OwnDisk5 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills? Most of the time, it’s the character. I’m a 44yr old male. I’m humble, down to earth and realize my shit stinks just everyone else. I’ve listen to what people have told me about me and do my best to fix what’s wrong. I’ve even try to discover the root cause of why. It takes a certain person to look into the mirror and be honest with themselves. I’m not above apologizing, admitting I’m wrong, realizing I’m the problem. I’ve listened to podcasts, read a lot of articles to grow emotionally. The onl…	/r/seduction	13/03/21 09:36 PM
4	What do I do if I successfully hooked up with a girl, but she is not ready to date yet? If she’s made it clear that she doesn’t want to answer to anyone, then do the righteous thing and give her what she asked for. Otherwise, you’re going to push her away altogether or she’s going to drop you period. It’s a timing issue. Don’t sit around and wait for her because you might end up missing out on someone else that’s great for you.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 09:14 PM
2	Do straight men give oral sex to women less than give men give blowjobs to men? And why? I’ve heard from many women that a lot of men either don’t do it or they’re not that great at it. I have a lot of close female friends and have no problem asking them for advise on anything.....questions on emotions, sexual questions etc.. I can’t speak for every man out there.......but I LOVE going down on women. It throws me out of whack if I’m with a woman who doesn’t want it. (It’s only happened a couple of times though.) It’s essential to me. I have to go down. I feel like it’s my duty to do…	/r/seduction	07/09/20 03:01 PM
1	Fucked up badly Maybe she’s confused. Give her some space. It’ll also give you time to gain composure of yourself. It hurts bad in the beginning. It can be devastating. Trust me, I know what it feels like to wanna reach out. You can always try contacting her later on in at least 3-4 weeks at the very minimum. In the meantime, focus on pulling yourself together. Improve yourself somehow.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 04:40 PM
1	Pros and cons of just lying there after ejaculating or going down on her/doing something for her after sex? Some say that it is better to just lie there (without sleeping) and wait for her to come to you to get some investment from her I do. I figured lots of other men have realized this.	/r/seduction	04/02/20 02:30 PM
2	Would you reject love just to game? If you really love her, why would you wanna game?? If you’re having doubts, that’s a different story. You really need to think about it. Otherwise, you’re gonna leave her, she’s gonna be gone and you’ll end up begging, pleading and wishing her to come back. Maybe you’ll be lucky and she will come back. But experience shows, they usually don’t come back. I’d really think about this if I were you. The saying holds true, one mans trash is another mans treasure. If you leave her, someone else will b…	/r/seduction	04/02/20 01:24 PM
6	Pros and cons of just lying there after ejaculating or going down on her/doing something for her after sex? Some say that it is better to just lie there (without sleeping) and wait for her to come to you to get some investment from her I’m a pleaser in bed. I’ve realized a very long time ago, it’s all about the female. Period! Enough said. End of story. You need to control yourself. Give her lots of foreplay. Kiss her passionately. Rub her body. Caress her body. Play with her. Go down on her. Get her have at least one orgasm before you do. It also takes pressure off of you to last so long. Once she’s had a few orgasms, then get yours. If you want a connection that’s hard to break, after sex, hold her naked. Skin on skin. Hold …	/r/seduction	04/02/20 01:06 PM
1	How to go from just getting laid to being the guy who can bring girls to parties and introduce friends to hot girls. Seems like you’re on to something here. Maybe once you get to a certain point, maybe make some reservations and make it some type of party/gathering. Like some sort of celebration. Hell, maybe just walk up to some women and invite them to your gathering. From there, start your contact list. Just a thought. Maybe this can help you brain storm some.	/r/seduction	03/02/20 05:12 AM
2	[FR] Asked a girl for her number at the market You did good. I’ve been regretful not taking my chances before. She said the worse she could have and that was that she had a boyfriend. You tried. Nothing wrong with that. 👍🏽	/r/seduction	03/02/20 05:04 AM
1	Is it possible at your core to just be not good enough no matter what? Well, normally I just brush things off and move on. Always been a strong person. This past breakup killed. (Still going through it but I’m a lot better than I was a month ago.) Long story short. I’m doing it differently this time. I’m doing self help, read about the grieving process, realized my part in the break up. It’s also caused me to do a lot of self reflection. In doing so, I’ve made discoveries that I don’t know I would have ever figured out about myself. Some all the way back to childho…	/r/seduction	01/02/20 10:26 PM
1	Is it normal for female to have multiple squirting orgasms in a row? I was with a female that sprayed roughly 8feet. She soaked me. She stained my mattress. I had to use a blow dryer on my bed every time we were finish with sex. There’s nothing wrong with it at all. She’s fine.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 09:27 PM
1	Sex & Dating shouldn't be your solution to emptiness I think you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you’re emotionally unavailable. Having sex is a complete different issue. Just be honest upfront and let them know you’re not ready for a relationship. Most people are afraid to get hurt as well so they usually go for the occasional date and sex. Everyone is happy. 🤷🏽‍♂️	/r/seduction	29/01/20 07:30 PM
1	My crush just became single, I need some help on how I should proceed That depends on how upset/hurt she is. If she’s clearly upset, (crying non-stop or seems depressed) just offer to get her out of the house. Maybe a quick bite, run some errands.....help take her mind off it. If she’s says she’s ok, then a movie would be ok. It’s something you have to judge though by talking to her. Be careful though cause you’re in a spot to be a rebound. Not all rebounds last.......but they can.	/r/seduction	22/01/20 05:05 AM
1	My crush just became single, I need some help on how I should proceed If you really like her, then proceed slowly.....because if you’re the rebound, it prolly won’t last. Talk to her, make her laugh, don’t come on too strong, ask her out for something small to see how she responds, work you’re way up.	/r/seduction	22/01/20 01:51 AM
1	I need to stop being so insecure Being confident isn’t about what you can do and how well you do it. It’s about being comfortable with yourself. I’m not the greatest at everything I do nor claim to be. But I can and will admit it. I give it my best shot, if it fails, it fails. Someone is always better than you at any given time or for any opportunity. One thing I’ve learned, is to embrace who you are. Don’t change because then you aren’t being true to yourself and you can only fake something for so long.	/r/seduction	21/01/20 07:32 PM