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I just want to be able to fully explore myself sexually, and I feel it's unrealistic that I'll be able to try everything I'm curious about with just one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:27 AM
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It’s too bad there aren’t more post talking about ideas and possible solutions that could help things change for the better that doesn’t evolve force. And here lies the great rift between men and women. Men attack with physical violence, women attack with emotional violence. Testosterone and estrogen are incredibly powerful drugs. Men try to either brute force or logically solve their problems. Women try to emotionally or collectively solve their problems. We're just built different. In other wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:28 AM
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I have access to talking to one and wanting to talk to her is legit tearing me in half.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:19 AM
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I want to fill a void by filling voids, if you catch my drift.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:24 AM
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Absolutely. I just want to be my weird, random, factual self, but most people become uncomfortable with that and lash out for not behaving as "expected". I can't imagine what it's like for ND women, even though my best friend was one until that relationship was torched because i couldn't help my attraction and she stood with her normie boyfriend. Its just fuckin hard knowing you'll never fit in while being surrounded by people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 05:34 AM
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Yeah, perhaps you're right. But still, at least you'd have a chance of finding a meaningful relationship, compared to an autistic man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:50 AM
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Even that is a vastly better situation to be in than never being able to even have physical contact with the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:46 AM
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Congratulations my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:26 AM
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I'm rooting for you man! One day you'll be posting your wedding photos on r/nevertellmetheodds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:47 AM
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This...this really isn't a debate. Somebody posted a study on here the other day that found out 47% of autistic women have had sexual experience. 15% of autistic men have gona as far as holding a woman's hand. If you're a guy with autism, you are FUCKED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:30 AM
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Was anything you took away from that sub actually helpful in your journey to female companionship? Conversely, what sentiments from there turned out to be utter horseshit? How would you compare the state of TRP today compared to when you were active?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:36 AM
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Wtf is an inkwell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:49 PM
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Well then do you care to point out where I, or anybody else, talked about "viewing women as walking fleshlights". Otherwise stop moving the goalposts. Also, you took my other quote out of context, where I was creating a hypothetical to prove a point. I do not think that having ONS are a horrible practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:51 AM
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Oh, so you're just here to argue for the sake of arguing then? Gotcha. I think your cave misses you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:52 PM
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It's objectifying to approach someone as a person you only want to have sex with if you only see them as a walking fleshlight Ok where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:24 PM
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You clearly have very little reading comprehension, because that's basically everything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:56 PM
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I can't tell you how many times I get the advice "if you want to be better at flirting and initiating relationships, just keep practicing!" Which is the exact advice the first commenter ITT said. For a lot of men, just "treating like women" just leads to having a lot of female friends. You have to approach somebody you just want to fuck as a woman you just want to fuck. A woman can be both a person and a person you just want to fuck. And if you think practicing talking to women with the goal of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:57 PM
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If she isn't attracted and he persists I agree. But just trying once can be enough to completely destroy a friendship, which I think is ridiculuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:52 PM
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Normally folks don’t hang out with others significant other 1 on 1 If you mean "hanging out one on one" you should say "hanging out one on one", which I agree is a little sus for somebody in a relationship. But befriending a person of the opposite gender who's in a relationship is very normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:36 PM
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You're making a lot of reaches and assumptions there my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:33 PM
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but I don’t see why you would be going much further then that. Idk, because you're attracted to them maybe? I met my ex as part of my social group, and we had a 2 year relationship. Why would you be hanging out with a woman in a relationship? So people in relationships can't have friends of the opposite gender? Not everyone has trust issues like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:32 PM
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Men believe they can orbit and wear a woman down, win her over with favors and crowd out competitors by keeping her busy. I mean yeah those guys exist. But that's pretty fucked to say every guy who's attracted to a female friend is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:29 PM
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“ yes women are people but they are people you’re tryna fuck/date let’s be honest” Yeah buddy no.. that’s not something you should ever say, especially out loud. You’re perpetuating the lie that men only see women as objects So approaching somebody as a person you only want to have sex with is objectifying, but it's not objectifying to have sex with a person that you are only interested in having sex with? I don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:54 PM
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So you can't be friends with somebody you're sexually attracted to? And that it's impossible to realize you want a friend to be more than a friend? Maybe one of you was in a relationship at the time. Maybe the friendship started gradually. Maybe you actually disliked the person initially, but actually ended up changing your mind when you really get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:49 PM
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Ah, so because you don't do those things with your friends, nobody does? Because I can tell you from personal experience I've had multiple friends that did everything (many of the things for a majority of them) you described above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:45 PM
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So what you're saying is, if you catch feelings for or find somebody sexually attractive that you only initially approached as a friend, you should never try to act on those feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:42 PM
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I want nothing to do with people who attempt to skip steps But if they don't "skip steps" the woman becomes absolutely convinced that he's uninterested then bam friendzone. And if he later expresses that no, he actually does want to be more than friends, it's suddenly "ew I'd never be intimate with you". All you're doing is painting men propositioning woman without their explicit consent to even ask them as a no-win scenario. even less to do with men who believe that women can be programmed to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:38 PM
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They flirt, they seek the company and contact from the other person. They aren’t dating someone else or talking about other partners. They show interest in the other’s life. So things normal friends do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:34 PM
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Ah, so it's only objectifying if a man's advances are rejected, gotcha. How dare men have their advances rejected, disgusting misogynists!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:32 PM
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But how can you know how she's going to react unless you try? I don't get why men who try to escalate are villified simply for trying to in these situations. Like dude already took the L, why does he deserve to get mocked too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:29 PM
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If she’s not on board, yeah. We have a word for that. It's called rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:26 PM
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Because if she was physically attracted, he would know it Do neurotypicals really?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:25 PM
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So you agree that intentionally having one night stands are a horrible practice then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:19 PM
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...except then the guy is a villain if he tries to escalate it to more than a casual friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:04 PM
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So pursuing casual sex (one night stands) is inherently bad because it's two people objectifying each other? I don't think that's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:03 PM
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But women pursuing men for casual sex isn't objectifying men at all because...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:01 PM
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So do women just want to be propositioned for sex or do they want people to actually try to get to know them? Which is it? I don't see why trying to establish a relation before escalating is such a horrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:00 PM
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So pursuing casual sex is objectifying now? But only for the woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:52 PM
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But FWB are a thing. I don't get why girls are so put off just for trying to make it more when they know that it's not an unrealistic thing for a guy to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:49 PM
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This. I had a "proxy gf" who was in a comitted relationship for years (we actually did have a serious connection, we were calling each other our "best friend" after two weeks) and I thought I could realistically maintain that, keep my distance enough, and seek relationships with other women. Unfortunately my affection would occasionally leak through, and juggling those three things turned out to ultimately more than I could handle. Long story short, I ended up not really investing as much effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 05:48 PM
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