OxygenLarceny Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Is this place “going dark” too?		OxygenLarceny	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/23 03:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	i moved out...ex racked up 10k in cc debt and wants me to pay it. When you file you should have the option to check a box that says essentially all debts incurred from the date the petition are filed belong to the the respective party that accrued it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/10/23 02:08 PM
11	Live together but separate So she wants all the benefits and protections of being a wife, but be free to fuck other dudes- am I interpreting that correctly?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 12:00 PM
5	How much time between “Let’s get divorced” and “Let’s both go fuck other people asap?” Agree to and sit down when you have a lot of time without the kids to work out it out on a blank sheet of paper, or ideally, all required forms by your jurisdiction. Sign and file everything together. This is basically the only real “amicable” path that doesn’t devolve into, at best, mediation and at worst a lengthy court process. You should take a loan from a close friend or family member and put someone on retainer though. You have no idea what hills she’s prepared to die on and anything she’s…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 03:22 AM
1	Poker as side hustle till financials sorted. Anybody encounter problems in court hearings. If it’s all cash and not claimed on taxes I wouldn’t disclose anything like that unless specifically asked.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/23 12:25 PM
2	If you lost your job in this market... It’s a vehicle to discourage non-payment- it’s not actually about the physical money.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/08/23 02:05 AM
10	Should of eaten the bullet. An option: Stop paying her. Get a passport if you don’t already have one. Sell everything you can’t put in a suitcase. Take all that money and move to a country that doesn’t have an extradition or financial enforcement agreement with the US.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 01:25 AM
9	My wife and I were soulmates and I'm still madly in love with her even after a year apart. It’s like having a death in the family. Cherish the memory of who you thought she was, but accept that that person is gone and is never coming back. Have enough self respect as a man and pride as a father to continue building a life without her. It sounds like you got out with your assets and a majority of the custody- if that’s the case congrats you are already beating the house.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 09:11 PM
5	Child support, what amount is fair Whatever the court says. 20% is pretty standard, depending on custody.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/23 03:45 AM
26	I (20m) just found out my wife (19f) went on a date with another man Trying to speed run dividing his assets.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 01:12 PM
7	Advice for disabled father (66)? 8 years into permanent Michigan spousal support I feel like at some point you’ll need to get a doctor involved to declare him mentally unfit and make him your dependent. You should speak with an attorney if possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/23 03:54 AM
8	DeSantis ends permanent alimony in Florida Unfathomably based.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/23 03:10 AM
3	Is my loose-change bowl a permanent home for my old wedding ring? I don’t know why this is so fucking funny, but here I am busting out laughing.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/23 03:05 AM
4	Tips for soon-to-be-divorced 38m from 39f? This is one of those rare circumstances where you’d benefit from dating older once it’s done. Date a chick with adult kids once the dust settles.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/23 02:58 AM
8	She gives me more credit than I deserve. Fuck it, lean into it.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/23 02:47 PM
8	Is marriage that bad? I’m glad I’m not the only one that refers to it as indentured service.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 12:27 AM
12	She's not in a hurry to get divorced all of the sudden Yes. She is currently on the uphill slope of “find out.”	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/23 04:02 PM
2	How do you guys overcome sheer loneliness? Any Rec league sport like golf, bowling, softball, hockey, etc can open some good social circle doors.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/23 11:53 PM
2	Do You Think Men Should Marry A Overseas Woman & Not Bring Her Back To America? They are only in it for the green card- once they get it they jettison the schmuck that enabled them.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/23 01:00 PM
28	Take matters into your own hands Stop paying and move to a South American country with no extradition/enforcement agreements with the US. There’s ways out of this that don’t end in your death brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/23 12:21 PM
1	Setting the Wheels in Motion, but Worried About My Kids If that advice comes from a woman it’s automatically disregarded. Which I suspect is the majority of commenters saying that on Reddit. Spinning the wheel of custody to find out how badly you’re going to get fucked isn’t really something most men are interested in.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/23 01:41 PM