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| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.I hope you have a disability because that would explain a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard." For years, studies have shown a decline in the rates of American high school students having sex. That trend continued, not surprisingly, in the first years of the pandemic, according to a recent survey by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The study found that 30% of teens in 2021 said they had ever had sex, down from 38% in 2019 and a huge drop from three decades ago, when more than half of teens reported having sex." from https://fortune.com/well/2023/05/12/are-teenagers-having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.I'm not saying women online don't have the same grievances that they do offline. I'm saying you don't have anything other than personal experience and anecdotal evidence to support your claims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 02:18 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.I didn't say women can't be as shallow as men, I said they typically experience attraction differently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.You said " Isn't the evidence" in your original comment. Now you're saying you don't have any evidence, just a hypothesis, and that hypothesis must be true simply because you don't have any other. Be honest, are your opinions based on studies? Or just gut feeling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 02:15 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.The women you know personally isn't data either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Wow I totally missed that. They straight up lied? I thought the tone was very contemptuous as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 10:13 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Bro, women posting on Reddit about bad breakups isn't reliable data, isn't representative of all women, and doesn't necessarily constitute 'trauma'. All breakups are upsetting. It's normal to make a post after a bad relationship or getting dumped about how devastated you are. Also if you get your view of the world from the internet then your view is going to be massively skewed because: 1. The most extreme stuff gets amplified the most. Even on Reddit the 'Hot' filter for the content you see is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:39 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.All forms are harmless? It's to my understanding that the symptoms include skin rupturing, open weeping sores around the mouth, genitals, or anus, fever, headaches, muscle aches, and in the worst of cases the brain or eyes can become infected. Are there many more forms of harmless herpes that I don't know of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Can you show me some evidence for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Yes but what is the evidence that they're less promiscuous specifically because they are making a conscious effort to avoid hook-up culture because of its perceived pitfalls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.This is an absurd take. Virgin brides have become increasingly rare over the last 60 years and yet divorce rates have only steadily fallen during that time. Millennials only get divorced 25% of the time, down from Boomers who have a divorce rate of 45%. Falling divorce trends have gen Z set to only be getting divorced 15% of the time. The Institute of Family Studies article that shows virgins get divorced less often goes into detail about how it's almost certainly because those women are the mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.That sounds more like r*pe. Two people can agree to engage with each other in an intimate way and have a good time and not be dehumanizing each other, especially if you both want the other person to have a good time as well. You could say that hiring someone to work at your business teaches you to think of other people as just manual labor, a means to an end, and not actual human beings like yourself, but we know that's not happening either. It's just an exchange and cooperative endeavor like an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:57 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard." The more partners you have the bigger the chance that one or more of them have left you with trauma of some sort, most people don't deal with it in a proper way and so get into more relationships that end badly which means your chances of finding another person to give you some more trauma goes up." I have never been able to find any data anywhere to suggest that having a sexual partner leaves someone with trauma. Do you have any studies for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.If you want to argue that future society's quality will be determined by the quality of today's children, I'd mostly agree. But not today's society. The adults that are running the show are running the show irrespective of what their kids are like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:53 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.No, this is the percentage of divorces among married people, not all people. Proportionately, more marriages last among younger people than older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:51 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.That's an asymptomatic form of herpes. 1 in 3 people globally have it. STD clinics don't even test for that variant of herpes because it's harmless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 01:48 AM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Sorry, I meant to say 'Greatest Generation', which was pre-boomers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 5 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.What is the evidence for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.This study doesn't, but many others do. More religious couples get divorced less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.The divorce rate has steadily fallen with each generation. Boomers get divorced the most. Gen X is second. Gen Y last. Gen Z will reliably have even lower divorce rates if the falling divorce trend continues on its current trajectory. Women who have had 2 partners get divorced more than women with 0 or 1 partner prior to marriage. But it's not a linear correlation. The likelihood of divorce goes down with each successive partner beyond 2 partners and doesn't begin to increase again until you rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Smartest comment I've seen on this website. Thanks for weighing in, man. Sometimes I forget the most extreme opinions get amplified the most on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.You're right, 45% of women are expected to be both single and childless by 2030. I was wrong. I can't agree with you that there is evidence that people are putting off long-term relationships in favour of situationships. I have gone looking and I can't find any surveys where people are saying that's one of their reasons. The main reason is finances. "Compared with their older counterparts, young adults who have never been married are more likely to cite financial security as the main reason for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Your source says otherwise. " Obviously, one of the most common reasons for premarital abstinence is religion, and NSFG data support such an interpretation.2 Figure 2 shows that women who marry as virgins are far more likely than other women to attend church at least once a week. It’s also noteworthy that virgin marriages increasingly became the domain of religious women between the 1980s and 2000s—and during the same years, the divorce rate for virgin brides continued to drop. These findings ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:40 PM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Mathermatically that doesn't hold up. If the average number of sexual partners has gone down for both men and women, and has been going down for 30 years, that's not just a skewing of the bellcurve distribution where chads are getting more women and great swathes of men are left with almost nothing or nothing at all, because that would change the median but not the average. So if the average has changed, it's because everyone is having fewer sexual partners, even the top 5% guys. Do you have any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:20 PM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:37 AM |
| 1 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:20 AM |
| 4 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.The decrease in promiscuity began with millennials, who came of age in the 90s and naughties, well before dating apps. If women today are all going for the top 10% chads, why are 75% of men between 18-30 not virgins? Why has sexlessness among women increased alongside men if they can sleep with chad so easily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:20 AM |
| 7 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.None of what you're saying maps onto reality. Condoms have existed since the 1800s. The sexual revolution and the invention of the pill happened in the 60s. Marriage rates started increasing after the 60s and didn't begin declining until the 80s. Women experience their sexuality more holistically than men. They like looks, but they like a myriad of other qualities too i.e having job, a nice place, smelling good, good posture, good dress, intelligence, confidence, etc. They don't choose just the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:15 AM |
| 2 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Birth rates in specifically the US have been hovering below the replacement rate since the 70s. It began falling in 2008 - 9ish."Birth rates have consistently fallen beneath that threshold, termed the replacement rate, since 2007, the CDC said, and have generally been below it since 1971"https://www.forbes.com/sites/roberthart/2023/06/01/us-population-flatlining-as-birth-rate-stagnates-in-2022/?sh=3c512927131e Edit: and the US only accounts for 4.5% of the global population today. It's birth tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:51 AM |
| 9 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Okay, I'm having a little trouble following. "Hook-up culture has only really come around with the decline of marriage in the last 30 or so years" If we mark the 60s sexual revolution as the beginning of hook-up culture (because one of the core ideas of the SR was that hooking up is okay if you want to do it), then it's been around for more like 60 years. The 60s and 70s marked an increase in marriages, not a decline. Marriage didn't start declining in the US until the 80s. Millennials were havi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:44 AM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Oh and when you say " Stop. You can't be comparing shit that happened 50 years ago to today. It's two different worlds", that's exactly the point I was making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:17 AM |
| 3 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Long-term relationships and marriages and 'situationships' and 'booty calls' aren't mutually exclusive. People aren't necessarily opting for hookups over ltrs. Marriage rates are on the decline but the majority of people still get married, they just get married later and later in life. 45% of women are expected to be childless by 2030, not unmarried, and that has more to do with falling birth rates than hook-up culture, which can be observed globally independent of culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:16 AM |
| 13 | "Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Birth rates have been falling globally since the 1970s, independent of culture. The strongest predictors of birth rate decline are women's education and industrialization. Japan and South Korea are some of the least promiscuous countries in the world and yet still have the lowest birth rates on the planet. As for a culture that sees children as a burden, though I don't have any data on it, I can imagine that would have an effect. But that has nothing to do with hook-up culture. Birth rates aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I went looking for sources for ‘50% of men are single’ and saw my mistake, that it’s 50% of men under 30, and the number goes down with time, so I wanted to be fair and admit the mistake and correct it. But this means things are even worse than I thought. Only a small percentage of men are physically attractive to most women, but as many as 3/4 guys end up in a relationship eventually. So there’s loads of undesirable dudes that women end up dating. Some of them have to be settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That overlap can’t be so large that it accounts for 50% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?No, these women did not tell me that personally. But if there’s only a small number of men that are desirable and many men in relationships then, mathematically, there are some men who are undesirable but still in relationships. As for the percentage of the population that’s single, from https://www.thehealthyjournal.com/faq/what-gender-is-most-single: “Key findings. Most adults in the largest 100 U.S. cities are single, but women are more likely to fly solo. Just over 55% of people 20 and older… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That’s not a fair example because your sample size is 10 women and 1 man instead of equal parts men and women like the US census would be. If you have 10 women and 10 men, and each of the women sleep with the same guy, each woman has a count of one. 9 of the guys have a count of 0, and one guy has a count of 10. The average number of sexual partners for the women is then 1, and the average number of sexual partners for the men is also 1. The averages are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m not sure you’re hearing me mate. The hard data has to be wrong. It’s mathematically impossible for men to be having sex with more women than there are women having sex with men. It defies logic. Every time a man has sex with a woman, a woman has sex with a man. The body count for each gender overall goes up by 1. There’s no scenario in which a man increases his body count and a woman doesn’t, unless you’re counting men having sex with men, or women having sex with women, which I’m not becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?No, I didn’t. I asked Chat again for some free studies on male sexual distribution, which it told me again was skewed to the right, and provided some studies, saying each one found the same 80/20 rule. But now that I’ve actually looked through them, I can’t find that. Maybe a few things that would suggest it i.e disagreeableness correlates number of sexual partners, and the most disagreeable people are almost exclusively men, but that’s just inference. Not what GPT told me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I can’t access or share them without a subscription, but I’ve found some more studies that describe the 80/20 rule, and these ones are free to read in full: https://assets.csom.umn.edu/assets/71520.pdf https://cyberleninka.org/article/n/1334999 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10022110/ Note that the third study actually focused on women's sexual desire, but the authors reported on the sexual behavior of both men and women in the sample. Happy reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?So then he must be objectively handsome, and not just handsome to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That’s a good point. That could change the numbers a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Here are some studies then: It’s not just OLD. Its irl too. For example, a study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You’re right, the medians would be - and are - different. Which was my point on my OP. The sexual distributions for men and women are different. Most women have some number of sexual partners. Many men only have a few, and a few men have many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I never said that handsomeness and sexual desirability are the same thing. There may be many things that make a man sexually desirable. But the fact remains that it is still only a small number of men that meet that criteria, whatever it may be. Here’s some data: It’s not just OLD. Its irl too. For example, a study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,00… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Well, what would your estimation be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Which is my point. There may be many men who are in relationships with women that they want to have sex with, but many women who do not feel the same way about their partner. Maybe they like his personality but they don’t feel physically attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Then by definition he’s probably also had a lot of other sexual partners. The guy 1 girl goes for is often the guy many girls go for. It’s mostly the same few men in any sample size having most of the sexual encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Based on the data, a small percentage of guys. For example, a study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were responsible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You’ve misunderstood me. I’m referring to how there’s 50% of men in relationships, but only 10% of men that women want, which leaves 40% of men who a woman is dating but likely doesn’t desire. Or we can say top 20% of men are desired, which leaves 30% of guys who are being dated but aren’t necessarily their partner’s first choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some studies for you: A study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were responsible for a large percentage of sexual activ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?A study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were responsible for a large percentage of sexual activity in a population of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?It’s not just OLD. Its irl too. For example, a study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were responsible for a large per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Quite possible, but can that really account for 50% of relationships? Can half of all guys be attractive to someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Good answer, thank you for clarifying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Then he's still in the top 40% **to her**, which the data suggests would also be handsome as fuck to most other people, maybe a bit higher, maybe a bit lower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?But the distributions for men and women are still different. Most women are having some sex. Most men are having little to none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?“Not having casual sex with anyone doesn't mean nobody wants to have sex with you, and indeed it doesn't even mean that nobody wants to have casual sex with you.” That’s true, but still can’t account for the 90% of men that are getting very little to none. Even within the top 10% of most desirable men there’s a Pareto distribution. The top 1% guy is having nearly as many sexual partners on his own as the lower 9% combined. As for women having sex with men they’re in relationships with, this also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I think that may be true for some guys, but certainly not 90% of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That’s not a fair analogy, because the lollipops don’t have a say in who they go to and are deliberately being distributed as evenly as possible. It’s more like if there’s 80 kids, 20 lollipops, and every kid wants a lollipop, but the lollipops only want to be eaten by a select few children, so 70 kids will miss out, 5 kids will get 1 each, 3 kids will get 2 each, 1 kid will get 3, and the last kid will get 6. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I can agree on that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?But if most women are only having sex with the same few men, then that by definition means they only want the same few men, and do not want the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I think you’re just determined for the 80/20 rule not to be true, no matter the evidence. Here we have studies of multiple populations of 10s of 1000s of people from across the world, where the same trend appears each time, and it still isn’t enough for you, because the sample size falls short of every single person on the earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Do you mean to say that no study can be extrapolated upon so that an understanding of how a broader population operates can be ascertained? Because if so, there’s not a study in the world that holds up. Especially in medicine where nearly every drug that hits the market is only studied on <8 bil. people yet is typically available globally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?14,000 people is a very generous sample size. Most studies don’t include nearly as many people. And I don’t think there’s a single study that encompasses the entire world’s population. As for the Zimbabwe study, it corroborates the findings in other parts of the world, so these are sexual trends that appear across cultures and international borders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You’re right. Not having had casual sex with a lot of people doesn’t necessarily mean you’re undesirable. But the fact remains that most women are still choosing the same small percentage of men for casual sex. I’ve got some studies that show this: "Archives of Sexual Behavior" study on sexual partners: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0953-1 "Evolution and Human Behavior" study on college students' sexual activity: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S10905… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You misunderstand me. Men’s sexual selection is also skewed towards better looking women. I’m not denying that. But it’s not skewed nearly as much. The number of sexual partners bellcurve for women is a mostly even distribution, with only slight skewing towards the upper end. Not so for men. It’s a much more pronounced Pareto distribution. So most women are found desirable by most men. But most men are not found desirable by most women. But relationships are 1 to 1 between the genders, and there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?It’s not just OLD. Its irl too. For example, a study published in the journal "Archives of Sexual Behavior" in 2017 found that 20% of men reported having sex with 80% of all female partners. The study was based on a survey of over 14,000 people in the United States, and found that men who were younger, were more likely to have more sexual partners. Another study, published in the journal "Evolution and Human Behavior" in 2014, found that a small percentage of men were responsible for a large per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m not sure I understand you. I haven’t used any okcupid data. You also seem to be disagreeing with me, but I’m not sure what on. “This ‘same pool of men’ argument. you’d get a lot less pushback if you just said the quiet part loud and stopped trying to make it sound nefarious” I don’t know what you mean by trying to make it sound ‘nefarious’ or not saying the quiet part loud. I’m not trying to imply anything. My question is pretty clear: If women are dating a larger number of men (50%) than th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?But I don’t think 40% of guys can fit into that room. Maybe 20%, tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:10 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m not sure what you’re asking me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Care to join? Any and all perspectives are welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Do you mean that there are men who women perceive as being good for a one night stand but not for a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?She said he was handsome af. That means he’s in the top 40% at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Men are less discerning in their choice of mate. But the fact remains that most girls go for the same small pool of men, but enter relationships with men outside of that pool. So statistically some women have to be dating men that they don’t feel sexually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:16 AM |
| -1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?This is true. It’s the difference between looksmaxing and nichemaxing. You make a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Bro I’m a man and I ain’t doing that shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Okay, I’ve got what median means wrong. But if the median is contingent upon the self-reported sexual partners of men and women, then it can’t be correct, because again it is mathematically impossible for men to have a higher average body count than women. When it comes to sexual behaviour, self-reported is the best we can do. But the best we can do isn’t necessarily valid, and although there’s little reason for people to lie on an anonymous survey, they have clearly still lied because, again, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m sorry but I’m not sure I follow. To clarify, 82% of male matches go to 20% of male users. The remaining 80% of guys share the remaining 18% of matches between them. So in a room of 100 guys, about 20 are getting no matches at all, the next 20 might get 1 match each per week, the next 20 might get 2 matches per person per week, the next 20 might be getting a match each every day, and then the top 20 are getting half a dozen matches each per day. The curve slopes upwards exponentially. Whereas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I understand that there are other, more valuable things in a relationship than your partner’s appearance. But the fact remains that most women are only seeking sexual encounters with the same small pool of men. These are the guys that women want the most. But many end up in relationships with different men, men that they previously had no interest in. Why are many women wanting to date guys that they don’t want to have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?No worries https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with Google Scholar, but for which the synopses is “A group of researchers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?But even if you look good in a photo, you still have to have it together internally when you and this girl meet up. If you’re super weird or creepy or neurotic or awkward, you almost certainly won’t make it as far as the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m sorry, mate, but I’m going to have to disagree with you again. It’s mathematically impossible for men on average to have a higher body count than women. Excepting gays, every time a man has sex, a woman does too. So the average number of times men have had sex is the same for women, but men tend to overreport their number whereas women tend to underreport theirs, probably because of cultural reasons, and that’s how we end up with men self-reportedly having a higher count than women. As for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You sound frustrated. I think maybe you’ve had some bad experiences on this sub in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I think you’re half right. Less attractive men with less status might do better irl where their interpersonal skills and humour can go a long way, but to have sex with someone off an app you still have to meet up in real life at some point. So all sexual encounters, whether they’re facilitated by OLD apps at the start, still have to pass through an irl filter, and it’s still the same few guys having all the sex even then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I think we can reliably assume that the men that have the most women expressing interest in them are having more sexual partners than men who have fewer women expressing interest in them. It would be a surprise to me if guys matching with a dozen women every day were having less sex than guys that get only a match per week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Perhaps some do. But most girls are going for a few guys. Most guys are going for most girls. Women aim up almost exclusively whereas men aren’t as selective. So it would be women settling for their male partners more often than men settling for their female partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Your data is correct, but I don’t agree with the conclusions you’re drawing from it. There are fewer women on OLD, and so we can expect that guys will get fewer matches, that much is true. But those few matches are still mostly going to the same few guys. The match distribution for men is still massively skewed in favour of a small percentage of men at the top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That doesn’t mean they’re not selective, it just means that’s the best they could get whilst being selective. Here’s some data: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some real studies for those of you who aren’t satisfied with my sources so far: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some real studies for those of you who aren’t satisfied with my sources so far: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some real studies for those of you who aren’t satisfied with my sources so far: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some real studies for those of you who aren’t satisfied with my sources so far: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Some real studies for those of you who aren’t satisfied with my sources so far: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Can you explain what you mean by women sexually desire a much larger range of men? All of the data and studies and surveys I’ve seen all corroborate the same conclusion: women are much more selective than men when it comes to mating strategies in both the short term and the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’ve got some data for you: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Probability-density-of-estimated-percentage-of-likes-that-result-in-a-match-Men-Women-I_fig4_310808053 “... Additionally, our own finding that many agents received few matches while a minority received many matches is confirmed by the findings in Hitsch et al. as well [20]. “ There was also a study done at the University of Michigan in 2018, which I’m struggling to find, even with Google Scholar, but for which the synopses is “A gro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Excellent take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?They can’t represent the majority of women because the majority of women aren’t on OLD. But there’s no evidence to suggest that there’s a selection bias for women joining OLD, other than they tend to be younger, and no evidence to suggest that the women who aren’t on OLD screen and select mates differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Mate, I’d give this an award if I wasn’t so cheap. You talk a lot of sense. Thanks for weighing in. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?What do you mean by more common before? Do you mean the emancipation of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Here, I asked it again: What differences are there in the bell curve distributions between men and women’s number of sexual partners ? “While there are differences in the median number of sexual partners reported by men and women, it is important to note that the bell curve distributions for men and women's number of sexual partners are likely to overlap to a large extent. This means that there will be many men who report a lower number of sexual partners than some women, and many women who repo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Hey, I don’t mean to be insulting. I’m not redpilled either, if that helps. I just wasn’t sure if a post like this would break the rules of r/askwomen or r/relationships, so I’m here. I know some people’s sexualities work differently, and different people care about appearance to different degrees. But the fact remains that the data suggests that most of the sex is being had by a small percentage of men with a large percentage of women. It’s the only mathematically possible explanation for the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I’m not sure that’s true. You can’t edit ChatGPT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:23 AM |
| 5 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?40% of guys aren’t at least a 7 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?That’s true, but I don’t think that can account for the 40% of guys in relationships that normally get very little to no interest from the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?You’ve actually made some really good points, especially that last one. That said, both tinder and hinge have published data that shows that women swipe right on very few men, and the ones they do swipe right on are mostly the same few men on the app. If the number of sexual partners you’ve had is influenced by many different factors, I still think the points you’ve made would only be of minor influence, or be responsible for creating a few outliers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I asked it if there are any differences between the number of sexual partner distributions for men and women. You can try it yourself. And it’s answer corroborates tinder and hinge’s data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:06 AM |
| 6 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I appreciate the emotional intelligence, friend. This is definitely one of the more mature answers here. However, I’m not sure the examples you gave are fair comparisons. The disparity in the sexual partner distribution bellcurves for men and women suggests that a woman is sleeping with man A, but can’t get a relationship out of him, and so has a relationship with man B, who she had no interest in sleeping with, but is willing to be in a relationship, and he is now her consolation prize. So it’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?ChatGPT, as well as data published by tinder and hinge, corroborate this data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Pretty sure you’re either a dude, or that girl on YouTube who adopted my username QueefStorm. If it’s the latter, then it’s nice to see you again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I asked ChatGPT. Also, Tinder and Hinge have both published data that shows most of women’s right swipes mostly go to the same few guys on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Let’s not put too much stock in Chat’s answer then. What about tinder and hinge’s data? I know how people operate on online dating can be very different to how someone may experience attraction irl, but they’re two different apps that have experienced the exact same trend in how women swipe and screen for potential mates. I’m also assuming you’re a woman? What’s your personal experience been with what percentage of men you find desirable, if it’s okay for me to ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?If you still find him very attractive, even if not a 10/10, then he’s still one of those highly desirable men, the aforementioned top 10%, and not one the lower 40% of men that are being settled for (assuming my theory is correct). Glad you’re happy, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?This is my worry. u/12throw1234away34, what do you make of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Do you mean to say that the men having the most sex aren’t the most sexually desirable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?This looks pretty legit, but it contradicts what I got from ChatGPT, which is drawing from many sources, not just one, so I’m not sure what to make of this survey you’ve linked me. Also, both tinder and hinge have published data to show that nearly all women’s right swipes go to the same few male profiles, and male match rates follow a Pareto distribution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?I asked ChatGPT for the sexual partner distributions of men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?My source is ChatGPT, whose source in turn is all the information on the topic that’s publicly available. You can ask ChatGPT yourself. Tell me if you get the same answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:44 AM |
| 8 | GSS Data Doesn't Seem To Support The 'Chad Harem' TheorySo basically everyone is having less sex overall except for the really hot people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | GSS Data Doesn't Seem To Support The 'Chad Harem' TheorySorry, I’m new here. What’s BC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenIs it okay if I ask if you’ve had your hormone levels tested and what might be causing your low T? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.The study controls for sexual satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 10:25 AM |
| 1 | The tone of the posts in this sub is very different to their tone only a few years ago. What’s changed?When you say other subforums I assume you mean ones that were toxic and that’s why they got shut down? Also, how did shadowbanning stop working? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himI know this one guy who makes posts on a purple pill subreddit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guysSorry, I’m new here, what’s a terp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 06:39 AM |
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