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Not everything needs therapy
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 07:10 AM
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I made a lame joke, guy got mad, pearl got mad.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 01:50 AM
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I'm very sorry. I remember your earlier posts. I hope the rest of your family can band together at this time.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 01:49 AM
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yea pet names are great.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 10:59 PM
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Wife, is wife, is wife, by definition of being married. Modern connotations of this are pointlessly dumb.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 06:21 AM
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The de-gendering of relationship terms is strange, and serves no apparent functional purpose. My boyfriend is a man; why would I call him something less specific than that? Unless you are in the camp that thinks gender anywhere is harmful, which is thupid.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 12:05 AM
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"How do I handle this gracefully as a feminine woman and continue to firmly set my boundaries?" I don't know, and my first reaction would be to consider this issue the supervisor's and the other nurses'. You've already set boundaries in an implicit, and thus gentle manner. I wouldn't be bothered about this comment, especially for a part-time gig, unless you think it'll lead to them cutting your hours, or something of that nature. You already try to be friendly and professional, so I really do th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 11:06 PM
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Wow, you swung to that branch and latched on, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 05:15 PM
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haha how many years ago was that?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 08:44 AM
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Sounds alright. You're in an environment you can manage one way or the other to get the things you want done, done. The other definition erred on the side of describing arrogance, but wasn't very different from yours fundamentally. I guess this is a bit of a nitpicky debate, so good luck on your job search -- companies in my area aren't hiring for now.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 03:02 PM
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Big presumptions. Do you have an alternate definition to the OK one u/RedPillMissionary offered?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/20 01:12 PM
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"valorisation (something very natural) and specifically for your intellect" so beautifully said, the point of her intellect shouldn't be itself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 11:53 PM
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In some cases, the truth doesn't offer you the highest utility. Not everything is an academic exercise, and interactions where people claim untrue things may not be about these things themselves, but may be more for the sake of interaction. In particular, the longer-term effects of reacting the way you do might be worse on you. This is a bit abstract, but I hope you get the point and don't think you're hot shit because you know it all -- that's exactly who I still am to an extent, and it's a ver…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 11:49 PM
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Pearls and polka dots work surprisingly well -- I need to implement that. Too bad your kitchen doesn't look like that, though. Great stream; it was quite opinionated, but I think points were synthesized in an original manner.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 01:45 AM
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Well yea, "cunt" was crassly harsh, but I was told something similar a long time ago, and this ticked me off.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 03:51 PM
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The girl who wrote this post is likely a minor, the joke doesn't really work.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:38 PM
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"It seems like most guys dream up e girls and tomboys as their ideal wife." hahahaha I'm not sure why you're wasting time on boys at the age you seem to be. You seem very well-rounded and self-motivated, and the fact that you publish poetry is very cool. I wouldn't recommend ambling for a relationship right now.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 02:37 PM
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Yea I think so, "when an expectation borne naturally from previous circumstances is no longer achievable". I suppose given my biases, I'm more in the camp of changing the circumstances than changing the response, because changing the response seems to lead to worse outcomes. That doesn't mean that changing circumstances is more practical, though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:54 PM
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This may be semantics, but I do not consider maladaptation to unfavorable situations "toxic masculinity". That's funny because in that sense I am absolving men's masculinity of the blame (i.e. no agency granted to them), as I initially thought you were too. Your empathy for your brother is impressive.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:48 PM
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Yea that makes sense, I was being contrarian since I thought this was devolving into a toxic masculinity argument, where the solution is neomasculinity. In fact I've never seen the points you mentioned, mentioned in these kinds of arguments. Take upboat.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:09 PM
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*poorly interpreted sociological trends and nuance, with dysfunctional calls-to-action.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 08:01 PM
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Devil's advocate: what structural inequities exist that push men towards these unhealthy behaviors? ​ This isn't how I think, but how feminism frames problems. No agency.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 06:55 PM
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I'm 👏 going 👏 deaf 👏
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 07:12 PM
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Consider homelier men, they don't have the ability or live in environments allowing for hook ups, and that often has an effect on how they view themselves and what relationships should be. And by homelier I don't just mean plainer-looking, but in other aspects too: just simpler-thinking men with more traditional backgrounds. But I know that if you go for young, outgoing, distinctive, attractive men, they probably don't want to settle down. That's usually the tradeoff, but you might get lucky. An…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 07:41 AM
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I think even if you don't romanticize the past, people often think of being in an ideal position in the past, if they imagine themselves there at all -- which is quite funny, and selective. But in that sense it is valid to say: "my" past would have been better. That being said, there are trends that have cropped up in this century that I don't see heading towards any good. As for the OP, I think you're not wrong in wanting to be a homemaker -- but practically, set some insurance for yourself. Un…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 09:45 AM
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Miss me with this 2x shit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 07:25 AM
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You're using yourself as a contradiction to my hypothesizing of why Western women are having fewer children. I don't see how your experiences with these factors is relevant; your use of your experience to claim that there is oftentimes no "why" is naive. Specifically, we already agreed that there can be no "why", as in both of our cases. But you're unable to justify "oftentimes", and it seems highly unlikely such opinions are innate. That is my main point of disagreement with you. This ties in t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 03:37 PM
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You've stated your point clearly; how often do you think idyllic upbringings lead to a desire not to have children? I would surmise that in the West, the former often leads to the latter. So the question is: why does that happen? Worries about work, the environment? Pop culture? A decline in religion? Too much time spent in education to be economically viable? General individualism? I think there are a ton of things that are associated with antinatalism. So my point is: I think innate proclivity…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 12:10 PM
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I would say your response is strangely neurotic, but I lack context on why you're responding so strongly, so there's no good in cheap insults. I also deleted that feminist thing. But, for clarity, I'm more interested in tracing why women don't want to have kids than forcing them to do so. For evidence, see my response to the OP: I, too, "validated" her.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 01:33 AM
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"If you believe that women should reproduce simply for the sake of creating more humans, and not because they have a desire to reproduce, then you’re correct we do not have any common ground between us." That was an intentionally shitty way to misconstrue my message. But in the case you aren't being snarky, let me make my point more explicit: I prefer heteronormativity and natalism over the nihilistic, hedonistic bullshit that appears to be the urban West today.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/20 01:00 AM
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Honestly, I don't think there really is much reason for change if you are willing to bet you'll be OK with your choices now, in the future. Just being exposed to other family paradigms is unlikely to be meaningful in changing your attitudes.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 01:08 AM
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Why not? Alright, let me be more clear: consideration of why other options work, and have worked more often, not necessarily "change". Your response to the OP "some women don't feel compelled..." is ignorant of why they may not feel compelled to have children, it apparently assumes that just happens. I don't think that's productive, when rates of childlessness are sharply increasing. I think it is reasonable to presume (unless contradicted by OP) that her attitudes were shaped by the parental ro…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 12:25 AM
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You were downvoted, and I don't see why; other posters seem to just be validating her feelings rather than considering options for change. I'm not sure of the point of that.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:44 PM
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You've lived with him for a while, and have been together for more than the typical honeymoon period. But... maybe still wait till you graduate? A lot of things change in a lot of ways then. I'd wait to see how things play out, and in the likely case compatibility remains, go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:53 PM
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I suppose one way to reframe his achievements is as "our" achievements. Assuming you want to stay with him for the longest term, everything he does for his betterment should more or less positively affect your life (and, your potential-children's). And vice versa, of course. I would try to not look at it as a race, but I suppose you are at the crucial age where you're establishing yourself, so I can see where the hurt comes from. You both sound capable so I'm sure things will play out well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:48 PM
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Female red pill is relationship-focused, since that is assumed to be in women's best interests, just as mindless debauchery is the goal of male red pillers. And, personally, I agree with this assumption, so a forum to explain acting on it is useful.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:44 PM
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Another book for self-improvement is the seminal "Man's search for meaning". It's a very quick read. Otherwise, "the subtle art of not giving a feck" is modern and brash, but also decent.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 12:40 PM
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Fuck what the males project onto women, that doesn't sound like your problem to me. Don't turn this into an incel forum... and, it is her problem, if it's true and she wants to attract men. But it seems unlikely to be true; see: simps. What I suspect is more likely is the men she's attracted to are picky. I thought that way too. But that suspicion doesn't contribute to this discussion or support OP, so let's forget about that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 12:59 AM
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Wow, this sounds like a ton of work. You're super.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 08:05 AM
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Fifty shades of gray.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 06:55 AM
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chill bro
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 04:30 AM
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The other posters seem to be gender-neutralizing this. Those reasons may be true, but I think another factor may be that "it's hard to take a catty little lady seriously".
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 08:46 PM
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Yea that raises the question of whether Christianity is true only when it is unchanging, or whether "fluid Christianity" is legitimate as a more cultural thing that a religion.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 09:13 PM
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Christian but not conservative?
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 08:49 PM
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The King and I (1950s)
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/20 08:33 PM
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"I (21F) have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. In total, my SO (25M) and I have only seen each other 3 separate times (for a week each)." Given the fact that your lives appear to be barely intertwined, quitting this relationship may be like ripping a bandage off: short and temporarily painful. The fact that you're not very attached suggests the same. You're young and sound like a catch, he sounds decent too. Go forth and find someone you're really sure about when you sti…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 10:22 PM
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Just finished. This was a very pleasant experience, will be tuning in again. Good health to your little girl.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 01:58 AM
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Perhaps this is for the younger crowd, because I (and most others I know) don't have the energy to be deeply involved in much else than the daily grind. Most of the "hobbies" I see people engaging in are about acquiring, or experiencing -- e.g. wine tasting or audio equipment or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 11:29 AM
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"Also, if a man demands that his women be "pure", what does that say about him? Would you trust that guy?" I wouldn't know what to say about him, unless he isn't a virgin himself -- then he's just a hypocrite. "Not one who would judge you based on personal experiences that are yours only." Why is your past necessarily yours? This hyper-individualism found in the comfort of the West isn't particularly productive. Your sweeping comments about it being "prorated" doesn't make that so, especially if…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 10:27 PM
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