OverSaltyFry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Date advice?	Escalation & Calibration	OverSaltyFry	/r/seduction	06/07/24 12:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	She Flaked, I was mildly salty, now what? (convo attached below) You got it, give her a few days, let her wonder a bit, maybe call her mid next week, 5-10 mins on your work drive, be playful n fun, gauge her reaction, If she’s not startin to perk up, don’t force it, let it go. If she does, set up some spontaneous low commitment hang out after work a couple days after that. If she flakes that I’d stop contact. And definitely get some other interactions with other girls goin.	/r/seduction	18/05/25 02:59 AM
47	She Flaked, I was mildly salty, now what? (convo attached below) A lot of issues here tbh, there’s nothin fun about what you asked of her Dinner isn’t really fun, it’s over investment, it’s you sittin across the table from her having a boring convo tryna court her. There’s nothing adventurous, didn’t provide a novel fun experience to take her along with in YOUR LIFE. You’re basically sayin, I’ll save my scarce Saturday night just to have dinner with you. Next you’re basically asking her, after a long week, to trek her way all the way down for a boring interac…	/r/seduction	18/05/25 02:25 AM
1	When do you know it’s time to just stay with one girl ? I can get the first part a bit, as you get emotionally closer to a girl who seems to bring very little downside into your life, you naturally dwindle in the other girls you’re seeing. But that litmus test you suggested, I have a business in the carribean, that I teach people how to open water swim as well as understanding their bodies, movement yoga awarness etc, I love it so much, I can not imagine giving that up, because she needs me somewhere. In fact I’d resent any woman who would attempt to…	/r/seduction	17/04/25 05:16 AM
2	When do you know it’s time to just stay with one girl ? Bro how does that make sense	/r/seduction	17/04/25 04:41 AM
46	Left on seen. Am I too gamey? Def trying a lil too hard. Compare how effortless her responses are, vs yours.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 08:18 PM
2	Weird one to share Bro, the moment she asked for a lighter, she knew what her end goal was, her plan was set in motion. Even the space she’s leaving for teasing and flirting is part of her professional plan. Forget about your limp dick, you brought this chick into your house, check if you’re missing any valuables, your credit card, possessions, etc. especially while you turned you back I’m always sus of girls overly forward like that, you don’t know how many times she’s done this strategic sales move, and what she…	/r/seduction	04/04/25 04:39 PM
1	First Experience Don’t do it. You may not know it now, but your sexuality has more value than you take it for.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 08:06 PM
1	Opener advice Bro you’re her RA, this could end really bad for you	/r/seduction	10/03/25 10:58 PM
1	Lots of IOIs but no actual interest I’ll give you info no one else is telling you, they’re interested, it’s your vibe. Probably askin generic questions, no sexuality in your approach, surface level information exchange. Be playful say somethin funny about what she’s doin/wearing. Let your eyes and voice say you want her without sayin the words. Hold the pauses, let the tension build , see her in a sexual light. Graze her arm, feel her tattoos or birthmarks, always paying attention to her facial expressions and body language to see…	/r/seduction	21/01/25 06:33 PM
2	Got to hit and then got served the worst flake out in the history of flake outs? Yes, and offering to spend his own money to extend an expensive hotel stay right after sex. That’s crazy. 2 night in a row, he’s askin for it to fizzle out. “The worst in the worst that could have happened”, shows how much attachment our boy has, ofc it’ll repel and chase the girl away. Who knows what other needy behaviour occured, we’re just getting what OP found relevant	/r/seduction	20/01/25 03:29 PM
0	Indirect game makes no sense to me I honestly don’t think one can overwrite genuine attraction, I could be wrong though, I feel morso she’ll find other traits that make him “suitable enough”	/r/seduction	16/01/25 11:03 AM
3	Indirect game makes no sense to me You’re wasting your breath a bit. Pearls before swine.	/r/seduction	16/01/25 11:00 AM
3	How to seduce my boyfriend in 10 ways Wow, never thought of that. Quality insights..	/r/seduction	10/01/25 12:44 PM
1	Mexico city — approaching a girl who is on date and noticed me five times Either you got so few options or tryna one up some random dude for your ego. Figure out where this intention is even coming from first	/r/seduction	09/01/25 03:02 PM
6	What should I do when girl says "My friend(F) and I are going to the bathroom"? Man it sounds like you have too much theory in your head, all this YouTube coach lingo. When a girl actually likes you when going to the bathroom “stay RIGHT there, I’ll be right back, I need the bathroom real quick” When a girl doesn’t “I’m just gonna go to the bathroom”, Not every group has this weird ninja secret code lingo to escape men, a lot don’t give a fuck about your feelings or being subtle, they will just whisper in their friend’s ear to get outta there. About kiss close or f close, c…	/r/seduction	08/01/25 06:20 AM
28	What should I do when girl says "My friend(F) and I are going to the bathroom"? Bro I know everyone here is sayin 2, because bein “non needy” is the holy bible on this sub. But if the situation is as you said. Clearly her friend didn’t like the guy she was talking to. She used the bathroom as an excuse to leave and not come back, and obviously escape it with her friend. The girl you’re talking to, because you haven’t shown enough intent that you’re attracted to her, has no choice but to leave, she can’t be like “this guy hasn’t shown he’s into me, but I wanna stay with him,…	/r/seduction	08/01/25 03:49 AM
1	Is she in a relationship? Lol	/r/seduction	05/01/25 01:27 PM
1	What did I screw up? I agree with the other comment, you bought into her frame that “she is deciding if she likes you or not”. What about you though? You have a frame too, where “you decide if you like her or not” A playful way to do that is mention something dorky she did during that date, and tease her a bit, and say you might give her a second chance to prove she’s cool.	/r/seduction	31/12/24 03:04 AM
6	How do you escalate during a quick coffee date? It’s subtle, tension building is so hit and miss sometimes not kissing will diffuse all tension, others where her heat is already up .. if you’re just holding that space where she wants to kiss and you don’t give it to her ..and you sustain that over another two hours and the subtle touching is building and the vibe is building in the moment, you’re finally alone… The most intense experience follows Sometimes you would think a bunch of kissing pulls the interaction forward, but It really burns u…	/r/seduction	30/12/24 02:16 PM
1	How do you escalate during a quick coffee date? Bro please, this is the kind of tension I accidentally create, please, please please give her a ride up… I could see how your style even makes this tension possible.	/r/seduction	30/12/24 01:40 PM
8	Centered Man vs. Nice Guy Nah, this is great. Thanks for the write up. Especially that end part. It hits hard after you’ve been slapped with that lesson many a time	/r/seduction	14/11/24 04:55 PM
5	Are girls turned off if you don’t escalate to sex on first date? Wtf..	/r/seduction	28/08/24 04:58 AM
10	Got ghosted after getting her phone number and exchanging a few innocent texts Very true. Basic and innocent texting aka, boring predictable, no subtle flirting no leading	/r/seduction	12/08/24 08:35 AM
11	Uninterested girls getting mad when you stop the attention? No offense if she agreed to have drinks with you alone on the evenin, she’s givin you an obvious hint, you acted like a pussy and didn’t even go for it. A lot of women will lost attraction and respect for you out of that.	/r/seduction	08/08/24 12:13 AM
3	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? Still the bar is pretty low -18-35 -Not obese -No significant deformities	/r/seduction	30/07/24 04:52 AM
3	Going "too far" sexually on first dates Same bro, I have my observations about this that I’ll jot down here tonight, I think there’s somethin about validation too, once a girl feels like she’s “gotten” you, the mystery being taken away. Same, def blows my mind.	/r/seduction	29/07/24 09:02 PM
8	Secret tip for dating apps He’s right though, places where you have subjectively higher SMV. For me it’s night and day difference between dating in Toronto, (shitty dates with average girls who think they are better than me) and Playa Del Carmen (meetin girls all over the world who see me as an exotic Canadian)	/r/seduction	29/07/24 08:54 PM
2	Going "too far" sexually on first dates Havin the exact same problem	/r/seduction	29/07/24 08:52 PM
3	What to say after what’s your name? I agree to this	/r/seduction	20/07/24 06:55 AM
-2	What to say after what’s your name? I just know you got shit game	/r/seduction	20/07/24 06:53 AM
-3	What to say after what’s your name? You must be joking. There’s millions of other non-generic alternatives that she hasn’t heard before. Guessing her race in a playful way, commenting something about her personality form her fitt, saying anything related to something she CHOSE to do/wear/be.	/r/seduction	20/07/24 04:12 AM
25	What to say after what’s your name? Bro never walk up and say she’s beautiful unless you’re so far above her league that you want her to feel she has a chance with yoy	/r/seduction	20/07/24 01:02 AM