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| 1 | I feel like need someone to tell me not to date/fling/etc.The champagne glasses hit different when you're still living in the same space-especially after setting up dates yourself. That contradiction you're feeling (setting up four dates but hurt seeing her move on) isn't hypocrisy, it's grief showing up in a confusing way. You wanted proof you weren't broken in the dating realm, but the wound underneath that need is still raw. One thing that's helped others in this exact spot: asking "am I seeking dating to heal, or to avoid feeling what I need to fee… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Ex boyfriendYou saw the pattern immediately-she reached out in crisis, he caught her, and now she's sending an apology that's clearly his script. The Bible quote is the giveaway. That second message wasn't her; it was him using her phone. You're right that calling police might backfire if she denies everything. But you leaving a door open isn't "getting involved"—it's leaving a light on. One option: send her one message with a DV resource (thehotline.org or similar), tell her you'll leave it alone but she c… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/26 07:53 AM |
| 8 | Need to ventThat sick-to-your-stomach feeling when your son's life is about to change so fast-that's a completely normal protective response. You're not overreacting. The whiplash of hearing this at mediation, then having to process what it means for your kid's stability, is brutal. One thing that helped others in this spot: focus on what you can control in your home. Your son will need at least one consistent, calm environment, and that's the gift you can give him through the transition. Your place becomes… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 09:43 AM |
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