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Overshadows/r/RedPillWomen26/08/13 07:03 PM
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Start gaining muscle. Firm that butt! Learn new recipes and break in the hubby's family cookbook.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/14 01:16 AM
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I'm subscribed to TRP and RPW and both are educational. As an individual, my strategy is going to deviate from any of the general set of ideas, but that doesn't mean I can't learn anything from them. Not sure I would out-and-out call myself a RPW, but there is a lot of like there, and a lot to hate on TRP. But just because I don't like something, doesn't mean its not true. Knowledge is power.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 10:22 PM
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I'm going to come off as harsh. He is not ready to be married and live with a woman. His emotional maturity is low to not realize how insensitive he is being, and you will be in for further shocks about unrealistic expectations. Before I got married, we went through pre-marital counseling which was amazing. We were forced to go through a number of topics where we explored our expectations on a variety of issues; health, family, money, values... Down to specific details. Make sure you know what y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/13 05:23 AM
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I think your side note is apt. Unless males make the active steps to ensure that pregnancy doesn't occur, they need to be responsible for offspring that they father. That includes all forms of contraception, and filtering out of crazies who would sabotage it. Abortion is an obscene form of contraception IMO.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 11:59 PM
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I'm wary of complimenting men until I know them well. I am not in the market and don't want to send a signal that I am interested in them, or attracted to them. This could upset our platonic or professional relationship- and generally it doesn't seem worth it. Once I know a man better, I can lightly compliment them, and do. We talk about each other's wardrobes, haircuts, and achievements pretty regularly. I don't know if I'd EVER consider straight out calling them handsome to their face though. …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 03:55 PM
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I'd consider myself curvy in a good way. I'm slender, but I have athletic thighs from soccer, a butt and breasts. 34-25-35. I'm not 'thin'... Nor 'athletic'... Would I just mark average? I don't disagree from having filters on body type... I just don't think the current way to go about it is all that helpful.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 05:53 AM
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Thanks, I thought your list was successful at communicating a healthy NAWALT perspective. A sort of 'trust, but verify' moment. Its good to know the risks and pitfalls so you know when to bail or steer clear... not to mention inform a serious decision should you choose to marry. I also appreciate the sanity. 'What women are like' can sometimes turn a little emotional; a reflection of previous bad experiences.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/13 11:54 PM
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My husband certainly hopes that I won't! :D But thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/13 04:16 PM
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I consider it a form of politicking. I work in an office, and I can use sweetness as a disarming way to get alpha type colleagues to take direction from me, or more-readily comply with requirements of a project that I would head-up. If I went toe-to-toe on their own terms, I'd fail miserably. I can be the 'good cop' to my boss' 'bad cop'. I'd rather not threaten or challenge men to get things done, especially if they can be asked in a way that makes them feel good about helping. Plus, its seems …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/13 08:19 PM
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My husband and I go to the same place he went all his life to pick out and cut down a Christmas Tree. We greet the farmers and have cocoa. The next day we will put lights in it and begin our next tradition: popcorn garland! We watch movies and sew popcorn together until our fingers are sore and we are sick of popcorn. Sometimes we add cranberries. Also, every year we buy a crystal snowflake from Swarovski. We have one for ever year we've been married; it helps to tie the whole tree together. We …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/13 04:36 AM
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I understand that, and I understand your reaction as well. I learned when I was young that you could tell a lot about a person by the crowd they hung around. I could ask, "how many people do you think smoke marijuana?" and based on their answer you can gauge a sense of their 'normal'. I don't do drugs, so my guess on how many people do drugs would likely be low, since my personal sample of the world is filled with like-people. A TRPer once told me that the majority of women he knew did cocaine (…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 03:25 AM
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I'm a little concerned. I like TRP; but I also like "NAWALT" and poking at weak 'TRP' statements. I appreciate the perspective that TRP accepts reality and goes from there: women have a specific nature, and so do men. There are universal laws and truths to human interaction. Love it. How does TRP propose to handle its own members whose discussion are so ridiculous or lacking in substance, that it breeds dissent in the community? Disagreeing with content in these posts seems to make me 'someone w…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 12:46 AM
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Any attempt to actually have a dialogue in here gets 'referred to the side bar.' Its not like this list actually added anything new or insightful. Helpful: "How to tell if woman exhibits bad traits, so you can avoid them (or maybe bed them)" Conversation ensues. Not helpful: "Women are selfish, unappreciative whores (just in case you forgot!)" Conversation squashed, unless your response was "F - yeah, high five"
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 12:32 AM
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I agree. Women were even more on a pedestal in the past (at least women in higher classes).
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 12:25 AM
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While I find this thread interesting (and a little frustrating), I think it helps highlight some of the seemingly warring perspectives that you see in TheRedPill. On one hand, there is a focus on game and scoring sex (either a high amount or with a high quality partner, depending on who is interested in TRP), and then there is a frustration with women and their quality. I'm always puzzled by the slut rage, but then a focus on game to pick up sluts. Its like going fishing for pike, and then getti…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/13 12:20 AM
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The is a pretty funny episode of 30 Rock where Liz dates a handsome guy (Jon Hamm) and everything gets handed to him on a plate. Similar scenario. Not sure if that works out for people in the long run or not.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 01:22 AM
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I'm afraid to let go and stay home. We don't have children yet; but when we do that will be the best thing for our family. I'm a people pleaser, and do really well at work, I was the sole breadwinner for a long while. I derive a lot of satisfaction and value from the work I do and the teams I serve on. I'm afraid to be home alone. Housework is not fulfilling compared the projects I get to be a part of. There are no real challenges in drudgery apart from withstanding drudgery and serving with a g…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 01:09 AM
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34-26-36; I'd consider myself hourglass (especially when I wear a flattering bra); though I have heard my shape called "spoon" before. 9/10 of my dresses are belted to show the curves. I only wish I had discovered it all sooner.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/13 04:37 AM
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I can get on board, so long as there is social mobility in a society.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/13 07:01 AM
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Half the women you know have tried cocaine? Where do you hang out?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 11:18 PM
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From a female perspective; sometimes it can be a pain when strangers come up and ask for numbers. I'm not in the market anymore, but when I was, I'd want to have a sense in advance if I'm giving my phone to a creep and setting myself up for harassment. (Like posting my number all around town or the Internet, joy) She either wasn't interested, or not yet comfortable with you. There may be some truth in her wanting you to pursue a little deeper, but maybe that's how she tells the difference betwee…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 08:51 PM
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I see tattoos (generally) as a limiter to societal success... but it is only one factor, and can be overcome in other areas. Also, less is more.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/13 09:49 PM
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That's cool. I didn't actually mean it as a slight to your ex as much as I mean to poke at the poster who said all women are weak-minded. Relationships are a complicated mix of two people traits; not a generic combo of 'female' and 'male' - where you can broadly determine that one sex is intellectually or emotionally inferior.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:40 PM
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Weighing in as a lady-type. Hormones are a crazy thing, and when I get a sudden surge of them during my cycle, I am not always mentally prepared. My mind wanders against my will. Sex. That being said- this article is ridiculous, especially the suggestions. Cycles aren't consistent and I don't always go full-nympho during days 10-16; because I am a real human being and life is dictated by more factors than hormones. Are my husband and I getting along? Am I working late? Advice: men, take ADVANTAG…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:31 PM
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Its pretty easy to tell the difference between a girl who wears a bunch of makeup and a girl who doesn't. It's not a scam if the customers are willfully ignorant. :/
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:14 PM
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Or maybe OP dates shallow girls. I've had a boyfriend decide to leave because another girl was more attractive; was he weak-minded too? Attraction is a weird mix of chemistry/biology, culture, and a balance of dynamics. My husband likes that I am spontaneous, and I like that he is regimented. Ultimately, regardless of whether or not OP's girlfriend was attracted to a guy that was possibly 'more alpha' or not, her willingness to go along with a guy that is a douchebag makes her unattractive too, …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:01 PM
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Females come into their sexual prime in their mid-twenties and thirties; not their teens. It doesn't make sense for folks to comment on your relationship specifically (because we don't know you or your partner); but I always get creepy feelings based on the question, "What does a 25-year old man have in common with a high-schooler?" The two specific individuals may in fact have lots in common and be of a similar maturity level. From my own experience, the types of growth and experiences that I h…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 08:43 PM
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