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| 3 | Is it wrong to increae alimony because of mental hardship from Avoident spouse?That can be a reason for leaving but not for more money. If they don’t ask for more explanation then don’t worry about providing one. Less can be better. Also I would not be posting on social media where your thought process can be seen by anyone that knows enough about you to search it out. This is a sensitive situation and most attorneys would advise to stop all posts whatsoever. If a judge asked if you have used social media to talk about this it’s probably best to say no and be honest. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to increae alimony because of mental hardship from Avoident spouse?Funny I agree with you and I still told him to ask for it. Ima get what I can like anyone else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to increae alimony because of mental hardship from Avoident spouse?Agree. It no explanation needed then don’t give one | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to increae alimony because of mental hardship from Avoident spouse?Simple way to look at it is that you are going to need the money and were already planning to use the alimony for living expenses. Do it for that instead of something you allowed to continue by staying as long as you did. If you tolerated it without leaving you legally consented if i am not mistaken on most state laws (TN) | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/24 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Ex wife keeps bringing new boyfriend to my houseYeah when you tell somebody to get out or don’t come in your house it takes a lotta balls to cross that threshold. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 12:12 PM |
| 8 | Ex wife keeps bringing new boyfriend to my houseBecome golfing buddy’s and it’ll drive her fucking insane. Start asking if he’s coming over and if not why not. You got this bro he’ll decide to leave her in no time and you’ll have a new bro friend with something in common and your kids will already approve | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Wife thinks I’m being ridiculousPut your cellphone up and hit record. Wanna see a psycho go normal real fast just show em a camera. I have a video of my wife with a canister of pepper spray in her hand when she wasn’t even in a physical altercation. I told her I would take it to the police if needed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/24 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so bad at making friends?Not for everyone I guess. Some men don’t have the need to gain the approval of other men in social circles. Just not in their DNA. I get along great with most dudes but no real deep connections that I would trust not to fuck my wife. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so bad at making friends?How many of your guy friends would fuck your woman if they really knew they would get away with it? Associate with people. That’s fine. Unless we’re in a war zone and maybe not then will i trust another dude like that. No need. Be nice. Have a few dudes to shoot the shit with and that’s all you need. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 12:31 AM |
| -4 | Why are men so bad at making friends?We don’t need friends. We need our women to make sure we have like minded people and families we can connect with when we are not out making money. If single the only friends are you and whoever you happen to be with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over about you never gonna own your home or infact you never gonna have a home?Dude you neee to learn some playa skills there are plenty of women that will want you as long as you don’t act like you’re all feeling sorry for yourself. Whenever your head clears you’ll feel so much better. You can only control what you’re doing now and maybe about 2 mins from now so don’t think too hard work andwill keep your mind busy and get you some cash. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 12:13 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone else feel ashamed?Got a new job. M44 From healthcare marketing to in home remodeling sales. Made 45k in 7 months ($17K commission OCT 2023). Then credit got bad and this job was 75% financing approval dependent. Now I do steel work making $20/hr. But I have a $1M net worth. She can have half if she wants. I’ll reinvent myself again. Once you do it once, it’s not scary. My thing is that I earned the right to do what I wanna do. If she don’t like it then bye. I haven’t had to check an email or join a conference cal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/24 10:31 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone else feel ashamed?Men are wired to feel this way. Your trophy got taken in front of the world. Reinvent yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Just got servedSun Tzu said. If you want to know the true capability of your soldiers cast them behind enemy lines with nowhere to run. That’s where the Lion within them lies in wait… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Officially divorced…You’re just doing things different now. Not even worrying about good better best or worse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/07/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Just got servedYeah dude almost 20 years time served i thought about renewing vows as a way to get back on track but I just keep getting daily reminders of how fucking corny that would be and a giant waste of money and emotions. Fuck that. I already spent enough at woke ass Disney who wouldn’t hire me or my son to save our fucking lives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Just got servedThat server was an angel of mercy from Heaven. I reinvented myself twice in the last 2 years with an ungrateful wife kicking and screaming all the way about how fucking bad I fucked it all up. Btw we have $1M net worth at mid 40s. No debt besides house. So the month I made $17,000. She said she was impressed at how I reinvented myself. Boy did that change. One job later and she’s very clear that she’s unhappy with her downgrade. And it’s soooo complicated that it pays cash every week. I mean wtf… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Officially divorced…Now you can move ahead in life assured that there will always be someone that has your back. YOU. And you’re good to go with that. Forever. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Did you ever consider the possibility of divorce at the beginning of your marriage?Yes marriage (all about money on the bright side are beautiful kids that she will use to tell you how much you suck at making money for them and her. Except on payday. That gets you like 5 fucking minutes of hard core proof that it’s about the $$$ to be clear she’s checking the bank account not me | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/24 06:56 AM |
| 2 | She is refusing to get out of my Bedroom. What should I do?Yeah I would leave but I don’t have anywhere to go she practically lives at her parents but suddenly not convenient when she wants to fight | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/24 05:51 PM |
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