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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 58 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer. | Field Report | Overt_Narcissist | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 08:37 AM |
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| 3 | Help me seddit, I think I screwed up.I'd say, when you're at the party, try to engage in a lot of different conversations. This is where abundance mentality really comes into play. If you start dominating conversations and building her and other women's (her friend? Try to game her, too. Or go for the gold and get a three-way. Don't go for the gold) attractions throughout the night (you'll be less hung-up about this lame-ass girl, but that's besides the point). She'll be more envious/attracted to you. Play it cool, man. Be the life… | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 05:21 AM |
| -3 | Seduction and STDsBefore you get hot and heavy, "Is there anything I should know about?" If she's clueless, "We're being safe, right?" | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 09:17 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/24/2012 (please upvote - zero karma)So about 4 months ago, I got a waitress at a bar to write her number on paper for me. I lost my phone the day afterwards, and I lost the paper in my room, but I recently found it while I was rearranging my furniture. Should I contact her? How? | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 09:14 PM |
| 6 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.No, I followed her into the bathroom like a creep... I ejected because I felt like the opportune moment already passed. Playing poker in a group would have been a regression from just us playing pool alone. The fact that she didn't stick around herself (in my eyes) justifies my decision. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.Hahahaha... Where I live, there's only two things that are open past 22: bars/billiards and hookah lounges. So I'd say that for the population of my area, the bar-to-youth ratio is quite high. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.It's a learning process! :) | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:06 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.This truly needs to be upvoted. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 06:00 PM |
| 5 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.Thanks! :) | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.I regret the gamer, if only because in re-reading this and remembering last night, it was painfully apparent she was interested in me. The waitress... eh. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.I don't have a problem with inviting one of my friends out to a bar, as they all genuinely respect me. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:50 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.I just wasn't prepared, mate. In hindsight, I could've said a variety of things, "Oh, so you're saying when I get your number, you'll be too busy to answer my call?" Which is direct, and a neg whereupon she'll qualify herself. I dun goofed. | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] The Waitress and the Gamer.Why so much coffee? There's actually plenty of reasons to drink coffee. This bar serves decaf (even though they don't tell you it's decaf). It's not alcohol. Throughout Seddit, you'll actually see the advice to avoid alcohol, as it's generally considered a crutch (I'm not 21, either, so...). It's a sort of peacocking. You said it yourself, it's unusual to see someone sipping on coffee at a bar. Also, I always carry gum with me. Be prepared for the worst! What happened to the waitress? She was st… | /r/seduction | 24/12/12 05:32 PM |
| 1 | I feel weird jumping into conversations in group situations. I freeze up when I don't the group very well.If you are with your friend group Yeah, that's great. You're already in the "in-group" and they're the outsider. But instead imagine if you're trying a cold approach with a group of individuals you're not really familiar with (but would prefer to become acquainted with). You're going to be outside of your comfort zone. And, basically, the only way to move past that is to acknowledge the feelings (of self doubt, awkwardness, ect.), and express yourself. If you're acting genuine and they disregard… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 03:17 PM |
| 0 | The DJ that can't get laid...I have tried psychedelics. That's why I don't care about the trivialities of an error. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 07:11 AM |
| -2 | The DJ that can't get laid...Ego death sounds better than "lose your ego". My typo is basically irrelevant. Rather than circlejerk everyone about, watch this. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 09:07 PM |
| 8 | The DJ that can't get laid...So now I'm emotionally numbed and don't really care if I get rejected. 9/10 Sedditors would be giving you a pat on the back, as that's the first step in the journey. It's called ego death (or not giving a fuck, I guess). But, imo, you let yourself get fucked over. You knew the girl was a tease, yet you still fell into her routine. I would have called over another girl to dance with you, as competition would have either increased her attraction or she would have left you alone (both would be "goo… | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 04:11 PM |
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