Outside_Guava8627 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Her friend is way more my type I think I posted it under the wrong comment…	/r/seduction	01/09/22 11:20 PM
2	Her friend is way more my type Do you ever imagine it the other way around? If one of his boys brought a date (that they might have said they’re super into) to meet his friends…and then she starts chatting up with you under false pretenses, (pretending to be about your boy). I don’t know what would offend me more, the fact that someone would think I’m dumb enough to be lied to, or that someone would think I’d go along with it. I mean some women don’t care and will proceed or maybe they’re not as close to the friend (acquainta…	/r/seduction	01/09/22 07:34 PM
18	Her friend is way more my type If my friends date tried to approach me this way I’d run in the opposite direction, fast.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 02:21 PM
7	Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zero I’m not a guy, but I can tell you my story and hopefully it’ll provide some insight. I’ve always been social, had many “friends” and overall would say I’m not shy. But I’ve had trauma and anxiety, and I’ve lost friends throughout for one reason or another (they got married/had kids/stopped calling or caring/gossiped behind my back…etc. I had to start over several times. I lost my virginity at 25, so I was a late bloomer…and it hasn’t been easy to allow myself to be vulnerable with anyone since m…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 07:00 AM
3	Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her? I mean listen, even if they did tell her, if she likes you it’ll be flattering. If she doesn’t then she might get a little weirded out because it is her workplace. Don’t beat yourself up. I have a coworker who shares some of those things with me about another coworker they like and I haven’t talked to anyone else about it. So there’s a chance they didn’t say anything at all.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 03:05 PM
2	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... Lol it’s just become such a narrative and it’s so relatable.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 08:21 PM
6	Why "making them wait" upsets many men... I would argue here that age doesn’t always matter. I’m 38 and feel much more like the 26 year old example you mentioned. Didn’t start having sex until I was 25, and recently ended an engagement with someone I was with for over 5 years. Trusting someone with my body is very hard for me now. Men I’ve liked and would have liked to explore sexually down the line, get upset if I don’t put out right away. This is why I haven’t done the deed in almost a year. I’m not going to invest my emotions into so…	/r/seduction	21/06/22 06:37 PM
6	Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time? I think it has a lot to do with someone’s upbringing. I didn’t start having sex until I was 25 or so. I wanted to wait for marriage. Realized I wasn’t getting married anytime soon, so I changed my perspective. After being in a LTR that left me with trust issues, sex is harder to be open to…I am definitely more selective, and I also need more of a mental stimulation rather than a physical one. Need to know he’s not a douche or a sleaze, and feels safe enough to allow in.	/r/seduction	30/05/22 04:17 PM
3	[deleted by user] It can happen that fast. If she got excited about meeting you and thought of the possibility of being with you seriously, she’d get upset if you told her you’re not looking for anything. Especially if she’s younger. I don’t know your age/dynamic. But it’s best not to try and manipulate the situation. Going on one date isn’t enough to know if someone is worth being in a relationship with, and yes you should take things slow, but maybe next time (or this time) explain to her that you take your tim…	/r/seduction	13/05/22 05:54 PM
6	[deleted by user] If she’s catching feelings, and you say you’re not looking for a relationship, she may not entertain you (if she’s smart) because it hurts too much. Nobody wants to feel like they’re being used.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 02:57 PM
-2	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Younger women are easier to manipulate, and often aren’t experienced enough to know/recognize when they are dealing with predators. Personally, if a man over 35 decides to date women under the age of 22 he just seems like a sleaze who has no interest in a real genuine relationship. Call it a stigma, say it’s irrational, or whatever you want but high value women won’t put up with men like this. That’s why they find them so young, they think they can get away with shitty behavior. To be fair, youn…	/r/seduction	31/03/22 11:57 PM