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| – | Is a man an a—hole for giving up on women too easily?The right players being women who do stuff as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:01 PM |
| – | Is a man an a—hole for giving up on women too easily?Can you please give an example of a man who uses his body language to convey interest? Like what kind of body language is that specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:29 PM |
| – | Is a man an a—hole for giving up on women too easily?Fun as in the man does and initiates everything? That's not a fun game by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:25 PM |
| – | Is a man an a—hole for giving up on women too easily?I can easily think of like 5 examples from my experiences that refute that, but maybe you're on to something idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:21 PM |
| – | Is a man an a—hole for giving up on women too easily?Thank you. I was thinking of a way to say that it's actually attractive women who are most likely to be boring but you said it best. It's interesting how automatic is the process of: pick up an attractive woman --> eventually sleep with her --> I'm obviously not taking "the masculine chaser" role anymore and I'm just trying to actually get to know her at this point --> everything magically gets boring and she leaves --> you are somehow the one who became "intentionally" stale or something after … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:17 PM |
| – | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveIt says "We can’t find the page that you are looking for. Search Forbes" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Men, specifically Gen Z guys, how many of the women you know in real life are misandrist?3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 04:40 PM |
| – | Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselvesI'm not a politics kind of guy. Can you please explain to me how and what has Trump put on the table that's going to help men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 12:45 PM |
| 9 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?In my opinion, on top of everything else, what determines a good guy is his intentions, how clear he makes them and how serious he is when it comes to relationships (He cares about your feelings). Someone who's actually looking for love and wants to give love/care and to be loved/cared for; genuinely wants to have a fulfilling relationship (nothing for clout, social status or show). He respects women and doesn't view them as lesser, mere sex objects, or just something to elevate his social statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 19 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?Welp, that flair definitely is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Virgin men that are rejectedWhere's the mods automatic comment? Why does it only show when I post but not on others' posts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveI'm not waiting for anyone's praise. What I'm experiencing is direct sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveCause I've been working towards equality for years and the "men will always be men" will still get weaponized against me from time to time by the very same people I'm working with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveMaybe what I should've said is that their shouldn't be us vs them for people like you, cause for me there is no us vs them, and that's why I'm an advocate for women's right; cause I think we should be collaborative and work on equality of opportunity, but I'm still getting disqualified and put in the same category as "bad men" by fellow women for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:44 PM |
| 0 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveThanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveHave you read my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 02:02 AM |
| 2 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveLook at what they replied with! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveWhat I'm saying is that when women reply with "well why don't men support men?" to "why don't women support good men" (meaning they still generalize and put them in the same category as toxic men), how do they not recognize that yes, good men are on their side and they agree that men should support other men, but the problem is those men are viewed as "betas" by most men and they're struggling with that. So telling them to fuck off and get support from other men (aka not welcoming them in the gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:22 PM |
| 0 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductive"That statement is used to explain that most of the support women get are from other women and if men want see similar support they must first support other men." Can you please elaborate on this? What does that mean? Is it like a condition that women conventionally and collectively agreed on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 10:04 PM |
| 0 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveYes they are. What's your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveI know and what I'm saying is I care about this few only. Those who are lazy, terrified of change and want to keep being stuck in the past can remain in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 0 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveHuh? The majority means above 50%, not a 100%. Are we really arguing about this now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductive"So if you "get it" then I'm not sure what the issue is." Get what? "To me, it's like if I asked a black person why black people don't support white people lol" So... you view men as white people and women as... black people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveProblems like what? And please list problems that would actually trigger a movement, not "my dick wouldn't get sucked boohoo" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveThat's completely irrelevant to the conversation and it's filled with assumptions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveSo if they start with each other women will get a notification on their phone when walking by a dude who started with the bros saying "This guy is it" and then they become supportive? You're spewing nonsense. What do you mean (start) with each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveThere's no world where the equivalent of feminism for men is a thing. Men never went through gender-based discrimination and they are not oppressed for that to happen What's stopping them from uniting is that there's simply no reason for that to happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:57 PM |
| -1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveAnd what I'm saying is you can start doing that by acknowledging their goodness by simply treating them like you'd treat any good girlfriend of yours. That's what I mean by support; uplifting them, and trusting them without any prejudice because of their gender, and being charitable to them and understanding that they're trying to change the literal programming that they grew up with instead of waiting for the slightest inconvenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveThe shift needed in male friendships can be realized a 1000 times faster if we eliminate the cancer that's always putting them in competition against themselves, that is, the current state of the economy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:39 PM |
| -2 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveYouTube and "bros before hoes"? I'm sorry but I'm 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:33 PM |
| -1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveIt's not an us vs. them. That's a childish way to view genders. Yes, I believe more than 50% of men worldwide are traditional, sexist and misogynistic. If you don't consider that to be awful then that's a different argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveSorry but I believe that we're more supreme than what was the primal as humans. I don't care about men who think that way, I'm talking about men who are past the stone and stick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveSorry but I believe that we're more supreme than what was the primal as humans. I don't care about men who think that way, I'm talking about men who are past the stone and stick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:26 PM |
| -6 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveNo, my argument is that they generalize and put the good ones in the same space as the bad ones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:24 PM |
| -1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveOther people understood it. So it's a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveWhat's a PUA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveOther people in this thread seem to have easily connected the dots without struggling to understand, so that's a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:16 PM |
| 2 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveMy own group? You clearly view men and women as us vs. them. That's a childish point of view Other people in this thread seem to have easily connected the dots without struggling to understand, so that's a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:14 PM |
| -3 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveAgree... and? So men support men exclusively and women support women exclusively? That's just reactionary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveI'm literally an active volunteer in a feminist organization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 5 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductive"I support good men" Well I truly appreciate that. "but I'm willing to bet that men who I view as good are not men who you view as good. " What do you mean? How? "It's not our job to fix male in-fighting, or to set up organizations and safe spaces for you." That's just a silly notion that some men spew for the sake of having an argument. No one is actually demanding that. It's the equivalent of the "unhinged feminists that want to kill all men." Are there feminists who say such thing? Sure. Is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 06:25 PM |
| -10 | The "Why don't men uplift other men?" argument as a reply to "Why don't women support men?" is a bad faith argument that's counterproductiveExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 06:07 PM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isIs this a joke? You're not rich. Even if your mom is, she didn't buy you anything (house, car, inherited company or high status job, etc.) which I'm saying is a good thing but you put yourself as an example to defend such a person when you're not even close to their status. Also I just noticed your flair and you have the female biological sign. You're not what I'm describing at all why are you putting yourself as an example of a generational wealth type of man? The broke future millionaire compl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 05:54 AM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isOf course it's traumatizing. That's why I'm saying they should know better and avoid putting themselves in this situation in the first place and stop putting financial status first. "Shouldn't you know more than someone like me how power and money doesn't mean you can impose your will on others or make it any more ok?" Why are you telling me this? You're literally agreeing with everything I'm saying, the one difference is you're taking it from a naive perspective as if anyone can help women who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 10:43 PM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isOf course it's traumatizing. That's why I'm saying they should know better and avoid putting themselves in this situation in the first place and stop putting financial status first. "Shouldn't you know more than someone like me how power and money doesn't mean you can impose your will on others or make it any more ok?" Why are you telling me this? You're literally agreeing with everything I'm saying, the one difference is you're taking it from a naive perspective as if anyone can help women who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 10:38 PM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isOf course they can! But all I'm hoping for is that they don't get oh so traumatized when the non-consensual touching starts to happen. That's about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:39 PM |
| – | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he is"My mother provided me to the best of her abilities, and compared to my peers I had a very comfortable and secure childhood with much better financial coal situation than a lot of my classmates and friends." Please elaborate on this. What did your mom buy you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isDoesn't matter for the men cause he's still the one expected to provide and pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isSure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he is"Enjoy doing extra work to take care of the man’s needs by doing extra cooking and cleaning? Having sex when she isn’t in the mood for just to please the man? Those aren’t benefits. A man who can’t provide financial security is like a woman who can’t sexually fulfill a man." That explains everything. That's what you think a woman is, something to be bought and employed for certain needs, and you're projecting that on other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isBeing in love is a completely different than being loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:05 PM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isHe turns from good to bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:03 PM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he is"I think a lot of people that have had people be kind to them all their life and lived a very comfortable life are kind to others because they have received nothing but kindness from other people and they model what they see." See that's the problem. People talk about this when they have zero experience of it. If you're talking within the scope of the OP then what you're describing is a recipe for psychopathy and king complexes. They think they can buy anything and anyone with their money and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 12:02 PM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isDefine it then please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:53 AM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isOkay you're just making stuff up and repeating something you've read somewhere. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:24 AM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isIs that for me? Cause that would be hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isHow does it make zero sense? Please explain don't just say that. Well you literally said no man becomes a creep they were creeps all along, what does that entail? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:19 AM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isAlso, no one can ever explain love to someone who has never experienced it. Just sayiny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isWhy does their age matter? Aren't they demons at birth, apparently? How doesn't your take make Andrew Tate 100% justified and just someone who's a truth teller? Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:15 AM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isWow, this take is real huh? First off, no one’s saying that a guy shouldn’t try to improve his life. The problem is acting like poor men are just sitting around, waiting to be taken care of. That’s super reductive. Most of these guys are working hard, but the system is set up in a way where even working two jobs sometimes doesn’t cut it. It’s not as simple as "just work more hours" or "train for a better job" when you’re exhausted, don’t have the time, and can barely afford rent. Also, not every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:13 AM |
| -3 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isSee? You're completely disregarding the ones who will never put you or their partners in what they've been through because they never want people to suffer the way they did, and it's a pretty common thing and that's how most well adjusted people operate, but the problem here is that you have a prejudice that they're bad people because they don't have money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:10 AM |
| -2 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isThe point is that many men who’ve gone through real hardship and aren’t born into wealth often get overlooked because they don’t fit into the financial standards set by today’s dating scene. It’s not about rejection turning guys into incels, it’s about how economic inequality affects the dating market. Guys who aren’t financially successful often get treated differently, and that can be frustrating. It doesn’t mean every guy who faces rejection becomes bitter, but repeated rejection because of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 08:05 AM |
| -3 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isI'm not poor, I'm doing pretty good. Of course everyone wants love idk where you're getting this from tho cause I didn't mention it. Everything you said other than that very obviously shows how privileged you are. Good for you but you're just wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isWhat? That literally means that he's right and he's just speaking to the minds of these 15 year old monster "creeps" at birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isNo one said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isThis take is pretty oversimplified and ignores some important realities. "Not all poor men are bad, not all rich men are good" Obviously true, but the idea that rich men are more likely to be "good" because they were given opportunities by others doesn't really hold up. Wealth doesn't inherently reflect someone's moral character. Sometimes, rich people are just born into wealth, inherit it, or get lucky in ways that have nothing to do with being "good." There are tons of examples of rich people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:37 AM |
| -4 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isYou're still ignoring what I'm saying and putting words in my mouth, but I get where you're coming from. The thing is, rich people do commit crimes (including domestic violence), but they have the money and power to keep it quieter or deal with it differently. They hire high-profile attorneys, settle things out of court, or manage to negotiate deals behind closed doors. When you're loaded, you can afford damage control like PR teams and crisis managers that the average person can't dream of. For… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isSo Andrew Tate and his likes are actually doing nothing wrong and they have no effects on young men whatsoever? They're not turning them into misogynistic creeps they were creeps all along? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isAnd how does that proof my point wrong exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:18 AM |
| -7 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isYou created a strawman and you're arguing with it. Have fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:16 AM |
| -1 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isNot true. We're living in a time where literally a TikTok can change people's minds on stuff. I don't know in what world are you living in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:14 AM |
| -7 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he is"The most criminal behavior is found in which economic class? Mhm." You didn't provide any source to support your claim but assuming it's right, what does criminal behavior has to do with how these men treat their women? Let's not forget that most laws are designed for those at the bottom, especially giving that a mere fee can almost get you out of anything. "Most women are not getting with men who have generational wealth." Well certainly most are desperately trying and waiting, that's why they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:08 AM |
| 0 | Women should consider how the economic status of a man affects who he isSo people never change. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:01 AM |
| 2 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous."Difficult doesn't necessarily mean impossible." Well duh So ironic how everybody starts arguing semantics and splitting hairs when it comes to men's well-being. Life is difficult in general for the vast majority of people. Will you say life has the same level of difficulty for people living in the third world as it is for people living in first world countries? What makes the journey of self-improvement "difficult" is the challenge of not relapsing back to bad habits on so many levels and keep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 01:34 PM |
| 0 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.So men with ADHD who need a body double should just end it. Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 01:16 PM |
| 0 | The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous.Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 01:13 PM |
| 7 | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?Not all men are creeps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorVery good question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityFair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityThat's interesting, I don't know how to ask that in a way that isn't rude but why are you here on this sub if you don't believe in any of it? Again, genuine question, not trying to be rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personality100% you literally described like 5 colleagues of mine, and it's fine btw that they never had a deep thought in their lives. I'm personally jealous of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personality"I don't agree at all. Lots of these people actually jump from relationship to relationship and aren't super stable or consistently happy. Some are some aren't." That's probably true cause what I mentioned comes from personal life experiences, but I mean at least they have that: "these people actually jump from relationship to relationship" y'know? "Stereotypes are a useful guide for averages, they're obviously not absolutes. Anyone of moderate intelligence (or "socially intelligent" if you like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalitySo that everyone around you is there for the money? That's a miserable existence, despite it being true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:07 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityI mean yeah, this is how I believe it goes 90% of the time. It's not about showing who they are, it's about being unapologetically themselves despite all the namings and labels, i.e: "I'm a man I can't cry, show emotions, be a bit childish," etc. What matters and what I think will get them ahead of others socially is that they're free from all or most rules and norms in which society tells them they should operate. It might not be a conscious decision, I think it mostly happens because these peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 10:53 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityYou said "labels limit (or enrich) our lives..." In which ways do they enrich our lives? "Whether I do or don't have a personality, the fact that I'm female is still gonna be relevant information in a gender debate." True but I don't get how that's relevant to the conversation. What I'm talking about is how those people perceive themselves and act in regular everyday life, not in debates. "That said, I don't actually think people who "dress and act however they want" necessarily have any more of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Most males could easily get women, if they just treated us like normal human beingsI think that's 100% true but I don't know about easily. It definitely increases our chances by a large margin. I mean for most men it can at least get them from 0 to 1, but calling it easy and talking about being nice or the single act of treating women like human beings as a game changing magic trick always downplays how true of a statement this is, understandably so in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityMaybe I didn't make that clear, but what I mean is not merely using labels and categories in discussions, but actually viewing and limiting oneself to such categories. I believe that most people who do that aren't necessarily 100% right about how they categorize themselves even, cause most people are complex and are capable of change. You did mention: "The use of labels for others or oneself does not necessarily indicate lack of personality." But then proceeded to talk about how the use of label… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 05:39 AM |
| 0 | The way we tend to put labels on ourselves and put ourselves in stereotypical categories all come down to lack of personalityTrue, I labeled them as such. They didn't tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 02:45 AM |
| – | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?It goes with everything and has nothing to do with gender. We take the things we have for granted, and we don't feel their impact until they're gone. Money and class, however, are bigger issues than whatever some might take for granted. You can't be a privileged wealthy person and put yourself in the same category as someone who's poor, you can't preach about "money is not everything" to someone who might die or lose a loved one because they can't pay their medical bills. That's just how it is. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: more people need to start putting up or shutting up.The reality is, we have to remember that any kind of online discussion forums is not the place for such discussions. There will always be a discommunication, difference in moods (that one is huge, a lot of people hop online to bust their loads on people), and the "TLDR; Don't tell me the story of your life" attitude, which I noticed a lot of people will respond anyways despite the fact that they've read only what they wanted to read from your comment and picked whatever they can attack you with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Hey person, I have a question now that I wasted my time and read your original comment and dropped the "seal clapping" fantasies, did you even click on the only link I referenced in my OP? Cause it seems like you didn't cause you're just yapping about groceries and putting words in my mouth in the first place. Funny how it's always the "Source?" method enjoyer who actually never reads or listens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Yeah I'm not taking that away from them or something but you're arguing in bad faith, that's all what's happening here. Anyways, they replied, and I think (trigger warning): I was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?I respect your decision and it's fine but in my defense; I did read your comment and understand it despite having a language barrier and you just proofed what I said right here in that one. Your family was privileged to have a great-grandfather like yours who's more progressive than any conservative or even liberal during his time with the decisions he made. And hey, congrats on all your family's achievements! This doesn't make it any less impressive and I'm not saying that your great-grandfathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Oh, I see what it is. I think you're actually incapable of reading cause it obviously says "question for women" not "debate" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?I mean you already proved me right by making it personal but at least make it creative with comprehension lol You're more than welcome to answer the questions I asked you about you obviously contradicting yourself previously cause you're still talking as someone who "did the reading" but you're obviously either confused or just throwing words, which reflects ignorance and learning talking points from YouTube or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Who said this is a debate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Hey question, do you ever go outside? Are you expecting that all I talked about is like based on something Emma Watson said on a YouTube video or something and I can easily send you a link and a timestamp? Can you briefly explain how you practice feminist activism exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:34 PM |
| – | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Yeah he can easily claim that whenever he wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?I mean no not really. I have a mother, a sister, girlfriend, people in my community, friends and nephews who are women that I care about and try to use my privilege as a man to uplift them. No need for text books here really. That doesn't mean that I didn't do my fair share of reading but I'm definitely not going to explain that to a random feminist gatekeeper on Reddit lol Btw, YOU WERE LITERALLY JUST ACTING SURPRISED ABOUT FEMINISM HAVING FORMS IN A DIFFERENT COMMENT AND NOW YOU'RE TALKING ABO… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?How do you know that? Should I use the "Source?" method that you just used in a previous comment? I mean we don't have to guess, hopefully the original commenter will reply to this with context It's not impossible and what you're saying might be true but it's mostly not cause, again, "not caring about money" is already a privileged statement and it probably means that that person had privileges that most women don't have. Doesn't make them any less but that's just not what we're talking about he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?How do you not realize the contradiction in what you just said? Having different forms of feminism - which yes, there are different forms you can easily google it and that's primarily due to feminists having disagreements - doesn't necessarily mean that they work against each other or something, relax, not everything has to be this dramatic and performative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?I'm sorry but I'm not going to read your comment after those ridiculous first two lines. What are you asking for exactly? How can I possibly "source" this lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?So you're saying women will do the "manly" physical labour under socialism or what? I genuinely don't understand what's the difference for women in all of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Oh I didn't say I stopped being a feminist, it's not something I can just switch off, I said I stopped being an activist in it's current version which is the most popular, at least where I live. Feel free to share of you know any Marxist feminist initiatives. I explained my experience more here in this comment: (TLDR; most feminist movements don't seem to be Marxist but the complete opposite): "I'm not blaming anyone for them having trauma or mental health issues and it's never the same reason. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?You think what we have now is Marxist feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Completely agree, but that's the thing tho, I don't know what the average feminist who's a guy can offer to the movement other than practicing his beliefs and, in terms of actual social work, contribute and help with the practical and/or academic knowledge that he has. Because what's left is the equality talk which I think turned out to be garbage nonsense that's main aim is to make workers more replaceable by feeding the marketplace with more people, not making women equal. It's equality in bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?"Money isn't their entire life" means that they most probably had money in the first place cause that's just how it is; money is nothing when you have it, but it's everything when you don't. And that's fine, being privileged is not a crime but I think it means that privileged person have more of an obligation to use this privilege to uplift those who are unprivileged, and I don't think giving working-class women delusions and telling them the only way to become independent is to marry your job (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?If it's my English then my bad because it's my second language, but a lot of people seem to understand what I said on this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:15 AM |
| -1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?I'm not blaming anyone for them having trauma or mental health issues and it's never the same reason. I know exactly what you're talking about because, again, I used to be a feminist activist and spreading mental health awareness was an essential message. However, and I'm a simple human being and that's just based on my own experiences and what I saw and encountered over the years, all I saw for the most part was women getting the message, which is great, but then they become their traumas and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think "women supporters" in general place you somewhere you don't even want to be in?Yeah that's exactly what I said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 07:42 AM |
| 18 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.People who are commenting "it's just entertainment", so you're saying if Andrew Tate decides to go out and say that he's a comedian and it's all jokes and "entertainment" then it's all okay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy."Lyrics are not real life" But you understand that tho, not the average citizen who's easily influenced. Also it's not just lyrics, it's the entire lifestyle of those artists and it's very influential. I wanted to respond in good faith and not say what I'm about to say but this argument is so ridiculous and by your principle I think you should be completely fine if Andrew Tate someday decides to confirm the misconceptions about his disgusting rhetoric and claim that he's a comedian and it's all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.It's hilarious how people in the comments are very obviously deliberately missing the point. It's pretty simple. The artists that OP is talking about have incredibly misogynistic songs. Why are you a fan of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 02:53 AM |
| – | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionHow does that have anything to do with my post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 09:45 PM |
| – | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionTrue but most of these people are complaining about dating apps or social media sucking for them, which can be the majority. But what I'm talking is more the horrible effects it had on our social skills and emotional intelligence; the quality of human interactions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:59 AM |
| – | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionInteresting. Have you experienced life before social media and dating apps as an adult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:52 AM |
| – | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionAny recommendations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:48 AM |
| – | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionYou can't deny that one of the biggest problems in dating and starting a family nowadays is the capitalist state of the economy. It's never been this bad under any system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:46 AM |
| 2 | What's more annoying than social media and dating apps ruining us is that people are aware of it but tend to forget about it in mostly any discussionCapitalism single-handedly is the cause of most of these problems. Same thing goes for it; we ignore it when trying to analyse our problems when it's the root of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | The best move a single man can make is work on being happy alone.The title is not entirely true, it's not the smart thing to do if your circumstances require having this close of a relationship. I've encountered a lot of men who dilute themselves into thinking that they're perfectly fine alone, but their actions and conversations clearly show that they're not. It's easier said than done and it could very easily lead to isolation, which is extremely dangerous. Edit: Your advice is great about solitude being better than bad company, but that doesn't mean that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?What is FDS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?True but what if it's the result of trauma caused by previous relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Fair. I 100% agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Does that apply to women who say "all men are cheaters" and all their "you go girl" enablers? The SheraSeven types? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?I don't know who any of these people are. Seem like horrible online grifters. In reverse, do you think women like SheraSeven and her likes "get him for his money" have the same impact on the image of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Lol ok. I mean dating nowadays in general is seeking a needle in a hay of stack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Yeah of course. But a lot of men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?That's very specific and it's a personal anecdote. You say those women are assholes but keep trying to white wash them and that's just weird. These women have huge communities and a huge online following. You can browse the comments section on some of their videos and you'll realize how influential they are. Maybe they're not as big as the man-o-spherians but they're still enormous and just as horrible. I recommend watching OliSunVia's video essay "Our conception of love is missed up", she highl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?I'm talking in general, not specific to anyone on this thread. You can see it in a previous post that I posted yesterday on this sub (I tried to link it but the comment got removed). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?"I don’t think women see content like that and have their own version of reality warped to suddenly treat men differently" How do you know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?"Bad impressions are kinda hard to overcome for a lot of people." People are so fast to dismiss this fact when it's a man talking about how his experiences with women who are cheaters and gold diggers gave him a bad impression of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?I agree that it's harmful but, again, there are women influencers with a huge following who are just as horrible, who tell women that men are nothing more than a goldmine, and I asked you here about those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Yeah exactly, on a single person, not on the whole world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Why isn't it as easy to spot a man-o-spherian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?You just never heard of SheraSeven and her likes. I'm talking about the perception of a singular man, not the world. The probability that you're going to encounter every single man in the world in your life time is 0% Also you assume it's one person but it could be multiple experiences with multiple women, I mean those are actual life experiences, not hearing and reading online debates and rants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?How about women who are gold diggers and cheaters, do you think they are a net negative reinforcing stereotypes of women and making some men more wary of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Let me know when you find a way so I can avoid women who are gold diggers and cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?What veil? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?How about women who are gold diggers and cheaters, do you think they ruin it for women as a whole just like man-o-sphere men do to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Do you think it's okay for men who got constantly taken advantage of by gold diggers to be a lot more wary of women in the future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that men of the man-o-sphere/red-pill/black-pill communities ruin it for men as a whole?Preach! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?"...but I also don’t necessarily blame men who’ve gone through a fraction of that becoming red pilled." I used to do that but I don't anymore. Men are human and women are not better just cause they're women. Their actions have consequences just like men who choose to be loud about agreeing with Andrew Tate and the man-o-sphere who "fuck it up for other men." I genuinely believe that some horrible women are fucking it up for other women and everybody by turning men into man-o-spherians. There are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I'm sorry but that's just delusional. Any man saying "Women are ___" followed by any criticism is going to be considered misogynistic. Heck one time I used the word "You women..." to a friend who's a woman in a sentence jokingly and I got discommunicated by her and a group of friends consisting of 5 other women and a bunch of dudes. I said "You women love chocolate." and I said it in a context where we were laughing and talking about dumb shit. She literally stopped laughing and was like "Did yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I don't disagree with that and I think it's true, but politicizing relationships like that is insane. Like the only hypothetical where this would be normal is if a woman was in a loving relationship, then realized the man she's with is secretly a Tate kind of guy on the internet who's involved in mafia shit and sex trafficking, and now she's trapped in another country with him and the only way to escape is by cheating on him with another dude who has more power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?You're bad faith approach is making you misunderstand each point I made. "You think blue pillers don't know that most people cheat at least once in their lifetime?" Idk if most people cheat or not but how is that relevant to the topic? You're just assuming that I'm saying all women are cheaters or something when I never said that. "Are you defending judging all women by one experience?" No, I obviously said it's not the right thing to do but it's just human and women do it all the time. "You kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I don't think that's the right path to go cause generalizing is dumb and it's not a good way to live your life thinking more than half the population is awful because of a small sample, yet I understand that it happens and Idk why people expect men to be subhuman gods while either telling women they're perfect no matter what awful stuff they do or intentionally ignoring said awful actions and divinating from them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Does what you said at the beginning of this comment applies to women who say "all men are cheaters/creeps, etc) ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Well yeah maybe you're right I do fixate on one side, it's not "my side" tho and I stated that clearly in the post. It's because I view women and the bluepilled as the adults in the room, and I view redpillers as lesser and that's probably why I don't take it seriously when I see them saying such things, cause of course they'll sink that low, but it doesn't mean BPs have to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Well, we've seen different things then. I have to admit tho, I do view women and the bluepilled as the adults in the room, and I view redpillers as lesser and that's probably why I don't take it seriously when I see them saying such things, cause of course they'll sink that low, but it doesn't mean women and BPs have to do the same. I think that's still influenced by the way each party holds itself; BPs being idealistic and caring about what's right, as opposed to RPs who care about what they th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Wow! So cheating is like mushrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I'm not saying that it's pointless, I'm saying if you believe it is, which you clearly do, then why are you commenting on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Getting cheated on is "ego injury"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Why are you commenting on a pointless post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Oh fuck yeah, most of the redpillers I've known have never dated. What I'm talking about is what people say tho, regardless whether it's true or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Fuck yeah! Don't choose cheating bitches am I right?("bitches" here is gender neutral) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Yeah but both sides don't agree on what's "logical" so that's why they'll perceive many talking points in different ways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?First of all, you're generalizing, and no, not all men have integrity just like not all women have. Second, fuck' em, nobody said it's okay based on what's the gender of the doer, but if I were to follow your logic then I will definitely be a traditional man who takes pride in toxic masculine traits and looking down on women, because most men are that way. Just because the majority or the opposite side is doing a bad thing it doesn't mean that it's okay for you to do the same. You still haven't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?You're answering my question with a question. I don't have an answer to any of your questions cause I simply don't know. I agree that women don't create a movement around it but a lot of them say "all men are cheaters." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I clearly stated that I've never been cheated on so I don't know how I might deal with that if it ever happens. What you're saying sounds great but it's also incredibly idealistic, not saying it's impossible tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?You never heard someone say "who hurt that dude" about a redpiller? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?It's not about what redpill is, it's about what people say regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:57 AM |
| -4 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Okay. The "who cheated on you" talking point has never been used ever. You're right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?You can read the comments on the post for context. You never heard the "who cheated on you/them?" talking point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?You're missing the point. I'm talking about men who were normal and got RPed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Yeah and it's scummy and bad no matter who uses it. Glad we agree then! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:39 AM |
| -1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Here you go. That's a comment on the post that I'm talking about, I deleted it later. Better have a good reply cause that took some time to dig. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I don't have the time for that. Feel free to go back and scan every single comment and post on here and check out any video on red-pillers made by bluepill commentators and I'm sure you'll hear it immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Will people say it all the time anyways, regardless whether it's true or not. I personally got hit with the "who cheated on you?" talking point when I posted something about slowly going from blue pill to purple pill when I actually put myself out there and experience with dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Again, I agree. No one here is saying that becoming RP is the right thing to do. You keep ignoring the cheating women factor tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I'm not saying all RP men became RP because they got cheated on, I'm talking specifically about the ones who were normal and then became RP because they got cheated on. At least that's what people say regardless whether it's true or not. I personally think it makes sense, but as I said in the post, that doesn't mean that it's the right direction to take. I think if you actually hate RP that much, it only makes sense to have the same feelings towards the cheating women who cause that to happen as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Again, idk how exactly do you know that but assuming it's true, that doesn't mean you should be as bad as those people. Most men are traditionalists, sexists and take pride with their toxic masculine traits, are you telling me it's fine to be like them as a man just cause they're the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?I literally posted something about me getting a little pulled from being blue-pilled to the center/purple pill side when I actually got out there and experienced with dating, and all comments were saying that, even tho I said I'm becoming purple pilled, not RP. I see it everywhere, regardless. Commentators use it all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?What exactly is objectively not true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?Idk what FDS is, but I think I get it and I agree, but just cause bad people do bad things then it's okay for me to do the same? That's counterproductive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Do you think it's okay to weaponize a man getting red-pilled because he got cheated on by a woman against him, why or why not?True but you can't control cheaters, you can learn and become aware of all the red flags and how not to get taken advantage of for sure but I don't know how exactly can someone 100% "stop getting betrayed." Thank you for proving my point btw, we're already looking at the positives of getting cheated on and putting all the work on the person who got cheated on with complete disregard of how horrible and damaging it could be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much?Cause capitalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Yeah I don't know how this will end but it's still crazy the shit I've been through and the horrible things that women did to me and got away with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Not that I got redpilled. I'm definitely not bluepilled as I used to be. I don't care when I get rejected and I acknowledge that it's just a part of dating and it only makes you more used to being out there, it's like a muscle, but what I'm saying is it's reasonable for someone who got dumped tens of times to get exhausted and change his mind on women in regards to dating ((as a human, not a perfectly "based" objective robot)) I've been looking for a relationship for the past 3 years. I'm averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?I'm redpill but I'm definitely not bluepill as I used to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?That's why I said balanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Good for you. I'm looking for a relationship tho. I'm not into hookup culture. It's been 3 years and I wasn't successful. I had decent success in regards to hookups but that's not what I'm looking for and I never cared about body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Why weren't you successful and what made you successful now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?So how are they wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Yeah that's why I said a healthy balance, not a 100%, even tho I feel like blue pill wants you to have it at a 100% and if you don't you're an ape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Yeah but what I'm saying is do you have them tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Yup, that's a point that I used to be very radically against but turned out to be true. It actually somehow goes against blue pill and red/black pill perspectives at the same time. Blue pillers will call you naive for saying that looks matter and no no no women are more attracted to personality and they care about you being nice that's all. Red/black pillers, even though they say looks matter, they still put status and having money above everything, which wasn't true in my experience. I'm averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Exactly, but you said "sure", which implies you do, but then proceeded to say that they start to dig more and more to tell you this is why you're successful. Why do they have to dig if you do have what they think makes you successful in dating; (good looks, tall, have money, etc)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Got you on the second one but I think you misread my first question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Hi. It's embarrassing to admit but it was mostly just copying them in posture and intensity and restating their takes that I thought made sense. Like I'd debate male friends using their talking points, only to find out that some of my friends' feelings (red/black or even purple pill adjacent) were valid and I was just a dumbass with no experience. One of those talking points (I wouldn't call them fundamental beliefs cause that never changed) is the "just be nice and normal" and you'll be success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?They've been single since I started following them; years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?You triple down against female perspectives? In what setting are we talking? Like on a date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Glad you're here with us! That's the thing that I've been struggling with lately; practicing empathy (which is something I always had but I'm finding out that sometimes you have to be careful about how much you show it, which fucking suck), love and be loved, etc, and all I'm getting is utter and pure shit. I'm gonna be honest, I'm struggling in this with women specifically as of lately (keep in mind that I've been putting myself out there and meeting women more for the past 3 years). We have th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you have a healthy life experiences + objective pov balance in regards to dating that allows you to have the radical takes and way of thinking you have?Do you have any of the characteristics that red/black pill talks about in regards to men who are successful in dating? Also have you been yourself along the way, or were you not in order to make it work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subThat's an unfortunate reality that I came to realize. Some of the comments on posts I made here gave me an existential crisis. But we got to remember that it's a small number and women are not a monolith Edit: the "are you a respected person within your community" point is putting it mildly. I posted something about how poor men struggle with dating and the replies were way more unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?You know what? You're right. It's probably me fucking it up for whatever reason just like always. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 07:09 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Just before posting this, my friend was talking to me about a friend of mine who's a woman. They met recently and they saw that we have posted pics together on social media so she asked her about me. She told me that, when she asked her about me, she told her "I stopped talking to him" and when she asked her why, she told her "I don't know, he probably said something dumb and made me feel some type of way." I've been wondering for a while why this person became suddenly stale, even tho we were g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?/s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?You think it's ok for men to generalize women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?I agree with that. Even if I and you take everything we see on the internet with a grain of salt and don't let it influence us, it doesn't mean that people do the same. And we have to deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:50 PM |
| -2 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?And I guess they're implying that that's a wrong thing to do; generalizing, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Oh, yeah I guess I did, apologies. I thought you were saying that over-generalizations are justifiable cause it's just how we operate. I'm implying with my response that I don't think context matter when people already have prejudices in their minds about you, in this context, based on my gender being a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Whoa! That is wild. Even if it's true we should still work on improving ourselves and work against it, don't you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?I don't even understand it. English isn't my first language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?I didn't. Is there a link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?You realize you still picked on me as man generalizing and ignored everything else I said about women generalizing, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?What does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?Thank you for the thoughtful response but I really don't understand what all of this has to do with it. I agree that their experiences are probably drastically different, but my experience with women so far wasn't that good tbh, but I'd never generalize cause why the hell would I do that? I love women, even if any negative generalization is true (which is not, generalizing is dumb and every human being is unique and different) I wouldn't want to believe it, but I'm starting to believe that women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for women to generalize and treat men like a monolith?I agree. I'm sure it happens in both but I take most things on the internet with a grain of salt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I'm talking money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?You're technically right but that's not conventional. Men paying is a traditional social construct that stems from misogynistic and toxic masculine norms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?You're just arguing semantics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?So Tate was right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?So Tate was right? I'm talking transactional as in giving something for exchang of money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Omg the brain rot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Yeah I wouldn't like it if I know that they feel obligated to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Yeah that's the world population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Omg the brain rot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Yeah sure. Like what 100k? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Ok good for you. Guess this turned about you somehow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Never said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's completely irrelevant to the conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?No, the topic of dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Are you trolling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I agree but in this specific context (men paying) I think only women can talk about something like that and be like a role model for other women to have a 50/50 approach. It's not the same when men do it cause it's incel coded. "Movement" is a big word probably, online trend better describes what I mean, just talking about in such online discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Feminists in general oppose gender neutral lawsFeminism can be very easily used as a tool of oppression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypesOh yeah. That's nothing. I get second hand embarrassment from what some whining men have described to me as to what they want. Someone once told me he only wants models with large online following and if he doesn't get that then he's a beta and he sucks at dating, and he actually whines online about why he's chronically single. Another told me he should be able to make them cheat on their boyfriends for him. I'm convinced most men who bitch online, especially the ones who blame women, have the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Just be a good person; challenge the stereotypesDid I write this W post? You mentioned something about "why would I care about all of this when all I want is one person," that's the thing tho, most men who complain don't want one person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's actually not a bad standard to have. I just don't think it's that conventional and universal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Regularly. Wanna go out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?🤝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?You can. You shouldn't tho no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?What a mature approach! I command you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Who said that? Don't exclude in the first place. It's that easy. I think what you're saying is: how "including".... Financial concerns prevent so many men from going out there in the first place, even tho they can afford themselves, but it's mostly "assumed" that dating is going to require more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I don't think most people perceive it that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?You/they don't have to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Wouldn't that be a good enough reason to talk about that if you were someone with an online following who discusses such topics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's nothing more than your own personal experience tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?100% valid for American women. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I'm talking about paying on someone's behalf. Not gifts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Normalizing the 50/50 approach regarding the dating phase cuts out a lot of the toxicity imo. I'm not saying you have to give back every "gift" and be childish about it, I'm only talking about not judging anyone based on their financial situation, whether good or bad. As long as they can afford themselves, I think that all that should matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's what I'm saying tho, there are misogynistic and toxic masculine roots to this tradition; men paying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Ok. That's your own personal experience. What I mean by promoting is just talking about it when having such discussions. It's just an ancient norm and I think it's for the best if we progress past it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Do they tho? How can you know that? What if they have a lot of money and don't care about money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's so specific | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?100% fair. If you're also working a job just like him then it's a 150/0 on your side in my opinion. There's no reason for him not to participate in house shores if you're also employed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I'm not interested in arguing semantics and English isn't my first language. People talk about red flags and give relationship advice online. It's not a new thing. I'm just wondering why this isn't one of the topics and it's not talked about more by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I agree that men value looks more than women do, but we all generally do. I personally don't and I'm pretty loud about it online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Yo what? Yeah guess I didn't. Thank god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Would you be ok if one of your friends turns out to have this shitty metric and are you usually loud about such topics online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?A 50/50 approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Is it ok with you if one of your friends turns out to be a deceptive person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?These people are definitely not a majority tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's not clear at all. Why can't I assume that the girl is just being generous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Why is that the best approach? How about communicating with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Thank you. I think you're assuming I'm poor for whatever reason but I'm not, just for context. I also mentioned that they shouldn't be perceived that way if they can afford themselves but they still do. "Broke" or "Broke boy" is a more accurate and common way in describing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Ok how about you chill out tho? He didn't say he stalked her home or something. A date not working out sucks to everyone. Also no, I wouldn't say I'd be "happy" as a man if a woman paid on behalf of me. It's cool and very generous of them but I ultimately prefer to pay for my own stuff. So you're just making up nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I command you. They're coming to the discussion in the least charitable way and they just want to disagree for the sake of disagreeing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?They don't even have to explicitly say "I'll get you next time." They can just do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?What do you think of a woman who would judge the entirety of her dates based on how much the man paid or whether they did pay for them or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?But that's still 50/50 tho. What she did is she actively 50/50ed the situation by offering to cover your lunch tomorrow. I agree that one can take it to a weird place by rejecting an offer. You don't have to do that and that's not the only alternative. You can still even it up later. This specific one is a coworker situation tho and I think it's irrelevant when we're discussing dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Not everything should have a specific reason. It's just progressing and getting over social norms that do have negative drawbacks sometimes that shouldn't be there. It's generally not good to be dependant on someone entirely in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?The post is asking why women don't promote a 50/50 approach online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:24 PM |
| -1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?What do you think of a woman who would judge the entirety of her dates based on how much the man paid or whether they did pay for them or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Are you loud about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I appreciate the honesty. It's easy to think that it's to your benefit at the end of the day, but it opens the door for negative possibilities that shouldn't be there and a few commenters mentioned some of these drawbacks in the comments. I want to say that I get it, but I honestly like to pay for my own. I don't like when people pay on my behalf at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?No I also agree with it 100% but the first one could be a huge fumble on a first date situation for example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?Something kinda similar happened to me. I'm very confident in my ability to receive social cues, but this one girl was not giving any, she was very shy, no eye contact at all and I did think we were going nowhere from jump, but I remember thinking "I fucked up and she definitely wants out" when she was so stubborn on paying for her order, only to find out through mutual friends that she was super into me and she was shitting on me for the past month for not getting it and being sign deaf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?That's also a confusion that's created by not getting ourselves used to a 50/50 rule. Why can't a woman be generous and when she is it's a bad sign and she's f*cking it up? I'm not blaming you. I totally get how it could feel that way. It's just the way we were conditioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women push for an online movement that aims at making it disrespectful not to 50/50?I strongly agree especially with the first one. 50/50 approach just cuts through all the BS and it's a win win for both parties | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesI was having dinner on a food truck a few days ago and I overheard 3 dudes having a laugh over their neighbour committing s*icide because of his cheating, gold digging wife who got him to sign everything in her name then started sleeping around. Pretty nasty stuff. However, the "Just cause other men are horrible to men then it's ok for me to be as horrible" is pretty psychotic as well. We don't know the full story but that guy wouldn't have got laughed at and he would've still been with us if it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why men must never open up to women.I'm not one to speak on this cause I never experienced it, but I definitely thought about it; when we talk about men crying infront of their girlfriends, to what extent are we talking? However, I don't know why you had to take it to such extreme where you're basically describing a very dangerously emotionally unstable person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupOh ok. I kinda agree but the likelihood of that happening is very low anyways. All I'm saying is if they happen to ask, I think it's fine to say "I make money; I'm doing fine" even if you don't. I'm not saying give a specific figure or make a douche out of yourself. Cool people with money don't brag about it anyways, at least not verbally. To me it's like when a colleague asks how are you, I'm gonna lie and say I'm fine even if I'm not and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 09:52 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupNow you know how I felt 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:19 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupThat honesty back fires. You can't call them "a stranger." That's such a turn off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupRespectfully, what are you talking about? We're talking about a random hookup. I said lie about your salary if you're in a random hookup situation, and I only said it in case cause, again, that doesn't even happen. I appreciate your (pureness ig?), but no one is losing sleep over lying about their salary to a random hookup. Also what the person lied to is so materialistic that they're going to change their mind if they find out the guy lied to them about their income? That's just a dodged bullet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 08:05 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupSarcasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupNah I have supreme natural charisma | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI don't get it. You didn't explain what you mean by "it's difficult for them to make people comfortable." Is it that they look intimidating, they're assholes or uncontrollably creepy, or what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupNot to net pick, but why is it hard to make someone feel comfortable? That shouldn't be hard at all. I mostly agree with the rest of what you said, but some of the qualities you're describing would be considered as "being gifted" (i.e. making people laugh) But there are definitely personality traits that don't require "being gifted" that all men should strive to have as much as they could (everyone should but we're talking about men), such as niceness, being able to listen, caring, etc. These go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:59 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupwell it's your fault for not having extreme natural charisma, not my 10/10 sense of humor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupRead the last line of your comment first, then read the whole comment again. It's a perfect loop. Well done my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI'm talking about the "extreme natural charisma" thing. So 9'0 chads are chads and 5'11 average/below average Joes who hookup with 10s have to be gifted with extreme natural charisma? Maybe you're right. Maybe the ones who are complaining then are either awful human beings or Dark Triad heads who are trying to math their way into relationships. I think the only thing causing confusion and that I disagree with is separating "extreme natural charisma" from personality. What makes someone extremely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupWhy are you telling me this? That's exactly my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:02 PM |
| 4 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupThere you go! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:44 PM |
| 4 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupYou guys always invent something it's beyond impressive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupSelf made Hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 5 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupYou do you. I don't think anyone is obligated to reveal such personal information to a stranger or a random hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:32 PM |
| 3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupDon't care. I only care about the words that come out of their mouths if they say no. I can't read minds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 4 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupSo you just tell random people about your annual salary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupPreach! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:18 PM |
| 4 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupGood luck out there to them. Wish them all the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI'm confused cause it says "Blue Pill Woman", but I guess you're right, people can just lie, or be confused. You're literally saying to a guy "Women be lying if they say they don't want sex." No thanks. Even if it is a lie I rather believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 6 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI respectfully disagree. Let's say we're discussing the "impossible high bar" that women have nowadays, it differs drastically depending based on the type of the relationship. I've never seen or heard about a woman caring how much a random hookup makes a year, and if that's even a discussion then that's probably not even a random hookup. Also, as a man, just lie in that case, it's just a random hookup and it's a silly thing to care about in this context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:10 PM |
| 5 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupExactly. I mean I said a virgin is not a godlike figure but it seems that that's what they're looking for, and good luck finding that with at least some other compatible long term partner qualities lol Not to mention the surprised Picasso face they'll have when they realize a virgin will most probably not have professional pornstar skills on bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:05 PM |
| -1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupThat's completely untrue in my personal experience as someone who's not a "chad", and what I saw having lived on this earth. Women are just people, so each woman is a unique individual. I've seen men that would be considered 4/10 hooking up with 10/10s. Having discussions with women who do that I realized the bar is so low when it comes to random hookups as opposed to long term relationships, even though the opposite still exists, especially looks wise; they tend to focus more on personality and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupOh I see what's happening. I agree with you. But what I'm talking about is people having discussions on the matter in general, not the two parties who are dating or something specifically. Like dudes be sucked into a black hole of despair thinking they're unloveable and having discussions about it online all day when they don't even know what exactly they're talking about or what they're looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:54 PM |
| 6 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupExactly, and I think it's important to acknowledge that and know what they're looking for before having discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:49 PM |
| -1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupYou're saying people disguise their desire to have sex during these discussions, or am I getting that wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:44 PM |
| -1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupAnd then they will get upset that the virgin is not a sex expert pornstar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:41 PM |
| 3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupIdk if you're talking about your own personal perspective, but generally speaking, you can't assume that what people are talking about is sex exclusively when discussing relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:39 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupWhat it is "it"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupYeah I'm coming to realize that most of these people with the same mindset just make it impossible for themselves to have any sort of relationship and rather complain and blame the whole world for that. It's also a matter of them not knowing what they want exactly in the first place, even tho that might not apply to the commenter cause they seem to know what they want, but it just seems hard to find imo. And even if they find a woman or a "virgin" that's ok with that mindset, you still have all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:29 PM |
| -3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupOk. no I wouldn't prefer being in a relationship that's not mutual. I'm still failing to understand how this relates to my post tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:14 PM |
| -1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupThat's fine but I feel like it's fair to reply to this with "You don't know what you're looking for" whenever someone with the same pov discusses relationships and how hard it is nowadays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:12 PM |
| -1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupTrue. I agree that a hookup could lead to a LTR or vise versa, but I think it's different in terms of having a discussion on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:05 PM |
| -2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupWell there is a comment that could answer your question here on this thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:58 PM |
| 0 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupDo you care whether the woman you're looking to settle with and all the women you're looking to hookup with beforehand are 10/10 or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupIt depends on your own subjective pov. Also I think it could progress from a random hookup to LTR for some people. But what I'm talking about is when having discussions on the topic and someone is posting about relationships, you can't 100% tell if what they're talking about is hookups or LTR, and the two are completely different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 4 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupAs a red/black pill man, do you think asking for a 6'0+ chad millionaire is justifiable if the woman looking for than is virgin looking for a commited relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:51 PM |
| -2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupMe too, but I don't think most people do nor do some posters mean it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI'm sorry, but in what part of the post did you read the word "friendship"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 03:40 PM |
| 4 | What is flirting to you ?If someone tells you you're smart with the personality of a leader and funny as a stand-up comedian, would you consider that flirting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 06:45 PM |
| 5 | What is flirting to you ?That's a WILD story! I feel like most short kings would take that as being condescending or making fun of them. How did you identify that as flirting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 06:43 PM |
| 3 | What is flirting to you ?Run | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?Is this sarcasm? No wonder western men aren't getting any pussy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?OMG WHAT? You're literally gonna make me sound like those that the original poster is talking about, but I find it hilarious that they've used Scarlet Johnson as an example cause she's literally unattractive at all TO ME, never was. She's good looking, not attractive tho imo, I think she's so normal looking. I get what you're saying but it definitely doesn't mean that beauty is objective and one person could see who you and 1M+ others think is attractive, unattractive. It also doesn't necessaril… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?I mean this discussion is actually ultimately ridiculous cause you're mentioning Scarlet as conventionally attractive, when I'm thinking freaking Dua Lipa, in regards to "objectively attractive" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?I don't think they will "walk through broken glass" for her, I for sure think they will never in a 100 years say no if she offers tho, cause I get where it's coming from. People are tired of chasing objective beauty and I don't think it's a bad thing. I think what's bad and silly is calling them UGLY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?Lol what is this line of thinking? You really don't believe that beauty is subjective don't you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?Lol what is this line of thinking? You really don't believe that beauty is subjective don't you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?I don't think the Kardashian look is conventionally attractive, is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do men say women who are objectively attractive are ugly/mid?It's just copium out of bitterness and resentment, even tho I'm usually not attracted to conventionally attractive looking women. It's actually kinda weird, like I at least acknowledge that they're attractive and would never think they're UGLY, but I'm also not attracted to them at all most of the time (It happens a lot when I'm with the boys, they see her and their jaws hit the ground, and I'm like, yeah she's pretty lol, I see it). I think "objectively attractive" shouldn't even be a thing, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Are you talking about dating or random hook ups? Cause that's way different. Also your own personal experience is not a universal fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Are you talking about dating or random hook ups? Cause that's way different. Also your own personal experience is not a universal fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.You're creating a straw man by taking my statements too far and making them seem ridiculous. I have not walked back on anything. Read the reply again. I said work on insecurities not eradicating them completely necessarily. I 100% agree that luck is a MAJOR factor, sometimes it's the primary factor (being born with a disability or something), but when it's not the primary reason then it's literally the same argument as uniqueness; you have to try and do something for yourself in order for it to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Being unique is not enough if you keep it in a bottle. Of course everyone is unique, but that doesn't mean they're effortlessly showing and practicing it everyday. You have to acknowledge it and bring it to life. That's why I'm telling OP to focus on himself. The first step to achieving that is acknowledging insecurities and working on them to build confidence. I'm not saying it's easy, but you have to at least start working on it in order for it to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:13 AM |
| -1 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Not if you create something so unique that there is no competition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.This is simply incorrect when it comes to business. You bring your unique value and people are more than happy to pay whatever. You just don't have anything of value that's unique. I don't know if it's the same for dating, but it probably is. Maybe it's not all about charisma, assets and whatever are the other things you've mentioned. Maybe this unique value is being nice or a unique character that's confident. I knew people who think like you. I'm sorry but I don't think you'll ever move a step… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateYes! Exactly! Now take that same energy and ask yourself "Why is it that way?" Is it just the way we look? Or maybe there's a power dynamic? Is there a history behind that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedI hope so, but I don't think it's true. You also have the "Children should have it tough in order to grow into real men" type mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedAgain, why would any man want to help his competitors and do any of that under capitalism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedI completely agree. But let's be frank here; what does that even mean? Communism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedMaybe, sometimes rough traditional nurturing gives the opposite effects tho. This is not a scale, but that's the case for me and a lot of men I met and had conversations with throughout my life coming from conservative Middle Eastern roots. All I'm saying is, self reflection and education is our responsibility as men. We can't blame it all on our parents or the educational system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedI agree that it's ridiculous to think that these awful things are a result of men's nature, but what's also true is that, whether it's in their nature or not, men like to claim that ruthless competitiveness is necessary for them to survive and it's part of their nature. How could you uplift other men (aka your competition) with such mindset? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What is happening to men? I am concernedForgive my ignorance, but how can you be a feminist and respond to such ridiculous notions? I'm genuinely curious of your thought process. On what basis will men start any movement? Not getting laid? Being mocked, which being emotional and getting effected by that in it of itself is mocked by men and masculinity? How is any of this comparable to the struggles that founded feminism and LGBTQ? I'm saying this as a man myself. The idea of having a movement for men is wonderful to me, but I refuse t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:02 AM |
| 1 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.It happens. That's why I said generalizing is wrong. Curious tho, what standards do men you had conversations with have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I think before anything, The system of men chasing and women choosing needs to changeI used to have this thought, but with experience I found out it's actually false. Women who are actually powerful; independent and have a strong personality, will very openly chase and make it super obvious that they're into a man when they are, now whether the guy gets it or not or whether she verbatim asks him out or not is irrelevant imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Good to know. I don't indulge in this level of over analyzing I'm just sharing my world view from my own subjective experiences; in which what OP is saying isn't true at all if men are serious and want to commit to the relationship, not simply trying to have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 02:01 AM |
| 9 | The reason men "have such low standards" is because they assume that any woman they get with to change to fit the mold of their ideal life.Didn't read the whole thing, but men having low standards is such BS. If anything it's the opposite. I'm yet to have a conversation with a fellow man and not find out that basically what they're looking for is free 24/7 therapy, a solution to all their problems and a Barbie punishing bag, and what's crazy is they're not willing to be a fraction of any of these things to their partners. That being said, I can't generalize obviously and it's only my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?So true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do people not want to accept the reasons modern dating isn’t working?I used to do that. I think it was delusional, fake it till you make it mentality. I didn't wanna admit that I'm lonely or sad about the doomy nature of modern dating. Also I wanted to be on the winner team, people who resist to admit that modern dating sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever gotten the ick from a woman being too into you?Responds too fast: I don't really care about response timing unless it always takes way too long that it feels like I'm emailing a business or something. What I care about is it being spontaneous ( it's just a thing she does and doesn't get annoyed if you're not on the exact same level), not an act that will probably fade away if I give her a chance. With that being said, if it's a spontaneous act, then that would seriously effect my response to #3 cause I'm already shopping for that ring. TLDR:… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 01:56 PM |
| – | As a "blue pilled" M25, it's time for me to confess...That's weird cause no one mentioned anything that has to do with genitalia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:32 AM |
| – | As a "blue pilled" M25, it's time for me to confess...I never tried to "simp", I'm not that type of person anyways, even with my male friends. I give complements every now and then but I'm ultimately somewhat a shy person. I just treat people as people regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:30 AM |
| – | As a "blue pilled" M25, it's time for me to confess...Neither, tho I can't help but feel hypocritical in conversations as such because my own experiences never aligned with what I preach. So the thing for me nowadays is just sayin idk idc I'm not a president. I just want to have normal relationships with all people, that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future?In America and the West? Most likely yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 03:33 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseIn the West/US* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:18 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleNo she's the submissive traditional wife in the second video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:54 PM |
| 2 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleI don't think that that's possible. There are a lot of women out there. It's not like these dudes are forming cults and taking every girl in town | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:47 PM |
| 0 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleHow about they're not "chads" and are incapable whinny dumbasses who wouldn't even find one girl to accept them? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleI mean it's obviously happening too. So why don't these guys that think these things are revolutionary just do the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleJust find yourself a girl like Monica, who cares? Edit: that Monica video was a 100% acted out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:48 PM |
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