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| 2 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?Good bot | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me out, rejected a second date and now wants to go out again100%. Show maturity in having the difficult conversation in person, and do your best to genuinely listen and make her feel comfortable. The biggest key here is just to communicate. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me out, rejected a second date and now wants to go out againFrame it as “just as friends” and don’t change that until you have a healthy conversation about what’s up with that. It’s fine if she changed her mind or realized she was wrong at first, but then she needs to be given a chance to talk about what’s going through her head so you can feel better about it. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Bro why you gotta end my whole career like that | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...This is an attempt to justify the actions of some by attributing to men as a whole. Plenty of people have sex life high on their lists of priorities when looking for a partner, and how you communicate that is on you and you alone. I agree with the sentiment that “I’m not going to work harder for it, it’s a shared experience” etc. and would drop any girl that “rewards” sex. Not about that life. On the flip side though, I personally am not worried about having sex early in the relationship, as lon… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?It’s fine to compliment what she’s wearing. It’s not fine to think that what she’s wearing is in any way, shape, or form catered to your interests as a guy and expect her to be okay with your advances. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | How often do you talk to a girl you like in between dates? This is in the way early stages (first 2weeks etc.)Turn it around then. Why aren’t you reaching out every day? Why is this just a “him” thing? It’s a two way street. I’m in just about the same boat as you, except I’m 2 weeks ahead. We text and reply maybe 3 times each a day, sometimes less. The time we spend together is what we’re both focused on. If he doesn’t give you the level of attention you desire, then maybe you aren’t compatible. My brother and his now wife didn’t talk at all to start, and set up dates that were months apart, and now the… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?The phrase “look good, feel good” comes to mind. There are days I wear what I know I look good in because I feel like I’m on top of the world. Do I get extra attention from it? Sometimes. Do I always want that extra attention? No. The same goes for girls. Maybe she likes the way it looks on her, maybe it’s comfortable. Even IF it’s because she wants extra attention, that by no means gives anyone the right to comment on how she is dressed. Complimenting someone purely based on their clothing shou… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I just bang this girl in a hotel?If you have enough to drop on a hotel room, then go for it. Could make it a fun time, just do better than a Super 8 or some shit lmao. Imo, I’m not tryna drop that much money unless I’m absolutely sure that we’re on the same page of what’s going on | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:22 PM |
| 7 | How forward/direct/sexual should you be?That’s some fucking solid advice | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I suffer from severe depression. I literally do nothing most days but sleep and scroll YouTube, twitter, Reddit, etc... I don't have anything interesting in my life currently to the point that I contemplate suicide almost weekly but somehow I easily get women.“Oh my God he’s so sensitive and in touch with his emotions!!1!!11 🥺👉🏼👈🏼” | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateWorst case scenario, you have a hot friend now. How many hot friends does she have? How many do they have? You now have access to a network. Best case, she’s making it clear she’s only looking for a hookup right now and doesn’t want a relationship. Based on the response you said she gave, this doesn’t seem unlikely. She made it clear she wasn’t looking for a relationship, that doesn’t mean FWB is off the table until it is. Either way, ride it out. Even if it doesn’t work out with her, there’s st… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?Easily solved by, I dunno, following them? Crazy idea, I know… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I like a girl but my body and bank are not where I’m taking them at the moment.Dog, then don’t lose all your money?? Don’t live above your means. Learn to say no. She can contribute to the lifestyle she wants to live as well. But ultimately YOU have to be able to say “hey, I can’t afford this right now, so let’s do something I can afford.” What’s the “right amount”? You’re setting something arbitrary that has no end goal. It’s all an excuse and a way to bring yourself down, man. Just go for it and build emotion, like the above commenter said. You’ve got this | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How to fix social retardation?Flip it then, sir! Find what she is truly passionate about, and keep asking questions and digging into it. If she asks you questions in return, answer, and then flip it back to how it relates to her. People love talking about themselves, so find someone with things you like hearing about. Plus, people love the validation that comes with being heard, and that will work in your favor. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Field Report: Why you should talk to everyoneGood job on the date! In my experience, this mindset of talking to anyone and everyone has helped the most. It gets noticed! | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Talking about body count???Personally, I don’t care. I don’t think it matters. If they don’t ask, then there’s no reason to bring it up unless you feel it necessary. If they do, be honest. As a guy, if I have a high body count, I get high fives. As a girl, you get looked down on. What gives? What’s the difference between hooking up with 50 people one time, or one person 50 times? As long as you get regularly tested (every 4-6 partners, or 3-4 months) then it really doesn’t matter. If anything, makes for better sexy time. … | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Women I attract reflect on the type of man I am?Gah damn, hit the nail on the head. Most of my girlfriends have been clingy, and I now know what to work on. Time for more research! Thank you internet stranger! | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:31 PM |
| 17 | My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flaking“Women are naturally flakey creatures because emotions!” What even is this lmfao, they’re not anxious about meeting guys cuz of “constantly changing emotions”, they’re flakey because 50% of guys are fucking creeps to them. The better answer is “make them feel comfortable”. “Most men see big tits and a pretty face and they’re in love, women need more investment” bro you literally described the difference between lust and love and act like it’s a revelation. No shit I wanna hook up with gorgeous w… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Money Worth the Wait?Money can’t make up for lack of experience, but you can still focus on improving yourself and be ready for when the right girl comes. Get in touch with how you process emotion (not shouting when angry, communicate how you feel and boundaries/expectations, etc) and what qualities you want in a woman. From there, never stop striving to be a better you, and never settle for a girl that is under your standards. When you meet women, they will either see and respect it, or not. All you can do is work … | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do most guys not need to do any of this stuff to find relationships with women?Keep in mind that these guys you are describing have already done steps 1-27 and are now at the point in their relationship that they know they are compatible. It doesn’t matter what the appearance is in public because you don’t see the private interactions. You’re not watching the cold approach, the first impression, the conversations they carried when they first met. They no longer have the same things to prove to their SO. Talk to them about how they met, if you are comfortable enough to do s… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | How to become irreplaceable?Read the book “How to Win Friends and Influence People”. It’s an easy read, and it will give you the depth you are looking for in an answer! | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Which US location should I spend more time in to increase lay chances/counts?I mean, that’s your call. You kinda fit the bill as a tourist, and some girls are into that. Plus, you’re from overseas, so bonus points. Keep in mind, even the “touristy” spots in TN are mostly attracting other people from TN lol. For Nashville, it just depends on what’s going on in the city | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Which US location should I spend more time in to increase lay chances/counts?I lived in TN. I promise, if you have any degree of accent that already helps you x1000. Many people in general have thick ass southern drawls and would just be so shocked to meet someone with an accent that’s so different to them. Nashville - as of 2018, it was the “bachelor/bachelorette” capital of the US (highest rate of 20s/30s and single). Great party town, be ready for a different experience. Have fun with the country shit, any girl would love that. Downtown is a great time, 10/10 every ex… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | whats a good way to handle your date ordering somethin priceyIf you choose a restaurant where she can rack up a bill that you aren’t comfortable paying, choose a different place. If she’s just trying to go all out, then ask for the bill halfway through and tell her to leave | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I giving up too soon?Sure, my guy. It doesn’t matter how politely you word it, it’s just an “I got the last word”, childish statement. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I giving up too soon?Why? This doesn’t solve anything, and she’s under no obligation to respond anyway. Don’t be “that guy”, just move on and find the next | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.They make the world go ‘round, sir! | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 07:53 PM |
| 3 | This sub is delusional.Bro if you’re looking for a girlfriend, the answer is to be healthy mentally, physically, and emotionally. By being your best you, you attract people that also try to be their best, and is your best chance at getting a girl that you want. You be your genuine self at all times, work on growing to be a better you, and girls see that and are attracted to it. This sub isn’t about getting a girlfriend because you don’t get girlfriends by “game”. Hook up culture calls it game because it’s exactly that… | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:24 PM |
| 4 | This sub is delusional.I don’t think that’s the ultimate goal for most people in this sub, though. If your ultimate goal is girlfriend, then you’re absolutely right, you only want enough game to show you’re interested. If I want a healthy relationship, and am intentionally seeking one, why would I want to start off my relationship by playing games to get her in my bed right off the bat? If you want a girlfriend, go to the relationship advice sub and read the comments so you know how to treat your S/O with respect and … | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 5 | This sub is delusional.I get that, and I understand where the frustrations are coming from. I agree that there’s a lot of things in this sub I think are stupid or just flat out wrong, but this post has nothing to do with the sub. It’s purely him whining about how none of it works though, and that’s flat out not true. Take some time to focus on your self-image, confidence, and communication skills. Learn some empathy and how to relate. But the shit he’s going on about just isn’t true | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 12 | This sub is delusional.OP, you call this sub delusional and then immediately go into some incel red-pill shit about how girls only care about your looks. You are literally the epitome of what most guys in this sub are trying to not be. You are absolutely right that times have changed, and game has changed with the internet and dating apps and shit. There are a lot of toxic traps out there, especially for men. The world has made it easy to believe the exact shit you rant about. How many girls have you even spoken to? W… | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | A recap of college and a thank you.Good looks, OP! College is a great time to get experience with all this, as there are always options never far away. 5 girls is not bad at all - don’t look at quantity as much as quality, imo. One year I had a FWB and only hooked up with her all year, but that was some of the best sex I’ve had once we got comfortable and learned each other. Don’t get caught up in the numbers, get caught up in the experience! You have a great couple years to look forward to. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:43 PM |
| 23 | [FIELD REPORT] Hot white girl 30 minute pull.What’s a solid opening/introduction you fall back on, generally speaking? Once I start, I have no problems. I’m just a goofy fucking dude (in a great way, imo) and accepting that has helped me, except in the intro. Sometimes the goofy shit I say just doesn’t vibe (sometimes it works wonders tho lmao) Any advice? Or just “do better”? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Zero luck on dating apps - better in real life?Tinder’s algorithms are fucked. If dating apps is your plan of attack, it’s worth it to get the upgraded versions - they generally make you appear more, at the top, etc. so you get more matches. I’ve always seen myself as middle-of-the-pack attractiveness. However, almost zero success in 5 years on/off usage on dating apps (hooked up with 3-4 girls), but I’ve had “plenty” of success in cold approach/general face to face (probably 1 in 8 will be successful). To me, Tinder is all about attraction,… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Weekend report and seeking advice!I don’t think you can go wrong man. Sounds like you hit it off well and she’s interested, the rest is just being yourself! The hard part is over. In addition, I’m not sure it matters that much. In my experience, seduction as an “art” becomes necessary when both people have experience in dating/hooking up. I have no clue your customs or culture, or how socially equipped an 18yo is in your area; however, majority of 18yo have little to no experience in my area. I personally don’t want to risk imma… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a client - breach of boundaries?Exactly. It can be explained to superiors “well she just had some questions and I wanted to make sure she was comfortable for the process…” etc. and still gives her the option I’m not sure if you have cards already made, but I’ve dropped the “that’s my personal number, so I’m available for anything you need”. If it applies, hints like that help imo | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Asking out a client - breach of boundaries?Leave a business card if you have one. Puts the ball in her court. I’d say that’s about as far as I’d go with that one though… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What game is for meStart the conversation, and go with the flow. Even if situations get awkward, be comfortable with it and show her she can be comfortable as well. That will lead to deeper conversation, which will open up chances for you to show her who you are. If they’re not talking back, take the hint and move on. Rinse, wash, repeat until success | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 07:35 PM |
| 4 | What game is for meYou’re misinterpreting what she is saying, I think. Not necessarily in the sense of “I should be your first priority” but in the sense of actually giving them attention and getting to know them more than just surface level. Navigating a conversation where you let her lead it while being a contributing member of the conversation goes a long ways. Meet her emotional needs (to the right extent) before trying to meet sexual needs | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | For those without fancy jobs or possessions, how did you attract women "out of your league"?Keep in mind you’re 18. You also will not be in the same location your whole life (I hope). I’m sorry you’ve gotten a bad rep for it but eventually you well move on from these people and they will never see you again (most likely). If all the things you say are true then you are doing just fine, it will just take time for others to catch up in maturity. Stay self aware and become a better you every day and you will see significant changes my guy | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 03:03 AM |
| 5 | For those without fancy jobs or possessions, how did you attract women "out of your league"?Bro, I just graduated college, and I can’t begin to tell you how wrong you are. If you get a bad rep for cold approaching, you’re probably doing it wrong or coming in strong. Your whole post reeks of self-pity, which is easily the most unattractive quality. Whether you present it or not, that gets noticed. Start doing things to make you feel better, like taking the extra step for grooming or dressing just slightly better. Look good, feel good dude. Be genuine and just be a good (to the right ext… | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 11:08 PM |
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