | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far)You’re a patient man, good job tho | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Went on 3 dates with a 10/10: My experience (so far)Whole ordeal sounds like such a headache | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Getting compliments“Thank you” | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:18 AM |
| 8 | I tried shooting my shot and It didn’t work - now I feel worthless.You’re not worthless. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:16 AM |
| 4 | Best place for a Brit with a strong accent to travel and hook up in the USA?Anywhere, girls think it’s fancy and intelligent | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ahh I’m going thru the seasons right now. Also started Curb last night | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 12:57 AM |
| 38 | [deleted by user]Slightly unrelated but watch “The Red Dot” episode of Seinfeld. George bangs the cleaning lady at his desk gives her a damaged discounted cashmere sweater and then gets fired after she rats on him lmao | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Sex with lights on or off? Under the covers or over?Dim the light; sex above. I never understood in the dark under blankets. It gets hot you can’t go down on her and kiss her all over; you also can’t see her beauty with a blanket on you suffocating | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?The best things you can do for your face that don’t require a knife; Lose body fat - it’ll chisel you’re face and highlight masculine facial features. Low teens for men. Women constantly comment on the jawline of men. Microneedle/dermaroll - plumps skin, makes it glow and restore collagen. Some facial serum/lotion containing Hyaluronic acid - hydrates inside the cell and plumps skin | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Almost every girl I’ve been with has left me. I try to keep them engaged but I’m not good at keeping a conversation going. I’m pretty quiet. I don’t know how to flirt without coming off too strong or not flirtatious enough. If I ft after like 10mins we’ll just be staring at each other.God damn truth; I’ve found every day I become more like this, and people open up and gravitate to you. It’s when you’re hiding parts of yourself or avoiding conflict that repels others | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Danced with a girl last night in the club, and then she ended up running awayLmao so random | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 51 | What’s your biggest piece of sex advice?Worship her body. Feel her, touch her, she comes first, tap into your primal urges. Let her hear your breathing, pay attention to her movement and moans. When she says she wants you to come you keep going until she’s had multiple orgasms. I call it caveman sex, like you’re an animal | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It’s a myth, our ancestors are from Africa and Africa has had some of the oldest and juiciest fruits that didn’t need human intervention to get big and sugary. Can’t think of the article but there’s fruits that haven’t been touched for thousands of years that have high sugar content. It’s only outside of Africa did fruits need intensive selection. Also humans have been snatching honey from bees since forever. Cool stuff. Eat your fruit don’t fear nutrients fear over eating and being sedentary ;) | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on a girl approaching a guy?do it | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Let’s go full trottle | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | 25 year old virgin here. Been with people a couple times but have never gone all the way. Have a date tonight and then Netflix and chill. Any advice? Anything is appreciated.Relax | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 8 | Girls wont reply on Insta but in person there was lots of chemistry. What the hell..To me it’s one big shit show of vapidity, narcissism and validation seeking. I hate it. Take away likes and visibility of followers and the app dies imo | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Why would a girl want to be in proximity when I decide to drink for the first time ?She wants to fuck and thinks the only way you’ll loosen up is by lowering your inhibitions with booze. I’m taking this post at face value | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 08:23 AM |
| 8 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesBefore clicking I thought to myself “please be Good Morning Julia” and oh was I ever surprised 😂 | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How to last longer in bed?Relax muscles and focus on your breathing. The more your muscles tighten and flex the easier it is to cum. When your breathing is shallow your muscles tense. When your breathing is deep and in the belly you will relax. | /r/seduction | 03/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | First Date report!! From 0 chemistry to kissing and more!!Testing your masculine frame | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 02:58 AM |
| 4 | What is your hobby?Lifting weights, jump rope, stock trading/options trading, gaming, reading and currently trying to convince myself to take up boxing. Dabble in gardening too I try to grow tomatoes every year | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be too manly to seek validation. (GREAT READ BY NEBU)So true. Beautiful women are some of the nicest and most receptive in my experience | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 06:06 AM |
| 0 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?Beyond looks and all just being a nice person | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between flirty teasing and friendly banter?Ummmm | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Misconceptions about Having HobbiesNow that’s what I call a good post | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Blocked immediately after first dateThis. If she was receptive enough to talk for a couple weeks and then go over to his place right away (lol) and nothing happened she's going to think you're gay or you're timid and its a waste of time. Women want sex just as much as men and after such an easy opportunity missed she's going to move on. | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Blocked immediately after first dateThis should be top post | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 08:24 AM |
| 8 | A girl is like a protein shakeThis is copy pasted from Based Zeus on YouTube | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | A girl is like a protein shakeThis isn’t his originally. It’s from BasedZeus on youtube, an self-improvement/game channel | /r/seduction | 08/09/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Movies Like LimitlessMy favorite book. Such a great adventure and comeback story. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 10:36 PM |
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