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I think sex is a need and the vast majority of people require at least some sex in a relationship. But the desired frequency varies greatly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:59 PM
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The 80 20 rule is absolute nonsense because the vast majority of men get into many relationships over their lives, and most of them aren't even trying that hard. The fact you are defining all these pills and making up some "white" pill to describe yourself and accepting all these pills proves you are definitely into manosphere content.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:52 AM
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If you believed the 80 20 nonsense then you were definitely partially redpilled. For online dating its probably a lot worse than 80 20.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:33 AM
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Masking isn't a good strategy for social interaction because social interaction requires being in flow state where the words and actions just come to you naturally. If you are masking, you come off as inauthentic and stilted. Why would you watch that content if a part of you didn't believe it a little?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 01:25 AM
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Poor mental health usually results in poor social skills. Social skills are how you communicate yourself, and if you have poor mental health its very difficult to hide it. If you told a girl that you watched these channels, she would probably be very turned off, women aren't attracted to men who watch that content.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:43 AM
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I'm glad you have improved your physical attractiveness, but looks is only a part of success in dating. Social skills and mental health are also very important. And women aren't attracted to men who are into these mysogenistic internet ideologies.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 12:29 AM
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Maybe she flaked because of her injury.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:05 AM
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I don't think your message is overly validating and its okay, but there might be better ways of saying it. I'd say something like: "Looking forward to our date later today <flirty emoji here>", then follow it up with a comment about something she said previously. Validating is when you give a woman a disproportionate amount of attention, praise, or approval seeking when you don't even know her very well yet.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:01 AM
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The things you need are: Volume: Social circle, approach, online dating. Looks: Good genes, fitness, style. Value: Career, social status, health, lifestyle, personality, reliability, and mental health. Communication: Social intelligence and game. It seems like you have good looks, and have the good social intelligence side of communication. But it seems like your mental health (see a therapist) and game are bad. And I'm not sure where you are at with volume and value. I suspect your volume is re…
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:24 AM
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Women like a little drama in their romances. It keeps things from being boring. Don't believe me watch any romantic movie or show women like. Guys who are super nice are effeminate, and women are attracted to masculinity instead.
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:15 AM
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I'll second Mark Manson, but maybe don't be as radically honest as he is. Often women cheat because of a big problem in the relationship. Have you and her had a real conversation about what happened and whether the marriage is salvagable?
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:07 AM
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Replacing bad clothes with decent clothes will help a lot. But trying hard to look cool with edgy looking clothes often can backfire. An even better thing you can do is lose that weight by eating healthy and hitting the gym. If you don't do the work, you won't get the results.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:23 AM
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I believe that volume, value, looks, and communication matters for women too. But in their case looks matters a lot more, and volume is much easier to get. Her communication was really bad, and part of that maybe be down to incompatibility. I'm glad you had some self-respect. Some guys would have put up with it in hopes of getting laid.
/r/seduction30/05/22 02:07 AM
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I agree with and I think of this as compatibility. One myth is people look for the highest value partner. But compatibility actually matters more than value.
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:18 PM
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I totally agree. Its really important to pick partners who don't have substance abuse issues and put themselves into bad situations.
/r/seduction29/05/22 02:01 PM
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Haha okay that makes a lot more sense. If you work on your social circle you can get into clubs. Plus there are bars and many other ways to meet women.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:23 PM
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Do you mean stag as in you enjoy sharing your partner with other men? https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=stag
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:19 PM
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Good point. If she drinks alot that is a red flag all by itself. Do you mean that some women might not say no to their male friends?
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:13 PM
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Lots of introverted guys have a problem with volume. It can be hard to get out there sometimes.
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:06 PM
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Hey nothing wrong with experimenting. Another experiment you can try is actually going out and talking to flesh and blood women face to face.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:32 AM
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You should build some investment before asking them to your place. Very few women are willing to bang some guy from the internet they barely talked to.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:17 AM
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Smart lady haha. Many try wine next time, its a little more refined.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:08 AM
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It depends on the girl and how social her life is.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:07 AM
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They are more risky because you have more potential male competition. But a lot of the time these women just prefer talking to men than women.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:03 AM
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She thought you were trying to bribe her to have sex with cheap alcohol.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:51 AM
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It helps to be humorous and keep the conversation about her.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:41 AM
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This only works if you are getting a lot of likes, and even then it will the lower quality women who will be more likely to agree. You should build some investment before asking her out, or else you will have a high rejection and flake rate.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:40 AM
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Why should you focus on the lucky women more than the lucky men? And you will find there are a lot more attractive men than you think. And men born with good social skills? A ton of those guys around. And women aren't as lucky as you think. Much of their advantage fades as they head into their 30s, which is relatively quickly. Most of them desire relationships, but are often tricked into hookups. Women are born picky which can be a source of great misery because it is hard to be satisfied.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:35 AM
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But aren't attractive men also fawned over for just existing? What about guys born to rich parents, how did they earn that? Or even guys born with good social skills? They were just born good at talking but often manage to out-earn more intelligent peers who work harder.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:30 AM
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Its that anxiety and trying to say the most impressive things that is causing you to not know what to say. Social interaction requires flow state where you say what comes to mind, but when you overthink, you destroy it. You are in a competative mindset where you see your goal as impressing others. You need to be in a collaborative mindset which involves self-amusement and empathy for others. A lot of the time, I like to ask questions and listen and let others entertain me with their jokes and im…
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:25 AM
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Why are you specifically jealous toward women? You would also have great dating prospects if you were born a male who was highly outgoing, very attractive, or in a rich family. Doesn't it make sense to feel jealousy toward other men, since they have what you lack?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:16 AM
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It wasn't in any particular order. I'd actually put volume first. You can get a lot more success being average looking but talking to a lot of women, than being good looking and only talking to some women. There is also a good case to be made for value. Historically those with the most solid success with women were high status in society and were in royality or were celebrities. But yeah, looks matter a lot.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:03 AM
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Men find women in their early 20s physically attractive, but the average age gap at marriage start off at 2 years and increases to only 5 years for older newlyweds. Women want slightly older men, and since they are the choosers, they tend to get their way, as the data shows. Older women are less sexually attractive, but older men do find them more attractive than younger ones do. And most older men want something more than looks anyway. Men's age doesn't affect our attractiveness as much, but a …
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:24 AM
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I'm assuming you are a woman here. I can assure you that you are completely wrong about men. Most men don't find trans women attractive at all, just listen to the complaints by trans women. You are conflating the most active porn users with the general male population. Men are into large penises because of the dominance and desirability they represent. They are into oral because of the dominance and submission of that act.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:07 AM
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Volume. Meet women through online dating, cold approach, and social circle. Value. Be a good potential partner with a good career, social status, and personality. Looks. Being fit, having good clothes, good hair, good posture. Communication. Social calibration and good game.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:10 PM
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Once a cheater, more likely to cheat again.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:25 PM
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The best way to improve your personality is to improve your mental health. Some traits women are attracted to are physical attractiveness, social status, career success, popular, socially calibrated, confident, assertive, isn't a pussy, flirtacious, fun, funny, good person, etc. You should gradually open up but that takes time, same with asking personal questions. Humor is great, but too much will just make you her court jester or dancing monkey. Try listening to some podcasts by comedians.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:31 PM
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I mean using tinder passport. Its a feature that allows you to virtually move, but you do have to pay.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:04 PM
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Lots of ppl, say that, but then.... Anyway, one way is to use the location change feature to move to another country. The women there will give you more likes, and then you can move it back to where you live. Or you can just pay for the app and they will show you to a lot more ppl.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:00 PM
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You really need to chill out, just have fun, and don't care too much. Try joking around with her a little. If she gets bitchy don't take it too serious. You need to be the one initiating and directing the conversations.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:48 PM
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Looks matters a lot. But unless you look like a model you will need some game.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:37 PM
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Get better pics.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:34 PM
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You are being waaayy too serious. I would have agreed and exaggerated. Giving a ballzy answer will show that you aren't desperate. I would have said: I'm very very desperate. Will you be my wife till death do us part?
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:19 PM
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Asking you why you want her to provide her private information to you isn't disrespectful at all. She is simply asking what your intentions are. You really need to stop self-sabatoging.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:58 PM
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Explain your situation, but mention how you are working on it. Then ask to go to her place.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:57 PM
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Doing your hair, some makeup but not too much, nice clothes, a bra with a bit of padding, and being in shape.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:54 PM
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Why would you refuse sex? The worst that can happen is she won't have sex with you, which is the same outcome as refusing sex. Penises aren't the prettiest things. If you are small, you can make up for it by giving great head.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:29 PM
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She probably got distracted and she liked you enough to think of you one month later. Text her back, but if she ghosts you again, don't...
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:27 PM
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Taking about career too much is kind of boring for dating.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:25 PM
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Doing cold approach is crossing social boundaries a little bit, so you kinda have to embrace that its a little inappropriate.
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:05 AM
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The problem with sleeping with a bunch of women for validation is you feel empty again afterwards and need someone new to keep up the validation. But I don't see the harm with having sex a few times to get over it if sex is your hangup. I encourage you not to be too shallow about judging women purely for their looks, or treating them like objects for your validation.
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:48 AM
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Consent matters. She obviously wants you to leave you alone and that is exactly what you should do. She might have called you cligny because you were, or because she was upset you just wanted to be friends so she projected her issues onto you. If you just wanted to be friends then why are you on here desperately posting about her?
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:14 PM
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You really have gone too far down the rabbit hole. I suggest you get off of these manosphere communities and just meet women one on one. Don't make assumptions about individual women based on these generalizations you learned on the internet. Hypergamy is a thing but the reality is its exaggerated and most people are still monogamous especially as they get older. The problem with these guys is that they usually haven't put much work into being attractive, have mental health issues, or social iss…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 02:09 PM
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Just be chill and friendly but not overly nice. Say that you have been drunk yourself and have made some decisions you have regretted and that nothing happened. Then try to ask her out.
/r/seduction26/05/22 02:00 PM
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I suggest you continue to work on your insecurity and clinginess with your therapist. Dating is a lot like finding a job. If you say the brutal truth on your resume and interview you will drive away your employers, and the same goes for dating. There is a certain element of selling yourself and presenting a positive image of yourself in interviews and dating. In real life, you can't be 100% geniune. Radical honesty is fun in theory but terrible in practice. I suggest you have some empathy and co…
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:33 PM
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Women from an early age are taught to do makeup and that looking nice is important. But men are never taught this and there are a ton of obese poorly groomed men who are unattractive to women and are frustrated. Its time to start working on your looks. You don't get any points for trying, you get points for actually succeeding.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:40 PM
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Imagine you are buying washing machines. You arrive at the store because the machines look appealing. But does that mean you are desperate to buy the first one you see without looking further? Of course not, even though you are interested you want to evaluate whether it is a quality product. In the same way, its okay to be interested in a woman based on positive first impressions. But you want to be in the mindset that you are still evaluating whether she would make a good partner.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:29 PM
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The old 2000s PUA with pickup lines was nonsense because seduction is less about what you say but instead how you say it and who you are. Girls don't care about looks as much as men, but they still care about looks a lot, especially at first, but every girl has her type. Social interaction is best done authentically so you should be yourself ... mostly. But you need to work on yourself for that to work. But you also need to understand social skills and follow social ettiquette.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:46 PM
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