OwnDecision5605 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
64	Late 20s M never married, was engaged once and it fell apart. Grateful every day. I browse here once a week to keep myself from idealising marriage. Thank you all.		OwnDecision5605	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/23 09:52 PM
2	Not sure what to do about this man	ADVICE	OwnDecision5605	/r/RedPillWomen	05/07/23 02:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Not sure what to do about this man He wants to always be under the same roof as her to look after her. I kind of understand it as he is her only child, but there is a small part of me that resents the fact that he won't just "move out". He is actually eyeing up houses on the neighbouring streets to buy for rental purposes in the next year or two. But he won't leave. This is definitely an upgrade for me because I grew up in a small home and all of us were doubled up (bunk beds in every room). His home is good sized and he wants to…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/23 01:44 AM
–	Considering divorcing my wife but we work together. Somewhat worried she's going to run me down? Your work and professional lives are intertwined. You have to be strategic about how you proceed. Assuming you are definitely divorcing her: You both stay at the same job: start privately recording all your interactions with your wife from the moment you drop the divorce papers. Quietly stash it all. Pull it out if she threatens to ruin you or makes moves to. She will quieten down. Then you don't need to switch jobs. You may even be able to use this to cajole her into moving jobs. The sneaky mov…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/23 09:44 PM
3	How did they awake this superpower ? Women are capable of being just as emotionally cruel as we are, if not crueler given that they must biologically compensate for a lack of physical strength. She is now your enemy and is unleashing that cruelty. Look up the "Women are Wonderful Effect" - this is why your perception has suddenly been shattered. She was always capable of (emotional) violence, she just hid it better.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/23 08:09 PM
1	It's not possible for a man to have authority in the household if the woman is able to divorce him. It's true. Either you 1. Let the woman have her way and be the shot caller, 2. Use "forced Authority" which will be unhappy and ultimately unproductive for all involved 3. Or you have enough value, strength, charisma and ability that she naturally learns to let you Captain the ship (while she assists as your reliable First Mate). She knows you've got Strength and Value, and you've got Options, and she likely won't get a better deal, and so she learns to control herself knowing that she's got a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 05:44 PM
5	Many men still clueless as to how to attract/date women, despite there being more information than ever on how to do so - why? What is your response to the substantial and growing group of men who would say: Yes, there does seem to be such an online treasure trove of insights from the women themselves, but when I compare these insights (i.e. what they say) to the real dating, relationship and marriage choices of the women around me, I begin to notice a consistent pattern - that these insights (what they say) are not reflected in their real world decisions (what they do) and so I will change my behaviour to accommodate t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 05:37 PM
4	Discussion : Why shouldn’t there be “losers” in the dating market? Why is it wrong a lot of men will lose out? You realise we've got roughly twice as many female ancestors as we do male ones. That's an accepted scientific fact which you can research online. The 30% stat is very accurate!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/23 08:20 PM