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| 1 | Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chanceYep! This video explains why top 10-15% men get more matches than even the most beautiful top 10-15% women. “Most” women are judging men by looks or personality trait and these top 10-15% men are getting 80% of the likes from women. https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards are perfectly reasonable, their "type" however eliminates most guys before they even have a chanceYep! This video explains why top 10-15% men get more matches than even the most beautiful top 10-15% women. “Most” women are judging men by looks or personality trait and these top 10-15% men are getting 80% of the likes from women. https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 10:46 PM |
| 0 | If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice?Agree but the problem is that the world is made up of 70-80% beta males and just 20-30% alpha males. The issue arises that most women have the same outlook towards wanting alpha or masculine men, you have a major mismatch of demand and supply. And this is why most women keep chasing the wrong guys when they didn’t even have a shot at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 02:10 AM |
| 0 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)Good ones | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?😂😂 | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 2 | How attractive men handle rejectionRejections breeds obsession. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 05:47 AM |
| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highYou’re chasing women OLD sites so I understand your perception. Get out in the real world and meet women, you will change your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Do you consider a woman having tons of sex with you every single day a way to deter cheating?Why is that hard to fathom? I am 46M, divorced and I still fuck like a rabbit with my partner if I am sexually attracted to her…. Like 12 times a week. And I don’t want a woman who only wants to do it 3 times a week. And trust me there are tons of women who match my energy. Just saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkI have an undergrad in engineering and MBA both from top 15 schools. I live on the west coast where starting salaries for fresh engineering grads is $85k+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 17 | Modern Dating Doesn’t Actually WorkYou brought up a lot of good points in both your posts. I am 46M, divorced w/kids and make high 6 figures, 5’10, decent looking and I still struggle with finding a good long term mate. I have no issues getting dates but the women I am dating women who are also similar caliber making the same kinda money. But I find that women are looking for men even higher status I.e. hypergamy mentality. I dated a beautiful highly intelligent Ivy League grad making the same high 6 figures but I could tell duri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Do You Know a Guy That is Top 5% on Dating App?Great post!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Women give bad dating advice for MenWomen generally don’t date other women, men do, so take it with a grain of salt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What percent of men are able to date casually or date without the prospect of commitmentFind someone with an avoidant attachment style and you will be having casual sex with them forever. No strings attached. They leave on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Are men really not attracted to fat girls?Fat women have a lot more love to give than skinny ones. Skinny means you just don’t eat well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 10:47 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.As a guy I could have written the same thing myself about women bring nothing to the table other than sex, which gets boring after a while and then you add the drama that comes with it. No thank you!! Just saying it goes both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:13 AM |
| 1 | I think the true love it s just when you are youngSome pointers and never stray from these - Be confident. Even if you have nothing. Don’t take shit from any woman. Many will test you. Act like nothing ever bothers you. Be calm. Never be constantly available. Give her the chase. Miss some of her calls. Text back a day later. Always stay busy or act busy. Never chase any woman. Period. One woman broke up with me over text out of the blue. I never even texted her back an acknowledgment. I didn’t even reply. Guess what she text 1.5 mI this later. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:13 PM |
| 5 | I think the true love it s just when you are youngAgreed well said. My life story is similar. I was a shy, introvert, people pleaser, a nerd in high school and college, engineering and MBA degrees. Didn’t date or have sex until I went to college. I had only dated 2 girls before getting married. 18 years later I got divorced and now back in the dating pool and I am high income and that makes such a big difference. Most relationships are very materialistic or based on your status. Last 2 years dated many beautiful women, slept with 12 women in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | All women cheat?I think you answered your own question. I’ve been in a situation where this woman who had a boyfriend was too flirty and touchy with me. We hung out twice and kissed and after the second hangout she invited me to her place. Sex was on the table but I walked away and never slept with her. I knew exactly what she was doing… she was trying to monkey branch while she was with her bf. So yeah your theory to some extent holds true for some women but not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?It’s actually not an introvert nerd fantasy. I know single women, especially the ones who go thru a breakup, just go on dating apps and go thru a mini hoe phase sleeping with a bunch of dudes in a short span. You’d be surprised how many do that. This is far too common for women between ages 35-45. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 3 | How do you justify asking for a woman with a low body count, if yours is high?Yep exactly. I was recently chatting with a 26 year old woman she said “she’s down with dating apps coz men are only looking for sex”. She dated 3 guys in 6 months and all the guys bailed soon after sex. And sure enough she was only dating the chad thundercocks from bumble. I told her that’s her problem… you go after hot guys from bumble, don’t expect a relationship because they are prolly banging 5 other women like you. And those body counts add up quickly. I once dated a beautiful doctor and b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Confused about how open and emotional guys are expected to be?You have to be less emotionally invested than them. You have to be a bit mysterious and show with your actions and not words. If you show you’re too emotionally available or too vulnerable, you will have many women running for the hills, especially the avoidant ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The Modern Man - Get Your Ex Back Super System from Dan BaconDid it work for you? It didn’t for me…now I just let them go… | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The Modern Man - Get Your Ex Back Super System from Dan BaconHe basically recommends chasing women after breakup. That’s shit doesn’t work. Stay away. His advice is pretty much useless. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?True statement. You should follow his actions and not his words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls reply to OLD messages with one or two word answers?Short responses are a lack of interest or that she is busy messaging other dudes too. Yeah I would move on | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Women fuck emotionally distant men, and keep "good communicators" in the friendzoneThis is a brilliant post and I agree with it wholeheartedly. The comments are especially true for dismissive avoidant personality types who generally can’t maintain LTR and often bored easily as their partner becomes clingy. I dated 2 dismissive avoidant women( as my luck would have it) and both women were in their 40’s and both confessed to having “emotionally unavailable” men who they get their physical needs met when they are in and out of relationships because these type of men don’t judge t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 10:05 PM |
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