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It's ok to have some easy make outs. And I don't guarantee you'll always get that, but it does happen sometimes, especially if you are dancing and talking to girls. Just be careful who you're making out with. You might not know who's just kissed 10 guys before you, or just threw up in the bathroom
/r/seduction16/04/24 01:25 PM
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My observatiom has been that poor texting can be 2 things. Either you trying to adjust your behavior to say something to impress the girl, or you aren't comfortable around her. And it's possible you will never be comfortable around her. But if you are adjusting your texts to impress the girl, I would say don't do that. Text her what's really on your mind, not these fake, over thought text messages. Then she can see your true personality
/r/seduction14/02/24 01:40 AM
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Even a beginner can benefit from getting clear about certain things. Do they want to mostly improve social skills? Or are they actually looking to meet women for dating/sex? Are they interested in hooks ups, long term relationships, or not sure? Are they ok with hooking up with women they don't have much in common with, or do they want to hook up with women who's personality compliments their own? The more clear they are, the more they can go in the right direction with their growth
/r/seduction12/02/24 11:12 PM
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Where do you live OP?
/r/seduction21/04/23 12:51 AM
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Through trial and error, talkng to other friends who are good at talking to girls, and meditating on your actions
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:37 PM
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So you can approach and talk to girls, but just do it at the right time and the right frequency so it doesn't become creepy
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:22 PM
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You will have a reputation as a guy who approaches all the girls, which I guess some girls won't like or won't trust. But if you can be smooth and be more relaxed, it might be better
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:20 PM
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Just follow your instincts. Your instincts are good and healthy and make you want women. Also remember to preserve your reputation in the college. Don't ruin your reputation with too much appropoaching girls
/r/seduction14/10/22 11:13 PM
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It kinda pisses me off that it takes tricks for you to get lots of sex in this case...but maybe it helps to bend the truth sometimes
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:25 PM
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Maybe tell her exactly what you said to us here
/r/seduction13/08/22 07:04 PM
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Visualizing what I want before I go out looking for it, and repeatedly visualizing it until I get it. Anything from the kind of girl I want, to the kind of conversation I want to have, to the place I want to meet her. This doesnt gaurantee any of those things, but it will at least lead to a similair result
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:03 AM
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Just approach everyone
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:36 PM
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Ok good luck anyways
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:21 AM
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But before I met her, I practiced talking to lots of other girls
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:15 AM
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I just went to her and said "hey I think you're beautiful". We started talking, then went on a date
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:15 AM
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You should read my comment I wrote to this guy haha
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:13 AM
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I'm sorry, please excuse me if I'm wrong, but it seems like you are arguing with a lot of the advice being given to you on here. If you want to learn something to improve your dating life, be humble and think as if you are a student and we are teachers. We are not teachers, but that would be good mindset to have if you want to learn and change. To change your life, you need to change your way of thinking. That is not easy because you have thought a certain way your whole life. But that is the pr…
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:11 AM
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Ok can you come up with some ideas then? I met one of my ex girlfriends in a starbucks, so those places are ok. Also, girls dont need to be interested in you for you to talk to them. Just go to them, say hi, talk and maybe they will become interested in you later
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:59 AM
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More than 300
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:22 AM
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Just have normal conversations with her, then after a couple of then invite her out for a coffee or for a walk in the park
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:33 PM
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I asked some girl out and got rejected today, even though she looked very interested. Do you by any chance live in western Canada?
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:46 AM
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Owen from Rsd
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:45 AM
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Had this happen recently
/r/seduction23/07/21 12:11 PM
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Talking to girls in class might be hard because everyone in class is watching. One thing you can try is talking to girls outside of class, like the ones sitting on a bench, or in thr cafeteria line up, etc. Just make sure you dont give yourself a bad reputation by trying to ask out everyone Less popular girls are more likely to be excited to go out with you. The more popular ones probably will be more worried about their reputation
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:44 AM
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Other ways I know would be, havinf a big close friend group, going to school and meeting there, or at a workplace
/r/seduction15/07/21 01:27 PM
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It might be going to a crowded street like downtown area and talking to girls there, where there is a party atmoshpere
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:41 AM
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Dont be mad at us, be mad at the media (cinema/music/etc) which has been pushing to sexualize society for decades now. Now that society is sexualized, we are enjoying it, and so are many women. Blame your friends in the media
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:40 AM
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Yea a couple times. More often I met girls at starbucks than on the street, but met some on the street
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:42 PM
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Lost my virginity, met a girl who became gf for 3 months and, and went on many dates that ended with makeouts. Many.
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:58 AM
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I only really like 2 of them. Jad T Jones and Zan Perrion
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:04 AM
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Around the time that it's getting dark
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:45 PM
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How to avoid gold digger? When you take a girl on a first date, take her to do something you like to do, instead of trying to impress her, do your favourite activity together.
/r/seduction10/07/21 07:01 AM
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Have one glass of wine. It helps. Have condoms ready, and use viagra if you have trouble getting it up
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:36 AM
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Thanks, I'll get a meatball sub
/r/seduction08/07/21 02:35 AM
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Had sex with 4 women I met from approaching at a starbucks I met from work. It was a job where we see different people everyday so probably wouldnt have seen her again if I didnt ask her out. I approached at starbucks From tinder I met these girls between ages of 18-24 Before meeting number 2 and 3, I pictured myself being with a girl like that, so picturing it helped me find them I think.
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:42 AM
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Really?
/r/seduction08/07/21 01:38 AM
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Probably a singing coach
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:14 AM
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Well the reason I asked this Im having trouble finding a job or business that I can stay at long term, so I wanna see what members of this sub do to give me ideas. In order to be attractive to girls I need to have at least a certain amount of happiness, and I cant do that when my job is beating me down
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:41 AM
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I would just tell her that you used to see her as just friends, but lately you've developed some feelings
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:25 PM
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This is the best response
/r/seduction01/07/21 02:23 PM
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If its the first time you're in bed together, you can say "I jerked off this morning so I wont be able to get it up/orgasm". If you've known each other a while longer just say you have a little trouble getting it up, exactly. But a combination of semen retention and viagra will make you hard as a rock. I found you can even jerk off or watch porn, as long as you stop before orgasm, and that still adds to your semen retention
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:00 PM
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Yep, and handjobs and fingering. That was my life for the past few years until meeting this girl
/r/seduction30/06/21 08:58 AM
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Hahaha, thanks man. But damn was it intense
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:29 AM
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No porn or masturbation for a week. Take an energy drink a couple hours before sex, then a couple hours later take viagra. Boom boom baby (Do not mix energy drink and viagra)
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:47 AM
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Therr arent that mant girls like that. Like I said, maximum 10%. Some of them arent even radical feminist transy, and are just cool hippies.
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:25 AM
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Gypsy? No thats just 10%. There are lots of wholesome types, and instagram model types as well
/r/seduction30/06/21 01:57 AM
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Where do you live dude? Cus you should move to Vancouver Canada. Hot girls are EVERYWHERE
/r/seduction30/06/21 12:34 AM
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Therr are many great motivations for doing it. To find love, to give love, to make women feel beauitiful, to authentically express your sexuality. All of these work. It really depends on your personality OP
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:33 PM
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Embracing it instead of fighting it takes away half the stress
/r/seduction27/06/21 05:24 PM
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Just embrace the fact that you are doing it and like doing it, and tell yourself you need to find a girl to do it with instead
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:11 AM
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If you're sitting there watching a movie, just lean in and kiss her on the cheek. Feel her hair. When you do that, it will be obvious what to do from there.
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:58 PM
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Yes there is hope, however you need to be able to picture yourself, in your mind being good at dating women, before it happens in real life.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:14 AM
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Maybe you should go to therapy to discuss your problems further. You asked if there is hope and the people of this subreddit responded letting you know there is
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:10 AM
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Try to minimize these mistakes. Its ok no one is perfect and mistakes happen
/r/seduction16/06/21 02:50 AM
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Blue shirt, jeans, brown shoes
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:35 AM
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If you're an emotional person, then when your heart is telling you. If you are a logical person, then once you agree to it verbally.
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:09 AM
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Spend time in nature. If you are addicted to screentime, phones and games then this by itself is gonna help
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:03 AM
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So maybe its not about seducing anyone you want, and its about finding someonw who cares about you and vice versa
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:00 AM
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Yea exactly you can text her that for sure
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:58 PM
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Dude you gotta say where you live
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:57 PM
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Where you are from doesnt matter. Its your heart, your intentions, and your looks.
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:24 PM
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I was in a similair situation where I met a girl on Tinder, and we had a short 20 day intense romance, and she wanted to have a long term relationship right away. I was very conflicted whether I wanted it or not. In the end we cut it off. I understand how it feels to be conflicted
/r/seduction31/05/21 11:38 PM
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Introduce both of them to a family member you trust...let them weigh in a little bit
/r/seduction31/05/21 11:23 PM
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https://youtube.com/user/HowToGetAGirlfriends Check out this youtube chanell. This guy helped me a lot Its most likely your mindset, or your looks
/r/seduction30/05/21 06:02 PM
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You need to get yourself into a good vibe
/r/seduction23/05/21 05:24 AM
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The Alabaster girl by Zan Perrion
/r/seduction08/05/21 08:34 AM
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Go to a hotel or a car. Or if you cant do either, just makeout. If you want something just ask for it and see what she says
/r/seduction07/05/21 05:12 AM
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This doesnt have much to do with seducing
/r/seduction01/05/21 06:15 AM
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It never hurts to try a second time. Even a third time. After third time I would call it quits though
/r/seduction30/04/21 10:33 PM
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Focus on enjoying yourself. If being in a bar or talking to girls is new to you, focus on learning, until you can enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction30/04/21 08:24 PM
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You are not a creep. Its a sin for us to be labeled as creeps this easily, and we should fight against it or ignore it with all the power we have. Do they think approaching a girl is creepy? And swiping on tinder isnt? These people that think you being charismatic is creepy, they dont want to see you succesful. They are ok with you sitting at home, addicted to all kinds of porn, drinking coco cola and playing video games. That stuff isnt creepy to them. When you approach a woman? Now you are cre…
/r/seduction29/04/21 06:33 AM
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Meet people at busy places such as train stations, bus stations, malls, etc
/r/seduction28/04/21 06:06 AM
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Smile. And talk natural, the way you would with a buddy. Be empathetic
/r/seduction26/04/21 03:22 PM
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My hobby is investing, going for walks, playing video games, watching movies
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:24 PM
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A gurl that is receptive to talk to me while also respecting herself and her time is very attractive. On top of that if she is hot, succesful, has a good social life etc, she would be like a godess to me.
/r/seduction24/04/21 08:18 PM
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There are lonely women who are on the same attractiveness level as you, who would appreciate being asked out
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:52 AM
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Either start a relationship with her or tell her to fuck off/ghost her
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:03 PM
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He didnt know I'm guessing
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:39 AM
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If someone says it's creepy that you approached them, just say "it's like tinder, but in real life". What makes it ok to swipe left and right on tinder but not say hi to someone in a park?
/r/seduction03/04/21 03:37 AM
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Absolutely. You were probably thinking she was politely declining but maybe she was being honest
/r/seduction29/03/21 12:39 AM
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If you wanted, you could have invited her to spend time with you while she was in town
/r/seduction28/03/21 11:07 PM
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There is a section that's pretty hot where Neill goes through how he got 2 straight girls to have a threesome with him. Other than that, waste of time to read that book. Neill even wrote a 2nd book years later called "The truth" where he completely rejects everything he wrote in "the game". The culture was different back then, and women actually liked these flashy fake guys. Now women are a little more level headed
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:43 PM
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Is this guy your ex? Someone else just posted about getting out of a 7 year relationship https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ma7umr/tips_on_how_to_get_girls_from_someone_who_was_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/seduction22/03/21 09:19 PM
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Start a conversation and ask for their contact information
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:37 AM
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Malls malls malls Busy Bus stations or train stations Busy public squares Beaches Coffee shops and cafes Supermarkets Hobby group activities you like doing School campuses (you can visit them without attending. Just say you live nearby and wanted to see what campus looks like, or just tell them you're there to meet girls.) EDIT: I did not read the original post before commenting
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:11 AM
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Online dating also puts the power in hands of the online dating companies
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:01 PM
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How are women supposed to meet men, and vice versa? Should we revert back yo erranged marriages? Because that's what these social justice warrior government is leading the people to. But no, I will continue to meet women this way. I don't approach everyone, but if I feel a strong desire I will
/r/seduction17/03/21 04:45 PM
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I just watched the vid again myself, and it is absolute GOLD. Maybe not exactly what you're looking for, but still really valuable
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:53 PM
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To be fair, I'm in the same boat. I want to hook up with multiple chicks but its been frurating. I'm not giving up though, just adjusting my approach and tryinh to enjoy
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:29 PM
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You need to find a way to ENJOY meeting women. Otherwise what's the point? If it's frustraring you can find one girl and stick to her.
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:13 PM
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This video is staged, a little on the wholesome side https://youtu.be/GYPHl0_G6B8
/r/seduction16/03/21 07:09 PM
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