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| 2 | Are female virgins past 23 typically very desirable?As a 24 yo guy I'd view it as novelty but I don't think it would move the needle for me either way. I could arguments for it going either way tbh; a 24 yo virgin could either be a prude due to being shy or alternatively could be hypersexual with their partner wanting to 'make up for lost time'. Being a prude on its own is too little info to really make judgements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 08:39 PM |
| 14 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldI agree with what you're saying but when the game feels a little stacked against a you it's hard to even muster the energy to play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 15 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldI can be social with my friends on COD for free, I don't need to go out and spend money to be social thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 05:08 PM |
| 8 | Would you stay in a relationship if you were not the best sex of your partner's life?Definitely blue pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:12 PM |
| 22 | Why so many men simp for women and not the other way around?I'd love to learn more about that, where did you get that "over half of black men age 18-35 have never fathered a child". I've never heard that before | /r/MensRights | 22/11/23 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Are men more romantic?People aren't a monolith, one woman may like sassy men while another woman may not like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | There's no such thing as a bad personality. A bad personality to most women = "you're not attractive/powerful enough to be able to say that shit to me"Lmao you think Elon's public persona is what he's like in private? You think that a 50 year old South African oligarch has anything in common with the crypto guru-meme lord he apes in public? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 09:57 AM |
| 2 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverAssuming that every guy goes for younger women, wouldn't the women in your age bracket theoretically have older male partners then? Who had picked them up when they were in their 20s? Also what makes you put yourself down as crappy? If it's a personality adjustment then you can change it up. You seem self aware enough for that. If you're just being self deprecating then there's ways around that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 10:31 PM |
| 0 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverHow does it exist? Please explain it to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 10:18 PM |
| 0 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverI've always wondered about that; 'The Wall' as a concept gets spoken about in RP and occasionally MRA circles to point of being mythologised as some kind ninth circle of hell for all the women who reject the 'nice guy'. There's never anything to back it up and I've found nobody to really explain it to me in a way that didn't sound ridiculous. Also men's bodies also deteriorates over time, whether they're as fast as women depends on genetics, diet and lifestyle to extent you can't really judge ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 06:52 PM |
| -2 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.I’m not disagreeing that he shouldn’t approach , I’m disagreeing with the ‘shotgun’ approach. Yeah you’ll find girls that are attractive to you, if you lack the social skills to talk to them then you’re still gonna fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Self improvement. The only thing I agree with the Red Pill, MRA guys; if you’re at rock bottom the only place is up. Go to the gym, eat healthy, look after your appearance and hygiene, use mouthwash and deodorant, be aware of how you speak; don’t mumble under your breath, look people in the eye when you speak, don’t slouch, keep your head up. If you don’t get asked out ask female friends or relatives if you’re sending them bad vibes or dressing badly, ask them for tips on how to improve on both.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 10:22 PM |
| 3 | My theory on why men are often so sex obsessed, and why they often equate sex with love.Interesting theory, I think I’d add to that in that during sex and especially the state of orgasm; a man is very vulnerable in a way they aren’t at any other state. Peak orgasm and the moments after it you’re in a state of absolute weakness. If you’re not used to sex that really make you have an emotional attachment to someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Sex/relatioships!I don’t think this will end in a positive or productive way but I wish you all be best with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:39 PM |
| -1 | Do most men lack basic decency?😂😂absolutely not. There’s 1 girl per 700 guys on tinder, if that was reflected in reality we’d have a lot more problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:34 PM |
| 5 | The concept of "the bar is in hell" is a psychological prison for men.I think you issue is that you’re working off Tinder rules, dating there sucks and the day I deleted it off my phone was a good one. Go to bars, or socials and meet people the old fashioned way bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Lmao, and when those dads were young, they looked at their dads and thought damm how did they do it? It was so easy in their day, all you had to do was make it back from the war. My guy, every generation has its struggles, either you beat it or you don’t. Complaining isn’t gonna help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women.Lmao ‘dating for men is numbers game’ Yeah if you’re bad at it. If taking a shotgun approach and talking to anything in skirt with a pulse ofc you’re gonna suck. If you think the nerdy look isn’t working then change your look, go to the gym, wear contacts, see about getting some new clothes. You’re not designated nerd at birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Abortion is HypergamyI agree with the first one but not the second, governments hate abortion; less people means a smaller tax base, less educated people, a smaller economy and smaller population base to draw on as a resource. And worse of all forced reliance on foreign immigrants as a workforce. There’s a pretty good reason why every developed country and a lot of the undeveloped ones are promoting natalist policies to increase birthrates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:17 PM |
| -4 | Do most men lack basic decency?Nah, but it’s really not hard to see the problems If you listen to pretty much any woman that’s been on OLD. Or really just look at the MRA guys and see what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Do most men lack basic decency?Unsolicited dick pics, sexualising women that really don’t want that, treating women like they exist solely for sex, pretending to want serious relationships only to leave when they’ve had sex. That the first to come to mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 7 | Do most men lack basic decency?The true winners 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Do most men lack basic decency?Agree with that closing regard, women know the market and are able to set the market how they like. It’s pretty normal in negotiations/market where one party can set terms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Do you prefer beauty or youth?I’m 22m, honestly idm either. Girls by age are usually more energetic if less experienced than older women. Although I’ve found younger more kinky, they prefer rougher sex and BDSM than older women which is usually my preference. But if a 10/10 55yo wanted to role play as hot teacher with mischievous student then I’m absolutely down for that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | (The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRLI’ve gotta disagree here, oh yeah I enjoy the sultry/thotty vibe but also my ex roleplayed as innocent virgin and it was equally hot imo. Keep in mind I also just having sex without role play. I’m a young man in his 20s, women as whole are generally attractive to me; I’ll have both Madonna and the whore thank you very much. As for women preferring ‘behaviours making a guy unsuitable for long term commitment’, that seems overly subjective. Could you define what exact behaviours? Or are you just r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Yeah that’d be pretty cool, the stress of being a cop tho would be crazy especially rn. But yeah masc girls are where it’s at imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Aha I live in England, I’ve never tried hunting although I’m interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?😂😂 did I describe you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:23 PM |
| -1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?As a guy a girl that does rugby, gym or any kinda ‘masculine’ sport is definitely more appealing to me than one that’s more feminine. But it’s just a preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:I’m truly sorry that happened to you, it’s understandable why you’d turn inwards like that I can’t help but feel like that’s giving your abuser power over you. Sounds like a difficult way to live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Couldn’t say, most single guys I know are jaded about dating and women but not red pilled or black pilled. Depends on how you’d weigh the cost vs the benefits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Some do and some don’t, guys who’ve already been red pilled or black pilled deffo won’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Some people really do live different lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?How so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 07:27 AM |
| 11 | Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women?I think that's more an issue with men more so than relationships too many guys are just lonely whether they're in a relationship or not. My dad would be the same but he's got other social groups and clubs that would ensure he has a support structure that could sustain him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Debate On PPD Is Not PossibleI think the issue isn't you, it's the people you're arguing with. I've made it a policy of mine to just stop engaging with someone if I feel like they're arguing with me in bad faith or being intellectually dishonest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 06:15 AM |
| 0 | It's not okay to slut-shame, but virgin shaming is perfectly fine.I was actually thinking that, most guys don't actually mind women being sexually free or enjoying sex and seeking it out. It's mostly girls I've seen call each other sluts, though mostly in a joking non-malicious manner. Although someone's body count can be a point of contention in a relationship for some. Personally I wouldn't really care so long as she's honest and loyal but others can get jealous or disgusted | /r/MensRights | 01/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | It makes no senseThe answer to pretty much all of your questions is that; men aren't a monolith. Not all men share the same opinions on all of this. Not even men of the same 'grouping' share opinions on all of this. To put it in more detail. Disclaimer: opinions stated here aren't my personal beliefs but are what I've observed from being on the internet and spectating the dating/gender roles discussion Sex is as much a reward as you want it to be. If someone is truly desperate to get laid and wants it at all cos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 12:00 PM |
| 13 | My Difficulties Advocating For Men's Rights In A Feminist OrganizationTrans men are men, brother. Never feel afraid to comment 🙌 | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 08:06 PM |
| 8 | My Difficulties Advocating For Men's Rights In A Feminist OrganizationThere's a reason why unlike the Second Wave Feminism, most of the push back against the third wave is from grassroots rather than from governments. The consensus seems to be amongst men that modern Feminism is for women, by women and outside of a few feminist 'allies' is comprised of women. Men are either this perfect man lives up to to their fantasies without fail or a bigot 'scrote' that isn't deserving of basic decency. It's this noxious image of feminism that allows the right to completely d… | /r/MensRights | 18/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?Yeah that's why I said there isn't a generally agreed answer. To break it down; Incels want government mandated girlfriends, the Red Pillers want a return to a more masculine time probably the 80s or 90s can't say for sure. The futurists among us see a sex toy dominated future where people get the same simulation from improved sex toys they would from other people. Personally all of these are different flavours of undesirable but then again, that's how most change happens so we'll have to see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?I've seen suggestions from government mandated matchmaking to sex robots to outright banning Tinder and online dating entirely. I think right now there isn't a general consensus on a solution. Everyone can more or less agree that there's a problem, we can point to general cause of the problem and how it formed but we can't yet see an answer. I think that one will eventually turn up that would appeal to enough people but it's not yet available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/21 11:01 AM |
| 7 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?It already has hasn't it? You've got moderates over here, with Red Pillers as the radicals and Incels as the extremists. You've got protests and actions of violence that society considers terrorism and extremists consider necessary? Seems like it's already started here to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 09:20 PM |
| 7 | "Admitting" sexlessness or "dating privileges" are a problem or that they exist, or empathy about it, won't change the facts in any way. So why does it matter?We did so with slavery, smoking and women's rights. If there's a strong enough push minds can be moved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?Sex mainly, but also to see what's on the market yk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 10:09 PM |
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