Overthinkotron_3000 Archive

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1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Most women who find themselves in this situation can't do that though, because they're looking after the baby and recovering from any effects of the pregnancy. Nannies are expensive and maternity leave on it's own usually isn't enough to cover living expenses for both mum and child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 10:52 AM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Well for one thing it's not always easy to tell, not to mention a lot of the times the issue is negligence around birth control rather than actively wanting a kid. Ultimately it doesn't matter though: bodily autonomy is bodily autonomy no matter how reckless / poor of judgement someone is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:19 AM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Often they can't because they're at home taking care of the baby and recovering from any effects of the pregnancy - that's kinda the whole point of child support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 12:06 AM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Nope, because if the fetus is allowed to develop into a sentient human child, then that child will need financial support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:55 PM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? It's okay for a woman to abort a fetus which doesn't even have the capacity for consciousness yet because she doesn't fancy undergoing a dangerous and painful medical procedure that frequently has long-lasting effects on the body.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:43 PM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? I already covered that in (b). Expecting taxpayers to cover the bill so that the men can opt out of child support is not realistic imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 11:13 PM
2	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Nonsensical or not, that's part and parcel of bodily autonomy. We can't force women to get abortions, so the other 2 options are (a) just let kids go without sufficient financial support for their care which is absolutely unacceptable to me, or (b) have the state intervene financially (using taxpayer's money) which I can't envision any government going for. Is it exactly fair? No, but it's the lesser among evils. Sometimes the only choices are bad choices, and this is one of those instances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 10:39 PM
1	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 10:15 PM
4	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? The rape exception would be fair enough, it's just really hard to prove	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 06:56 PM
7	Which gender double standards and hypocrisies do you think are justified… and which are genuinely a result of cultural sexism and need to change? Yep. I also think the commonly touted "financial abortion" work-around doesn't make sense either, because ultimately it just makes things worse for kids who had no say in any of it and need looking after.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:16 PM
1	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship It hurts to think that someone values you as a person and to learn that they were only interested in you as a sexual/romantic prospect. Is that necessarily always what's going on though? A kind of obvious point that people often forget about with this topic is that, well....... rejection and heartbreak can be really devastating. It's perfectly possible for a guy to start out as genuine friends with a woman, then develop strong romantic feelings for her over time. It then turns out she doesn't fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 08:40 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. Okay, so then this is the part where you put on your big boy pants and communicate with her. If it feels like there's little to no reciprocity and it's unclear how invested she actually is in having a relationship, ask her how she sees the two of you. Then if the response seems off (and it's been long enough that she should probably have a better response), that's your cue to either move on entirely or put her in the friendzone yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 02:35 AM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. How is that parasitic? Two people going on a few dates and one (or both) of them concluding that it won't work out is a necessary pert of dating, it happens all the time. You don't have to be friends if you don't want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:28 PM
1	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. How so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:19 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. How is it irrelevant? I thought you wanted to avoid being a "sucker".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:12 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. No, but it may give some clues about her views on finances and whether or not she expects the man to pay for everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:10 PM
–	Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive. My dude, I can understand wanting to avoid being taken advantage of but this is totally the wrong way to go about it. Stick to a relatively low-cost first date, then on any subsequent dates gauge how she approaches money and the cost of activities / food and drink. If she doesn't offer to pay or split by the 2nd or 3rd date, I'd consider that a sign of incompatibility and move on. That's how you do it, not this weird combative transactional shit you're on (which is only gonna repel good women, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/23 08:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's complicated. I think online, especially in more left-wing spaces there's this heavy-handed and vague way that people often talk about topics like objectification, which can make it feel like relatively normal behaviour is being lumped in with really creepy/rapey stuff, even if that's not necessarily the intention. In many ways that's understandable since a lot of it comes from a place of hurt, but still it can feel kinda demonising at times. Irl male sexuality feels a lot more accepted - es…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/23 11:23 AM