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U in ny?
/r/seduction15/07/26 05:24 PM
2

When I’m having an off day, boy am I bad but can also turn the charm on sometimes ..
/r/seduction13/07/26 05:34 PM
1

In a superficial setting like that maybe but you’re 6’4.. how many women are you seeing currently?
/r/seduction22/06/26 01:10 AM
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Attraction isn’t a binary concept. It can change overtime on a variety of factors of which looks and height is only a small part. As someone who isn’t good looking or tall, I’ve Franklin been with a lot of hot girls because I’m smart, funny, and persistent
/r/seduction12/06/26 11:05 PM
1

Mutual friends for sure. If you don’t have those get a social circle
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:41 AM
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I’m not saying they’re slaying left and right but I’m saying you have a hand you’re not fully taking advantage of and there are ppl with way less in that regard outperforming, so you need to look inwards to see what’s going on instead of blaming a poor dating market
/r/seduction14/05/26 12:37 PM
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Damn bro I’d be king if I was 6,1 white hispanic. There are 5,5 Bangladeshi dudes pulling more, shape up lil bro
/r/seduction14/05/26 04:39 AM
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I disagree with your premise. I think an average looking guy who has high status and a great personality outperforms the best looking guy in any room in the USA in 80% of the rooms. I know you said to ignore that, but that doesn’t really make any sense because time is limited and one has to prioritize what to focus on so you can’t really ignore it. Like if I have 100 hours, I would put a lot of that into building myself and my personality as opposed to looks maxing.
/r/seduction11/05/26 01:13 PM
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Fuck that texting BS, easiest way is girls at the pregame, throughout the night you can build rapport and then take em home
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:43 PM
0

So given your goal, you actually have the strategic advantage. Meaning that your stated want (getting a girlfriend) is aligned with a lot of womens wants too (finding a stable long term partner ). Ill constrast this to what typically happens which is the guys wants (short term hookup or just sex) is in conflict with the woman’s wants (long term stable relationship). Unless ofcourse you’re being dishonest with yourself and really dont want a gf but want to hookup and you think getting a gf will a…
/r/seduction09/04/26 03:14 AM
1

In terms of building comfort and online dating.. could you expand on that? How long did you wait to invite them back to your crib and how did you build comfort?
/r/seduction06/02/26 07:02 PM
1

That’s like asking “tennis players who are 4.0 and above, how do you get better at playing in a clay court?” When you should be asking “how do you play tennis??”
/r/seduction27/01/26 03:31 AM
2

Isn’t there a ton of Indians there?
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:58 AM
1

Which city? Dude brown girls love brown guys, I am brown.
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:57 AM
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THIS GUY FUCKS
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:56 AM
0

Date your niche!!!! Go to brown events and start hooking up there, in my experience brown girls r prettt easy. Then you can build up ur confidence
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:52 AM
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Date your niche, the basics count in all circles though
/r/seduction23/01/26 12:38 AM
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The fuck does that mean lol
/r/seduction11/01/26 02:44 PM
1

I don’t believe you have a 2m net worth, how would you have the time to do this and/or afford to suffer the reputational hit this would cause your existing business?
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:34 AM
2

Dude go to a bar instead
/r/seduction28/12/25 04:11 AM
11

How are you comparing your numbers to girls? Don’t you know that it’s way easier for girls to get sex?
/r/seduction13/12/25 03:20 PM
2

Talk to other girls at the gym and have her see
/r/seduction08/12/25 02:28 AM
2

That’s a good way to look at it son, nicely done
/r/seduction06/12/25 02:25 PM
1

Danish deception?
/r/seduction25/11/25 04:31 AM
1

NY NY NY NY NY NY NY
/r/seduction18/11/25 06:19 AM
3

Why does an animal lose interest in food the moment after it has finished eating?
/r/seduction14/11/25 05:34 PM
2

I think he means commonality in schedules. If you see a girl every week at the book club versus tinder, there’s more investment and scope for LTR in the former than latter
/r/seduction13/11/25 08:08 PM
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You will not remember this moment a year from now
/r/seduction05/11/25 09:24 PM
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I’ve withheld from receiving bjs before when I am conscious if my dick might not smell the best after a long day or night out.. sorry if tmi but that might be it or if he is uncircumcised maybe he too sensitive
/r/seduction18/10/25 10:38 PM
2

You guys weren’t exclusive or bf/gf. She’s gonna have to get over it or lose you
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:30 PM
2

Dude you’re taking this shit way too seriously. You are probably the fifth guy she messaged because she’s bored as fuck and wants to get some free drinks
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:46 PM
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Hello. Welcome to the game! This question is the origin of not only the pickup community but the motivation most men have to do most things.
/r/seduction02/10/25 05:01 PM
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Just keep low effort engagement until she stops responding to that, it’s low risk high reward. Worst case she unfollows u
/r/seduction16/09/25 11:33 PM
1

Bring your friends w you to the club
/r/seduction10/09/25 02:37 AM
2

Make friends w ppl, then go w a group
/r/seduction09/09/25 01:51 AM
1

Uhh because they have way much more options. If you were the only guy on an island of 30 girls, guarantee that none of them would ghost you no matter how shit your game was. You just aren’t their best option and they’re just not that into yet. Since time is limited, people with a lot of options have to determine which person to invest more of their time in.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:41 AM
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Use texting to meet up and physically escalate from there
/r/seduction05/09/25 03:50 AM
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Famous dude.
/r/seduction06/08/25 03:17 AM
1

Hmm.. what helped me was find a role model that I could compare myself to but far outperformed the average guy and became good at his field. Not copy but analyze what made them funny, likable or hot.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:37 AM
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To put it bluntly, talking to and having sex with attractive guys is not the part that most girls have any difficulty with. It’s keeping them interested and around for more than a short fling that is typically that hard part for girls in todays dating world. You should consider joining the apps. If you want to meet more organically, you can make eye contact and then ask to work in on a machine or simply just ask them out
/r/seduction03/08/25 05:20 PM
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Dude you are way overthinking this and as a result are reactive. The less of a fuck you give and the more you focus on just having fun and doing what you wanna do, the more people will respond to you. Just do you, take ownership of what you want and smash really well and most of the problems you have will go away
/r/seduction19/07/25 03:30 AM
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I have the exact opposite problem as you in both regards 😂 You guys just don’t have sexual chemistry. Some things you may try. Heavy on the foreplay, go slow. I’ll repeat myself BEC it’s very important.. GO SLOW. Rub her thighs, back, kiss her neck. Tease her, make eye contact. I had this girl I was hooking up w. Early on I feel like she wasn’t thaat interested . The first time the sex was really boring and stiff. The second time started out like that too. She was barely kissing me and it was li…
/r/seduction16/07/25 06:45 PM
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22-30 is interesting because you’re now an adult getting used to how adult society works. No more school and having access to beautiful women by accident because of proximity. You’ve gotta now be involved in activities that put you in close proximity to women. What activity is up to you. Here’s some ideas. Play music? Cool, join a band or start DJing and meet girls through shows. Like to party? Cool, start becoming a regular at the most popular bar in your area, become tight with the bartenders …
/r/seduction16/07/25 04:56 PM
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Heck, one day I thought I’m better than average at literally everything, how am I gonna let fucking hunter whos in remedial algebra beat me at this
/r/seduction09/07/25 03:25 PM
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Yes! Outcome independence and outcome ambiguity
/r/seduction09/07/25 03:26 AM
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Ok so… you like a girl, get her number, talk for a bit, then nothing. What happens then? Does your life go to shit? Does your quality of life dramatically decrease? No. You at the very worst are left at the same place. Just your life without this girl, which by the way, should be as fun as possible. You should love your life as it is without any women in it. Focus on that. Women can sense that shit and not needing them actually attracts them. And then worst case scenario, you’re right back where…
/r/seduction08/07/25 04:29 AM
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Great comment
/r/seduction06/07/25 10:20 PM
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So we all live in our reality. When you meet someone, your reality crosses paths with another persons. When someone else’s reality is just so compelling that you want to join it, it’s called seduction. Your cousin likely has many friends too
/r/seduction04/07/25 03:42 AM
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I’m in your position. What works for me is to ask a question they will respond to (a hook question)and then say “I don’t check this app, what’s your phone”.
/r/seduction02/07/25 08:30 PM
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Gotta love the 60% modifier just for being born in a certain region of the world 💀💀
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:49 PM
1

Dude..What is you doin…
/r/seduction01/07/25 01:35 PM
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Because the sex is either bad or you are not having sex with her
/r/seduction27/06/25 07:13 PM
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Dude… you’ve got it all wrong and you’re going nowhere with this mindset. If you’re not ok with abysmal rates in cold approach… then warm approach. Do hobbies, take classes, become a part of a community. No one said you had approach hundreds of complete strangers and ask them to have sex with you. Life doesn’t have rules and you can only go so far by reading forums. There’s no magic formula and you seem to be caught up in some hypothetical statistical debate in an attempt to justify the real ans…
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:26 PM
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For what question?
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:16 PM
2

I just don’t understand what you are trying to achieve here.
/r/seduction26/06/25 02:19 PM
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Dude like.. women have vibes w a lot of guys. Most of the time if they ghost, they have shit going on in their personal lives, or just busy. Like it’s not you. It’s just they probably talk to a lot of dudes so the time you spent w her is likely a lot less special to her than you. Flip it around.. lets say you’re vibing with 20 women and #14 was like hey let’s do something. You’ve got to prioritize BEC you’ve got a shit ton of options, yk?
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:58 AM
1

Are you in college? If not go to a college tkwn
/r/seduction24/06/25 02:18 AM
0

I mean that could depend on a lot of factors including age. I’m sure that’s not the case for 22 year olds. Your anecdotal experience is only just that
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:10 PM
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You still have time before marriage but in general the guys you’d consider very physically attractive are either having sex w a ton of girls or in long term relationships. Doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions but like in general why would they settle down you know? You’ll have to compromise on the looks front eventually
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:27 PM
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Stopped reading after “found the one”. There shouldn’t even be a “one right now”, the whole premise of game should be having an abundance mindset. If one goes, you’ve got multiple lined up and having that mindset makes it less likely for ppl to lose interest
/r/seduction20/06/25 06:32 PM
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when you will look back on your youth, you will see a scared boy with every opportunity paralyzed by visions of what he thought he couldn’t be. Never in the moment, his mind somewhere else while other men enjoyed
/r/seduction20/06/25 02:10 AM
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Why would you worry about the past? That shit already happened. Worrying won’t change it
/r/seduction16/06/25 07:16 PM
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Just satisfy her sexually and maintain unpredictability in the outcome (ie where the relationship is headed) & you’ll be fine. Women are mostly loyal if they’re sexually and emotionally invested
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:04 AM
1

Thank you for writing this
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:29 PM
1

Grow out your hair and shave. It’s that simple
/r/seduction09/06/25 02:09 AM
1

What does that Snapchat example have to do with testosterone tho? She can’t sense your testosterone or smell your pheromones through snap
/r/seduction09/06/25 01:51 AM
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Neva
/r/seduction16/05/25 08:33 PM
6

If a fisherman gets a fish on the hook but then for whatever reason it gets away, does he fret? No. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction14/05/25 03:56 PM
3

Fear and panic -> you’re threatened - why? -> no other options, so lots of pressure. If many options -> no biggie if this one goes.
/r/seduction14/05/25 03:43 PM
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Great writing, sent chills down my spine
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:59 PM
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Couldn’t be more true. You literally don’t have to do anything else besides this and you will see standards flying out the window for these girls. I’ve seen girls let go of good looking high value dudes who have massive inheritances for fuck boys who know how to be a good lay
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:48 PM
4

Temporary pleasures won’t solve long term pain
/r/seduction27/04/25 05:13 PM
3

I think social circle game and logistics are important here if you aren’t going out with wingmen (and easier than the latter imo). If you have a good club or bar nearby to your pad with a cool group of friends who are brining their acquaintances every weekend, you’ll be pulling left and right because you’re naturally doing a lot of the things (building rapport in the pregame, leading her from one place to the next, there’s also some familiarity from the pregame). Remember YOU choose the field of…
/r/seduction07/04/25 05:29 PM
5

This question demonstrates a key lack of understanding on how dating and seduction generally work
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:35 AM
3

I would personally disagree with the waiting for the sex, sex creates strong emotional attachment if done properly on the woman’s side. Ofc there are exceptions but in todays world sex is a prerequisite imho
/r/seduction28/03/25 02:49 AM
2

I think that’s where I disagree. Look up “building rapport” in this forum. You won’t want to build the same connection that she has with her dad or brother or platonic friend. You’ll want to be exciting, powerful, confident and intriguing. These are all things that you can do on your first and second dates (from the moment you meet her tbh). You’ll wanna be the guy that girls say have a cool “vibe” or “energy”.
/r/seduction28/03/25 02:47 AM
3

You’re prob not connecting w them emotionally. You’ve got take them on the highest highs followed by the lowest lows - so to speak.
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:46 PM
1

The woman
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:08 PM
6

You’re too available. Girls lose interest in a story when they know the ending of. She knows with you, you’ll always be there wanting her. One doesnt lust for something they already have.. they lust for something they want but don’t have. You need to provide some uncertainty in the relationship, create some jealousy and maybe also explore other options bec tbh how do you know this one girl is good enough for you rn? Remember it’s abt you not her. It’s your life.
/r/seduction25/03/25 01:44 PM
1

The woman’s evaluation/feeling of the sex
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:58 AM
0

That is a different question and has nothing to do w OPs question. Someone’s ability to source sex and their ability to make a woman enjoy the sex are two different things and are not correlated. Being able to pull a woman and knowing how to effectively have sex with her are two completely different skill sets. Seduction largely focuses on the former but I’d argue that if you want to keep a woman around and interested, the latter is a must know.
/r/seduction20/03/25 03:11 AM
1

If you are bad at sex, your girl will not be attracted to you. If you are good at sex, your girl will be attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:22 AM
-1

If you are bad at sex, your girl will not be attracted to you. If you are good at sex, your girl will be attracted to you.
/r/seduction20/03/25 02:22 AM
-6

I ain’t reading all that. It’s as simple as being a good lay
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:00 PM
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Then you need to improve your sex game. You can ask what she likes. Not being good at sex is the #1 way a woman you’re sleeping with looses interest. There’s literally nothing else that matters.
/r/seduction18/03/25 02:38 AM
1

If you wanna get dates, go get dates
/r/seduction14/03/25 04:03 AM
1

‘Wanna do the thing at the place?’
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:16 AM
1

Idk girls get boob jobs. It’s just something to make it easier to get in the door. Once girls like you it stops mattering. If u wanna own your actual height go ahead though, good on u.
/r/seduction04/03/25 07:10 PM
5

Thank you, great post
/r/seduction23/02/25 05:56 PM
1

Do not do it. My best friend went this route. It stops being about the sex pretty quickly and more about chasing the thrill and ritualizing the process, kind of like gambling. You will become addicted and it’s very expensive.
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:03 PM
13

I don’t compliment them.
/r/seduction09/02/25 02:30 PM
1

Parties, clubs, class
/r/seduction04/02/25 03:21 PM
-3

Please do not check in.
/r/seduction16/01/25 01:47 AM
2

Just see if she wants to get together and study. If she likes you she will say yes.
/r/seduction17/12/24 03:33 AM
2

Jesus leave some puss for the rest of us
/r/seduction10/12/24 06:16 PM
1

Initially for the pull, during nah
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:42 AM
1

3/10 - chubs, tatted, face OK, bad breath
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:40 AM
2

Congrats king
/r/seduction29/11/24 05:21 PM
13

She is just more into another guy
/r/seduction06/11/24 05:19 AM
0

You need to understand what men want in a relationship (and no it’s not hotness lol, yeah we are visual creatures that prioritize looks in pre-selecting sexual mates but once we lay that shit kinda becomes less important when choosing a girlfriend).
/r/seduction06/11/24 05:16 AM
1

Outcome independence is the short ans. Did you say Mewtew type build..? Lol
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:11 PM
2

Ur pics likely aren’t good
/r/seduction16/10/24 06:02 PM
2

Social circles is the only way.
/r/seduction14/10/24 03:24 AM
2

We created it
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:38 PM
0

We put ppl on the moon, anything and everything is possible. I picked up a girl on a hop on hop off bus once
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:38 PM
4

Don’t think about this too much. Can you image a chick saying to her friend .. “I met this awesome guy at this bar but meh he didn’t say a word while I put my # in his phone, turn off!”. No right? Just be natural, it really doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:15 PM
1

Dude play the game a little bit. Do you think she wants a guy who’s waiting for her to text him? Live ya life and if it happens it’ll happen and if not you’ll have someone else suckin u off
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:17 AM
3

Yep and women can sense this too by how you respond to flakiness, etc.
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:24 PM
86

If you are in front of the goal, shoot the ball.
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:10 PM
0

Macca root powder, working out, do not watch porn (most important) and be social
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:22 AM
11

Yep very true, everyone’s different and sometimes hot girls just like the people that they like. I probably should’ve put an “all else being equal” somewhere in my comment too :)
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:54 PM
267

Supply/demand. It’s harder to tie down a good looking man but not that hard to get him for a night. It’s easier to tie down a less good looking man and that dude is probably more kind than the good looking man. If u could choose between having sex with a hot girl and an average girl (both of them will have sex w you), what do you choose? Now lets say the hot girl will only have sex and not settle down and you’re looking for a relationship (bec kids, bio clock, emotional support needs), what do y…
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:23 PM
11

Wtf I had a more intelligent convo with this bot than I’ve had with a person in the last two months
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:10 PM
-1

Uh no but you might wanna avoid this girl
/r/seduction26/07/24 08:44 PM
5

You won’t remember this 2 yrs from now - move on my brother
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:25 PM
13

But isnt that the root of the problem? You’ve obviously developed an unhealthy habit of putting material things on a pedestal. I think you should look inward to see why you think you need these expensive things and then make a plan on which of them is necessary or not. For example if you had said that you need an expensive car to get clients, I would see the logic in that but to me it sounds like you’re in a never ending cycle of overvaluing material things that won’t truly enhance your quality …
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:23 PM
1

Can I ask you what you think a German car will give you?
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:23 PM
10

Why not approach 100 of those higher chance girls? Also who said the metal head is even into the glam girl, wouldn’t he be happier with metal head chicks?
/r/seduction17/07/24 08:37 PM
2

I’ve made a move and we hooked up
/r/seduction27/06/24 07:08 PM
71

You should just ask them and then report back
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:05 PM
1

“Go do what our ancestors have done and what theirs have before them”
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:00 PM
1

Charge interest will rates are still high
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:15 PM
-1

Good dick can do that
/r/seduction17/05/24 07:07 PM
4

Great explanation
/r/seduction13/05/24 11:14 PM
17

“Would you like to hang out? Casually, I mean. Not too casual though! Hahahaha touches arm but also not looking for anything serious ofcourse, I mean maybe eventually! But not now!”
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:37 AM
2

What the fuck
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:09 PM
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