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| 1 | Do you think straight men are dehumanizing/objectifying you just because they aren't interested in platonic friendships? If so, why?There is a fourth category: I want to be friends with her. There's plenty of women I enjoyed being friends with, it helped that they were not my type sexually. But a lot of men will turn down an offer of "let's be friends" after being romantically rejected out of a sense of self respect. Those men think the 'friendship' being offered is fake and would amount to him being strung along for favors. Now if you had come up to a man and offered friendship with no more work than a same sex friendship h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not designed for womenOnline dating is 90% of US dating largely because of changes that women fought for. If OP doesn't like then she has only her own sisters to blame. OP claimed she was a victim because some guy asked for her number https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15dv13e/the_desperation_of_men_disgusts_me/ now she bemoans online dating's prevalence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not designed for womenOnline dating is 90% of US dating largely because of changes that women fought for. If OP doesn't like then she has only her own sisters to blame. OP claimed she was a victim because some guy asked for her number https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15dv13e/the_desperation_of_men_disgusts_me/ now she bemoans online dating's prevalenc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.Untrue - the US allows for dual citizenship; there are millions of american citizens who are also citizens of european or asian or latin american countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.How is it unethical or anti-egalitarian to marry a woman from an EU member state or wealthy Asian city or Mexican ranching family? You have infantilized most of the female population on earth. Apparently you think Brazilian or Australian women can't consent to be married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.Oh well too bad - dating apps are 90% of the US dating scene. Partly because of social shifts that women fought for. So I don't want to have to hear about how its so tough on OLD for women. Ladies can end it anytime by asking guys out for coffee or using their cultural power to promote more in person socializing in third places | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:29 AM |
| – | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.Overseas is the best place for US to find a wife but I think its best for the man to maximize his gains by moving to her country. That makes marriage more equal since the man gets a second citizenship and access to a welfare state and cheaper housing market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?To answer the OP - astrology is not a deal breaker for me. I can easily tolerate it to be in a nice relationship, everyone has something annoying about them - its no big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipI personally enjoy and desire platonic friendship with women, often times they're not my type so there's no sexual tension. I just don't want a friendship with any 2xchromosomes user. I don't want any sort of relationship with women incapable of giving me the benefit of the doubt on account of my reproductive organs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipAlso women think single moms are entitled to have an above average man take care of them and their kids. Imagine the outrage if men believe that male losers are entitled to have a beautiful woman help them fix their life mistakes. But that is the equivalent of belief that single moms are entitled to a nice husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipAlso women think single moms are entitled to have an above average man take care of them and their kids. Imagine the outrage if men believe that male losers are entitled to have a beautiful woman help them fix their life mistakes. But that is the equivalent of belief that single moms are entitled to a nice husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commitIf you have a decent body then most men will find you attractive. We're attracted to women on the basis of their ability to have kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:01 AM |
| – | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)I live rough sex but I'd never hit a girl, I like tying women up but I'd never cheat on one. Its not really contradictory | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)I don't take dating advice from women or guys online I generally take advice from successful men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | When approaching someone, it feels like you have to be as indirect as possibleI only approach women who work in places like shops or cafes. I come in regularly, interact a little bit and then get her name so I can look her up on facebook to see if she's single and get a feel for her personality. All she can do is say no (and that's fine), she can't make a scene or put me up on tiktok without possibly losing her job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:42 AM |
| – | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)Though I don't think women want exclusively bad boys. They want dominant overtly masculine men. If they had a choice between a bad boy and an old school humphrey bogart type who is dominant but not abusive they'd go with the old school guy. It must be very hard to find someone who is dominant but not abusive But bad boys are the low hanging fruit and women will choose them over soft boys. Much like how men will take trashy stripper types who are submissive over more domineering but classier corp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:39 AM |
| – | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)Taking dating advice from a woman is as much of a bad idea as taking dating advice from your mom. If a woman says "just be polite and be yourself" file that alongside "you're such a handsome young man." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:27 AM |
| – | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)Women's dating advice is never sincere, they tell men platitudes that women don't actually believe. The advice doesn't help and really causes men to self sabotage. You have nothing to worry about, women would never go out with a guy just because he said he liked the book she's reading. A girl goes out with a fuckboy because he's attractive, that's it. Advice that women give on reddit is as helpful as your uncle telling you "If you just work hard you'll succeed and be rich" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | purplepilldebate bannedYou need to focus on getting a foreign spouse. If you're not obese and average to above average you can do pretty well overseas | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | purplepilldebate bannedYou need to focus on getting a foreign spouse. If you're not obese and average to above average you can do pretty well overseas | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Why don't men pursue anymore... or: why I wouldn't be interested in dating if I were single today.Nah it seems that they get flooded with them. An above average guy could realistically land a Japanese wife, who likely has a low body count. So why should he risk humiliation, false accusations and a ruined reputation by trying to talk to a onlyfans girl? Young men should focus on achieving goals and then finding a foreign spouse. Leave the women who hate them to sort through fake profiles made by Pakistani men | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 04:01 AM |
| 1 | The problem with online dating is just that it breaks dating dynamics and only promotes one piece of the pieYour whole post is delusional copium - women are not going to become attracted to anyone based on personality. If you're not good looking there's no amount of personality that offset that. Men generally would not go out with an obese woman who turned out to be really fun and nice to be around. Why would it be any different for men? People date for status symbols, they want the best looking person they can get partly to make other people jealous. Personality can't make yo more desirable. The movi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:02 AM |
| – | Why don't men pursue anymore... or: why I wouldn't be interested in dating if I were single today.American women get to enjoy having their love lives consist of dick pix and catfishing because femeales made it taboo for men to look at women in public. If women don't like they can start asking men out, if they don't then they really care about their egos more than finding someone - so all the more reason to steer clear Meanwhile guys will go overseas to marry women capable of empathizing with men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 02:37 AM |
| 1 | The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things.If we can all stop pretending that dating is about love it would be nice. People are looking for a status symbol to marry. Men want arm candy to show they've made it, women want a doctor who looks like fred mcmurray to make their friends jealous. Love is as much of a factor as it was in arranged marriages between aristocratic families. Victorian Britain was more romantic than our society. The idea of finding love in today's dating scene that resembles a dystopian society's gameshow is absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | The gamification of the dating marketplace - the nature of women and brutally competitive landspace requires constant adjustment/change in strategy (even micro) to appeal to this dynamic. This results in loss of authenticity/natural progression of things.If we can all stop pretending that dating is about love it would be nice. People are looking for a status symbol to marry. The idea of finding love in today's dating scene that resembles a dystopian society's gameshow is absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Catcalling (or lack thereof) is killing my hardly-existing confidenceFYI I've been to Paris with women I knew were attractive and they never got catcalled. They never mentioned anything about it to me. Maybe its dying out in Paris | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | What does “real” love look like to you?I don't believe in love. The best you can hope for is a long term friends with benefits relationship. Basically a sexual relationship with your best friend so that you also enjoy their company outside of sex with minimal drama | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What does “real” love look like to you?I don't believe in love. The best you can hope for is a long term friends with benefits relationship. Basically a sexual relationship with your best friend so that you also enjoy their company outside of sex with minimal drama | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.You're not going to find love in the US which is a sociopathic society. American men and women are too selfish and anti-social to love. The best you can do is a nice FWB relationship, anything more in like hunting for a nice hotel in a bombed out ruin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:10 AM |
| – | Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ?If you marry for economic reasons then you really didn't care about concepts of romantic love. Actually it is un-progressives, that's how traditional marriage worked since the wheel's invention. The point is that if most people are marrying for status, money then we really haven't diverted that much from traditional marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:38 AM |
| – | Would you consider dating a man with a working class / blue collar job ?If most women would honestly say no then that means romantic love is dead. It means that status, money is important to them than love. If true love is real it won't match your economic aspirations. The odds finding true love are very low, the odd of finding true love who belongs to an ideal economic tier are impossibly low. For all our social progressivism and tearing away tradition we've wound up with a very traditional dating scene where some women choose partners on a criteria similar to aris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:42 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW influence on dating tendsYou should focus on becoming a homeowner, even if you just own the crappiest studio condo you can still get yourself a 20 something live in girlfriend with the offer of rent free living. You know how many girls are on the knife's edge of homelessness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW influence on dating tendsI wasn't advocating prenups - my advice was don't get married at all instead get a cohabitation contract with a live in girlfriend. Think of it as modern concubinage, which isn't a sex slave - its a relationship with a woman who acts like a wife without a wife's status Regardless a cohabitation contract especially properly word can't be used to get any assets if she leaves. Say the contract pledges you to take care of her and the baby (which you want to do anyway) but if she leaves she gets noth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:56 AM |
| – | MGTOW influence on dating tendsMGTOW is a bit silly because it isn't a choice between swearing off women and being in a dysfunctional marriage. Get a live in girlfriend and get a cohabitation contract that protects your assets and includes a fidelity clause. Then you have a relationship much like concubinage without the negatives of marriage. Circumstances incentivize her to keep that relationship alive instead of ending it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Answer the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:20 AM |
| – | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?I didn't say that women can't be oppressed - its just that when they are its because of money not 'patriarchy.' You sound like a tinfoil hatter explaining how the people he believes to be living his walls only come out at a certain hour. In a patriarchy women are controlled and excluded from opportunities by strict gender roles, in our society money determines their lives. Which is more common? Women suffering because of arranged marriages? Or women suffering because of high rent, stagnant wages… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:07 AM |
| – | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Women were the biggest beneficiaries of affirmative action. In a patriarchy women are locked into gender roles: a girl is going to be a wife, concubine or sex worker. Maybe if she's lucky she can enter a few professions traditional see as female occupations like nurse or widwife. But in our society its money that decides and limits your life. If a girl can't achieve her dreams its because of money and the class she was born into. Not gender roles. If a poor girl wants to be an engineer no one sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:13 AM |
| – | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?All three are incorrect we live in a plutocracy. Money determines one's life not gender. Is a boy born into a trailer park likely to go farther in life than a girl with upper middle class parents? How many women are homeless because nimby women are doing everything they can to shut down construction of homeless shelters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Which is outweighed by the tweet labeling him an incel that got 112.8K likes See the last tweet I included for the tv show thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?It got 81 likes and its a thread of a post that got 112.8K likes for shaming a guy as an incel who only said that he thinks girls are pretty but avoids talking to ones out of his league. Why did the original incel pickup lines get so many likes and RTs? It wasn't ratioed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?She's responding to a tweet with 100,000+ likes smearing a guy as an incel for saying that he avoids interacting with women out of his league - exactly what feminists want him to do. That proves my point. Incel is largely used as a word to shame socially awkward sexually inactive guys or just used by women as an insult for any disagreement. There are countless posts, tweets arguing that men are incels if they criticize certain tv shows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I already gave one https://twitter.com/MoleModern/status/1536858336854958082 https://twitter.com/SDWolf/status/1146521608737062912 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:34 PM |
| – | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Did I ask? Of course words matter, your use of the word autistic is a bad idea partly because it lets people off the hook for negative behavior and throws disabled people under the bus | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?He buys the apartment for about 15,000 USD. You don't see to understand currency exchange rates or that prices are not universal. You can live very well on a low income if you own your own home. Most people are busting their asses to pay rent or mortgage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?That is the official definition, not the way its used by most people. I told you to look at how people use the word on social media. They're mostly mocking men for virginity or sexual inactivity. Most people are only see the 'cel' part of incel and mock male celibacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:52 PM |
| – | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?That depends on the country, you clearly haven't traveled much . If a guy marries a foreigner from a second world country he probably buy an apartment for the equivalent of a year's worth of rent money back home. The bills and food are all cheaper due to the currency exchange. It would be cheaper than living in any US first tier city. And he likely has access to a better welfare state than the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:50 PM |
| – | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?There's no reason except prejudice against the disabled to reflexively assume autism when interacting with people who displease you Apparently you define "autistic behavior" as anything bad, negative or anything you dislike. That is clear bigotry against disabled people, as if normal people are incapable of bad or anti-social behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?The groups wouldn't ban violent people for much the same reason why the Genovese family does not kick members out for breaking the law. 90% of what I've seen is people using the word to shame sexually inactive who are not literal incels. Or its people using it to insult anyone they disagree with. https://twitter.com/MoleModern/status/1536858336854958082 Its very rare to find a case where incel is used to insult a literal incel. And most of the public thinks an incel is just an socially inept sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?The problem is that the word incel is so overused that most people think it refers to any sexually inactive male who is awkward and/or lonely. Doesn't matter if the guy respects women or not. That's how most people use the word in our culture. Countless labels men without misogynistic views are incels for being unlucky or inactive in dating. The waters have been very muddied. I'm not sure most people even know there's a formal incel subculture that is a violent threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?I'm talking about people in dating related discussion who automatically label people they dislike as autistic. No evidence they actually are. Its overt hatred of disabled people and treats a disability as an evil trait. It speaks to the lowkey eugenics that underlies much of modern dating. It also lets poisonous off the hook for their bad behavior. Don't label people with bad or awkward behavior as autistic without actual evidence of a diagnosis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Marry a foreign national and you get access to a welfare state, cheaper housing market and a second passport. So its a more fair balanced deal than domestic marriage. If I married someone from a poor country it could still carry more benefits than marrying an upper middle class girl from my hometown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:14 PM |
| – | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Finding a healthy relationship in a foreign country is way realistic than finding an FWB who cares about you in the US dating scene. Romantic love is dead and buried in the US, people mate and pair off for money, status and looks. Much like aristocrats of old. Love is not on the menu If a woman met the love of her life and he turned out to be a janitor, she'd run for the hills. If a man met the love of his life but she was a little plain and maybe not quite the status symbol he wanted he too wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?A femcel isn't a woman unable to get laid. Its a woman who can't get into a relationship. She has sex with men, they use her for sex and leave. So she can't get commitment. Femcels get men to fuck them, they can't get them to stay. Usually this is because these women lack empathy and long term planning. They assume that getting a man to commit is just the same as getting a man to fuck: just look attractive without bringing anything else to the table. They don't understand that they have to provi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:46 AM |
| – | What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon?Can people stop blaming on bad behavior on autism? It overt hatred of the disabled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyYou can't be a mindreader or predict if she might turn on you. All the vetting in the world can't predict a marriage. Much better just to have a live in girlfriend with some contract. All the benefits of marriage without the negatives. "Baby, I love you and will take care of you and the kids if you be loyal to me and help out around the house. But if you cheat, you'll be out on your ass." Risk of poverty and single mom hell or losing custody of kids is a good motivator for a woman to stay loyal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?You secure commitment by providing emotional support, building trust, convincing him that you'll be a good partner in endeavors and that you won't tolerate abuse but also won't complain about trivial shit. A man thinks about commitment this way, "after we have sex what else do you have?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | if withholding sex is not a good way to secure commitment, then what is?You secure commitment by providing emotional support, building trust, convincing him that you'll be a good partner in endeavors and that you won't tolerate abuse but also won't complain about trivial shit. A man thinks about commitment this way, "after we have sex what else do you have?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:21 AM |
| – | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societySo the woman can't divorce the man on a whim and take a lot of his stuff. But in cohabitation or civil union she has more incentive to stay with the man and avoid single mom hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Biologist David P. Barash Ph.D. theory on how preferentially-polygamous humans became monogamousWhen men become wealthy they become polygamous. Most rich guys at least have a mistress, Elon Musk bangs multiple women at his company and has kids by several mothers. Polyandry is becoming normalized: cuck relationships, hotwives are all polyandrous. If you fucked a married woman you were basically duped into believing that its macho to part of a polyangrous setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsThe truth is that most guys will go crazy for any girl who isn't obese or otherwise physically repulsive. And so many self described average girls are about as pretty as Micucci - they're just usually not blond and do not measure up to some hollywood standard so those girls think of themselves as average. Even literal average girls are highly attractive to men because those ladies are not physically repulsive and that's it takes for a man to find a female attractive. Men are attracted to women o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsNot true at all I've seen countless guys go after fours and fives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Would you consider dating or even marrying an Average Joe or Plane Jane?60% of men are not single that's an outdated statistic from during covid. Its more like 10% now. But most men would love to be with an 'average' girl. Most men are not picky about women's looks - we don't care about eyebrows or pimples. Girls who think they're average are usually what men would rate as 7 out of ten. Men are usually single because of financial problems not because they refuse to date average girls. A guy struggling with money assumes women will reject him for not being economical… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:59 AM |
| – | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsPersonally I'd much rather marry an average girl than a hot instagram model type. Because the average girl is more likely to be pleasant, make me happy and have similar interests. The hot one is much more likely to make me miserable. I am addicted to frumps and mousy types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsPersonally I'd much rather marry an average girl than a hot instagram model type. Because the average girl is more likely to be pleasant, make me happy and have similar interests. The hot one is much more likely to make me miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 12:22 AM |
| – | Q4M, would you consider dating or even marrying a Plane Jane?I would definitely consider marrying a childless plain jane if she had the right personality and we connected. I'd rather be with an average woman who makes me happy than a model tier woman who makes me miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 09:44 AM |
| – | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.Sex for men is intertwined with egotism, self worth and emotional health. To believe its no different for men than yawning or scratching an itch defies observable reality. Its something only a space alien could believe after watching some tv shows and porn. Hooking up with a woman definitely gives a man validation unlike sex with a pro. Men get emotionally hurt if they find out someone else is boning their FWB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.My point is that the emotional and psychological rush from having sex is addictive. Its not just about the sex itself but validation and highs that go along with it. If you think that doesn't affect brain chemistry then you're delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:16 PM |
| – | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.It really isn't different for men. You think guys don't feel "deep validation" from frequent hookups? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:15 PM |
| – | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.I'm not saying people have to be virgins to be faithful. In fact I wasn't talking about virgins. Someone who has sexual experience from normal dating relationships can be a faithful spouse. My point was that people who have a lot of casual hookups with people they barely know are likely to cheat. My point wasn't about attraction. Women obviously can be attracted to men who fuck around. But a guy accustomed to having a different tinder hookup every week is unlikely to stay faithful when the marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.TMI And of course people don't come with guarantees, but its about minimizing chances of winding up in bad relationships by minding red flags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:22 AM |
| – | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.Less likely scenario for getting cheated on, promiscuity is addictive and affects brain chemistry unlike someone who never lived a gossip girl lifestyle as a young person. Marrying someone with a recent promiscuous past is like marrying a heroin addict and expecting them to stay clean for you. It also helps if the person was miserable in the dating scene. Cheating is not worth for it for people who who suffered through fake tinder profiles, mind games etc. But if Tyler misses his time having a d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 06:12 AM |
| – | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.The real reason to be wary of promiscuous men or women is that they're likely to cheat. If a woman with a low body count marries a guy with a high body count, how long would the marriage last before he starts missing the variety of sex from his single days? Same thing with women. Susie gets bored and misses her 20's as an instagram it girl sleeping with different studs. She's certainly more likely to cheat than someone with a lower body count. People are naturally polygamous, monogamy becomes ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 03:36 AM |
| 1 | If you read between the lines, you will see that liberal progressive people look down on weak men and have conservative expectations of them.Current feminism wants to retain any traditional gender roles and double standards that benefit women. They want men to be tied to provider roles to benefit women who reject traditional roles for themselves. Women also generally believe that men should form relationships in a way that is very similar to Victorian courtship. The women don't have to make the first move instead the men are expected to read their signs and what not. Its like an Oscar Wilde play without the wit. But you have to remem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is the 80/20 rule offensive?Its a myth. People generally date within their league or tier of attractiveness. Guys in the 20th percentile aren't going to date Becky or any single moms. For the same reason why women in the same tier are not going to date rednecks or unemployed men who live with their parents. The 80/20 myth is the equivalent of girls complaining they can't get dates because they're convinced that girls who look like Margot Robbie are sleeping with the average to above average males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The potential negative consequences for warm approaching are much worse than for cold approaching.You can always find out the name of the girl you plan to cold approach and look her up on social media to get an idea of what she's like. So that's another reason why cold approaches are better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is the 80/20 rule offensive?Red pill guys talk about women becoming single moms by chad but all the guys with baby mamas I ever encountered were average and also not really bad boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Getting married is one of the worst decisions a man can makeThe solution is not to get a legally binding marriage. Build a comfortable life yourself. Then get a live in girlfriend and have a kid with a her. Then make it clear that if she stays loyal to you then you'll take care of her and the baby indefinitely. You can even put in a non-legal contract and seal the deal with a little ceremony to make her feel better. The only real alternative to being with you is poverty as a single mom, that will keep her loyal. There's no financial motive for her to lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 05:02 AM |
| – | Why is the 80/20 rule offensive?I see too many unattractive guys in relationships for that to be true. Not even bad boy types just schlubs really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Women villainize/gaslight nice guys to avoid admitting what really attracts themDon't be a nice guy or a scumbag steve - be an old school gary cooper type. Aloof, stoic, confident and dominant without being abusive. Women want to fuck the guys that men look up to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | J.Cole's new song called "Passport Bros" just dropped. What do you think about the song and is the Passport Bro movement going mainstream?Toxic women hate so-called passport bros because they hate the idea of men finding an alternative to navigating the nightmare of tinder and mind games that is the US dating scene. It must sting like a hornet to hear that your ex married a Lebanese woman with her own business instead of suffering through a maze of dating apps, double standards and psychological abuse with the payoff of maybe marrying an FWB. One thing that's funny is karens denigrate women in AMWF relationships. Those karens don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:53 AM |
| – | The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro.American women demonize "passport bros" as guys who just want a submissive woman for domestic servitude. Obvious bigotry against foreign women. You have to be pretty stupid to think Canadian, Israeli or South korea girls would tolerate household servitude. American women love to trash Brad's Taiwanese wife as a submissive whore all while doing onlyfans, sugar babying. Most men who go abroad to look for a wife are not looking for a submissive woman, they're looking for an empathic woman. Empathic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinityThe consequences will be brutal when most men figure out there's no guarantee of emotional support in a relationship. The US is already an extremely lonely and sociopathic society. Imagine how bad it will be when most men realize that realistically they can only hope for a FWB 'relationship' and that conditional romantic love is a fairytale. The bright side is it will lower the birthrate and thus pollution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?I'd date them but I would never approach one in the gym. Men wind up on tiktok shamed as sexual predators and possible rapists for looking in the same direction as gym girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?The difference between being vulnerable and trauma dumping is similar to the meme explaining the difference between flirting and harassment. Its an emotional imbalance if the woman doesn't like that, that's the only criteria there. If opening up to women requires having to decode signs and hop through hoops then most men won't open up. Why bother when they can get comfort from friends and family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:32 AM |
| – | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?Men aren't entitled to emotional support from women, sweaty. GTFO with your incel stuff /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Discussion : Let’s have some positivity :-) How many times have you shown your woman emotions and been vulnerable and it’s made her more attracted to you?I opened up about my childhood sexual abuse to my girlfriend who talked about it behind my back with her friends after I told her to keep it secret. Then we broke up. Women see emotional confidence the same way men see orgasms, I only care abut mine and not yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 01:32 AM |
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