Over_Unity Archive

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4	How I Gained Confidence Right on, reading this made me realize something, don't be a lurker in real life. I think that's the secret. If someone doesn't like you, that's their problem. Unless you're an outstanding asshat, just comment away!	/r/seduction	20/05/14 04:37 AM
1	How tips/tricks to figure out who are taken at a party without talking to every girl/looking despite around others? Have a great time and don't give two shits what people think. That's all it takes! I went to a party last night and only knew one person who was passed out. It was a sausage fest, but I figured "what the shit," I'm here, I'm gonna have fun... Next thing you know, I am, and the other people are wondering why we are having more fun and flocked over to us! Had gay men hitting on me (sausage fest) but hey... The principle is the same!	/r/seduction	03/02/13 09:09 AM
1	How tips/tricks to figure out who are taken at a party without talking to every girl/looking despite around others? This really is the best advice! The worst possible outcome is you make new friends. Edit: I find its easier to start talking to the guys. Once your frame is set and those guys realize you are a fun person, it should be obvious if any of the girls are attracted to you.	/r/seduction	03/02/13 07:47 AM
1	Why do guys TRY to make me nervous? How do I stop giving them that satisfaction and become more confident? The best advice I can give is to ask simple questions while you are performing the requested task... Stupid things like "what are you up to today?" Go a long way when opening people up... I took me forever to get this side, I've even tried the challenge of how many movie recommendations can I get in one shift. Once they start talking its easy, when there's a lull, it's super easy to pretend you are busy and walk away!	/r/seduction	15/11/12 05:01 AM
2	Why do guys TRY to make me nervous? How do I stop giving them that satisfaction and become more confident? In HS I was terminally shy so I decided to get a job serving tables (Amazed I didn't get fired since I was so terrified I routinely forgot my name!) after doing this for years I am now able to hold eye contact with 10's and be confident and humorous... I knew I was making progress when I started to use the same lines less and less, and began to calibrate the convo to the uniqueness of each person. This has a learning curve that is excruciating, to put it mildly, but you'd be amazed what you can …	/r/seduction	13/11/12 07:28 AM
7	I got the girl, how do I keep her? http://youtu.be/uS5FvK7AQZ4	/r/seduction	28/10/12 09:55 PM
1	What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement? I've also found that a loud up beat place is best. Not only do you learn voice projection, (just the act of being heard without screaming while making eye contact goes a long way).. It also puts you in an energetic, confident frame.	/r/seduction	25/10/12 07:18 AM
2	To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this? I feel your pain, I have worked in bars and have seen guys that use the "take up space" statement so literally its obnoxious. They stand in the middle of a main isle of traffic and refuse to move no matter how you present yourself or project your voice. (I'm 6'3 250lbs and have a booming voice) They usually look, notice I have a case of beer or some other load and just ignore the fact that I'm there. I've gotten to the point were I just shoulder through them and haven't had any problems yet, but…	/r/seduction	11/10/12 07:44 AM
6	How do you overcome having an unattractive face? This is exactly right!!!! When you don't give a fuck, no one else gives a fuck! This really is the core of self confidence, don't give a single solitary fuck!!!	/r/seduction	17/09/12 05:32 AM