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| 0 | Not sure what to do | Ozy13 | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:24 PM |
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| 1 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??See my reply to @thesoloronin below. | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 01:06 PM |
| 22 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??Attraction is not a choice. There are certain triggers within the female mind which when ‘turned on’ she has no choice but be attracted. One of these triggers is preselection. Preselection is basically demonstrating that you are attractive to other women. This is why women will choose the player over the good guy because they know the player gets girls and they can’t help but be attracted to them even though they know logically the guy will probably treat her poorly. You can demonstrate preselec… | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 12:54 PM |
| 147 | Stupid question; Why is it often times easier to get laid just after getting a lay??Preselection attraction switch | /r/seduction | 19/06/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “Game is 80% non verbals 20% verbals. So what you say doesn’t really matter. It’s how you say it. Literally just walk up state your interest then have a normal conversation. That’s it. | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Going to a bar tonight to try and approach someone. Any advice (M25)Talk to everyone - guys, girls and everything in between. Be the fun, social guy in the venue and you will have no trouble when you start going after the girls you want. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | should I only approach girls that give clear iois?No. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get out of your head?3 second rule. You won’t have time to rationalise because you’ll already be in front of her by the time your mind starts making excuses not to go. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 03:57 PM |
| 37 | I dont want end up being "too much nice guy" any advice ?Have the mentality of “Fuck me or fuck off”. Make the interaction man to woman. You can do this by physically escalating, not being afraid to talk sexually with the girl and making your intentions clear from the beginning that you’re not interested in being just friends. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 03:54 PM |
| -1 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresIs this the same over text would you say? | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Is it weird that I don't want to sleep around anymoreIf you’re gonna really go for this one, then for god sake make sure you want the same things. So kids, get married, settle down, move to the country etc. If you want those things but she doesn’t or vice versa then don’t do it. Unless you’re certain you could convince her otherwise. It’s pointless if you’re not aligned on what you want. I learnt that the hard way with past relationships. As a side note if you’re not feeling hook ups that’s fair enough. But realise that you are leaving yourself vu… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to doLiterally mate. Didn’t know everyone would get so triggered 😂. Probably because they couldn’t do it themselves. Yeah it’s great but yeah if it doesn’t work out…well one of you are moving gym I guess…nah but seriously it’s not that deep. I’ll just play it by ear. Not over ally bothered about this particular girl it was only because I keep seeing her and couldn’t decide what to do. Im still learning but got a fair bit of reference experience now. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to doI think that’s a dumb mentality. There’s always hot girls there and they share an interest with you. Why wouldn’t you approach? Sure it’s hard but once you get past the mental block it’s fine. Every approach I’ve done at the gym so far I’ve had a positive reaction to. It’s high risk = high reward and girls like it cause it takes balls. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?This is basic Mystery Method stuff. I suggest you read ‘The Mystery Method’ he breaks this all down in a lot of detail. We as humans are constantly judging each other on our survival and replication value (S&R). For men, we value replication value more. Is she attractive? does she look fertile? Woman value survival value first - can he protect me? Is he high value? This is why when you talk to a woman you have to attract them but equally as important you need to build comfort and familiarity wit… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl at GymGo find out. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?It’s all about embracing your true self and not giving a f what others think. Also the fact that he is non-reactive to others bullshit - like what’s going on with Kanye on Instagram right now. Because Kanye is going out of his way to try and make fun of Pete publicly, he actually comes across very insecure that he feels he has to try and lower Pete’s image to feel good. Little does Kanye know he’s actually shooting himself in the foot by doing this as Pete’s non reaction to the situation demonst… | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Cute guy at gym: Will he ever notice me?It takes an incredible amount of courage for a guy to approach a girl at the gym. The risk of public rejection combined and potential awkwardness of seeing you regularly after you’ve rejected him makes it not worth it in most guys minds. I know girls don’t ever hit on guys but if you could break the mould and go for it, it would make things a lot easier. Between sets just say “Hey. I’m ____.” He’ll likely take it from there. Otherwise just make it extremely obvious that you want him to approach … | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Can I ask for casual sex?You’ve probably been friend-zoned mate. Just choose literally any of the other thousands of girls you have available to you. Or if you really want to pursue her, you’d do better to get with a few other girls first to build jealousy and demonstrate preselection. If you can do it with someone she knows - even better. I’d advise against just jumping on her out of the blue. If you haven’t made a move or at least hinted that you’re interested in her sexually its likely that she won’t take well to you… | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?As a hard and fast rule if she gives you an IOI you should respond with an IOI and then an IOD. If she gives you an IOD you should respond with an IOD. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Certified Lover Boy? Even high status men can make a high quality woman uncomfortable if they give too much verbal praise and put them on a pedestal. Example from Drake’s speech about Rihanna and her reactionAnd now ASAP Rocky is up in her guts lol. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | How does one approach a girl when she is being cold during the dateRoll off. Give her the cold shoulder. Act as of you are completely unbothered by her. Enjoy yourself maybe even hit on the waitress to build some jealousy and get her invested again. Remember you control the frame. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 06:32 PM |
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