| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Texting is hard | Own_Industry_240 | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 12:58 AM | |
| 1 | Texting & Ghosting | Own_Industry_240 | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 03:16 AM | |
| 0 | Own_Industry_240 | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:12 PM |
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| 1 | "Dont be friends with girls"this works if you’re already friends with a girl but this won’t work if you lets say ask a random girl to be friends with you, she’s automatically gonna assume you’re taking a friend’s route to get laid with her. even if she becomes your friends it is less likely to get her out to hang out with you because the chances are she might flake. i’ve tried couple of times to get friendzoned but girls don’t friendzone because they automatically assume i wanna get laid with them. it only works out if you… | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallYeh I’ll check that out thanks but I’ve been lifting weights for 11 years now so putting on mass won’t be an issue, however i just wanted to know if you get attention after getting six packs. What if i put all those effort and it leads to nothing but getting ghosted, left on seen and go through the same bullshit. At the end of the day we all wanna get abs just to get girls | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallAnd as far as sharp jawline is concerned i recon with lower bodyfat we can achieve that | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallI’m 5’4” and 172lb currently. I have a solid frame already so I don’t think I’ll need to put 40lb and i wanna stay away from steroids so lets see... | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallFuck that. I’m wasting my time then | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallBut having abs and lower bf mean you can achieve chiseled jawline so I’m assuming you already have a sharp jawline | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallBut what if you lower your bodyfat percentage with six packs. You think you can attract girls online ? | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallI’m 30% of bodyfat and already started eating clean, do you think getting to 10% bf will make a difference? I know it will but is it gonna be a huge difference or not too much ? | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallOh mate girls here in Australia are different breed... I’ve had few american friends coming to au for a visit and best believe they were so freaking stressing out by saying an average looking guy doesn’t have any chance. You either gotta be too hot or rich to pickup but girls here are hot af coz its a multicultural place. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:44 AM |
| 4 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallDon’t tell me you’re from Australia where girls (5’s and 6’s) think they’re some topshit 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 7 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.The only reason this happens is because you don’t have sexual charisma. You give off this friendly buddy buddy vibes thats why she’s not feeling it. You need to set your tonality a bit low and start talking in a masculine way instead of having a high pitch voice. Secondly, you need to throw some innuendos and trust me any girl will feel ya. Hope it helps | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 06:59 AM |
| -8 | Online dating as an attractive maleLooks don’t matter to most of the women anymore in todays day and age. Two things girls find more attractive than looks and confidence. Its status and money. Online dating is easy if you have photos of any car worth more than a 100k. People who disagree with money part don’t know anything about females nature. They think girls don’t go for money, when most of the girls get turned on by this factor. Yes confidence will keep a girl interested in you for a long period of time but money/status will … | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Do the rules of seduction apply to women too?As i said before it’s got nothing to do with the way you approach or talk. All girls need to do is look pretty and get in shape and guys will hit on you 24/7. That ‘the way you talk or confidence thing’ only matters when you’re a guy. With girls its just looks. I have female friends and they’re pretty hot like 9s and 10s and when they walk on the street they get approached every 5 minutes on a night out. You said you’re not super girly then you need to focus on this side. This might help. | /r/seduction | 16/06/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Any "beta" or traditionally non-masculime men here who are successful with women?A beta can still fuck a lot of women and can get girls, whereas an alpha is someone that can keep her for a long period of time without any commitment. A beta can’t keep girls for a long period of time. I’m not saying beta can’t keep any girl around at all but majority of women he fucks he can’t keep them. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Any "beta" or traditionally non-masculime men here who are successful with women?Alpha isn’t asshole. Alpha is someone that would do whatever the fuck he wants. That being said he’s not gonna let a girl disrespect him or else he’d walk away. Alpha is someone that stands on his ground no matter what unlike these beta cucks who are gonna kiss women’s ass and putting them on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Do the rules of seduction apply to women too?Guys don’t turn down chances when a girl is attractive. You’re asking your female friends about your looks but they’re lying that you’re a 8 because its in a females nature to hype their friends up and make them believe they’re the hottest thing on earth. On other hand a guy will never rate you if he’s not interested because that might hurt your ego. So by looking at your other comments i know you’re working out, why don’t you change your hairstyle which you mentioned is spikes. Change the way y… | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Want to be better with girls? Get female friends.This is a good advice but the issue is its hard to find a female friend than a female who’s down to have sex or date, because lets say you cold approach a girl and ask her to be your friends she’s still gonna think you’re trying to get in her pants by using friend’s route. Lets assume she gives out her number but then it’ll be very hard to get her to hangout because she’d still play those games i.e. replying late, cancelling on last minute etc | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration.We as men are lucky because we have more aspects to work on. Thats why money and status come into place. Work on yourself and earn as much as you can to the point where you can afford a nice G wagon or Lamborghini etc. these 9s and 10s will come running to you. Good luck | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you approach a guy when you want to bang himStart talking to him but also ask personal questions like do you have a girlfriend or are you single. As a guy whenever a girl asks me this question i pretty much know straight away why she’s asking. Most men will get the hint. If he doesn’t get this hint then either he’s not interested or he doesn’t have balls to escalate, but 80% of the time men don’t have balls to escalate it. So try to flirt because most men think she’s being friendly thats why they don’t make a move a work etc | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 06:03 AM |
| 10 | Sliding In IG DMI gained 800 followers on insta since last 2 months. Let me tell ya something. Some of them slid in my dms and even then nothing happened because they were all attention seekers. I messaged around 23 girls out of which I’m only talking to one girl. The point I’m trying to make is if your body is on point, dressing sense on point and have money then you’ll have more chances of getting replies. The way to slide in is just simply reply to their stories. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I get girls?The same way you dated girls in your previous state. | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 07:28 AM |
| -9 | Lets talk wardrobeFendi, Louis Vuitton, Gucci etc. designer clothes pull most of the girls especially when you’re wearing designer shoes | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 05:47 AM |
| 0 | Cold ApproachIf you want real results and maximise the number of lays and reduce the number of flakiness etc, focus on yourself and work on your finances. When i finances i mean to the point where you can afford AMG, g wagon etc. once you start taking nice photos and post them on Instagram then 9’s and 10’s would be in your dms all the time. Those 9s and 10s would treat you exactly how a 2 or 3 would treat you like making everything easier for you, replying instantly etc. this is the only way to do it. Fuck … | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Beta friend cock blocked I thinkI’ll be honest with you. Its very hard to make friends these days because lets say you go to the gym and you make few friends there, they’re less likely to invite you any place outside gym. New friends hardly initiate conversation or would send you text messages. So i made a group friends which i met through my good friend. I’ve invited those other friends to a couple of occasions but they never did. I’d only kickback with them when I’d see my good friend. So the point I’m making is its not hard… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 05:54 AM |
| 14 | Beta friend cock blocked I thinkI tried to dance with this by doing this transitioning where I’d make her dance with me, and she started dancing with me as well. As soon as she started dancing my friend (beta as fuck) tried to approach (while I’m dancing with her) her and ask for her number and she turned him down. From that day onwards i wouldn’t go out with him to clubs/bars because people like him are the reason girls would see you as beta. When you have friends like that who don’t know how to act in public will lower your … | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | After how many cold approaches did you get your first date?Here in Australia it’s not that populated as Newyork especially after the pandemic where people now prefer to stay home because everything needs bookings so most of the people can’t be bothered doing it. Secondly, when i see a girl I’d look for the opportunity because I don’t try to approach a girl from behind coz they get scared, i prefer when a girl is standing at one spot or sitting, not with her friends etc. | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Women can’t expect loyalty from a man they refuse to have sex withShe’s getting sex from someone because these bitches are as horny as we are. In the future if you ask for sex and she denies it, you need to get up and leave(if you’re at her place) or ask her to leave. If she comes back make her submit by saying I didn’t like the way you acted last time so how are you willing to make it up to me.. if she says what do you want me to do, then you need to punish her... punishment could be anything. It could be asking her to lick your crusty asshole or golden showe… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 02:47 AM |
| 3 | After how many cold approaches did you get your first date?I got my first lay after 50 approaches.. some of them gave me their numbers and even responded but they ghosted me after 2-3 initial texts. Approaching 50 girls is time consuming especially if you’re a busy person. Just do it for the sake of learning. I’d say once you learn then focus on instant dates coz at least you can get laid because these girls would be showing you interests but the moment you both go your own ways she won’t even remember you. With instant dates at least you get to show he… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | I did. There’s a lot of ways to slide in DMs. Some people reply to stories and some girls will like your old photos to let you know they’re interested... | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | My man thanks for your help appreciated... you clarified that. Actually I’ve recently started gaining followers so these replying to my stories is a new thing so I thought I’m doing something wrong but you clarified and said they’re just attention seeking whores. Another thing, so lets say i reply to a girl’s story about food or whatever, don’t you think it’ll turn her off if I’d say lets hangout or give me your number coz most girls wanna be comfortable first... like with the approaches in real… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Is it smarter to take a girl out first or just invite her overAsk her out to come along for an ice cream at night coz girls won’t say no to an ice cream and its cheap as well. Also after that invite her back to your place coz if you’d ask her straight to your place she won’t be comfortable | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What RP content you recommend that's not focused on women and getting laid?AMS (alpha male strategies) he focuses on getting your shit together aka purpose a lot than anyone. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:15 PM |
| -3 | Plate wants to come along to dinner (split the bill question)Beta ? Mate do you even know what beta is. A beta is someone that spends on a girl and taking her to a fancy restaurant and get nothing in return. Throwing a bone and feeding girls scraps doesn’t make you a beta. If you fully expect girls to pay for themselves then trust me you won’t be able to keep girls for long period of time because a girl’s hypergamy is gonna kick in. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 11:18 AM |
| -1 | Plate wants to come along to dinner (split the bill question)Redpill is about being a high value man that includes sexual strategy, keeping the investment low on dates and getting sex, making her submit so she can clean, cook etc. first of all no one should take a girl out for a dinner on a first date but in OP’s case she invited herself which means you can indirectly make it clear that you want something in return. If he makes it direct then trust me its gonna make her pussy dry like a mf thats why being redpill comes into place where you indirectly tell… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 08:53 AM |
| 5 | Plate wants to come along to dinner (split the bill question)Y’all trying to become redpill but still don’t know what redpill is about. Redpill is about self improvement and having your shit together which means we don’t mind paying for a girl as long as she’s making it clear that she’s gonna let you fuck the shit out of her later. However, this only applies if you fucked her already then its ok to pay for her. If you haven’t fucked her yet and you’re paying for her then she’s gonna see you as a beta provider but during meantime I’d like to ask her if she… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardI appreciate your response my man. I thought there’d be something wrong but i guess we’re all in the same boat. The issue is if I don’t approach girls for few weeks then it gets hard for me and it feels like I’m new to this game, by the way i started approaching girls in October 2020 | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardNo we don’t have lockdown here everything is open. Yeh i guess i need to focus on mouthpiece coz my dressing is on point and I’d always wear designers so it’s definitely the mouthpiece. And I’ve started doing that well like leaving them on seen especially when they reply after 10-20 hours thats when i realise I’m about to get ghosted so i’d stop replying, at least you’re left with power when you do that. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardI get what you’re saying but lemme tell you something, before pandemic girls used to flake a lot (with me) and after pandemic I don’t even get to the flaking part they’d just ghost me even though if they’re the ones initiating dms (on insta I’d get random replies on my stories and even then i get ghosted) can you fucking believe that | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Texting is hardYeh i guess thats the best idea coz if the date goes well she’ll come back for a second date. Sometimes what happens is when I’m flowing with a girl and she seems so interested but when i ask for a number all of a sudden they have a bf. So I’m pretty much sure if I’d go for an instant date they’d be down for it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Texting is hardIt takes a lot of time these days coz my city (Melbourne) has been very quiet due to pandemic. And if a girl walks past me I don’t turn around and chase her coz that’ll turn her off so i wait for the opportunity for instance if a girl is standing or sitting at one spot, so that already reduces the number of chances | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Texting is hardBeing a redpill we’ve been told to introduce yourself ask them out and ask for their number rather than a long conversation because we’re supposed to be busy but when i see other coaches they say longer conversations help. So my approach goes like that Me: hey i was walking past and saw you so I thought I’d say hi Her: oh hi how are you Me:I’m good thanks yourself Her: I’m good Me: so what are you up to Her: i just came here for shopping and you ? Me: nothing just talking to you Her: hahaha smoo… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | People shit testing you to get you off centerYou should memorise the answers to these shit tests because most of the shit tests are pretty much same. For example you’d always get shit tests like you’re short, do you always bring girls to this spot, is your dick small, why you wearing these shoes, why are you wearing shirt like that, are you talking to other girls etc etc... common shit tests and you should be able to memorise all these and you won’t have an issue passing them. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Texting is hardThanks man. Do you leave a text if they don’t pick up. Like call me back or something | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Texting is hardThats what i was thinking to make a call straight away without exchanging few texts and call. The way i do it is exchange few texts and I’d be like hey I’ll give you a call later and then they either don’t respond or never pickup. But i guess this calling them without text is better than anything | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardHmmm... what I’ve heard is its always better to do instant date, that gives instant results... As far as building rapport I’m lacking that thing. Like i’d exchange few questions and after that i’d be like ‘aight ima leave and i’ll get your number’ | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardHolyshit thats pretty small percentage. And i thought I’m short (5’3) that’s why I can’t get results. But in order to approach 1000 that requires a lot of time and then I won’t be able to work 80 hours a week... | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Texting is hardTheir engagement level is always good. Like they ask a lot of questions but i keep it short coz AMS (dating coach) says don’t give too much attention. The girls who want to get away from you are easy to figure out. Some even say nobody approaches these days and i like how you approached me but even then i get ghosted after a couple of texts. I don’t say hey how are you, i relate the text to whatever happened in that situation. So if i’d meet a girl at maccas my text would be ‘so I’m gonna make s… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The red pill is starting to sink inBro if you really want her back and you just want her. GET A HOTTER GIRL THAN HER AND LET HER SEE YOU IN PUBLIC WITH NEW HOTTER GIRL. She’ll come back running to you . | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Did I make myself sound/look butt hurt or did I maintain a frame?Bro if you follow AMS, first thing you need to know is never argue with a girl. Second, the moment you call girl a bitch, her interest level drops right then and she loses respect for you as well. Its ok to call her a bitch in bed but not outside of that. Lets say even if it was your fault never admit to it. Just blame it on her. Tell her you made her feel this way thats you had to do it etc etc and lastly don’t reach out to her and make her submit if she comes back. She called you a bitch thats… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 11:11 PM |
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