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5	Does unconditional love truly exist? I had an ex who thoughts that if someone truly loves him, they'll put up with anything and everything he does. And if you leave him, well, you clearly didn't actually love him. Unsurprisingly, he was a bit of an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 10:03 PM
1	Men don't owe women friendship Everybody should do what's best for them. You're whining because women aren't resolving your emotional issues. You're an adult, handle your own shit, because nobody else is responsible for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 11:27 PM
1	Men don't owe women friendship Sure, I have a choice. I can decide to stop being friends , but if I find the guy to be a good friend and I'd like to remain friends and I would say so. Because that would be best for me. But the guy also has agency and can decide to not be friends with me. Because that might be the best thing for him Like I said, you are responsible for your own mental and emotional well-being. You should do what would be best for you in this situation. If that would be leaving, so be it. Do what's best for you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 10:23 PM
1	Men don't owe women friendship You know you can just stop being "friends" with the person that turned you down, right? The situation is simple. You and Sally are friends, but ypu develop feelings for her and want more than a friendship. Sally doesn't want that, she wants to just be friends. I get it, it sucks. But as you are responsible for your own mental and emotional well -being, you have a choice : A) Keep being friends with Sally despite having feelings for her. B) Stop being friends with her because it would hurt you to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 10:04 PM
3	Men don't owe women friendship Sure? But I haven't met a woman that feels entitled to the friendship. Being sad the friendship ended is fine, saying "fucking asshole can't just leave our friendship like that, I'm such a great person!" is entitlement. But like I said, never heard a single female friend of mine express things that way. However, I've seen a few guys irl (and waaay too many online) whine about how their female friend doesn't want to date them, how they're such a great guy, why is she treating him this way, etc. "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 09:38 PM
-1	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men I think you have a point. The person you're responding to reminds me of a little kid who spends hours trying to figure out the best way to cheat on a test because they couldn't be bothered to study and they wanted the easy way out. Their cheating fails and now they'll sulk about it, but Hell will freeze over before they sit down and do the hard work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 02:09 AM
2	Conflicting desires about wanting women with ‘standards’ Hypergamy is basically just "I'd like to be with the hottest person I can imagine ". Which....everyone wants? These dudes don't fantasize about an overweight short goblin of a woman, they want the hottest lady they can imagine. But women are perfectly happy to be with completely real, normal, average dudes. Dudes on this sub are butthurt that women aren't going for them, so they assume women don't go for average dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/22 08:15 PM
1	If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one? If it's a troll there's no point in talking to them. If,they're serious there isn't a point in talking to them either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 05:41 AM
2	If women are hypergamous, what really is the point of trying to have a relationship with one? Don't feed the troll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/22 03:09 AM
1	Women: Are you more attracted to status or competence and why? As you told us Jeffrey has trouble reading and his motor skills suck. My husband is in the trades and you're not going to get very far if you have problems with your motor skills and with reading (and quite possibly math). So he can be learning it, but based on how you described him, he doesn't have a good chance to make it in the trades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 04:18 PM
2	Women: Are you more attracted to status or competence and why? Ikr? All of the hypothetical scenarios I've come across online are basically: The hot dude robs little old ladies and kicks puppies for fun, but he can bench press 250 pounds and is like really hot. The dorky quiet dude bakes cookies for homeless veterans and donated a kidney to a small child, but he's introverted and likes anime. Who would you choose? Why is it never "they're both flawed, but kind human beings" or "the hot guy is nice and the introverted dude is an asshole"? Why is it always "h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 02:11 AM
1	Women: Are you more attracted to status or competence and why? Competence, but your examples are not only absurd, but they contradict what you set out to prove. How is Oscar not competent? He manages to run a successful money laundering operation and buy himself a fancy car AND is in good enough shape to bench press 300 pounds WHILE being a junkie. That's impressive. Meanwhile Jeffrey's motor skills suck, he can barely read and is socially inept. Sure, he's trying to better his situation, but he hasn't gotten there yet. Where is the competence here? Now, if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 02:03 AM
1	Why are most divorces initiated by women rather than the man? Kinda sounds like they want the best of both worlds, single and married and they're trying to excuse their shitty actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/22 02:08 AM