OzzyBSK Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Wife angry about equitable financial splitting Follow what the law says. Remember, she is no longer your spouse, partner or friend. If the law puts you at an advantage, good for you. I was on the other side of it but not upset since that was the law and not that I made a bad deal. Good luck, it gets better.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/26 11:48 AM
5	Never deleting your texts I had a similar situation. A long time ago I started to scan all of my bills and statements keeping them in a PDF format. When I got divorced, I had all of my financial records, including the statements prior to my 19 year old marriage. In Ohio, what was yours before the marriage is your after but the burden of proof is on you. I had the proof and with the help of a forensic accountant, was able to protect a lot of my assets.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/07/26 11:36 AM
17	Paying for Dates If you feel like you are being used, you probably are.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/26 01:27 AM
3	What the fuck? Sorry guy, it doesn’t sound like it’s going to get any better. She seems to be pushing you away. I would start getting my finances in order. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/26 10:52 AM
13	Does sexting deserve divorce? The longer you stay, the more expensive it gets to leave.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/25 12:23 PM
1	Divorcing, need evaluation of the value of wife's pension There is a standard formula used to create the QDRO. This will determine the percentage of her pension you are entitled to.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/25 11:24 AM
3	I want to move on emotionally, but alimony won’t let me Sorry but I was in a similar situation like the OP. My ex likes to say she gave up her career but in reality she had no other ambition than to stay at home and complain about how hard her life was raising 1 child that was in school and a housekeeper that only came every other week. Forget the fact that she didn’t cook dinner and, of course, no sex. I justify my ‘spousal support’ payments by calculating what she cost me each month before the divorce and what I pay now. It’s about the same and my …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/25 11:50 AM
2	Don’t get a job till divorce is over I was told that there are accredited services that can estimate your ex’s earnings potential and that figure can be used in the spousal support agreement, at least in Ohio. Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/25 11:49 AM
14	Mediation is over… Listen to your attorney. That is why you hired them. My attorney saved me a bunch of money by recommending I use a forensic accountant as we worked through the settlement. I was ready to be just done with it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/25 07:56 PM