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Her. As some mutual friends pointed out that night, they suspect she’s not happy with her life and thus feels the need to take it out on others.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:36 PM
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Second and last hopefully.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 11:54 PM
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I’m 40.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:51 PM
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It’s common sense. How old are you?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:06 PM
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And there’s a time and a place for those opinions. This is my ENTIRE point. It’s not like I planned on walking in there to have a debate. I NEVER bring that stuff up. Rule #1 - You don’t talk about Religion, Politics, and money in mixed company.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:02 PM
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I don’t agree. It was better to walk away and say nothing avoiding a confrontation altogether than to say something that can’t be taken back once I said it.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 06:17 PM
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For the record, I didn’t state I was pro life. It’s a nuanced topic that I’m not going into here. Bottom line is it cost exactly $0 to be courteous and respectful. $0 to have some sort of cultural/situational awareness. If you can’t recognize and understand that, idk what to tell you. Have a nice day.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:50 PM
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Couldn’t disagree more. Sorry. It IS offensive, like it or not. Wearing a pro abortion shirt on the day we celebrate the birth of Christ is a major indiscretion. Is nothing sacred to you people?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:20 PM
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I’m not the one who did anything wrong. Why is it so difficult to admit what she did was inappropriate? Do you have that much hubris or what?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:00 PM
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No Irish goodbye. Did you not read? Yes, it’s true that I did not say anything, but my fiancé said goodbye for us and we politely saw ourselves out. I thought at the very least those who are members of this forum would go to bat for me or relate a little bit. Nothing posted in this forum gave me the impression that anyone was pro abortion or lacked any sort of faith. What her sister did is called blasphemy. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/blasphemy
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:22 PM
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I thought that at the very least since we were all raised Catholic and have graduated from Catholic Universities, that there would be a shared understanding at a minimum. It’s not like any of them are staunch atheists that I know of. Their dad is Jewish (non-practicing) if that matters at all.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:01 PM
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I guess some people just want to watch the world burn.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:55 PM
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But that’s the thing, despite what some are gathering from my post, I’m not outspoken on these things and I’ve never had any such conversation around her sister or parents. But because I believe in God, suddenly I’m the bad guy here? She has her opinions. I feel the sweater is cringy AF at least and disrespectful and therefore not appropriate wear for a Christmas dinner with family.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:52 PM
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Yes, because the parents support their daughter who can do “no wrong” instead of admitting there’s a problem. Sorry, I wasn’t raised like that.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:49 PM
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We didn’t “Irish goodbye.” We announced we were leaving politely. I’m not the one who was trying to be provocative. That blame lies squarely with her sister. It’s funny that you can’t even see there was a problem here and want me to shoulder the burden because I stand on principles.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:47 PM
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Yup. Nighty night. Make sure to brush your teeth. Lol
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:25 AM
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Put the bong down sir and step away from the keyboard.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:22 AM
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Nobody is complaining buddy. I only brought up the other time she wore such a thing for more context i.e. this isn’t the first time it’s happened. I don’t even label or classify myself as pro-life. I don’t attend rallies and hold up posters with dead babies on it or anything. I’m simply disgusted by the lack of class and tact absent from someone who’s in mixed company AT A FAMILY DINNER ON A RELIGIOUS HOLIDAY. NOW WHAT DONT YOU UNDERSTAND?? I’M TIRED OF REPEATING MYSELF. YOU CAN HAVE YOUR OPINIO…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:20 AM
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What opinion isn’t straight?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:12 AM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:10 AM
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She was making a political charge about freedom on a day we celebrate our nation’s independence from Great Britain, implying women don’t have freedom in 2022.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:08 AM
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Why be incredulous? Is it that difficult to be civil towards someone on a religious holiday, especially for a soon-to-be family member?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:05 AM
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I’m appalled, not at her opinion, but the time and place she chose to express said opinion. Take this as an example; We talk about other topics here, bodily autonomy and how it relates to circumcision, but I don’t walk around with a billboard telling everyone I know my stance on it. But if you were to ask me personally, I’d explain what I think and why I think it. It took some convincing with my ex-wife on leaving our son intact. I then had to defend said choice to some members of my family who …
/r/MensRights27/12/22 04:00 AM
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Which is why I chose not to engage and politely removed myself from the situation. I didn’t say a word to her.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:42 AM
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You can shelf that opinion out of respect on a religious holiday. Like I’ll entertain all sorts of theories and conspiracies about 9/11 any day of the year. I may not agree, just don’t talk about that stuff on 9/11 out of respect for those who died.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:17 AM
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I try my best to get along with everyone that’s in my life somehow, whether that be personally or professionally.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:11 AM
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There’s having different opinions and there’s being an instigator. She wore the shirt because she wanted a reaction and she got one.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:05 AM
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This was the second time. She wore a Pro Roe shirt on Independence Day. We had a bbq at the her and her parent’s house. I didn’t say anything. My whole point I’m trying to make is that Christmas is a religious holiday and I think it was in poor taste to do something like wear pro abortion attire. I have faith in God and I’m also a parent. Our mutual friends think she’s acting out because I’m marrying her sister in 5 months and she has nothing to show for in life.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:03 AM
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Funny, I didn’t realize this was Atheist Men’s Rights. 🙄
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:52 AM
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Why does it matter who’s house it was? If you know someone has faith, why would you want to stir the pot? If I knew someone was a practicing Muslim, I wouldn’t be eating pork in front of them or something of that fashion, out of respect. I met two new friends recently on a trip. Both were vegan. I personally don’t think that lifestyle is for me, but did I say anything to them about it? Of course not. Nor did they belittle me for ordering meat.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:49 AM
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I have faith and belief in God. I don’t preach and certainly don’t discuss politics and religion in mixed company. Once again I’m saying this, yesterday was a religious holiday. It’s called having respect.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:42 AM
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Another person missing the point entirely.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:17 AM
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Oh get over yourself and quit gaslighting me. No one is taking away anyone’s rights. I live in Pennsylvania. Isn’t this Men’s Rights or did I accidentally stumble into TwoX? How many people post on here about the lack of reproductive options when it comes to us? How many are forced into fatherhood against their will, go into bankruptcy, get imprisoned, or kill themselves over it. There’s a time and place to have that sort of discussion and yesterday, on the second holiest day of the year in my F…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:11 AM
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Like, why be a real life edgelord though? Seriously.?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:07 AM
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Bruh. That isn’t what I’m saying. I guess you have no common sense or class either. IT WAS CHRISTMAS DAY.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:03 AM
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It’s Men’s Rights adjacent at least. We can’t sit here all day and talk the talk if we’re not going to stand up for what we believe in real life.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:57 AM
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I guess you’d have to know a little more about her. Sorry if the details here seem limited. Mutual friends called me later that evening and that was their conclusion, knowing both my fiancé and her sister since high school. Fiancé (35), sister (33). I’m more conservative, am a service member, and have a teenage child from a prior marriage. After being in the picture for nearly 5 years, I’m still not considered part of their family. My fiancé even said that her sister was repulsed when she referr…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:55 AM
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How about having some class, social/cultural awareness, you know? Or maybe just don’t be an asshole?
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:38 AM
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We don’t feel like we did anything wrong. I’m the one who they offended. They should apologize to me. I’m much nicer than my father for example, who’d have said something derogatory towards her. I chose peace instead.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:22 AM
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I have my beliefs but don’t walk around preaching, especially in someone else’s home and never force anything down anyone’s throat. I’d entertain a civil discussion on any topic, but yesterday was not the day for it.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:16 AM
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I hear you and understand what you’re saying, but you gotta draw the line somewhere. As I mentioned, it happened before and I chose to say nothing. I believe choosing to walk away was the adult thing to do in this situation.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 01:14 AM
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I mean her wearing a shirt to appear provocative and try to start shit because she’s unhappy with her own life.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:45 AM
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I’ve never seen someone try to be such an edgelord in real life. Online, yeah. Damn.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:22 AM
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Yeah, I typically try to keep the peace and have not said anything before out of respect for my fiancé and her family, which I may add are generally pretty good/nice to me. Hell, we have meals together frequently, more so than with my own family. My fiancé is going to address any issues she may have with her tomorrow.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:08 AM
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Yeah, but this isn’t the first time she’s pulled something like that, which makes us think she’s trying to stir the pot and start crap because I’m marrying her sister and she is miserable.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 03:49 AM
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I didn’t want to post my own thread, but my Christmas was ruined today. My fiancé and I went to her cousin’s for dinner and her sister was wearing a sweater that said. “Holiday lights and abortion rights.” While I typically support free speech and freedom of expression, I found it utterly distasteful for a family gathering on Christmas Day so we left. I was raised Catholic/Christian.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 11:21 PM
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Bruh, just get off the internet. Fuck what strangers think. And if anyone you know irl says that kinda shit, cut them off. Why keep negativity in your life?
/r/MensRights24/12/22 03:02 PM
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I wonder where the paranoia ends and the practical advice begins.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 11:28 PM
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I’m sorry, what? That’s utterly absurd. Does this woman hate you personally or something? There’s clearly a difference between SA and accidentally bumping into someone. Any reasonable person can differentiate between the two. Lawyer up, my dude. Don’t take their shit.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:35 AM
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Good luck and God speed in your pursuits. I met my first wife at a bar. That didn’t workout. She is a narcissist to the max. I have a 13 year old son with her. Met my current fiancé in person years ago when we worked together briefly. Reconnected 13 years later on PoF. I’m 40, she’s 35. She has no kids and we are not having any.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 05:06 PM
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I adopted 2 cats from the same shelter. They are my best friends, besides my fiancé. Sorry if that sounds corny.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 10:32 PM
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I’m sorry to hear that. I wish I could help more, but I’m not a professional.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:52 PM
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Do you have any pets? When I was single 6 years ago I adopted a cat. Coming home to a small studio apartment was suddenly less depressing than before and I could sleep better knowing my cat was with me.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 06:47 PM
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And they’ll all be miserable, but tell you how happy they are.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 04:47 PM
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The Simpsons hasn’t been funny since the mid 90’s. I can’t believe it’s still on the air.
/r/MensRights28/11/22 02:09 PM
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I’m not on TikTok but my fiancé is. She gets her recipes from there. I’m 40. I do not now, nor ever did a hobby because I thought it would make me more attractive to women. I’m into athletics like going to the gym, running, and snowboarding. But I’m also super nerdy and like Star Wars, video games, cosplay, etc.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 08:47 PM
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Yeah, but life was simpler. No compelling need to be online, no apps, less BS.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 05:17 PM
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Man, when I was 16 (98/99) the internet was FUN. Slow, but fun.
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:46 PM
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Who is the “they” you’re referring to?
/r/MensRights27/11/22 02:40 PM
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Yeah, sometimes get accused of being a “man-child.” But you know what, fuck that. I have a solid career, make good money, and my bills are paid. If I want to play video games or chill and watch movies in my down time, I’m allowed to. Again, notice how you can’t accuse a woman of not “growing up.”
/r/MensRights26/11/22 10:49 PM
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OP. Are you talking about renting a room in someone’s house or renting in an actual development? It’s against the law to discriminate based on sex, race, religion, etc. If that’s the case, report the company.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 05:04 PM
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If I wasn’t in a relationship, I wouldn’t be pursuing one. I’m 40 and over all that chasing BS anyway. Plus I don’t go out to bars/clubs anymore. Seems like a lot has changed over the last 5-10 years.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:52 PM
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Bruh, get out before you end up on a milk carton. This situation sounds like the beginning of a horror movie.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 04:16 PM
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Bruh, for reals. I joined a gym recently while mine at work was closed for repairs. (I’m in the military so I workout for free on base). I’m usually alone in the gym, with occasionally like 2 other dudes in there. It’s in an old airplane hangar. But anyway, the gym I joined, the women wear very revealing clothing. It’s all 🍑🍑🍑 everywhere you look. I basically just either look at my phone or up at the ceiling between sets.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 05:40 PM
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I’d like to post something to our organization’s Instagram and Facebook page tomorrow for International Men’s Day. What are some good resources/links I can provide/list/reference?
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:27 PM
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I was once called a simp online for saying a woman was pretty. Like really? Straight guys can’t like pretty women anymore.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 06:08 PM
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Yeah, it sucks man. I barely get to see my son. I feel cheated out of fatherhood.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:49 PM
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I have 5 more years.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:42 PM
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We need a Revolution.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:32 PM
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Yeah, I’m fully aware. Still BS.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:28 PM
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That’s complete BS. How about get a job instead? If that were you or I, we’d be forced to work 3 jobs while living out of our car or on the street and no one would bat an eye.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 01:25 PM
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I’m not saying it as a bad thing. I’m passionate about mentoring Soldier’s about their careers. I didn’t receive any guidance coming up through the ranks. If I didn’t care, I wouldn’t be there. I’d find something else to do. Edit: spelling
/r/MensRights15/11/22 08:33 PM
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My fiancé and her sister are both recruiters. She quit her job in education because it paid nothing and she was the director of education. I’m talking less than $50k a year. Plus she had a long commute. Me on the other hand am a retention NCO in the Army. Most of us are dudes.
/r/MensRights15/11/22 12:55 PM
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I’m only 5’6”. I’d love to be taller, at least average height around 5’10”
/r/MensRights09/11/22 08:04 PM
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Na, my girl doesn’t care. None of my friends are single except one and he’s weird and doesn’t date. Everyone lives with their significant other. Idk how more available you can get. If anyone’s significant other has a problem with going out with the boys or the girls once a month or every couple weeks, then I have bigger news for ya. He/she ain’t the one.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:30 AM
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Yeah, we get along for the most part. Her father cooks breakfasts and invites us over most Sundays, also for bbq in the summer. We’ll end up watching sports over there too. We don’t have cable at our house.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 01:53 PM
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Both my fiancé and I have parents that live 1.5 miles away.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 01:44 PM
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My question is why is someone telling their significant other that they can’t have friends accepted when it’s a woman telling a man that? It’s certainly abusive and controlling. If a man did that to a woman, everyone would be telling her to leave him, etc.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 09:00 PM
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That’s understandable. I got divorced at 30 and swore I’d never get married again. But here I am turning 41 next year and taking the plunge again.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:08 PM
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That’s hella selfish on her part then. We try to make plans with other couples even and it’s still difficult. None of my friends have any kids and they’re all between 30-40 years old.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:03 PM
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Obviously. But it’s annoying. We’re all adults and I get people are busy, but if you value friendships then make an effort. I’m tired of always being the one to have to initiate making any sort of plans.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 08:00 PM
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I don’t have many friends, at least those that I see very often. My fiancé absolutely wants me to have friends and to spend time with them. The problem I do see, is that many of these friends seem to disappear once they get a significant other. And making new friends at 40 is very difficult.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 07:28 PM
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How many of these alleged incels are legit down on their luck in the romantic department and how many just don’t try to better themselves and instead blame society? I’m by no definition considered tall at only 5’6”, but I’ve always made an effort to take care of myself physically. I’ve never had much trouble getting laid or finding long term mates. I understand the sentiment because yeah, dating apps can suck and sure, women can be cruel. But buck up guys. I’ve seen some hotties out there with s…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 02:15 PM
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Idk, I had this conversation with my dad. Seems like a wasted vote. Like, I can’t stand Dr. Oz, but Fetterman is by far the worse choice for Senator here in Pa.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 04:48 PM
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Idk, my fiancé is pretty good about paying for stuff even though she makes way less money than me. If it’s her idea to go out to eat, she always pays.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 07:05 PM
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Outside of work, i can’t say I have any meaningful friendships. I’m getting married next year and only have my brother, who’s currently stationed in Germany, my teenage son, and my fiancé’s friend’s husband in my wedding party. I’ve been to weddings where the bride and groom each have like 10 people on their side. Then I usually end up feeling terrible, because I lack that kind of support.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 06:35 PM
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Daycare/preschool has a lot of value in education and socializing your kids. Yes, it’s expensive. My fiancé used to be the Director of Education at a very prestigious preschool. I see the difference in when my own child was in preschool vs kids who did not. Those who went get a head start in learning going into Kindergarten.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:01 PM
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Same. Fat girl sex is wild. They give better BJ’s too!
/r/MensRights17/10/22 12:30 PM
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He’s had a few surgeries. Still can’t walk yet, but doing better.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 06:56 PM
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Sounds like you know a bunch of a**holes. My dad was in a motorcycle accident recently and we set up a go fund me. Lots of support.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 04:49 PM
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I only buy Dr. Squatch all natural soaps.
/r/MensRights14/10/22 09:32 PM
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You don’t know what soap you use? Lol. That’s stupid. I buy only the best natural soap to wash my body. Treat yourself, king!
/r/MensRights14/10/22 07:30 PM
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The new army PT test was problematic from the start. For the most part, I enjoy it, but you need to train hard if you want to excel at it. That by itself is fine. I know that most in the Reserve and Guard are only doing the minimum work to pass, if that. But for those of us wanting to score as high as we can it’s more like a competitive multiplayer online game with micro transactions. Paying for better training, gym memberships, CrossFit, supplements, etc. all costs more than the average Soldier…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 04:39 PM
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Bruh, I’ve seen some ugly dudes pull hot chicks.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 07:52 PM
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I don’t feel sorry for anyone claiming to be an incel. There’s someone out there for everyone. Stop whining. First thing: Are you doing your best to take care of yourself? And yes, that means grooming and clothing choices. Are you actually creepy and scaring girls away? Read a damn book and hang out with someone who is more successful with women/friends in general. Lower your standards a bit. (This goes for women too) You’re not going to find that hot internet gaming girl hanging out at your loc…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 03:27 PM
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Sometimes the health benefits alone make serving worth it. I’m full time so we don’t even pay anything into it. Part-time soldiers pay like $45/mo individual or $206/mo for family coverage.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:05 PM
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Military/government
/r/MensRights30/09/22 12:02 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:39 AM
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I thought this had more to do with computers and not people. My building in general is hella hot like a freakin sauna. Laptop is always hot. I have fans on and it only mildly helps.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:29 PM
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Really? Mine was free.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:26 PM
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I never wanted a 100 friends. Gimme like 2-3 good, like minded dudes to chill with and do adventures shit. Truth is at 40, I don’t have any close friends. I value reliability but get let down by people bailing on plans or them not even trying to hold up their end of the friendship. I have a shit load of hobbies/interests too, so it’s not for a lack of trying or being dull.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 02:23 AM
2

Apply for a GS position working for the government.
/r/MensRights11/09/22 01:08 AM
0

I don’t disagree entirely, but I feel like the intense sports schedule is being pushed on him by his mother and step dad. When he’s with me, he has no interest in football or baseball. I try to get him out of the house to do fun things, but it’s like pulling teeth. We went tubing on the river once this summer. My dad never wanted to take me anywhere fun or spend time with me.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:14 AM
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Thanks man
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:53 AM
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Yeah, you’re probably right. Still feel like crap though. I just want to know I matter in his life.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 02:15 AM
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At the very best all I get is a maybe from him.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 01:39 AM
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I’d say there’s zero emphasis or importance of me being there. I honestly feel like a stranger half the time. Idk man, now that I’m done having kids, I feel a bit depressed knowing I’ll never have the kinda father/son relationship I’d hoped for. I may adopt one day though.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 01:11 AM
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Mentioned that too. Again, got shot down. I get the typical answer, “he’s not interested.”
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:49 AM
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I mean, I try. I am proud of him of course. I’ve been to nearly all his games. A few, I just couldn’t make. But I’m totally overshadowed by the step dad in those situations. To put it in a sports analogy, it’s like I’m constantly the visiting team and never playing on home turf.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:44 AM
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Definitely seems that way :(
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:37 AM
0

I tried that too. Spartan has kids races. Again, my son would crush and I compete myself 3-4 times a year. He is a pretty decent athlete. I just want him to give some other things a shot. I took him skiing twice. First time was a disaster, second not as bad. We used to ride bikes together, but he’s had no interest in that all summer.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:28 AM
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Yeah. But the answers I get are in lock step with what his mother says.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 12:19 AM
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There’s a lot is A holes out there in general. Male and female. Say 1 in 100 people is an A hole. Scale that to our population. That’s like 3 million A holes. I try not to let this online stuff bother me, because honestly and luckily that’s not what I deal with IRL. I have to focus on what’s going on in my immediate sphere of influence, not saving the whole world.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:07 PM
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Not at this time. Thanks though.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 06:04 PM
1

I was raised by my paternal grandpa. He’s a good man, but wish my dad had cared enough about me himself.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 04:01 PM
5

To each there own. I like cats. I have 2 that are cool AF.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:29 PM
1

People do change. Sure. But her becoming a dictator? I’d be surprised if he had to ask permission to take a shit. Not giving your partner some space is oppressive and manipulative. My fiancé and I don’t have the same interests in tv/movies. So most of the time, she watches her shows and I watch mine. Then occasionally we watch stuff together like American Horror or Game of Thrones. If this guy’s wife wants to go relax and get her nails done, I highly doubt he gives her shit for wanting to do it.…
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:06 PM
4

Her need to constantly be in control of you is a huge red flag. Fck, you can’t even wash the car without her btching? That’s lunacy. My brother is with a controlling wife too. He told me he’s not allowed to look if there’s a nude scene in a movie him and his wife are watching. Ditto on the video games. Guilt trip after guilt trip.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 05:57 PM
3

This sounds like a nightmare situation. You’re literally bending over backwards doing all you can do and more and she isn’t happy? Honestly, that’s BS and I wouldn’t tolerate it for another minute. You guys sound like you need couples therapy or split. Are you going to live the rest of your life living under her thumb? This makes me incredibly grateful to be with my fiancé. I built an epic man cave and can enjoy all my hobbies whenever I want.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 05:46 PM
1

OP, well written. Don’t worry, nothing goes without second and third order effects. It’s only a matter of time before hardly any man wants to risk putting himself out there to date. I’m out of the dating game, but still chat up women when I’m out and the situation warrants it. Thankfully I have not gotten any negativity.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 03:40 AM
4

Could be anywhere between 40-80 hrs a week. In my case I was working 40+ hrs M-F and 16 hrs one weekend a month.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 04:51 PM
6

I calculate that $10k as only earning minimum wage. Hell, back in 2013, I was making $42k working two jobs. After taxes and CS, I wasn’t left with much. I struggled to stay afloat.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 04:30 PM
7

It’s sadly easier to be a father to some woman’s kid that isn’t yours than it is to father your own flesh and blood. My last relationship was with a single mom who had two kids. They were good kids who immediately took to me. My current fiancé does not want kids and I’m snipped. Been four weeks since my procedure.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 07:34 PM
3

It should be needs based, not % of income based. There needs to be total transparency in what that money is being spent on too. Just like any budget in say a government agency, when you don’t spend the money, your budget gets reduced the following year.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 06:27 PM
11

So when are us MEN going to collectively get off of the internet and actually do SOMETHING? Do I believe this bill will pass? No. But the ramifications are HUGE. Write/call/email every elected official and tell them how disgusted you are with this bill. We also need a massive protest. Women do it. You’re telling me, we can’t organize? I know it’s an uphill battle, but things are only going to get worse of our voices aren’t heard and our lives respected.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 06:23 PM
28

$2,700/mo for ONE kid? That’s really high. Who’s the ex-husband, Elon Musk?
/r/MensRights08/08/22 06:17 PM
2

I was out shopping for baby clothes today. I’m gonna have a niece, which I’m pretty excited for. I have a teenage son and am done having kids. Anyway, we’re a big car family, anything mechanical really. No clothes for little girls with cars or bikes on them. Kind of a let down. Just stereotypical girly stuff with flowers on them.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 09:46 PM
6

It’s sad that this article has to explain the definition of male.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 12:10 AM
18

Yeah, this woman is clearly delusional and narcissistic to boot. Heterosexual women sacrifice their quality of life? Oh really? How? This whole thing is highly suspect and just pushes their narrative on how to destroy the family unit even more.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:23 PM
1

My fiancé says I fold towels wrong. Like wtf? I didn’t know there was a proper way. Be happy I fold them at all. She also doesn’t like how I load the dishwasher. Like what if I said ok, go mow the lawn and then criticized her for “not mowing properly?” It’s crazy though. I don’t have OCD, but I do have higher standards of cleanliness than her. I grew up with my Italian grandmother. Her house was immaculately clean.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 02:42 PM
2

CS should be based on need not a % of someone’s income. If the woman remarries, then CS should be eliminated or cut in half. It’s very difficult to try to support yourself, let alone a second household where you have not only no say in how the money is spent, but can’t actually get proof that it was spent on the child.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 12:42 AM
79

Idk man. I’ve always liked gaming too. It was never a secret with women I’ve dated. You’re probably not going to believe me when I say I once dated a Russian model type, a solid 9 at least. She bought me my PS4 back in 2014 for Christmas. I’m 40 now and engaged. Hell, I just got my fiancé into playing too. So yes, it can happen. Don’t be hard on yourself. If I could make one suggestion though, it might not be a bad idea to diversify your interests/hobbies. Best of luck to you.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 11:35 PM
1

I’m not wrong. In fact, I’ve already provided my reference. Look it up. I’m not doing your homework for you. You can either remain ignorant or you can get enlightened. The choice is yours.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 10:11 AM
2

Read ‘The 5000 Year Leap’ and see for yourself.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 09:46 PM
-6

Do you even know what I’m talking about? I’m referring to America’s Three Headed Eagle in regards to what the American Founders described in how our government should be carefully structured; Executive, Legislative, and Judicial. And that falls smack in the middle of the spectrum with Tyranny (Rulers Law) on the far Left and Anarchy ( No Law) on the far Right.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 08:22 PM
-3

Read ‘The 5000 Year Leap.’ Edit: you can’t be both a tyrant and an anarchist. It’s contradictory. One calls for absolute government rule and the other is a complete absence of government.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 08:15 PM
15

Shit, I got banned from r/whitepeopletwitter for saying fascism isn’t far right. That in terms of government on a spectrum, anarchy is far right, while tyranny is far left.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:45 PM
4

It’s becoming too dangerous to have sex. Pretty soon all we’ll have is that VR sex from Demolition Man.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 08:51 PM
86

Screw that noise. If she’s uncomfortable working out around men, then the solution is to find one of those women only gyms or stay home. We cannot tolerate the intolerable for one second. Stand your ground and push back. You have just as much right to be there as anyone else.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 07:47 PM
8

I just switched my affiliation to Libertarian. I can’t stand the Democrats, but the Republicans are pissing me off too now.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 06:28 PM
1

I do. Things NEED to change though. We need massive protests around the country in every city.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 05:31 PM
3

Do it. Just had mine done last week. I’m 40 with one child.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 05:24 PM
3

I’m voting third party going forward. Fuck’em.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 02:33 PM
13

As men, we’ve never had reproductive rights. The courts already stick it to us just for being men. I know first hand. While I don’t personally agree with abortion in all circumstances, I feel both sides of the aisle let the fringe speak for them and now here we are. The scariest part according to the proposed bill is that the woman doesn’t even have to prove that you are indeed the one who got her pregnant. I’m no legal expert, but something, something….due process and whatnot. Sounds completely…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:19 PM
18

I feel where you’re coming from, but it’s still no excuse. Like, I couldn’t have women troubles and then treat my female coworkers shitty in response. I’d be fired in a second.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:52 AM
2

Not happening fam. I’m engaged, plus she has an IUD. Neither one of us want kids.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:24 AM
1

On the hook for what?
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:08 AM
26

I’m snipped. No more kids for me.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:52 AM
5

Or beat them at their own game. Tell them you identify as a women. Modern problems require modern solutions.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:11 AM
26

This is batshit crazy. Fathers are already screwed under Title IV-D of the social security act. This proposed bill is redundant and sexist. Write every elected official you can and remember to vote come Nov. This has to be stopped dead in its tracks.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:08 AM
77

Yeah, this is literally the dumbest thing ever. As if men aren’t punished enough.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 12:03 AM
2

What power? Anyone know where I can get some of it?
/r/MensRights26/07/22 10:44 PM
8

Damn, sounds like you need a restraining order.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 06:34 PM
19

Take it directly to the principal and if nothing is done, go to the superintendent. Get your local school board involved.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 01:33 PM
5

We need Independent candidates running for office and actually winning. I’m so tired of “the lesser of two evils” mentality.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 10:08 PM
-3

Hate to break it to you OP, but Republicans are supporting ideas and policies against our interests too. It’s sad really? Who do you vote for when both sides clearly don’t have our interests at heart?
/r/MensRights25/07/22 09:21 PM
19

Thank you for the resources. This is an election year. Our politicians and those seeking office need to hear about issues affecting us. I’m in PA living outside Phila. The suburban courts are the absolute worst. They’ve treated me like absolute trash for no reason whatsoever.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 02:43 PM
5

Same dude. I was in field artillery and deployed to Iraq in ‘03. Not a woman in sight. Of course this was before they opened FA to women.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 01:00 PM
4

If high schools did a better job at teaching the fundamentals and making a student well rounded, then college would only be needed to further a specific area of study, such as medicine or engineering.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 03:42 PM
1

What about electricians, plumbers, HVAC technicians? I’m pretty sure those fields are kicking ass. I know for sure if I have to hire a guy to come over for something I can’t fix myself, it’s expensive.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 03:40 PM
6

It’s horrible, barbaric, and has no place in modern society. Make it illegal.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 02:13 AM
1

That’s sad to hear. Wish you the best.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:38 PM
1

That’s a shame. Where are you from?
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:22 PM
1

Jeez, is it really that bad out there now? I’m 40 and engaged to be married a second time. I never had trouble meeting girls out there in my 20’s and 30’s. I’m not tall, average looking, and definitely not rich either, though I do ok.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 05:09 PM
2

I haven’t seen that particular ad, but for sure there are double standards.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 04:45 PM
3

Idk, but it’s damn good soap. I don’t use anything else anymore.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 03:59 AM
20

It’s like when Jordan Peterson states that men are more interested in things whereas women are more interested in people. Sure there’s some crossover, but the facts remain the same. Do you see any push to get men into teaching or nursing, which are fields dominated by women? No, of course not.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 07:34 PM
8

Every Disney Star Wars show has looked cheap in my opinion. What are they doing with all that money to make an episode? I stopped watching the Marvel ones altogether.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 07:29 PM
1

It’s brand new. It’s called Live at Red Rocks.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 06:14 PM
5

The even suckier thing is that new parents aren’t even counseled on the procedure. You should have to watch a video at least and sign off on a statement of understanding. They asked once while my son was being delivered and both of us were like no way!
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:52 PM
1

You watch his new special on Netflix?
/r/MensRights16/07/22 01:48 PM
2

Workout AND know how to dance. I was hella shredded in my 20’s. I’m still in great shape at 40. Though I’m out of the dating game now. Knowing how to dance got me laid a lot. Most of the time I didn’t even have to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:29 PM
1

Shoot, I’ve been outta the dating game since 2019 and am now engaged to be married next year. Idk y’all. Before that, I didn’t have a hard time meeting girls irl or online. I’ve dated all types; everyone from cute chubby girls to European models. I’m not tall and didn’t have money then. I’m 5’6”, Caucasian, and athletically built. I used to be broke, worked a crappy job and lived in a tiny studio apartment, but there I was getting laid on the regular. Good luck out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:02 PM
228

It’s the first thing I brought up when I found out my ex wife was having a boy. I showed her books and documentaries on the subject. Eventually she was convinced circumcision is wrong and we brought home a healthy, intact baby boy when he was born. She remarried and gave birth to another son years later. He’s also intact. So basically, I saved two kids from being sliced.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 12:48 AM
1

This is beyond stupid.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 05:37 PM
1

Not if your you’re faithful to your spouse you can’t.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 04:05 AM
1

I feel for you. But don’t look at being single as a bad thing. Focus your energy elsewhere. Pick up a new hobby, travel, volunteer at a shelter of some kind, mentor kids in need, etc. It sounds cliche, but when you do all that and aren’t so concerned with being alone, you’ll meet the right person for you. I’m divorced since 2012. It took me 6 years to find the right one; someone that values me for me and treats me well. I was looking for love in all the wrong places before that. We’re engaged to…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:36 PM
0

I’m not saying you have to wait, but why is that a bad thing necessarily? Look at all the problems it causes when you rush into it and just sleep with just anyone. There’s unwanted pregnancies, STD’s, heartbreak, etc that can be avoided with a little self control. We’re not animals.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 04:29 PM
2

I mean, what’s the downside of waiting until you’re married or at the very least in a serious long term relationship? People rush into bed with others they otherwise have no business being with before getting to know them.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 03:44 PM
6

I’ve never once not supported my child. But you need to eat and keep a roof over your head too, ya know? There was no reason our child HAD to be in preschool ($800/mo) when I, nor his mother had a job at the time. She quit hers after becoming pregnant with her new husband’s kid. I worked myself to death trying to stay afloat. Nobody takes a job and is ok with taking home less than 50% of what they earn, I don’t care who you are. Can’t get blood from stone.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 02:52 PM
10

30% lol. I got laid off in 2013, had my support raised to $1,300 a month. Mind you I was only making like $42,000 a year or so. Got unemployment compensation a few weeks later. The court took 55% and left me with only $200 a week to live on. My ex wife’s attorney was her mother in law. She said right to my face, “no one cares about you.”
/r/MensRights08/07/22 01:30 PM
10

It you’re gonna have casual sex then follow a couple simple rules at least. Don’t stick your d*ck in crazy. Don’t be silly, wrap your Willy.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 01:12 PM
7

I don’t envy anyone out there that’s still single.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 01:08 PM
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